How to avoid the frienship lane?

[Suprhatch614]

Ok, so I've basically concluded that my lack of a girlfriend comes from my totaly lack of initial coolness. Like I can't walk up to a girl and think of something clever and witty or anything. After the conversation is rolling or whatever that's fine. All of my sisters friends think I'm great, all my friends that are girls down here think I'm great. They all think I'm a great FRIEND...How do I avoid becoming everybodie's best guy friend, cuz that shit sucks...I don't want to hear about how mean your current boyfriend is, or how freaky you got at a party, I want to take you on a date...so what the shit?

[CrpyPnkRck]

put your mack on playa. spit some mad game

[everytimeidie]

I have the same problem. The only thing you can really do is show that you have some interest in them before you become a best friend. Don't make it too light hearted. Make sure they know you mean business.

This hasn't worked for me because even though girls think I'm "great" I'm fat. So YOU should give it a try.

[risk]

i am a loser too.

[Rigged&Ready]

sadly i think its nice guys finish last dude...flirt with them a llittle bit then if they seem interested keep goin for a little bit...like the rest of the night but the next time you see them dont put the moves on them...then they get all concerned thinking they did something that made you not like them anymore then they'll try to do something to get their attention...and thats when youve got em! keep repeating steps a and b but tone b down a little bit each time...by the end youll be dating her...

if she doesnt seem interested during the initial flirting go hit on one of her easier to attain friends...this was perfectly demonstrated in "how to be a player"...because girls talk...if you are reallly sweet and nice to one of them and the other one wasnt interested then they'll think that they got you all wrong and tthen even if the girl is a friend of theirs they'll try to get your attention again...thats how girls work...i know some girls on here are going to say that im stupid...but it DOES work on many many girls...trust me

david

[MCRfan7]

i have always had the same problem but i think right before you get into the friend zone you have to joke around with them and kinda be a dic, i dont know why but it works(girls are stupid like that)

the whole thing is a big game

[Greg]

yea to get girls to like you as more than a friend you need to be a dick. i wont do it. i'm just not that kind of guy. but it seems to work around here. but i'll never turn asshole.

[bluetunehead]

whats great is that when a girl you dont really know initiates things by flirting with you and shit, they then continue to do so on and off for three months and when things finally go somewhere they change their mind and say "well, im having second thoughts, i really just want to stay friends." and then of course your reply is....."we were never friends to begin with. you knew from the get-go that this was not in order for us to be just friends and you and i both made it more than clear that we weren't looking for just a friend." and then she gets upset when you say you aren't exactly comfortable being around her afterwards. oh ya thats real nice.

[evil zach]

tell her that you are actullay a secret agent. Girls love secret agents

[yeat182]

Originally posted by evil zach
tell her that you are actullay a secret agent. Girls love secret agents

haha, yes! ingenious.

[Greg]

let's face it. girls suck. no one will ever understand them. i doubt they understand themselves.