View Full Version : I fall in love too easily
Whowolf
05/15/09, 11:37 AM
It's kinda what hinders me , if I like a girl and i get to know her and we get along and she has that special something , I instantly fall for her , this has led to many personal heartbreaks resulting from her just wanted to be friends , this has happened numerous times. I guess I blame myself for thinking their is something between us. I am going to start pursuing women again in college, hopefully if some are still single , it will better my chances , then again right about now I would not mine hooking up with someone at a party. I just hope i have a girlfriend before I'm 30.
It's kinda what hinders me , if I like a girl and i get to know her and we get along and she has that special something , I instantly fall for her , this has led to many personal heartbreaks resulting from her just wanted to be friends , this has happened numerous times. I guess I blame myself for thinking their is something between us. I am going to start pursuing women again in college, hopefully if some are still single , it will better my chances , then again right about now I would not mine hooking up with someone at a party. I just hope i have a girlfriend before I'm 30.
There won't be any.
FemaleCuckold
05/15/09, 12:34 PM
Read some feminist philosophy and it will make it harder to love ...them.
MarsEatWorld
05/15/09, 12:40 PM
Or you could learn a a female's philosophy and fall in love..with her.
MarsEatWorld
05/15/09, 12:40 PM
and... Pursuing women? who are you?
makeshiftmind
05/15/09, 12:45 PM
Perhaps the answer lies with the question...is your mind blown, because it think it will be the only thing getting blown haha
/but seriously, maybe it's your definition of 'love'
Kassie09
05/15/09, 12:47 PM
Perhaps it's lust not love? If you fall in love with people like that, goddamn.
trappedintime
05/15/09, 12:58 PM
I think you just want/need someone there. Just wait for love to come to you. As cheesy as that sounds, it's the truth. There's still plenty of time.
RecklessXRandy
05/15/09, 01:22 PM
Cheesy
TotalCollapse
05/15/09, 01:26 PM
:yawn:
TheZeroKid
05/15/09, 01:50 PM
Anal works. Just go up to a girl you think is cute and let her have it, works like magic.
Animalhill
05/15/09, 02:00 PM
Read some feminist philosophy and it will make it harder to love ...them.
hahahaha so true. They're fucking CRAZY. Every single one.
Jake Denning
05/15/09, 02:46 PM
Perhaps it's lust not love? If you fall in love with people like that, goddamn.
Maybe he just knows alot of hot witches who can cast love spells
http://www.houseofchatter.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/04/emma.jpg
zion the lion
05/15/09, 02:55 PM
I'm going to assume that by "love" you mean "want to receive a blow job from" and tell you that even the most of the uggos have a girlfriend/boyfriend/love interest by the time theyre 30.
ok thats kind of a lie because I know plenty of women who are in their late 40's and are still virgins because theyre waiting for the right one or whatever
Whowolf
05/15/09, 02:55 PM
I think you just want/need someone there. Just wait for love to come to you. As cheesy as that sounds, it's the truth. There's still plenty of time.
I always have to make the first move , it never worked out the other way , never has a girl pursued me , and in our society the male makes the first move. well most of the time.
Whowolf
05/15/09, 02:56 PM
Perhaps it's lust not love? If you fall in love with people like that, goddamn.
possibly , I have lusted before. I guess i just over analyze everything.
LaDiabla
05/15/09, 02:58 PM
Gs up, Hoes down.
hmm, not sure if I'm right but I think you didn't have a gf so far and REALLY want one. I know, it sucks. you are so desperate, that you go like a bull at a gate everytime you're meeting/dating a girl. Not hard to guess, you fail everytime coz for them "everthing happens too fast".
Alright if you're not stupid now, you'll know that this pretty much is my story (as well). As for me, it turned out quite alright. When i went to university I was looking forward meeting as many people as possible. And there also was this girl who was very nice but a little older than me and a little plump. I couldn't even imagine getting together with her. but somehow I fell in love with her and we got together at a party. it appears pretty weird to me, when I think back, wow.
Anyway, the clue was, I came together with someone I least suspected. that kinda saved me.
so I gotta tell you, believe in your self and stop treating women like you really need it. Just let it happen. be cool, man.
hope that helped somehow, gl
hmm, not sure if I'm right but I think you didn't have a gf so far and REALLY want one. I know, it sucks. you are so desperate, that you go like a bull at a gate everytime you're meeting/dating a girl. Not hard to guess, you fail everytime coz for them "everthing happens too fast".
Alright if you're not stupid now, you'll know that this pretty much is my story (as well). As for me, it turned out quite alright. When i went to university I was looking forward meeting as many people as possible. And there also was this girl who was very nice but a little older than me and a little plump. I couldn't even imagine getting together with her. but somehow I fell in love with her and we got together at a party. it appears pretty weird to me, when I think back, wow.
Anyway, the clue was, I came together with someone I least suspected. that kinda saved me.
so I gotta tell you, believe in your self and stop treating women like you really need it. Just let it happen. be cool, man.
hope that helped somehow, gl
This.
Is good advice.
jagermeister
05/15/09, 06:20 PM
It's kinda what hinders me , if I like a girl and i get to know her and we get along and she has that special something , I instantly fall for her , this has led to many personal heartbreaks resulting from her just wanted to be friends , this has happened numerous times. I guess I blame myself for thinking their is something between us. I am going to start pursuing women again in college, hopefully if some are still single , it will better my chances , then again right about now I would not mine hooking up with someone at a party. I just hope i have a girlfriend before I'm 30.
LOL. This isn't love.
inyoursea
05/15/09, 07:44 PM
easy come easy go
Guillotine
05/15/09, 07:44 PM
And what's Fonzie like?
be cool, man.
speakhandsforme
05/15/09, 07:54 PM
It's so stupid that society, culture, etc put so much emphasis on "love" as if its even a tangible thing: it is not. It is a romanticized idea with no actual means of definition. It's an intensified version of "like" and is defined differently by every person since it is not actually an existent object. You aren't "falling in love" you're beginning to enjoy someone's company (or perhaps even the idea of their company) and then your own personal traits (emotional capability, hormones, neediness, desperation) redefine the simple concept, turning it into some kind of object able to be analyzed.
There is no triggered instance or point of cued music that actually turns liking someone into loving someone-- it's all the same thing, just with added nuances.
Sound advise: be yourself, take what comes, get fucked, get fucked, fuck someone.
lovely864md
05/15/09, 07:58 PM
It's so stupid that society, culture, etc put so much emphasis on "love" as if its even a tangible thing: it is not. It is a romanticized idea with no actual means of definition. It's an intensified version of "like" and is defined differently by every person since it is not actually an existent object. You aren't "falling in love" you're beginning to enjoy someone's company (or perhaps even the idea of their company) and then your own personal traits (emotional capability, hormones, neediness, desperation) redefine the simple concept, turning it into some kind of object able to be analyzed.
There is no triggered instance or point of cued music that actually turns liking someone into loving someone-- it's all the same thing, just with added nuances.
Sound advise: be yourself, take what comes, get fucked, get fucked, fuck someone.
Best post of the whole thread.
shit stroll
05/15/09, 08:13 PM
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Whowolf
05/15/09, 08:22 PM
hmm, not sure if I'm right but I think you didn't have a gf so far and REALLY want one. I know, it sucks. you are so desperate, that you go like a bull at a gate everytime you're meeting/dating a girl. Not hard to guess, you fail everytime coz for them "everthing happens too fast".
Alright if you're not stupid now, you'll know that this pretty much is my story (as well). As for me, it turned out quite alright. When i went to university I was looking forward meeting as many people as possible. And there also was this girl who was very nice but a little older than me and a little plump. I couldn't even imagine getting together with her. but somehow I fell in love with her and we got together at a party. it appears pretty weird to me, when I think back, wow.
Anyway, the clue was, I came together with someone I least suspected. that kinda saved me.
so I gotta tell you, believe in your self and stop treating women like you really need it. Just let it happen. be cool, man.
hope that helped somehow, gl
thanks , good advice.
It's so stupid that society, culture, etc put so much emphasis on "love" as if its even a tangible thing: it is not. It is a romanticized idea with no actual means of definition. It's an intensified version of "like" and is defined differently by every person since it is not actually an existent object. You aren't "falling in love" you're beginning to enjoy someone's company (or perhaps even the idea of their company) and then your own personal traits (emotional capability, hormones, neediness, desperation) redefine the simple concept, turning it into some kind of object able to be analyzed.
There is no triggered instance or point of cued music that actually turns liking someone into loving someone-- it's all the same thing, just with added nuances.
Sound advise: be yourself, take what comes, get fucked, get fucked, fuck someone.
so basically party it up and get lucky?
Most girls expect the guy to make the first move. Show them your disinterest, even if it's disingenuous. If they like you, they'll have to step it up to get your attention.
If your looking for a relationship, than take it slow. Resist the urge to dry hump every girl that gives you a number.
Whowolf
05/15/09, 08:43 PM
Most girls expect the guy to make the first move. Show them your disinterest, even if it's disingenuous. If they like you, they'll have to step it up to get your attention.
If your looking for a relationship, than take it slow. Resist the urge to dry hump every girl that gives you a number.
lol dry hump , yeah I get what you mean. I could use some more numbers though.
zion the lion
05/15/09, 09:54 PM
Most girls expect the guy to make the first move. Show them your disinterest, even if it's disingenuous. If they like you, they'll have to step it up to get your attention.
If your looking for a relationship, than take it slow. Resist the urge to dry hump every girl that gives you a number.
No no no no no. No no. No no no. No not at all. If a guy doesnt show interest, I move on, I wouldnt waste my time on someone who doesnt seem to want me, thats not only ridiculous but seemingly desperate. I know plenty of girls who feel the exact same way I do when it comes to that.
No no no no no. No no. No no no. No not at all. If a guy doesnt show interest, I move on, I wouldnt waste my time on someone who doesnt seem to want me, thats not only ridiculous but seemingly desperate. I know plenty of girls who feel the exact same way I do when it comes to that.
It's ridiculous and desperate to play hard to get as opposed to smothering the girl?
lonelysuperstar
05/16/09, 12:42 AM
Makes me think of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - "why do I fall in love with every girl who pays me the slightest bit of attention?"
Whowolf
05/16/09, 07:37 AM
No no no no no. No no. No no no. No not at all. If a guy doesnt show interest, I move on, I wouldnt waste my time on someone who doesnt seem to want me, thats not only ridiculous but seemingly desperate. I know plenty of girls who feel the exact same way I do when it comes to that.
I agree with her.
Whowolf
05/16/09, 07:37 AM
Makes me think of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind - "why do I fall in love with every girl who pays me the slightest bit of attention?"
I need to see that movie
yeah. i know the feeling, i'm a sucker for any girl who shows me any small bit of attention. here are a few things, though:
don't expect things to suddenly change once you go to college. i felt the same way when i left high school, only to realize...it's the same shit. if you have an attention deficit and you find it hard to meet girls, well it'll stay that way. it's something YOU need to work on. sure, there will be more slutty girls than you're used to, but...
second thing, watch your back, stay smart about things. i know that you're ready to get involved with any girl that would be down, but this isn't necessarily a good thing. my second week of school i got involved with this slutty bitch and invested a little too much into her. not smart. if a girl will fuck you after knowing you for 6 hours, she's probably not somebody to bring home to mom and dad. ultimately you don't want to end up with an awful person just because you want to be with ANY person. you shouldn't have to make that compromise.
i think the main thing you've got to realize and remember is that all girls, no matter how good of a façade they put on, are crazy, crazy bitches. it's not something you or i can change, it's a matter of science and genetics. it's all about finding a girl who knows this too, and doesn't act a god damn fool when she feels upset. there are girls who deal with their problems via random sexual encounters. there are girls who deal with it via retarded facebook status updates. there are girls that deal with it via alcohol and drugs. and luckily, there are girls who can deal with it constructively. ones who can talk it out, let you really know what's up, and won't damage your self esteem. find one of these girls. you will thank me in the long run.
Whowolf
05/16/09, 11:46 AM
yeah. i know the feeling, i'm a sucker for any girl who shows me any small bit of attention. here are a few things, though:
don't expect things to suddenly change once you go to college. i felt the same way when i left high school, only to realize...it's the same shit. if you have an attention deficit and you find it hard to meet girls, well it'll stay that way. it's something YOU need to work on. sure, there will be more slutty girls than you're used to, but...
second thing, watch your back, stay smart about things. i know that you're ready to get involved with any girl that would be down, but this isn't necessarily a good thing. my second week of school i got involved with this slutty bitch and invested a little too much into her. not smart. if a girl will fuck you after knowing you for 6 hours, she's probably not somebody to bring home to mom and dad. ultimately you don't want to end up with an awful person just because you want to be with ANY person. you shouldn't have to make that compromise.
i think the main thing you've got to realize and remember is that all girls, no matter how good of a façade they put on, are crazy, crazy bitches. it's not something you or i can change, it's a matter of science and genetics. it's all about finding a girl who knows this too, and doesn't act a god damn fool when she feels upset. there are girls who deal with their problems via random sexual encounters, there are girls who deal with it via retarded facebook status updates, and luckily, there are girls who can actually just talk about it. find one of them.
thanks man , glad to know I'm not the only one with this problem.
lonelysuperstar
05/16/09, 09:35 PM
I need to see that movie
you won't regret it. it's an incredible film.
try not looking like such a loser. you look pretty skinny, get some levis 511's, and some pacsun vnecks and youll get all the bitches.
Whowolf
05/16/09, 10:35 PM
try not looking like such a loser. you look pretty skinny, get some levis 511's, and some pacsun vnecks and youll get all the bitches.
ok cool , I could use a wardrobe change.
ok cool , I could use a wardrobe change. just get everything from these two sites:
http://www.allinmerch.com/
http://www.glamourkills.com/browse/genre1065/Guys/subgenre1199/TShirts/
zion the lion
05/16/09, 10:42 PM
just get everything from these two sites:
http://www.allinmerch.com/
http://www.glamourkills.com/browse/genre1065/Guys/subgenre1199/TShirts/
zomg thats where I get all my clothes too!
that goes without saying...jk
AndrewIcex
05/18/09, 09:23 AM
yeah. i know the feeling, i'm a sucker for any girl who shows me any small bit of attention. here are a few things, though:
don't expect things to suddenly change once you go to college. i felt the same way when i left high school, only to realize...it's the same shit. if you have an attention deficit and you find it hard to meet girls, well it'll stay that way. it's something YOU need to work on. sure, there will be more slutty girls than you're used to, but...
second thing, watch your back, stay smart about things. i know that you're ready to get involved with any girl that would be down, but this isn't necessarily a good thing. my second week of school i got involved with this slutty bitch and invested a little too much into her. not smart. if a girl will fuck you after knowing you for 6 hours, she's probably not somebody to bring home to mom and dad. ultimately you don't want to end up with an awful person just because you want to be with ANY person. you shouldn't have to make that compromise.
i think the main thing you've got to realize and remember is that all girls, no matter how good of a façade they put on, are crazy, crazy bitches. it's not something you or i can change, it's a matter of science and genetics. it's all about finding a girl who knows this too, and doesn't act a god damn fool when she feels upset. there are girls who deal with their problems via random sexual encounters. there are girls who deal with it via retarded facebook status updates. there are girls that deal with it via alcohol and drugs. and luckily, there are girls who can deal with it constructively. ones who can talk it out, let you really know what's up, and won't damage your self esteem. find one of these girls. you will thank me in the long run.
You... are a badass, great avice, very well put.
ok cool , I could use a wardrobe change.
This... can easily be fixed sir.
just get everything from these two sites:
http://www.allinmerch.com/
http://www.glamourkills.com/browse/genre1065/Guys/subgenre1199/TShirts/
You can also go to somewhere like Target, they always have great clothes for inexpensive, especially if you wanna look trendy or edgy, which seems to be the "lady catching" clothing these days. Get cheap v-necks you can get them at wal-mart too. And good jeans, and some sweet shoes (shop online for them, easier to find there), if you get all these things...
THEN, show some good ol' confidence while walking on campus, and girls WILL look at you... wear some shades on a sunny day too, some good honest aves (Aviators), and you will be good to get the girls.
If you want different clothes that are still trendy, go to like goodwill or platos closet or any other store that sells used clothing, that helps a lot too.
Just show confidence too, girls seem very attracted to it, almost like magnets really, they swarm to the confident dude, but once you got their attention, show them the personality, then all will be good.
Hope it helps!
jonny4star
05/18/09, 09:44 AM
Most girls expect the guy to make the first move. Show them your disinterest, even if it's disingenuous. If they like you, they'll have to step it up to get your attention.
If your looking for a relationship, than take it slow. Resist the urge to dry hump every girl that gives you a number.
naw, you gotta flirt, then be disinterested. that way they think they did something wrong and it takes over their mind. then they make a move.
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