Should I hold on to him?

[DragonFly_glitr]

I was talking to my ex. bf and we were completely in love. and then we'd break up, and get back together. Well, now he's with girl I hate. And he flirts with me, and tells me he loves me. But when he talks about Kristin, he makes her up as if she were his first love and stuff. Which isn't true... Is it? Idk. Maybe he's trying to make me jealous, or not... Idk.. Should I hold on to him?

[sleepygrlgreen]

if he's playing these mindgames with you, i say that he isn't worth it. you shouldn't have to go crazy trying to figure out what this guy wants with you. drop him before you get hurt.

[ADDisfunforme]

screw that, its time to move on, it may be tough but you'll look back 6 months from now and realize there was nothing worth holding on to...so yeah find someone new....and sleepy, your avatar is most definately the sex

[ClapClapSnap]

^ ^ i'd have to agree w/the two people up there ^ ^

don't waste your time on a guy like this...trust me, i know from experience

[ClapClapSnap]

you know when i read this, i wasn't expecting you to be like 17...i'm kinda surprised to tell you the truth

[ADDisfunforme]

you know when i read this, i wasn't expecting you to be like 17...i'm kinda surprised to tell you the truth

yeah thats what i was thinking, sounds alot like junior high drama...

[ClapClapSnap]

yeah thats what i was thinking, sounds alot like junior high drama...


mhmm definitely...because when i said i knew from experience...i was dealing with a guy like that from like...7th grade until my frosh year in high school...so it just seemed odd to me after i saw the birthday

[Heart-A-Tact]

I agree with anyone above me who said he isn't worth it.

[theMATEOlife]

if you have to post on the internet to ask a question like this, there should be some serious red flags sent up.

this kind of thing is what your friends are for, not people on a message board. and if you don't have friends, well then you have an even bigger problem than being in "love" with a dumbass.

[oldwirehands]

Fuck him, move on. If he's trying to make you jealous and really loves you, he'll get upset that you are moving on and try to stop it along with dropping the chick he's with.

[roxy]

if you have to post on the internet to ask a question like this, there should be some serious red flags sent up.

this kind of thing is what your friends are for, not people on a message board. and if you don't have friends, well then you have an even bigger problem than being in "love" with a dumbass.
she might have friends but they might have given her an answer she didn't like and was trying to have someone tell her what she wanted to hear. i know my friend erin will ask for an opinion, we will all tell her to stop obsessing over a guy and she will talk to anyone about it until she finds someone that agrees with her so she can justify still trying to get with a loser.

[AdmistAPoision]

You've held on to him for this long already.

You should not hold on to him if he's not holding on to you.

Of course, he's telling you everything that's going on with him he on some sad level hasn't completely let go of you. So you both have not found the cheese. Your drunk mice in a maze.

"Trying to make you jealous"- yeah he's probaly spending more time with you than her. I can't see you moving on because you still love him. He loves you. both of you should stop the games. and their not mind games unless you make it that way. We aren't living in a dream.

[Katie Schmitz]

You've got to let him go; with there being so many people in this world, don't waste your time on him. Hope it all works out.

[chroma23]

You should probably wait at his feet. If I were you I'd burn down the girl who he's with now's house. I mean she stole your man, she doesnt deserve a place to live. So after you burn down her house become friends with her and show sympathy. As soon as she falls in the illusion of safety cut off her left leg. Only freaks like girls with one leg. Then your ex will want you back.

[preppyak]

You should probably wait at his feet. If I were you I'd burn down the girl who he's with now's house. I mean she stole your man, she doesnt deserve a place to live. So after you burn down her house become friends with her and show sympathy. As soon as she falls in the illusion of safety cut off her left leg. Only freaks like girls with one leg. Then your ex will want you back.
I agree, if you shower him with attention, he'll want you back. He'll remember why he wanted you and he will know he can get past the past misunderstandings. You still have a chance, don't give up on him yet.

[preppyak]

You've held on to him for this long already.

You should not hold on to him if he's not holding on to you.

Of course, he's telling you everything that's going on with him he on some sad level hasn't completely let go of you. So you both have not found the cheese. Your drunk mice in a maze.

"Trying to make you jealous"- yeah he's probaly spending more time with you than her. I can't see you moving on because you still love him. He loves you. both of you should stop the games. and their not mind games unless you make it that way. We aren't living in a dream.
You sound like a retarded philosopher, like Rain Man does Nietzsche, it's painful to read.

And the colors only support my case. Die already please

[swirlofhues]

You sound like a retarded philosopher, like Rain Man does Nietzsche, it's painful to read.



hahaha.

i like her.

[preppyak]

hahaha.

i like her.
at least she didn't put like 10 smileys in this post, she puts at least 2 in every other post I have seen.

[theMATEOlife]

and now for another wrestling reference...


fight this girl in a steel cage match. it's really the only way to solve your problem. after seeing you duke it out in a ring surrounded entirely by steel, there's no way any straight dude wouldn't want to jump back in the sack with you for a couple more days until he finds another, hotter girl.

[preppyak]

and now for another wrestling reference...


fight this girl in a steel cage match. it's really the only way to solve your problem. after seeing you duke it out in a ring surrounded entirely by steel, there's no way any straight dude wouldn't want to jump back in the sack with you for a couple more days until he finds another, hotter girl.

Agreed. Plus, if he leaves you, at least 20 guys will be following you trying to get a piece of that action, so you're set.

[WilhelmScream85]

I was talking to my ex. bf and we were completely in love. and then we'd break up, and get back together. Well, now he's with girl I hate. And he flirts with me, and tells me he loves me. But when he talks about Kristin, he makes her up as if she were his first love and stuff. Which isn't true... Is it? Idk. Maybe he's trying to make me jealous, or not... Idk.. Should I hold on to him?
well if you were really in love you wouldn't break up nuff said...sounds like drama to me...move on!

[kaylaish]

I think you should move on. If you guys kept breaking up, it sounds like it could be pretty rough. You both, more than likely, still have feelings four each other, and dont want to let them go. But sometimes you have to. Another thing that I've seen guys do, is talk to more than one girl at a time incase somethings to one that they are trying to hook up or be with. Maybe you should start talking to other guys and see where that gets you. Still talk to him, but try to think of him as a friend.

[ticklemyfancy]

I was talking to my ex. bf and we were completely in love. and then we'd break up, and get back together. Well, now he's with girl I hate. And he flirts with me, and tells me he loves me. But when he talks about Kristin, he makes her up as if she were his first love and stuff. Which isn't true... Is it? Idk. Maybe he's trying to make me jealous, or not... Idk.. Should I hold on to him?

is his name stephen and yours lc?

[Greg]

from your post i was gonna say you seem like you are 12 and should forget about this crap.

but then i look at your profile.

how are you 17 and act like that?

[ClapClapSnap]

is his name stephen and yours lc?


hahah awesome

[timmeh1989]

I was talking to my ex. bf and we were completely in love. and then we'd break up, and get back together. Well, now he's with girl I hate. And he flirts with me, and tells me he loves me. But when he talks about Kristin, he makes her up as if she were his first love and stuff. Which isn't true... Is it? Idk. Maybe he's trying to make me jealous, or not... Idk.. Should I hold on to him?

Right first thing, do you like him? Is he worth the messing about? if the answer is yes, go for it, flirt back to him like you never have b4, then he will reallise what he is missing out on....

Get back to me on this....

[il0veeugenex]

I have been in the same situation when my boyfriend and I broke up. We almost made it to a year and he wanted to be with someone else, he ''realized'' he loved me and came back, and we've been together ever since, but I don't think you should let it get to you. If he doesn't come back, you don't need him, if he left in the first place, you don't need him.

[hXc_pwnage]

Kill him.

[Nat06]

trust me he isnt worth it. i know from experince as well. its a cycle that will keep repeating itself and youll just get hurt even more if you hold on to him. you need to let him go the sooner the better i know it will hurt for a while. and remember we all go through a couple bad ones to get the good ones!:)

[fromwithin]

hold on to him until he gets you pregnant, then you'll have a bond that lasts forever. unless you get an abortion.

[x_Thrice_x]

Kill him.

w0rd. And that dumb whore he's with too.

[timmeh1989]

hold on to him until he gets you pregnant, then you'll have a bond that lasts forever. unless you get an abortion.

right....

[Shoes]

He sounds like a headfuck, dump his ass. Or stop seeing him or whatever you two are doing. He sounds like bad news

[burts marbles]

yeah there is definatly one thing i hate and its when guys do shit like that. it sounds to me that he is confusing you and giving you mixed signals. it would usually depend on the situation but i would say no