Crazy Mean Girl

[apsterling]

I need some reassurance that I'm doing the right thing here.

I met this girl in Freshman year, we'll call her Lauren, through marching band, and we got to hang out a lot. I sort of grew to like her a lot so the beginning of Sophomore year I asked her out, to the most bizarre response I could expect from the first person I asked out- she avoided me and the entire prospect of me. We somehow got through that and repaired the friendship albeit she was always nervous that "i'd like her". Toward the middle of Sophomore year I started hanging out with this different girl, we'll call her Ash- and nearly started a relationship (which would have been great if I had actually started it but alas, no good came of it), so ultimately I spent less and less time with Lauren, until finally I spent almost no time with her, around the beginning of this year, my junior year. So I asked Ash to homecoming (after Lauren pushed me into it, albeit it was my idea anyway) and got my yes. However it didn't last and five days later, Lauren told me "well, what did you expect", and we got into a small argument and for whatever reason didn't talk until January. In January we had another argument about why she was mad and wouldn't talk about why she wouldn't even talk to me, and ultimately I just sort of left it. About a month and a half ago Ash started dating her ex again, and I couldn't bear to hang around with them, so I started hanging out with Lauren and her friends (one who, conveniently, transfered into my chemistry class around the same time). About a week ago Lauren decided that I'm suddenly a "stalker" for hanging out with the friend from chemistry- and apparently tried to call the cops on me, albeit unwarrantedly (the same friend stopped her). Then ever since she's continually changed where she sits at lunch which effectively forces me to either sit alone, or go hang out with Ash and her boyfriend. So I decided to just stop trying to keep talking to her and go hang out with Ash, despite my misgivings on her and her ex-not-ex-anymore-boyfriend.

Is it okay that I've given up here and just decided to be there for the flirtfest with Ash- or should I be telling Lauren to stick it up her ass, and that I'm gonna hang out with my friend regardless? The other thing is, it's about 4 days of school left.

[anamericangod]

Hit The Lights - Drop The Girl

[apsterling]

Hit The Lights - Drop The Girl

No, I know that. Neither one is realistically worth my time at this point, (though Ash is closer to being worth my time if she'd quit spooning) to be quite honest, but the fact of the matter is I need something to do for 40 minutes at lunch every day, and I don't do too well on my own. I'm just wondering if I made the decision or if I should be sticking for the integrity of not backing down, regardless of the possibility of needless legal/her parental/school involvement in personal matters- or if backing down is right.

[anamericangod]

I can't wrap my head around this right now.

[apsterling]

I can't wrap my head around this right now.

To tell the truth, neither can I- that's why I came here. X-)

[more heart]

Fuck 'em both.

Edit: Not actually of course...wait a minute, ANAL!

[zion the lion]

Leave Lauren alone for the rest of the school year and let her cool off during the summer, by the begining of the next school year she'll be fine and you two will be friendsies again...and get a girlfriend so that she doesnt think youre obsessed with her.

[apsterling]

Leave Lauren alone for the rest of the school year and let her cool off during the summer, by the begining of the next school year she'll be fine and you two will be friendsies again...and get a girlfriend so that she doesnt think youre obsessed with her.

I've been working on the getting a girlfriend part but that involves actually being seemingly attractive to someone. Go figure. That's my problem to fix though.

[zion the lion]

I've been working on the getting a girlfriend part but that involves actually being seemingly attractive to someone. Go figure. That's my problem to fix though.

Fake it. Thats what I did. I dont feel like I'm pretty at all but I got 4 boyfriends who all said I was a 9 or a 10 (probably just because they wanted me to make them happy with my mouth but it still counts). Besides, I know some pretty ugly people who snag some hot boyfriends or girlfriends all the time...so theres someone who's gonna find you attractive no matter what.

[speakhandsforme]

Two simple words: counter strike. You wait Lauren out, she'll bite, you blow her off or burn her every time. Act similarly to the other girl but counter with good nature. Sometimes you just have to be confident in your own draw even if it borders on being an arrogant prick.

And don't worry about the "seemingly attractive" thing. How you carry yourself is infinitely more important.

[chris1152]

Call Lauren out for being a bitch.

[Guillotine]

I need some reassurance that I'm doing the right thing here.

I met this girl in Freshman year, we'll call her Lauren, through marching band, and we got to hang out a lot. I sort of grew to like her a lot so the beginning of Sophomore year I asked her out, to the most bizarre response I could expect from the first person I asked out- she avoided me and the entire prospect of me. We somehow got through that and repaired the friendship albeit she was always nervous that "i'd like her". Toward the middle of Sophomore year I started hanging out with this different girl, we'll call her Ash- and nearly started a relationship (which would have been great if I had actually started it but alas, no good came of it), so ultimately I spent less and less time with Lauren, until finally I spent almost no time with her, around the beginning of this year, my junior year. So I asked Ash to homecoming (after Lauren pushed me into it, albeit it was my idea anyway) and got my yes. However it didn't last and five days later, Lauren told me "well, what did you expect", and we got into a small argument and for whatever reason didn't talk until January. In January we had another argument about why she was mad and wouldn't talk about why she wouldn't even talk to me, and ultimately I just sort of left it. About a month and a half ago Ash started dating her ex again, and I couldn't bear to hang around with them, so I started hanging out with Lauren and her friends (one who, conveniently, transfered into my chemistry class around the same time). About a week ago Lauren decided that I'm suddenly a "stalker" for hanging out with the friend from chemistry- and apparently tried to call the cops on me, albeit unwarrantedly (the same friend stopped her). Then ever since she's continually changed where she sits at lunch which effectively forces me to either sit alone, or go hang out with Ash and her boyfriend. So I decided to just stop trying to keep talking to her and go hang out with Ash, despite my misgivings on her and her ex-not-ex-anymore-boyfriend.

Is it okay that I've given up here and just decided to be there for the flirtfest with Ash- or should I be telling Lauren to stick it up her ass, and that I'm gonna hang out with my friend regardless? The other thing is, it's about 4 days of school left.
I have a few rules in life. One is that I don't hang out with anyone attempting to call the cops on me.

You should spend the last 4 days of school finding new friends. Seriously.

[Kassie09]

Lauren sounds like she needs to be punched in the head a few times. I'd probably just tell her to go fuck herself and that I'll be friends with whoever I want. Thank God for you that there is only four days of school left though..I would..never sit alone at lunch that must kinda suck.

[apsterling]

I have a few rules in life. One is that I don't hang out with anyone attempting to call the cops on me.

You should spend the last 4 days of school finding new friends. Seriously.

This is something i'm keeping in mind. The mutual friend refuses to stand up for either us so I really don't want to pressure her cause she's just stuck in the middle. I have a hard time making new friend. It's odd- if they're the right kind of person it just happens but otherwise it won't. And it certainly won't in 4 days time.

[apsterling]

Call Lauren out for being a bitch.

Already done and part of why I am where I am with this.

[apsterling]

Lauren sounds like she needs to be punched in the head a few times. I'd probably just tell her to go fuck herself and that I'll be friends with whoever I want. Thank God for you that there is only four days of school left though..I would..never sit alone at lunch that must kinda suck.

I effectively have but as long as she keeps making threats I'll keep my head out of trouble, which unfortunately means backing off even from that friend. And yeah sitting alone does suck- but I'll wait it out for 4 days if necessary.

[lonelysuperstar]

So, let me get this straight - you only have 2 possible people you could hang out with at lunch? you don't have other friends?

Also, has a threesome been suggested? This is clearly the best course of acton for all concerned.

[Hamlet]

So, let me get this straight - you only have 2 possible people you could hang out with at lunch? you don't have other friends?

Also, has a threesome been suggested? This is clearly the best course of acton for all concerned.

This. Also, hi to another New Zealand up in here.

Anyway. I haven't read anything, but it sounds like she's a bitch. So then I can skip to:

Love the people who treat you right. Forget about the ones who don't. End of story.

[shoemile]

Man up and get some friends who are dudes.

I mean, it's great to be friends with girls, no doubt. But if that's all you have, you really have to re-evaluate your high school experience.

[fadedmemories]

Threesome. Obviously.

[Jake Denning]

Hit The Lights - Drop The Girl

100% answer to most of PL's girl problems.

[MarsEatWorld]

Sounds like a job for the drama llama.

[Kozzy333]

You only have 4 more days of school?

[TotalCollapse]

Find some new friends.

[RecklessXRandy]

New friends is a good idea.

[stayforawhile]

I read this and I am completely lost.

[apsterling]

Man up and get some friends who are dudes.

I mean, it's great to be friends with girls, no doubt. But if that's all you have, you really have to re-evaluate your high school experience.

I have dude friends, but for the most part they're dumbasses. I also don't want to overdo hanging out with my band.

[samsara]

Yeah this sounds like a MTV show in the making.

[thesafeword]

I would, albeit, get new friends. It's all going to be albeit.

[Roboman]

About a week ago Lauren decided that I'm suddenly a "stalker" for hanging out with the friend from chemistry- and apparently tried to call the cops on me, albeit unwarrantedly (the same friend stopped her).

That's a dealbreaker, ladies!

And I'm kind of failing to understand why you care so much about who you're going to sit with at lunch for four days of school. Learn to deal with being alone.

[Mibabalou]

anal

[makeshiftmind]

though this was about Lindsey Lohan:shrug:

[I'm DC]

bitches be crazy.

[AndrewIcex]

Suck up the last few days, just don't talk to either, if they don't notice then fuck them.

For the lunch part, its what 30 minutes? Not to hard to deal with, only a couple of days left.

And why not spend time with the band? explain your problem and then talk trash with them about the girls, and if it gets around to both the girls and then if they approach you... they obviously care enough to approach you on it.

Trick the bitches.

[jonny4star]

I need some reassurance that I'm doing the right thing here.

I met this girl in Freshman year, we'll call her Lauren, through marching band, and we got to hang out a lot. I sort of grew to like her a lot so the beginning of Sophomore year I asked her out, to the most bizarre response I could expect from the first person I asked out- she avoided me and the entire prospect of me. We somehow got through that and repaired the friendship albeit she was always nervous that "i'd like her". Toward the middle of Sophomore year I started hanging out with this different girl, we'll call her Ash- and nearly started a relationship (which would have been great if I had actually started it but alas, no good came of it), so ultimately I spent less and less time with Lauren, until finally I spent almost no time with her, around the beginning of this year, my junior year. So I asked Ash to homecoming (after Lauren pushed me into it, albeit it was my idea anyway) and got my yes. However it didn't last and five days later, Lauren told me "well, what did you expect", and we got into a small argument and for whatever reason didn't talk until January. In January we had another argument about why she was mad and wouldn't talk about why she wouldn't even talk to me, and ultimately I just sort of left it. About a month and a half ago Ash started dating her ex again, and I couldn't bear to hang around with them, so I started hanging out with Lauren and her friends (one who, conveniently, transfered into my chemistry class around the same time). About a week ago Lauren decided that I'm suddenly a "stalker" for hanging out with the friend from chemistry- and apparently tried to call the cops on me, albeit unwarrantedly (the same friend stopped her). Then ever since she's continually changed where she sits at lunch which effectively forces me to either sit alone, or go hang out with Ash and her boyfriend. So I decided to just stop trying to keep talking to her and go hang out with Ash, despite my misgivings on her and her ex-not-ex-anymore-boyfriend.

Is it okay that I've given up here and just decided to be there for the flirtfest with Ash- or should I be telling Lauren to stick it up her ass, and that I'm gonna hang out with my friend regardless? The other thing is, it's about 4 days of school left.


dont you have any guy friends to hang out with at lunch? hook up with some different people or start hangin in a different town and meet new people.

[phil19]

im thinking that maybe you should hang out with some other peeps who
a) dont think you're a stalker and
b) aren't being nautiously lovey dovey

[RecklessXRandy]

Hit The Lights - Drop The Girl

This is the answer to every girl problem.

[crazytoledo]

Have an orgy with all of them, since you can apparently only associate with four people at your school.

It'll solve all your problems =P

[MyNameIsRoss]

Don't get. Try some drugs.

[llwilliamsll]

It's about time to find new friends kid. Fuck that Lauren chick.

[uglystar03]

it's a little late but...

tl;dr

[bjm1702]

Ditch Lauren and hook up with her friend thats in your chemistry class.

[Oneline2many]

put her cell number up on ebay with the title "anal virginity for sale"

[killerswells]

didnt bother to read the thread but....


anal.