Help in my Personal Life?

[npmshah]

So i just majorly effed up my really close bond with my cousin through the stupidest of ways...
she trusted me with a secret, who i then trusted one other person with, and that person "trusted" about a million different people because of it... Now my cousin is in a fight with her bestie because of me, and i have pretty much the whole world seething in anger at me...
anyone have advice?
please?

[makeshiftmind]

what is the secrets

[makeshiftmind]

like what nature, depending on how bad it was, I would just apologize/wait it out

[Smash Adams]

step in the delorean
don't be a fucking tattletale this time around

[FemaleCuckold]

Tell us the secret or we really can't give advice. It's essential to the nature of the problem!

[thespearkid]

Don't tell secrets?

[Heart-A-Tact]

Admit and apologize.

[imahoodlum]

When someone trusts you with a secret, don't tell other people. :shrug:

[FemaleCuckold]

The very best part about secrets is telling them to other people. :satan:

[4N6 science]

keep your mouth shut next time. Well their might not be a next time since people will now not trust you with secrets.

[Yontsey]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops.

[CarryOn09]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops.
:rotfl:

[reckoner]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops.

But it's all relative, isn't it?

[Hamlet]

You can't start a post like this without telling us what the secret is.

[npmshah]

the secret was something uberly stupid involving my cousins friend and some guy...
they were all in this dance show this past weekend and the secret was that the girl was dancing up there to impress a guy in the audience

[npmshah]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops.
haha that was hilarious
well done
but i came here for advice, not snarky comments, so dont be a dick

But it's all relative, isn't it?
yes, thank you
i know im not facing a layoff from a job or any "real" problems, but this is the first time ive been faced with a situation like this and have no idea how to handle it...

[ReadyForAction]

Keep your fat mouth shut next time?

[kaycey]

suicide.

[killerswells]

suicide.

agreed. its the only logical thing to do.






seriously though, next time don't be a dick and spread rumors, especially since it is your cousin and obviously family.

[Niy-v]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops.

dont be such a dick.
fuck i swear some people are so damn ignorant.

[Yontsey]

dont be such a dick.
fuck i swear some people are so damn ignorant.

It's not being a dick, it's being realistic.

You want a more real answer? When someone tells you something and trusts you to keep a secret, don't be a dumbass and run your mouth. The person who's secret you told has every right to be pissed off at you and lose trust in you, especially since it's family.

Grow up. That's my advice.

[Niy-v]

It's not being a dick, it's being realistic.

You want a more real answer? When someone tells you something and trusts you to keep a secret, don't be a dumbass and run your mouth. The person who's secret you told has every right to be pissed off at you and lose trust in you, especially since it's family.

Grow up. That's my advice.


im not saying your a dick because your calling her dumbass, shes is one for telling the secret, im calling you a dumbass because you said that just cause shes 15 she has no real problems wtf? thats retarded.

[raychull]

What happened to the Chris advice thread? rly?

[LaDiabla]

When someone trusts you with a secret, don't tell other people. :shrug:

This pretty much sums it up, easy as that.

Also, you're a guy, I thought only girls were into gossip..tz.

[4N6 science]

This pretty much sums it up, easy as that.

Also, you're a guy, I thought only girls were into gossip..tz.

he might be :gay:

[LaDiabla]

he might be :gay:

Takes one to know one:-p

[4N6 science]

Takes one to know one:-p

It sure does!

[takemyhand]

im not saying your a dick because your calling her dumbass, shes is one for telling the secret, im calling you a dumbass because you said that just cause shes 15 she has no real problems wtf? thats retarded.

*he.
op is a boy.

[didwhat77times]

All you can really do is apologize. She might not accept your apology right away, and that's understandable, but if you give her some time she'll eventually come around. As cheesy as it is, actions really do speak louder than words.

Have the two of you really talked about what happened? Make sure she knows that keeping a close bond with her is very important to you. You're only 15. Kids make mistakes. Don't be so hard on your self.

[limepomegranate]

the secret was something uberly stupid involving my cousins friend and some guy...
they were all in this dance show this past weekend and the secret was that the girl was dancing up there to impress a guy in the audience
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

and i like how no one else caught that he posted the secret...welllllll here it is in all its' secretive glory!
great secret by the way i feel so complete knowing this now. oh and you're an asshole
that's the lamest secret ever and they're retarded for being upset over you telling that. that's not a secret. they're RETARDED.

[redsoxguy676]

You can go ahead and lock this bad boy.

[screamoutmyname]

http://i42.tinypic.com/2czts0y.jpg

[abbysmith]

This is a problem that could have easily been avoided by just not telling other peoples secrets.

[mattmatumbo]

i think i've met 2 of my cousins, like 10 years ago.

However, i used to tell secrets about my bro all the time. It's fun, but with cousins i think there is less of a feud deal. Thus you're a dick to your cousin.

[KenjiBeast]

Nobody like a rat snitch. Some people have to find this out the hard way.

[samsara]

Dont tell other peoples secrets.

[Thriftstoresuit]

http://i42.tinypic.com/2czts0y.jpg

this.
lame secret is lame. just shut up next time around, loose lips sink ships, yo

[npmshah]

he might be :gay:
oh youre hilarious...

[mmmmmpoetry]

secrets don't make friends.

wait...

[4N6 science]

oh youre hilarious...

Thanks for noticing!! :lol:

[LaDiabla]

Thanks for noticing!! :lol:

duuude

[Roboman]

BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

and i like how no one else caught that he posted the secret...welllllll here it is in all its' secretive glory!
great secret by the way i feel so complete knowing this now. oh and you're an asshole
that's the lamest secret ever and they're retarded for being upset over you telling that. that's not a secret. they're RETARDED.

Haha really, I can't believe more people aren't ripping on him for the "secret" really being a giant bag of dicks.

Dude, tell your cousin she's a fucking moron for:
1. thinking that whole dancing thing should be considered a "secret".
2. getting upset that you told people this "secret", as it's bullshit.

[Mibabalou]

1) you are 15 thus you have no real problems
2) when someone tells you a secret shut ur mouth its not 2 hard
3) i like how you told us the secret
4) acop - loose lips sink ships

[TotalCollapse]

Apologize, move on, and don't make the same mistake again.

[ohheroine]

yes, thank you
i know im not facing a layoff from a job or any "real" problems, but this is the first time ive been faced with a situation like this and have no idea how to handle it...

right on. i like you.
your situation sucks, though. sounds like your cousin is being dramatic and you should probably tell her to get over it.

[4N6 science]

duuude

GuuuuurlLL!

[npmshah]

right on. i like you.
your situation sucks, though. sounds like your cousin is being dramatic and you should probably tell her to get over it.
haha thanks, nice to see a break from the typical "grow up and get real problems" sort of stuff
haha i tried that... shes really pissed though, and has threatened to do some crazy stuff to get back at me
ex: shes really close with my chem teacher (ie the class i struggle the most in) and has threatened to tell her about how much i "insulted" her the "other day" (btw, i said nothing)... so ya... thats why i need help...

[ohheroine]

haha thanks, nice to see a break from the typical "grow up and get real problems" sort of stuff
haha i tried that... shes really pissed though, and has threatened to do some crazy stuff to get back at me
ex: shes really close with my chem teacher (ie the class i struggle the most in) and has threatened to tell her about how much i "insulted" her the "other day" (btw, i said nothing)... so ya... thats why i need help...

I've noticed a trend in PL that if you aren't 25 with an amputated left leg and no job then your problems aren't real.
If your cousin is thinking of telling your teacher about things you haven't said, then i think its fair to say she is not worth your time worrying about now. I have to agree with everyone else though that her secret wasn't even a secret and is nothing to get this mad over.

[thesafeword]

Really, her bestie? You're a fucking guy.

[phil19]

step in the delorean
don't be a fucking tattletale this time around

just had myself a back to the future marathon the other day.

[kdefrisc]

unfortunately, it seems that there is nothing you can do but apologize and hope your cousin forgives you. i wouldn't expect her to trust you anymore after that though.

[npmshah]

I've noticed a trend in PL that if you aren't 25 with an amputated left leg and no job then your problems aren't real.
If your cousin is thinking of telling your teacher about things you haven't said, then i think its fair to say she is not worth your time worrying about now. I have to agree with everyone else though that her secret wasn't even a secret and is nothing to get this mad over.
haha ya, ive noticed that occasionally too... which is ironic since i usually pnly post in here if i need help on something... bit counterproductive, eh?... Ya, im just about to give up on her, so now im just hoping she doesnt make my chem teacher hate me (if my teacher hates me, she wont try as hard to help me when i need help)

[npmshah]

Really, her bestie? You're a fucking guy.
and the sky is blue and grass is green, what else is new?
dont post if you are just going to be a dick

[atticus1492]

Kill yourself. It will never get any better. Best to just end it now.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

he might be :gay:
he reads chick books too. it'd definite.

[poi]

You're 15. You don't have real problems. A problem for a 15 year old is having a wet dream or running out of fruit loops. so when my dad almost died, that's not a real problem because of my age?

[llwilliamsll]

Is your cousin hot? Incest is wincest!

[4N6 science]

he reads chick books too. it'd definite.


well that helps my case even more.

[nonamesleft]

You're dumb.

[npmshah]

he reads chick books too. it'd definite.
thanks rachel, thanks a ton
EDIT: i still say thirteen reasons why is NOT a chick book

Is your cousin hot? Incest is wincest!
no

[phil19]

Is your cousin hot? Incest is wincest!

i met my mums cousins daughter one time. she was pretty hot.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

well that helps my case even more.
anytime, jon. after i have english i'll be able to give you a while list, my friend and i will come up with all the reasons.
thanks rachel, thanks a ton
EDIT: i still say thirteen reasons why is NOT a chick book


no
well..it's about a girl killing herself and her saying why she did so..i'd say that's a chick book.

victoria agrees.

[jonny4star]

it helps to be a good actor and cry when you appologize. it will make her forgive you easier.

[4N6 science]

anytime, jon. after i have english i'll be able to give you a while list, my friend and i will come up with all the reasons.

haha splendid.

[npmshah]

anytime, jon. after i have english i'll be able to give you a while list, my friend and i will come up with all the reasons.

well..it's about a girl killing herself and her saying why she did so..i'd say that's a chick book.

victoria agrees.
as in morty's english?
after english is history...
bloody hell, do you try to come up with a list while i am sitting RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU?
and is this friend becca?
it is not a chick book
it is told from a guys perspective and was written by a guy...
it is a startling insight into the grief of a teenage guy... just because something has real human emotions, does it automatically become a chick book?

[katexodd]

watch full house, that answers most of life's questions

[DejaNew]

Learn to keep your mouth shut.

[fulltiltxb00gie]

as in morty's english?
after english is history...
bloody hell, do you try to come up with a list while i am sitting RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU?
and is this friend becca?
it is not a chick book
it is told from a guys perspective and was written by a guy...
it is a startling insight into the grief of a teenage guy... just because something has real human emotions, does it automatically become a chick book?
it's from a guy's perspective HEARING A GIRL'S PERSPECTIVE.

and uh..if i say after english, who would i be asking? and no, not the midg.

[SomedayTheFire]

I lol'd at this thread.

[llwilliamsll]

thanks rachel, thanks a ton
EDIT: i still say thirteen reasons why is NOT a chick book


no
pics of said cousin nao plox!


i met my mums cousins daughter one time. she was pretty hot.
Fuck yeah! I've never met any family beyond cousins. Although my uncle married into the family and he had already been divorced. So my second cousins were 30-40 years older than me and his grandchildren were 5-10 years younger or older than me. None of them were hot though.

[phil19]

pics of said cousin nao plox!



Fuck yeah! I've never met any family beyond cousins. Although my uncle married into the family and he had already been divorced. So my second cousins were 30-40 years older than me and his grandchildren were 5-10 years younger or older than me. None of them were hot though.

that sucks. cos that would have been A OK for some cousin love!
my mums cousin was about the same age as my mum so her kids were about the same age as me. i think her eldest daughter, the hot one, was a year younger than me :-)

[llwilliamsll]

that sucks. cos that would have been A OK for some cousin love!
my mums cousin was about the same age as my mum so her kids were about the same age as me. i think her eldest daughter, the hot one, was a year younger than me :-)
Get on that ASAP!

[thesafeword]

and the sky is blue and grass is green, what else is new?
dont post if you are just going to be a dick
Don't tell me not to post you little douchebag, I'm not just going to watch you use a term used exclusively by girls who listen to Paramore and read those Twilight books... oh wait...

[phil19]

Get on that ASAP!

if only she didnt live in a different state. and i was still in contact with her i would.
alas though ive only met her the once

[npmshah]

Don't tell me not to post you little douchebag, I'm not just going to watch you use a term used exclusively by girls who listen to Paramore and read those Twilight books... oh wait...
haha... you're hilarious...i like paramore and twilight, big deal?... and is it really that big a deal for me to type the word bestie?

[npmshah]

pics of said cousin nao plox!




NO

[thesafeword]

haha... you're hilarious...i like paramore and twilight, big deal?... and is it really that big a deal for me to type the word bestie?
Bestie. Have you ever heard another guy say that? If so, stop hanging out with him.
NO
And multi-quote is fucking awesome.

[npmshah]

it's from a guy's perspective HEARING A GIRL'S PERSPECTIVE.

and uh..if i say after english, who would i be asking? and no, not the midg.
it also deals VERY HEAVILY with a guys grief over losing someone he deeply cares about... That book was a fucking catharsis for me and i will not be judged because i enjoyed it...
i would also say Alyssa... and i wouldnt be surprised if it was her

Bestie. Have you ever heard another guy say that? If so, stop hanging out with him.

And multi-quote is fucking awesome.
yes, i have actually... He is one of my best friends... but i never refer to my friends as "besties," unless i think they're awesome and they are girls... i find your indignation at my use of this word VERY amusing

[fulltiltxb00gie]

it also deals VERY HEAVILY with a guys grief over losing someone he deeply cares about... That book was a fucking catharsis for me and i will not be judged because i enjoyed it...
i would also say Alyssa... and i wouldnt be surprised if it was her


yes, i have actually... He is one of my best friends... but i never refer to my friends as "besties," unless i think they're awesome and they are girls... i find your indignation at my use of this word VERY amusing
good. oh and you missed journey last night. it was fucking beautiful.

[chicagogirll04]

Hahahaha.
What the hell would you like people to tell you?
There is no advice. You fucked up.
Don't do it again.

[fadedmemories]

Anal them both.

[Undue Noise]

i met my mums cousins daughter one time. she was pretty hot.
That's removed enough for it not to be weird. Go for it.
Anal them both.
Best advice of the thread so far.

But seriously, to OP, what kind of advice were you hoping to get from this thread? Just man up and apologise if it's that big a deal, then tell her to stop being such an idiot for getting upset over a "secret," quotations due to the fact what you posted hardly constitutes as a secret. Oh and in future, if you're in an arguement over blabbing about a secret, then why the hell tell it again on an internet forum?

[npmshah]

good. oh and you missed journey last night. it was fucking beautiful.
haha i had heard... my friend told me, and i wish i was there
this trip is pretty boring :hitself:
hope you have fun seeing demi (still uberly jealous about that even though you hate her ALOT)

[phil19]

That's removed enough for it not to be weird. Go for it.


yeah that was what i was thinking

[bladerdude360]

This is mildly entertaining. A note to the OP: if you're in trouble for telling a secret, re-telling it in an extremely public setting, let's say the internet, is probably not a good idea.

[bladerdude360]

And he likes Brokencyde. Just a dumb kid I guess :shrug:

[thesafeword]

Yeah, OP likes terrible music and talks like a girl.

[imahoodlum]

Wow. I just noticed the OP is a guy, not a girl. Their typing/talking had me fooled.

[fadedmemories]

Best advice of the thread so far.
Thank you Olivia :-)

[fulltiltxb00gie]

haha i had heard... my friend told me, and i wish i was there
this trip is pretty boring :hitself:
hope you have fun seeing demi (still uberly jealous about that even though you hate her ALOT)
i stayed far away from that shit.

[npmshah]

And he likes Brokencyde. Just a dumb kid I guess :shrug:
i dont like them, per se
i only mildly enjoy some of their music on certain, rare occasions

Wow. I just noticed the OP is a guy, not a girl. Their typing/talking had me fooled.
haha you are hilarious
do not let my dripping sarcasm fool you

i stayed far away from that shit.
i expected as much... my friend called me during trainwreck by her and she sounded really good though... did you see hollywood undead?
me and pranav saw pics on an iphone on the ride,,, /is jealous you saw danger radio and forgive durden\

[bladerdude360]

i dont like them, per se
i only mildly enjoy some of their music on certain, rare occasions

You list them as one of your favorite bands. And there is no occasion to "mildly enjoy" them-ever.

[npmshah]

You list them as one of your favorite bands. And there is no occasion to "mildly enjoy" them-ever.
oh well... to each his own i guess... i say the same thing about Dot Dot Curve, yet some people enjoy them so :shrug:
and in my favorite bands i pretty much just listed any band/group/singer that was on my ipod, so dont take that too seriously... i have been meaning to condense it though

[Heart-A-Tact]

i dont like them, per se
i only mildly enjoy some of their music on certain, rare occasions


haha you are hilarious
do not let my dripping sarcasm fool you


i expected as much... my friend called me during trainwreck by her and she sounded really good though... did you see hollywood undead?
me and pranav saw pics on an iphone on the ride,,, /is jealous you saw danger radio and forgive durden\

She needed you to clarify.