it'd be nice, for some advice.

[xpartyxfoulx]

over the course of a few days, me and my ex-girlfriend have been working things out. and to be honest, i love it. i can't imagine myself with anyone else. today, we went on a date, just for the sake of spending time together. everything was wonderful, and we were a seemingly happy couple. on the way home, she drops a bomb that she likes a kid named jake, someone who used to be one of my best friends who i stopped talking to after he told me he liked her after we had only been broken up for a month or so, and we dated for a good year and a half. she assures me that they are only friends, that she really loves me, and that he is too young, but i still cannot shake the feeling that i am competing with him for her affection, and that pressure is too heavy. help me, and assure me, or just tell me some advice. thanks guys.

[thesafeword]

You're fucked.

[makeshiftmind]

I'll second that

[Jake Denning]

Go to said friend and clearly define that he doesnt want to cross the line with you, and dating your girlfriend is definitely crossing the line and will result in a severe thrashing.

[samsara]

Yep if she doesnt love you completely with her whole heart, the way you do then it may not work out.

[Duexy]

"this is some bullshit"

[xpartyxfoulx]

Go to said friend and clearly define that he doesnt want to cross the line with you, and dating your girlfriend is definitely crossing the line and will result in a severe thrashing.

done that. he knows.

[Jake Denning]

done that. he knows.

Then have a coke and a smile and STFU.

[KenjiBeast]

Dude he's going to eff the S out of that girls VnA.

[mmmmmpoetry]

Kill him, it's the only way man.

[fadedmemories]

MFM threesome.

[Cliff Diver]

tell him you're gonna toss his salad if he doesn't go away

[denissuxx]

MFM threesome.

Win.

[Roboman]

tell him you're gonna toss his salad if he doesn't go away

That'll definitely scare him off.

[.invisible ink.]

she's playing games with you to see what you'll do/say. If you had a great date, why would she feel the need to bring up "oh, by the way i like Jake, but ya know, he's young, so i'll just be friends with him" ? WTF? It sounds like she's trying to get a reaction out of you otherwise she wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. At this point, I'd ignore it and see if she does it again, if so, you should let her know that if she'd rather be with Jake then she needs to go ahead because she isn't worth your time if she's not really into being with you. Sorry but that's the breaks.

[xpartyxfoulx]

she's playing games with you to see what you'll do/say. If you had a great date, why would she feel the need to bring up "oh, by the way i like Jake, but ya know, he's young, so i'll just be friends with him" ? WTF? It sounds like she's trying to get a reaction out of you otherwise she wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. At this point, I'd ignore it and see if she does it again, if so, you should let her know that if she'd rather be with Jake then she needs to go ahead because she isn't worth your time if she's not really into being with you. Sorry but that's the breaks.

i dig. good advice. thanks man.

[Metal Now]

she's playing games with you to see what you'll do/say. If you had a great date, why would she feel the need to bring up "oh, by the way i like Jake, but ya know, he's young, so i'll just be friends with him" ? WTF? It sounds like she's trying to get a reaction out of you otherwise she wouldn't have brought it up in the first place. At this point, I'd ignore it and see if she does it again, if so, you should let her know that if she'd rather be with Jake then she needs to go ahead because she isn't worth your time if she's not really into being with you. Sorry but that's the breaks.

That's good advice.

That or seduce him. That would come out of the blue.

[bn_comatose]

OoOoOo you really are fucked bro. the best thing you can do is move on. start dating someone else,
make her realize she likes you. but i doubt that you will, you seem in to her.

[SonEric84]

i dig. good advice. thanks woman.


There ya go.

[Charles777]

tell him you're gonna toss his salad if he doesn't go away

I agree.

[abbysmith]

Kill him, it's the only way man.
Yes, you should do this.

[bigblue2015]

Kill yourself, then during the grieving process when she's feeling bad for you, come back as a zombie and kill Jake. At that point you'll have her all to yourself and you can haunt her/watch her in the shower for the rest of your life.

[.invisible ink.]

There ya go.

much appreciated. for some reason, people always say "thanks man" or something to that effect when replying to me. I didn't realize i had a masculine screenname. :shrug:

[SonEric84]

much appreciated. for some reason, people always say "thanks man" or something to that effect when replying to me. I didn't realize i had a masculine screenname. :shrug:


No problem. hah It's not at all. I don't see what's so hard about looking to the left for genders if they really don't know though.

[Smeee]

Kill yourself, then during the grieving process when she's feeling bad for you, come back as a zombie and kill Jake. At that point you'll have her all to yourself and you can haunt her/watch her in the shower for the rest of your life.

I see no flaw in this idea.

[inyoursea]

Ex's are some tricky shit, the only advice I'd give you is that just gotta stay the course and don't worry about this other kid. If things are going well they'll continue to go well (hopefully). I'm in a similar situation, thought everything was working out and going well and she dropped the "you're like my big brother!" bomb. So best of luck haha.

[KenjiBeast]

Dude, DON'T EVER PERSUE AN EX. The moment the relationship is over, it's OVER. From that second onward, that girl's vag is poison and her tits are the devil.

Let her fuck whoever she wants, but DON'T PLAY WITH THAT FIRE. There are a million chicks, and they're all the same. Find another.

[.invisible ink.]

Dude, DON'T EVER PERSUE AN EX. The moment the relationship is over, it's OVER. From that second onward, that girl's vag is poison and her tits are the devil.

Let her fuck whoever she wants, but DON'T PLAY WITH THAT FIRE. There are a million chicks, and they're all the same. Find another.

haha, you have a lot to learn.

[Kassie09]

lol at her telling you that, she must just want more attention from you so she feels like if she says that, you'll fawn over her and give her tons of attention in hopes of winning her over.

[billyboatkid]

Tell her "Bitch BE COOL!!"

Everything will be fine.

[KenjiBeast]

haha, you have a lot to learn.

Dude, any guy that thinks his girl is "special" is nothing but a clown. This also also applies in reverse. When a relationship doesn't work out, the best thing is always to move on, no exceptions.

[Kassie09]

Dude, any guy that thinks his girl is "special" is nothing but a clown. This also also applies in reverse. When a relationship doesn't work out, the best thing is always to move on, no exceptions.

Cynical.

[.invisible ink.]

Dude, any guy that thinks his girl is "special" is nothing but a clown. This also also applies in reverse. When a relationship doesn't work out, the best thing is always to move on, no exceptions.

you sound like you speak from very little experience, no offense. it doesn't always work out the way you expect it to, sometimes for the best.

[KenjiBeast]

Cynical.

Perhaps, but realistic. You've got to admit that trying to force a dead relationship is a recipe for nothing but disaster.

[KenjiBeast]

you sound like you speak from very little experience, no offense. it doesn't always work out the way you expect it to, sometimes for the best.

Sometimes for the best. Mostly for the worst. Of and on relationships never, ever work out in the long run. I've seen tons of guys hoping and praying that someday they and their exes might get back together, but while they're at it, they mug themselves out of all sorts of potentially healthier relationships because of this delusion.

It's not worth it, for all parties involved.