Relationship advice, please.

[funployee]

I know that most of you don't even care or probably won't read all of this, but I'd really like to know some other peoples thoughts on my situation.

About a month ago, I decided that I needed a break from my then girlfriend. She was completely opposed to it, and I really wanted/needed it. I was with her for 2 years and 8 months, the whole time w/o a break or break-up I might add. We started dating in 8th grade and I am almost a junior in high school now. It was getting to the point where it felt like more of an obligation than a compassionate relationship. We had a tremendous ammount of pressure on us from everyone else to be together forever. Lets be realistic, I am 16, I am not going to be with one girl forever. We ended up agreeing that if I wanted to see what it was like to see other people and be apart, then we needed to break up. It's been nearly a month now, and I am already close to going back into a relationship with a different girl that I really like. She makes me incredibly happy and I we're both really into each other. I have been talking to her for a long time now and we're spending a lot of time together. Would it be wrong of me to ask her out and be in a relationship so soon....?

[Five-Star]

maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan im high as hell and talking about all of this nonsense.

if you want ya old girl get back with her if you want ya new girl get with her man. either way you lose. you know why. because i just dont know im high damnit.

o yea.

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[funployee]

ummmm ok thanks?

[Five-Star]

you are welcome now go forth my minion.

[Smeee]

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[XjoseoleX]

fuck her get her pregnant then drop her like a bad habit

[funployee]

So my question is still whether it would be too soon to be in a relationship again.

[zion the lion]

My ex boyfriend fucked a shit load of girls/guys/whores the week after leaving me. So there's your answer.

[llwilliamsll]

Nothing wrong with that. Like you said, you're 16. Have some fun.

[funployee]

Well I am not planning on going and hooking up w/ people so yea I'm not a man whore or anything. I need to be with a girl that makes me happy, so yea youre right

[limepomegranate]

So my question is still whether it would be too soon to be in a relationship again.
just go for it if you like her go for it

[funployee]

ight

[killerswells]

dude, you will realize when you are older that nothing you did at the age of 16 matters. fuck bitches sonnnnnnn.

[funployee]

Maybe not to you.

[4N6 science]

i can't believe you did that. why date someone for so long at such a young age. Live it up!

[.invisible ink.]

So my question is still whether it would be too soon to be in a relationship again.

only you know if it's too soon to start dating someone else. if your heart hasn't been in it for a while, of course you'll get over it quickly because you don't have much to mourn. if you're asking whether your ex is going to think you're a prick for dating someone else so quickly? yeah, she probably will, but you can't live your life based on trying not to hurt others when some things are out of your control. she'll get over it. you need to do what you feel is best. if i were you, i would take it sort of slow with the new girl, she doesn't need to be a rebound chick, it's not fair to her. just try and be tactful with each girl. don't flaunt your new relationship around the old gf, she still deserves your respect and consideration.

good luck.

[phil19]

dude, go with the new girl.

[uglystar03]

If you are over your old relationship and you no longer have feelings for your ex, then go for it. But if you still have lingering feelings that are relatively prevalent, then you should probably wait a bit. But like you said, you are 16. Nothing matters at that age. Do what you want. I made the mistake of being in year + relationships all throughout high school and it really held me back from having fun with my friends and other girls.

[kdefrisc]

i dont know, it sounds to me like you've been checked out of the relationship for a while. i think what you need to assess is how the old gf will take it, and if her friendship is important enough to you for her reaction to even matter. really only you can read the situation, fundamentally though i would say the timeline doesn't really matter, its seems silly to wait like out of respect or something when you're ready to move on

[anthonydarko]

Ask her out, date her, and fuck her. The end.

[SilenceBrokenTT]

^ Add anal and you've got yourself a quality post.

[guinness]

maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan im high as hell and talking about all of this nonsense.

if you want ya old girl get back with her if you want ya new girl get with her man. either way you lose. you know why. because i just dont know im high damnit.

o yea.

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I could watch that all night..

[piglet]

anal.

[shoemile]

The best thing about high school: if you like a chick, date her. You may think there's a bunch of awkward shit with the other girl, which is true at the moment, but when she goes to complain to her parents about you dipping out, they'll just slowly shake their heads and smile, because, you know, it's just high school.

I don't mean to talk down to you or anything, because in all honesty, no one really understands the idea that it's "just high school" until they graduate. But take everyone's advice: it's really "just high school". Date the girl you want.

[trappedintime]

go out with the girl you like.

[funployee]

Alright guys thanks. I have confidence in the decision that I am going to make so I'll see what happens. High-school is pretty much just all bullshit and I don't care about it at all, I want to have fun with it though and enjoy looking back on it I guess.

[Reaver]

of course, you might think later that your first relationship was the best one and wish you didn't break up back then. but you can't know. if you think of your current gf as an obligation and the other girl makes you happy, then ffs get that other girl and be happy. if you don't you'll probably regret it later on.

[lovesickmelody9]

If you are honestly unsure of how to handle the relationship or feel like your not ready... go with your gut.
What I had to say when i was in this situation is:
Never let fate rule over your heart and never let your heart rule over your mind.

In the end... its best if the less confusing the feelings are.
if your heart isn't in it anymore, get out for the better pal.
hope i could help.