How many great loves?

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Insipired by the in love post...

How many great loves do you get in a lifetime?

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anyways, I say 2...I think if youve truely had 2 great loves...one of those has to be the ONE

[nobodysmonkey]

I said it in the other one, but I think you get one. The love of your life. And I'm very happy to have found mine.

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I said it in the other one, but I think you get one. The love of your life. And I'm very happy to have found mine.
ahhhh meeee too :) its a nice feeling hey

[Mercy Medical]

Hmm, I don't really know...but I know what I've had.

[btbam > you]

good question

[nobodysmonkey]

ahhhh meeee too :) its a nice feeling hey
Yep, its totally the best.

[btbam > you]

Yep, its totally the best.



^ jealous

[ClapClapSnap]

yupp and i'm sticking with one...and i'm thinking i haven't found him yet...

[DroppedUrPocket]

25

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^ jealous
i said 2..just cuse I know I was definatly in love with my ex...and I know he was in love with me...I think we just were at 2 different stages in our life..and it just didnt work out...i may have hated him when we broke up..but honestly..he taught me a lot of things about love...things that help me with my guy now..so I think if it werent for him, I wouldn't have found the awesome guy Im with, and hope to god stay with for the rest of my life....

[Greg]

i have no freaking clue at all

[swirlofhues]

There's only one. I believe in fairytales and all that jazz. Soulmates, maybe, I guess you can call it that. I just don't have a way of telling it to people because the idea is so illogical, to think you can only be IN love once. Virtually, you can find anyone you could love for the rest of your life (spend the rest of your life with) at any location you're at and at any stage you're at. That just means there's a lot of potential.

But, to me, everything else is just very close to being in love. There's a lot of different degrees. There's no doubt that it's love, definitely. But there's only one that will change you in the best possible way ever. And you will just know it. There's one that makes you amazed at how much you could love a person.


OK, I'm done being sappy. That's what I think. There's only one.

[DroppedUrPocket]

I don't think there's one because if that was the case, I'd be fucked because I'm a lazy sonofabitch.

[punkrockcasual]

I said 10 +.. for an exact, I'd say 18.

[DroppedUrPocket]

for an exact, I'd say 18.
One for every inch of my penis.

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One for every inch of my penis.
hahahah

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hahahah
oh...sorry was I not supposed to laugh at that....ekk

[DroppedUrPocket]

:p

[btbam > you]

i said 2..just cuse I know I was definatly in love with my ex...and I know he was in love with me...I think we just were at 2 different stages in our life..and it just didnt work out...i may have hated him when we broke up..but honestly..he taught me a lot of things about love...things that help me with my guy now..so I think if it werent for him, I wouldn't have found the awesome guy Im with, and hope to god stay with for the rest of my life....


i'm pretty sure i've been in love twice, but once i find "the one", i don't know if i'll consider what i had with the others to be love.

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i'm pretty sure i've been in love twice, but once i find "the one", i don't know if i'll consider what i had with the others to be love.
thats true...i know i was in love with my ex, im no longer..but there was a long period of time..that I definatly was in love with him. I know ive had boyfriends before him I thought I was in love with, and looking back, i thank god I didnt say I did love him, cuse it was just lust..or some bs like that

[btbam > you]

thats true...i know i was in love with my ex, im no longer..but there was a long period of time..that I definatly was in love with him. I know ive had boyfriends before him I thought I was in love with, and looking back, i thank god I didnt say I did love him, cuse it was just lust..or some bs like that


love is the hardest thing to understand.

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love is the hardest thing to understand.
pretty much yup

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other than life itself..love is definatly up there in the hard to understand category

[Coronary Parasite]

hopefully at least for me, more than one.

i was in love with my ex, deeply, and could have been happy for the rest of my life. but i hope that i find someone better who i can love more.

the lucky ones though, only need one person. i thought i was one of the lucky ones...

[nobodysmonkey]

^ jealous
Awwws, you'll find someone.

And I think you can be in love more than once, but everyone has the one they're meant for. And I honestly don't think too many people find their match. And though you can be happy in life without finding them, if you find them, its amazing.

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Awwws, you'll find someone.

And I think you can be in love more than once, but everyone has the one they're meant for. And I honestly don't think too many people find their match. And though you can be happy in life without finding them, if you find them, its amazing.
i agree 100%

[Jerm]

i said 2 because i believe everyone deserves atleast one and if your extremly lucky you can have a second.

[halifaxsb86]

one

[theMATEOlife]

2 if you're lucky.

[allelish]

However many bitches i see struttin' on da curb.

[save_me]

zack, and i am still in love with him

[sleepygrlgreen]

two loves. you learn from at least one of them.

[richter915]

I've had at least 15

great lovers anway.

[punkrockcasual]

I'm the only that voted 10+.

[roxy]

two loves. you learn from at least one of them.
i agree with this. you can be in love with someone and it might just not work out because of certain situations in life but you learn a whole lot from that person. You move on and find a love that you can stay with.
if that even makes any sense

[timmeh1989]

Insipired by the in love post...

How many great loves do you get in a lifetime?

What would you class as a great love...? A relationship that you have been in for a period of time of what???

[CROMagnon]

"You gotta do what your heart tells you to do. Let me tell you somethin' right now. You're only allowed three great women in your lifetime. They come along like the great fighters, every ten years. Rocky Marciano. Sugar Ray Robinson. Joe Louis. Sometimes you get 'em all at once. Me? I had my three when I was 16. That happens. What are you gonna do? That's the way it goes, you know? Tell you right now. See this girl? Maybe this girl, she put wind in your sails. Maybe she's your first great one."

please somebody tell me you know where that's from

[timmeh1989]

is it from a film...? or a book? i have a feeling its form some sort of shakespeare thing....

[Rebs]

I personally think that you have 2, your first, and "the one"

[Mercy Medical]

i have no freaking clue at all
Ditto to that one. I figure you get as many that come along.

[timmeh1989]

Ditto to that one. I figure you get as many that come along.

thats actually a good point, to the point where u just think, "hey im single, im bored, i like her, she likes me, im gna date her" or summat along those lines, then the numbers start to add up...

[lucky_krystle]

I personally think that you have 2, your first, and "the one"

i voted one... but that does make sense. i have been in love 3 times, but that doesnt mean that they were great loves.

[ClapClapSnap]

"You gotta do what your heart tells you to do. Let me tell you somethin' right now. You're only allowed three great women in your lifetime. They come along like the great fighters, every ten years. Rocky Marciano. Sugar Ray Robinson. Joe Louis. Sometimes you get 'em all at once. Me? I had my three when I was 16. That happens. What are you gonna do? That's the way it goes, you know? Tell you right now. See this girl? Maybe this girl, she put wind in your sails. Maybe she's your first great one."

please somebody tell me you know where that's from

hey hey....shit i know that movie! it's the one where the kid's dad is a bus driver, and he likes the black girl...and boss guy teaches him about how to let the girl into the car first and see if she reaches across to unlock the door...

i really never remember the name of this movie though...

[DroppedUrPocket]

If you're a pimp, like myself, you don't have any.
8)

[WakingTheMisery]

i said one. you can love more than one but someone always gets fucked over.

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What would you class as a great love...? A relationship that you have been in for a period of time of what???
its more your personal opinion...whatever you want to classify as a "great love"...everyone considers a great love differently..kinda why Im asking :)

[x_Thrice_x]

I'm going to say one. I've loved girls before, but not like the girl I'm in love with now. Let's hope it's like this forever.

[Fullcollapse3k]

I've had two, and neither of those worked out in the long run.

So hopefully more than two.

[underthetalking]

I said it in the other one, but I think you get one. The love of your life.

What if you marry someone, they die, and say a couple years later you meet someone else and eventually marry him/her?

[CROMagnon]

hey hey....shit i know that movie! it's the one where the kid's dad is a bus driver, and he likes the black girl...and boss guy teaches him about how to let the girl into the car first and see if she reaches across to unlock the door...

i really never remember the name of this movie though...
well, i'll be nice since you synopsized the hell out of it

it's a bronx tale

now, everyone go watch it, it's got deniro

[Shoes]

I reckon 4. Say we assume that one of those 4 is the one, and the person you'll spend the rest of your life with. I don't think the heart can really withstand more than 3 big let-downs in their life without putting up big walls and becoming an emotional recluse. So 4

[nobodysmonkey]

What if you marry someone, they die, and say a couple years later you meet someone else and eventually marry him/her?
I think you can love and be in love with more than one person. But you get one special love. One person who totally gets you, and is your true soulmate. One that no one else can compare to, and no one else really understands.

[splitsecond]

There should be an option for zero.

[CrayonHeart]

I say one, because if it really is that great why would it end?

[Lueda Alia]

only one. and it's the one I have now.

[Spicoli hey bud]

only one. and it's the one I have now.
aw. isn't that cute.

[cuetheflames]

3 sounds okay.

[sleepygrlgreen]

love sucks.

[blackemostar]

i say one.

when someone says to you, 'no one will ever love you the way i love you' and really means it... it's over for you.

and yes, love sucks giant donkey balls.

[Jentheoptimist]

Two according to 'A Bronx Tale'

[x_Thrice_x]

0. Love sucks. I hate my girlfriend.

[shes soo lovely]

two according to sex and the city!
and as far as myself and people i know id say two as well.
you have your first real love.
and then theres the ONE.

[shes soo lovely]

actually....when you start thinking about it. what clasifies as great love? i dont have any kids but people always say no love is unconditional except for the love you have for your own children. where love of a spouse/bf/gf/lover/etc. ...even in marriage isnt always forever.

[CROMagnon]

Two according to 'A Bronx Tale'
i quoted that movie before, and it's 3

[Jentheoptimist]

i quoted that movie before, and it's 3
I'm sorry, I'm too lazy to read what other people have said. Though I thought a mother doesn't count thus making it two? Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Again sorry, next time I'll site you.

[sleepygrlgreen]

I'm sorry, I'm too lazy to read what other people have said. Though I thought a mother doesn't count thus making it two? Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Again sorry, next time I'll site you.don't apologize! fuck that shit, yo.

[CROMagnon]

I'm sorry, I'm too lazy to read what other people have said. Though I thought a mother doesn't count thus making it two? Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. Again sorry, next time I'll site you.
in the movie he doesn't talk about the mother, sonny only says "three great ones"

it's cool, everyone makes mistakes, i'm just amazed other people know this movie

[Jentheoptimist]

in the movie he doesn't talk about the mother, sonny only says "three great ones"

it's cool, everyone makes mistakes, i'm just amazed other people know this movie Oh I could of sworn he said something about "your mothers loves" maybe that was blood in blood out. Anyway...yeah I know the move, I have been given the test by two different boys who thought they were slick. Haha not the blow job one the unlocking the door.

[Jentheoptimist]

don't apologize! fuck that shit, yo.
Fo Sho!