Break up

[stayforawhile]

I've been going out with this kid for almost 2 months. We have been friends for about a year and just kind of decided to go out. Now that I've been spending so much time with him I have realized that weare sooo different. We have a lot of mutual friends and he keeps telling one of my best friends how much he likes me and how much he wants us to work out but I just want out. I don't know what to do in this situation ahh I need advice.

[argg_xo]

this was me last year. i ended up telling the dude we should just be nothing more than friends and he blamed me for putting him into the worst depression he's ever been in. nothing good will come of this, sorry to say.

[stayforawhile]

this was me last year. i ended up telling the dude we should just be nothing more than friends and he blamed me for putting him into the worst depression he's ever been in. nothing good will come of this, sorry to say.
Ughh this whole situation just sucks. We should have just stayed friends.

[anamericangod]

You tell him it's not working out. He deals with it. The end.

[ascitiesburn101]

that's only gunna result with the kid hating your guts, regardless of whether or not he agrees that you can "still be friends"

[SanePsychotic]

Does he have a gun? If so, be careful because he might shoot you if you break his heart.

[Sventhegreat]

Just end it. It has only been two months, this shouldn't be an issue.

[TheHoldSteady]

You tell him it's not working out. He deals with it. The end.
This.

[argg_xo]

Ughh this whole situation just sucks. We should have just stayed friends.
i agree, but he'll have to get over it and at least be thankful you told the truth instead of leading him on. that's what i tell myself at least!

[stayforawhile]

Does he have a gun? If so, be careful because he might shoot you if you break his heart.
Hahhahahaha, I don't think he does, I'll double check though before I do it.

[Simulcast]

Does he have a gun? If so, be careful because he might shoot you if you break his heart.


Wut.

[SanePsychotic]

Wut.

You know what I'm talking about. :nod:

[stayforawhile]

i agree, but he'll have to get over it and at least be thankful you told the truth instead of leading him on. that's what i tell myself at least!
Haha yeah that's what I keep telling myself.

[anamericangod]

Seriously. It's two months, and you're what, 16?

These things don't matter. At all. It's really not that difficult.

[argg_xo]

Does he have a gun? If so, be careful because he might shoot you if you break his heart.
this is a legitimate concern.
Haha yeah that's what I keep telling myself.
he'll get over it and start dating girls that look like you and have deep mental issues.

[anamericangod]

this is a legitimate concern.

he'll get over it and start dating girls that look like you and have deep mental issues.

If that happens after only dating for 2 months, he is better off blowing his brains out.

[stayforawhile]

Seriously. It's two months, and you're what, 16?

These things don't matter. At all. It's really not that difficult.
We're both 18, and I just feel really bad doing it, but I know it has to be done.

[anamericangod]

We're both 18, and I just feel really bad doing it, but I know it has to be done.

Then you've already answered your own question.

[stayforawhile]

Then you've already answered your own question.
Yeah I know, I just am dreading it so much. I know it should be done in person but considering it isn't all that serious of a relationship I was thinking over the phone may be sufficient.

[thespearkid]

That sucks. I've been in this situation before (like, four times with the same girl, in fact) and, in my case, her and I did eventually go back to being good friends. Good luck, be tactful.

[anamericangod]

Yeah I know, I just am dreading it so much. I know it should be done in person but considering it isn't all that serious of a relationship I was thinking over the phone may be sufficient.

Do it tomorrow. Monday is the best day to have a breakup on.

[stayforawhile]

Do it tomorrow. Monday is the best day to have a breakup on.
Hahha okayy, do you think over the phone is okay or should it be in person?

[anamericangod]

Hahha okayy, do you think over the phone is okay or should it be in person?

Do it over the phone. It will be easier for you, and it's honestly not serious/important enough to do face to face.

[drivthru182]

Just do it, the longer it takes, the harder it will be and the the more of a toll it will have on you. Think about what will make you happy in the long run, because that's more important than anything else.

[Mibabalou]

do it on a friday so hell get trashed all weekend and hell see life is not that terrible

[bladerdude360]

You tell him it's not working out. He deals with it. The end.
Agreed. Also, you said you "just kind of decided to go out." Now I'm no relationship expert but that doesn't inspire a lot of confidence or signify a long-lasting relationship. Just tell him how you feel and move on. Being in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship is stupid and immature--learn your lesson now.

[argg_xo]

text him on a friday and don't ever answer his texts/calls again. it's best to pretend nothing ever happened.

[SteffRyanFail]

I had this problem, kind of. My best friend and I went out for about three months and then shit got rocky and we got back together twice. The last time we did we had completely changed as people since we were friends. I think maybe he'll get over it, cause that was kind of what both us were thinking (the "I want this to work out" thing) But in the end we really didn't like each other at all. We had mutual friends, but both of us actually drifted from them. I don't know if it'll work out the same for you. But I'm sure that after awhile he'll realize that yall are different and just give up on it.

[Kassie09]

well two months is a really short relationships sooo he shouldn't be too attached so just tell him you should just be friends, it works out better that way

[4N6 science]

sorry your thing hasn't worked out. But he was a good friend he should understand.

[samsara]

It won last, break up and try to stay friends.

[stayforawhile]

Do it over the phone. It will be easier for you, and it's honestly not serious/important enough to do face to face.
Yeah, that's what I was thinking, thanks!

[stayforawhile]

Agreed. Also, you said you "just kind of decided to go out." Now I'm no relationship expert but that doesn't inspire a lot of confidence or signify a long-lasting relationship. Just tell him how you feel and move on. Being in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship is stupid and immature--learn your lesson now.
Yeah I completely agree.

[AndrewIcex]

Do it tomorrow. Monday is the best day to have a breakup on.


I am pretty sure you give the best advice, haha.

[bn_comatose]

either way he is prolly gonna hate you but you can't sting him along. make it swift and
avoid seeing each other.

[bn_comatose]

over the phone? really? atleast have the decency to do it face to face. He deserves that
much if you were friends before you dated.

[stayforawhile]

either way he is prolly gonna hate you but you can't sting him along. make it swift and
avoid seeing each other.
Going to be difficult seeing as we a lot of the smae friends and go to school together.:shrug:

[Fallinto_rhythm]

Ashley! I'm in business managment IN SHOCK in absolute shock at this. answer my text. why are you up so damn early?

[stayforawhile]

I did it about 3 hours ago. It went fairly well. His head is so far up in the clouds he did not see it coming and pulled the whole "I'll change" bit and we just ended it. He then bitched to my best friend about for an hour.

[4N6 science]

I did it about 3 hours ago. It went fairly well. His head is so far up in the clouds he did not see it coming and pulled the whole "I'll change" bit and we just ended it. He then bitched to my best friend about for an hour.

I'm sure you're glad it's all over.

[kwsqd]

Now you can move on. to Jon

[KenjiBeast]

Dude you can't stay friends with an ex. At best it ought to be an occasional B-call. Otherwise too much work for me.

[Reaver]

problem is, he fell in love with you way more than you did. that's why his mind is all purple and he doesnt realize it actually won't work out.

You did the right thingy by telling him straight. That must have crushed his heart like a mirror breakin'... yeah alright that was unnecessary I just figured out what it would feel like if it was me. Of course, he's too proud to admit it and maybe he won't give up and start stalking you :-d well that depends on his character.

[stayforawhile]

I'm sure you're glad it's all over.
Oh I am!

[stayforawhile]

Now you can move on. to Jon
Hhahaha oh yeahhh

[bensATLsummer08]

Oh relationship problems... the kid will get over it and won't change at all. Just don't try to hang out with him cuz he'll just want a shot at that pussy again.

[stayforawhile]

Oh relationship problems... the kid will get over it and won't change at all. Just don't try to hang out with him cuz he'll just want a shot at that pussy again.
Hahahahhaaha yeah I know.

[pinkzeppelin182]

Tact.
Be understanding and rational.
That's what my ex-girlfriend didn't do, and now she blames me cause none of our mutual friends like her anymore cause she made it a dramatic/significant event, instead of just communicating with me and putting shit behind us. Helped me grow up a lot though.

[caress me down]

Just end it. It has only been two months, this shouldn't be an issue.
Mhmmmm.

[4N6 science]

Oh I am!

now you, me and nikki can have our fling. ;-)

[inyoursea]

Just tell him how it is. He might struggle with it at first but he'll get over it eventually.

[4N6 science]

I would like to say that she already broke it off with him.

[Five-Star]

2 months isnt that long

[stayforawhile]

He blatently ignored me in school today, I would say he's is pretty damn pissed off.

[4N6 science]

He blatently ignored me in school today, I would say he's is pretty damn pissed off.

I love the cold shoulder move. I'm pretty good at it if I can say so myself.

[stayforawhile]

I love the cold shoulder move. I'm pretty good at it if I can say so myself.
Hahaha I am too, I guess we'll see how long this lasts.

[4N6 science]

Hahaha I am too, I guess we'll see how long this lasts.

yeah good luck in your quest. I didn't talk to an ex for almost 1 and 1/2 years.

[stayforawhile]

yeah good luck in your quest. I didn't talk to an ex for almost 1 and 1/2 years.
Jon it was two months, he needs to gather himself and move on.

[4N6 science]

Jon it was two months, he needs to gather himself and move on.

yeah...I went out with the girl for 4 months. But I was just being extremely immature.

[stayforawhile]

yeah...I went out with the girl for 4 months. But I was just being extremely immature.
Oh god, I hope he gets over it rather quickly.

[4N6 science]

Oh god, I hope he gets over it rather quickly.

yeah same. I was a little bitch back then.

[Clarett'sGreyGoose]

well two months is a really short relationships sooo he shouldn't be too attached so just tell him you should just be friends, it works out better that way
tell that to my FWB who i ended shit with after like, a month and a half and is super pissed at me even though i continually reminded her it wasn't going to end in a relationship.

silly girls, always agreeing to terms then making us out to be the enemies.

[xica_sp4ever]

Yeah I know, I just am dreading it so much. I know it should be done in person but considering it isn't all that serious of a relationship I was thinking over the phone may be sufficient.

send him the text.

[mikeXXXnj]

I've been going out with this kid for almost 2 months. We have been friends for about a year and just kind of decided to go out. Now that I've been spending so much time with him I have realized that weare sooo different. We have a lot of mutual friends and he keeps telling one of my best friends how much he likes me and how much he wants us to work out but I just want out. I don't know what to do in this situation ahh I need advice.
the last girl i dated did this, and now she is fucking some other dude and talks about it all the time, which would be nothing if i didn't work with her, everyday. so yeah, theres no way you're going to "stay friends" not gonna happen. he has every right to fucking hate your guts

[AndrewIcex]

the last girl i dated did this, and now she is fucking some other dude and talks about it all the time, which would be nothing if i didn't work with her, everyday. so yeah, theres no way you're going to "stay friends" not gonna happen. he has every right to fucking hate your guts


Shit

[stayforawhile]

the last girl i dated did this, and now she is fucking some other dude and talks about it all the time, which would be nothing if i didn't work with her, everyday. so yeah, theres no way you're going to "stay friends" not gonna happen. he has every right to fucking hate your guts
Awesomeeee

[stayforawhile]

yeah same. I was a little bitch back then.
JONNNN you're graduatinggg!!!!!!

[stayforawhile]

Last night he ranted and raved about me to my best friend for an hour. He told her I was "a cold hearted bitch" and that "her body is amazing but she would be a perfect ten if she went to th gym more often, right now she's an 8". Hahaha nice, gotta love it.

[yakob89]

Last night he ranted and raved about me to my best friend for an hour. He told her I was "a cold hearted bitch" and that "her body is amazing but she would be a perfect ten if she went to th gym more often, right now she's an 8". Hahaha nice, gotta love it.

Damn! thats harsh as fuck! Did you confront him about it?

[anamericangod]

Last night he ranted and raved about me to my best friend for an hour. He told her I was "a cold hearted bitch" and that "her body is amazing but she would be a perfect ten if she went to th gym more often, right now she's an 8". Hahaha nice, gotta love it.

What's it matter to him now? What a tool.

[stayforawhile]

Damn! thats harsh as fuck! Did you confront him about it?
Not yet, later today I am, I find it ironic seeing as I am 5'6 and 120 pounds I don't know where he proposes I lose weight from.

[stayforawhile]

What's it matter to him now? What a tool.
Who knows, he's an insecure asshole.

[Heart-A-Tact]

Last night he ranted and raved about me to my best friend for an hour. He told her I was "a cold hearted bitch" and that "her body is amazing but she would be a perfect ten if she went to th gym more often, right now she's an 8". Hahaha nice, gotta love it.

Sounds like someone's just bitching to be bitching.

[stayforawhile]

Sounds like someone's just bitching to be bitching.
Hah are you talking about me or him?

[Heart-A-Tact]

Hah are you talking about me or him?

Him.

[stayforawhile]

Him.
Yeah, tell me about it. He looooves being dramatic.

[screamoutmyname]

end it sooner rather than later... no use in stringing a dude along and dragging it out if you're not into it.

[stayforawhile]

end it sooner rather than later... no use in stringing a dude along and dragging it out if you're not into it.
Haha I broke up with him almost a week ago, he hasn't taken it too well.

[yakob89]

Haha I broke up with him almost a week ago, he hasn't taken it too well.


Well from the way he seems to be acting it doesn't seem like he's taking it to well at all.

[stayforawhile]

Well from the way he seems to be acting it doesn't seem like he's taking it to well at all.
Yeah I'm aware of that, thanks though.

[yakob89]

Yeah I'm aware of that, thanks though.

So have you talked to him about why he's acting so immature about it all? Actually leaving it be would be the best thing.

[screamoutmyname]

Haha I broke up with him almost a week ago, he hasn't taken it too well.

ahh, my bad haha

life goes on... he'll be fine.

[stayforawhile]

So have you talked to him about why he's acting so immature about it all? Actually leaving it be would be the best thing.
No I haven't, I don't really care. If he wants to act like a 6 year old then let him. He's only making an ass out of himself.