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Whowolf
05/05/09, 11:34 AM
so Saturday was my prom. I ended up going with this girl from my church youth group , she looked great and yeah I was interested. so we're dancing and having a good time and I had gone with her and also two other friends. anyways long story short here's what happened.

I brought her outside and told her I had a great time and she was really cool and I was wondering if she'd want to go on a 2nd date?

she replied: Eric , I'm kinda seeing someone I just wanted someone to go to prom with.

so yeah in my mind it was this , first of all she never mentioned she had a boyfriend , second , her boyfriend was working on prom night , so basically she used me to get out of work to go to prom , but alas I had a good time so no harm , no foul. but I am frustrated , I mean I got used by a girl I was interested in.

anthonydarko
05/05/09, 11:37 AM
Don't get yourself down, I got suckered to go to a prom a few weeks ago with a younger friend of mine who pretty much ignored for most of the day so I know how you feel. Girls are the masters of lying and using people.

4N6 science
05/05/09, 11:40 AM
Well that's not going to be a good memory. Hopefully you can put that past you and just enjoy the good time you had.

argg_xo
05/05/09, 12:02 PM
michigan girls tend to do this lot, i'm not talking from experience though.

KenjiBeast
05/05/09, 12:03 PM
Dude that fucking sucks. You'll get over it, though. Prom is rarely as awesome as you anticipate it being.

killerswells
05/05/09, 12:17 PM
prom is lame anyway. dont worry about it man. she devils are everywhere.

redsoxguy676
05/05/09, 12:49 PM
This is exactly why I did not attend my prom!

billyboatkid
05/05/09, 12:54 PM
Don't feel bad I didn't even go to my Senior Prom. Foolish move.

Whowolf
05/05/09, 01:08 PM
michigan girls tend to do this lot, i'm not talking from experience though.

ha ha I hope CC girls are better than High School girls. then again 50% of my grad class is headed there.

TotalCollapse
05/05/09, 01:09 PM
Forget about it. Prom is overrated.

inyoursea
05/05/09, 01:13 PM
Kinda sucks, but believe me it could've been worse. My prom night was much worse haha, so be happy you had a good time with the girl and didn't get COMPLETELY fucked over by her.

panasonicyouth
05/05/09, 01:24 PM
Kinda sucks, but believe me it could've been worse. My prom night was much worse haha, so be happy you had a good time with the girl and didn't get COMPLETELY fucked over by her.

Seriously. I expected a worse story and an even worse situation, since I went to prom with a homophobic psycho. Awesome.

voncorn
05/05/09, 01:28 PM
Seriously. I expected a worse story and an even worse situation, since I went to prom with a homophobic psycho. Awesome.

The hourglass is never right side up, and all the time we tried to tear the script up.

4N6 science
05/05/09, 01:34 PM
michigan girls tend to do this lot, i'm not talking from experience though.

Heartbreaker!!!!!!!


sike!

inyoursea
05/05/09, 01:51 PM
Seriously. I expected a worse story and an even worse situation, since I went to prom with a homophobic psycho. Awesome.

Haha that is quite crazy. Yeah my date apparently was quite the lightweight.. didn't take her long after prom to perform some regrettable actions on strangers she did not know. But homophobic psycho she was not!

speakhandsforme
05/05/09, 01:56 PM
That's not getting used...that's asking someone to go to prom and going with them.

.invisible ink.
05/05/09, 04:07 PM
she should have been upfront with you, it sucks but there's nothing you can do. you'll get over it. people suck, it's a theme you'll realize throughout your life unfortunately.

Reaver
05/05/09, 04:12 PM
she should have been upfront with you, it sucks but there's nothing you can do. you'll get over it. people suck, it's a theme you'll realize throughout your life unfortunately.
this.

phil19
05/05/09, 05:22 PM
fuck thats rough man. but, if she'd do something like that she's probably a bitch.

Whowolf
05/05/09, 05:34 PM
thanks for the sympathy guys, hoping college will be better then again it's CC so it's like high school all over again.

Charles777
05/05/09, 05:44 PM
You'll be fine, man. Bitches ain't shit.

more heart
05/05/09, 05:46 PM
My mommy tells me to stay away from girls.

SonEric84
05/05/09, 06:18 PM
What a bitch...she should know Jesus frowns upon deceit.

phil19
05/05/09, 06:41 PM
she probably thinks its better to ask forgiveness than permission

underthetalking
05/05/09, 06:43 PM
Was this before or after you put it in her butt?

Villanova1L
05/05/09, 06:57 PM
You're lucky her boyfriend didn't kick your ass for taking her to prom

argg_xo
05/05/09, 07:11 PM
ha ha I hope CC girls are better than High School girls. then again 50% of my grad class is headed there.
if CC means community college, then it's just like high school.
Heartbreaker!!!!!!!


sike!
you know it baby! ;-)

Everiggs
05/05/09, 07:14 PM
Forget about it. Prom is overrated.

Wise beyond your years.

Ailite
05/05/09, 07:44 PM
You went to prom, got what you deserved

BoxxingTheStars
05/05/09, 07:55 PM
It's okay, I was used for 7 months by my ex. He just wanted to have a girlfriend his senior year and didn't want to be tied down in college. I found this out the day after he broke up with me from our friends.

But seriously, prom is overrated. I wasn't even going to go to my senior year, 'cause I knew it would suck, but since it was my senior year and it meant I got to see my long distance boyfriend, I went. We weren't even allowed to go to after prom. 18 years old and we weren't even allowed to go.

TheByrus
05/05/09, 08:17 PM
You have to go to prom to truly appreciate how much of a waste of time it is.

I went my Junior year, saw how much it sucked, then decided to go down to Austin to hangout with some college friends my Senior year instead of going.

I decided to go down to Austin last minute and I probably should have told my date I wasn't going anymore.

She never spoke to me again.

Oh well.

Charles777
05/05/09, 08:21 PM
You have to go to prom to truly appreciate how much of a waste of time it is.

I went my Junior year, saw how much it sucked, then decided to go down to Austin to hangout with some college friends my Senior year instead of going.

I decided to go down to Austin last minute and I probably should have told my date I wasn't going anymore.

She never spoke to me again.

Oh well.

That was one of the more funny things I've read lately.

phil19
05/05/09, 08:22 PM
You have to go to prom to truly appreciate how much of a waste of time it is.

I went my Junior year, saw how much it sucked, then decided to go down to Austin to hangout with some college friends my Senior year instead of going.

I decided to go down to Austin last minute and I probably should have told my date I wasn't going anymore.

She never spoke to me again.

Oh well.

:lol:

Whowolf
05/05/09, 08:43 PM
I know CC is gonna be like high school , I just hope the girls mature or are not so shallow.

phil19
05/05/09, 08:46 PM
I know CC is gonna be like high school , I just hope the girls mature or are not so shallow.

ive seen many examples im afraid of shallow girls remaining shallow no matter how old they get

samsara
05/05/09, 08:48 PM
Like people said dont feel bad. I didnt even go to prom. I went road tripping.

billyboatkid
05/05/09, 08:53 PM
Oh don't we all.

Whowolf
05/05/09, 09:00 PM
ive seen many examples im afraid of shallow girls remaining shallow no matter how old they get

oh well it's worth a shot , maybe partying will help.

takemyhand
05/05/09, 09:01 PM
michigan girls tend to do this lot, i'm not talking from experience though.

haha they do! (not me of course though). But this girl I knew, not really a friend but whatever; asked a kid from my school if he'd go to prom with her (she went to a different school), and he agreed. And the whole time leading up to prom & a little after the guy kept talking to me and telling me how much he liked her and how he was so happy etc. This bitch totally played him, he bought her ticket, they matched, and she was WELL AWARE that he liked her; but she just wanted to go to my schools prom because her friends were going. Totally broke his heart. Aw :(

phil19
05/05/09, 09:04 PM
oh well it's worth a shot , maybe partying will help.

i would definately recommend partying

4N6 science
05/05/09, 10:25 PM
you know it baby! ;-)

You broke my heart when you sent me that one card and then never talked to me again. ;-)

killerswells
05/06/09, 01:02 AM
Like people said dont feel bad. I didnt even go to prom. I went road tripping.

for some reason i instantly thought of this...

Road trippin' with my two favorite allies
Fully loaded we got snacks and supplies
It's time to leave this town
It's time to steal away
Let's go get lost
Anywhere in the U.S.A.

phil19
05/06/09, 01:05 AM
for some reason i instantly thought of this...

Road trippin' with my two favorite allies
Fully loaded we got snacks and supplies
It's time to leave this town
It's time to steal away
Let's go get lost
Anywhere in the U.S.A.

i thought of the same thing

Whowolf
05/06/09, 04:10 AM
partying it is then

Tyler Revolution
05/06/09, 04:19 PM
Don't get yourself down, I got suckered to go to a prom a few weeks ago with a younger friend of mine who pretty much ignored for most of the day so I know how you feel. Girls are the masters of lying and using people.

At 21? That sounds like the worst thing ever.

MarsEatWorld
05/06/09, 04:33 PM
I broke my foot the day before prom so I was on crutches for senior prom.

trappedintime
05/06/09, 05:14 PM
Coulda been worse. You'll get over it.

limepomegranate
05/06/09, 08:09 PM
what a bitch.

Indoor Living
05/06/09, 08:17 PM
michigan girls tend to do this lot, i'm not talking from experience though.
Oh, whatever. I bet you do that all the time. Haha.

Duexy
05/06/09, 08:19 PM
none of this matters

AndrewIcex
05/07/09, 12:14 AM
for some reason i instantly thought of this...

Road trippin' with my two favorite allies
Fully loaded we got snacks and supplies
It's time to leave this town
It's time to steal away
Let's go get lost
Anywhere in the U.S.A.

That is a great song, good choice.

killerswells
05/07/09, 03:59 AM
none of this matters

Frylock: Do you, Svetlana... what does this say?
Carl: Look, just say Smith or Jones or somethin'. I mean, there's no way you can pronounce that, right?
Frylock: Svetlana Smith, take Carl...
Carl: Just say Smith again, it don't matter. None of this matters.

kaycey
05/07/09, 05:31 AM
guys like you get stepped over every time, i doubt very much that it came as a surprise.
change lanes.

SECRETBULLET
05/07/09, 07:31 AM
that sucks but hey PLEANTY OF FISH IN THE SEA RIGHT?

killerswells
05/07/09, 07:40 AM
that sucks but hey PLEANTY OF FISH IN THE SEA RIGHT?

are you saying you are a fish?

SECRETBULLET
05/07/09, 07:42 AM
are you saying you are a fish?
IM A GUPPIE :)

killerswells
05/07/09, 07:45 AM
IM A GUPPIE :)

hmmm interesting that you learned how to type.

SECRETBULLET
05/07/09, 07:48 AM
hmmm interesting that you learned how to type.
i know...quite odd i hop for letter to letter on the key board

killerswells
05/07/09, 07:54 AM
i know...quite odd i hop for letter to letter on the key board

thats skill right there.

alltimehoe93
05/07/09, 08:46 AM
Girls are bitchy, stupid and liars. Kind of sucks for the decent ones but it's true.

anthonydarko
05/07/09, 09:17 AM
At 21? That sounds like the worst thing ever.
It was honestly. I felt like I was in a high school hell.

keyofhappy
05/07/09, 09:22 AM
so Saturday was my prom. I ended up going with this girl from my church youth group , she looked great and yeah I was interested. so we're dancing and having a good time and I had gone with her and also two other friends. anyways long story short here's what happened.

I brought her outside and told her I had a great time and she was really cool and I was wondering if she'd want to go on a 2nd date?

she replied: Eric , I'm kinda seeing someone I just wanted someone to go to prom with.

so yeah in my mind it was this , first of all she never mentioned she had a boyfriend , second , her boyfriend was working on prom night , so basically she used me to get out of work to go to prom , but alas I had a good time so no harm , no foul. but I am frustrated , I mean I got used by a girl I was interested in.


well there is your first problem, second you go to alive dont you.

walking_by91
05/07/09, 09:31 AM
Prom is the ultimate excuse to use someone. But not to worry, she probably wasn't worth it anyway.

Whowolf
05/07/09, 10:01 AM
well there is your first problem, second you go to alive dont you.

alive? what and I see what you mean.

keyofhappy
05/07/09, 10:45 AM
alive? what and I see what you mean.


you looked familiar, its a youth group downriver. either way, im sorry that happened to you.
dont worry about it, its not like you were planning a wedding.

Whowolf
05/07/09, 10:49 AM
guys like you get stepped over every time, i doubt very much that it came as a surprise.
change lanes.

change personality?

Whowolf
05/07/09, 10:51 AM
you looked familiar, its a youth group downriver. either way, im sorry that happened to you.
dont worry about it, its not like you were planning a wedding.

oh lol no man I go to St. Pius X anyways thanks your right it's not like she left me on our wedding day, I'm sure I'll meet a great girl in college.

argg_xo
05/07/09, 11:31 AM
You broke my heart when you sent me that one card and then never talked to me again. ;-)
hahah! awww! you got a girlfriend! what was i supposed to do?!?!
Oh, whatever. I bet you do that all the time. Haha.
i few fellas in the metro-detroit area would beg to differ, i'm sure.

argg_xo
05/07/09, 11:32 AM
you looked familiar, its a youth group downriver. either way, im sorry that happened to you.
dont worry about it, its not like you were planning a wedding.
you live downriver?!?!?

Indoor Living
05/07/09, 12:02 PM
hahah! awww! you got a girlfriend! what was i supposed to do?!?!

i few fellas in the metro-detroit area would beg to differ, i'm sure.
I be jokin'.

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:04 PM
I be jokin'.
it's okay boo.

Indoor Living
05/07/09, 12:06 PM
it's okay boo.
How's life in downtown D-Town?

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:09 PM
How's life in downtown D-Town?
rainy and sorta cold.

robat19
05/07/09, 12:23 PM
rainy and sorta cold.
sunny and 72 here

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:24 PM
sunny and 72 here
shut up other side of the state!

robat19
05/07/09, 12:29 PM
shut up other side of the state!
it's always nicer on the west coast!

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:30 PM
it's always nicer on the west coast!
wrong. southeast is better!

4N6 science
05/07/09, 12:31 PM
hahah! awww! you got a girlfriend! what was i supposed to do?!?!

Woo me back to you!

robat19
05/07/09, 12:32 PM
wrong. southeast is better!
you're right. I know this because I work at a CVS over there.

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:33 PM
Woo me back to you!
awww i'm not a homewrecker!

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:34 PM
you're right. I know this because I work at a CVS over there.
hahahahahhahahahahahaa. is it fun being a photo technician at CVS?

robat19
05/07/09, 12:35 PM
hahahahahhahahahahahaa. is it fun being a photo technician at CVS?
i love it. just call me chris!

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:36 PM
i love it. just call me chris!
you were kinda rude to me last time i went to CVS, Chris.

4N6 science
05/07/09, 12:37 PM
awww i'm not a homewrecker!

lol i know. I just wanted to say Woo.

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:38 PM
lol i know. I just wanted to say Woo.
haha. i'm glad you got to woo me today.

now i'm off to work at the fabulous maxx!

robat19
05/07/09, 12:39 PM
you were kinda rude to me last time i went to CVS, Chris.
i'll be sure to be nicer next time i see you in there.

4N6 science
05/07/09, 12:42 PM
haha. i'm glad you got to woo me today.

now i'm off to work at the fabulous maxx!

Yes it was fun.

Have fun at work. Trip up some kids on heelies! ;-)

argg_xo
05/07/09, 12:43 PM
i'll be sure to be nicer next time i see you in there.
you better be!
Yes it was fun.

Have fun at work. Trip up some kids on heelies! ;-)
i'll try and have fun. i'll murder kids in heelies. i hate them!

SwedishHeat
05/07/09, 12:49 PM
I know CC is gonna be like high school , I just hope the girls mature or are not so shallow.

Well, if that's what you're worried about, then you'll be fine. The only way college is like high school is the classes. There's still homework, some shitty teachers, some cool teachers. The plus side is, when you wake up and don't wanna go, you don't have to go, but that's not a good habit to get into, trust me on that one, you'll go to class once a month, and then when it comes time to take a test, you won't know what the hell you're doing. I still have an occasional nightmare that my college calls me up and says, "Hi, we did a random audit on your college education and found that you skipped too many classes so we're revoking your diploma" It scares the shit outta me.

There's no cliques, there'll still be bitchy girls, and girls checking you out in class, giving you the eye, and you might take a pass at them and they'll say "No thanks" and you'll wonder "What in the hell was she looking at me like that for then??" But, seriously the best way to do it, is make a homework buddy, meet up before class, go over stuff, then meet up somewhere else outside school, then pretty soon you just start dating. Then when you break up, it becomes one of those classes that you only go to once a month.

4N6 science
05/07/09, 12:51 PM
i'll try and have fun. i'll murder kids in heelies. i hate them!

I know you do. Just place obstacles around the store.

Whowolf
05/07/09, 01:19 PM
Well, if that's what you're worried about, then you'll be fine. The only way college is like high school is the classes. There's still homework, some shitty teachers, some cool teachers. The plus side is, when you wake up and don't wanna go, you don't have to go, but that's not a good habit to get into, trust me on that one, you'll go to class once a month, and then when it comes time to take a test, you won't know what the hell you're doing. I still have an occasional nightmare that my college calls me up and says, "Hi, we did a random audit on your college education and found that you skipped too many classes so we're revoking your diploma" It scares the shit outta me.

There's no cliques, there'll still be bitchy girls, and girls checking you out in class, giving you the eye, and you might take a pass at them and they'll say "No thanks" and you'll wonder "What in the hell was she looking at me like that for then??" But, seriously the best way to do it, is make a homework buddy, meet up before class, go over stuff, then meet up somewhere else outside school, then pretty soon you just start dating. Then when you break up, it becomes one of those classes that you only go to once a month.

thanks man , i get what your saying , I'll look for that homework buddy.

jtyexists9
05/07/09, 01:21 PM
Well look at the bright side, you didn't get her pregnant

Whowolf
05/07/09, 01:41 PM
Well look at the bright side, you didn't get her pregnant

ha ha yeah that was my number 1 rule of high school , no pregnancy.

jtyexists9
05/07/09, 01:44 PM
ha ha yeah that was my number 1 rule of high school , no pregnancy.

Unless she was extremely rich and good looking then I am all for it. haha just kidding.

Tyler Revolution
05/07/09, 02:46 PM
It was honestly. I felt like I was in a high school hell.

I went at 20, with my ex. I felt completely out of place the entire time, so I feel you.

Metal Now
05/07/09, 02:50 PM
My mommy tells me to stay away from girls.

Haha this.

Girls are such a drag.

patpratt
05/07/09, 02:51 PM
so Saturday was my prom. I ended up going with this girl from my church youth group , she looked great and yeah I was interested. so we're dancing and having a good time and I had gone with her and also two other friends. anyways long story short here's what happened.

I brought her outside and told her I had a great time and she was really cool and I was wondering if she'd want to go on a 2nd date?

she replied: Eric , I'm kinda seeing someone I just wanted someone to go to prom with.

so yeah in my mind it was this , first of all she never mentioned she had a boyfriend , second , her boyfriend was working on prom night , so basically she used me to get out of work to go to prom , but alas I had a good time so no harm , no foul. but I am frustrated , I mean I got used by a girl I was interested in.

no fun

AndrewIcex
05/07/09, 07:38 PM
Girls tend to do these things on purpose, its not you probably, she's just a bitch.

Whowolf
05/07/09, 07:50 PM
I am so looking forward to college, I'm just gonna go for anything that comes my way, but I AM NOT DESPERATE.

Whowolf
05/07/09, 07:50 PM
double post fail

thesafeword
05/07/09, 09:14 PM
That was real Christian like.

Gumbyjag
05/09/09, 02:00 AM
bitch. but you'll be alright.

RecklessXRandy
05/11/09, 06:46 PM
Haha this.

Girls are such a drag.

So true.

xxCarpeDiem
05/13/09, 07:20 AM
See, I think that may be something you'd want to find out before asking her. MAYBE she even assumed you knew. Communication is super important. Always.

AlkalineAshes
05/13/09, 08:22 AM
Prom blows, find a cheaper way to get laid or a gf

piglet
05/13/09, 08:28 AM
You probably deserved it for being a limp dicked bitch.