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GotToLoveIt
01/18/06, 03:02 PM
Ok so I have a huge crush on a guy that I just met like a week ago. We haven't really hung out but he is super nice and he kind of flirts with me. What I'm basically wondering is it too soon to tell him that I have a crush on him? And should I wait for him to make the first move?
Spicoli hey bud
01/18/06, 03:09 PM
go for it?
go for it
guys dont have to be the one to make the first move
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
boldt_action
01/18/06, 03:13 PM
go for it
guys dont have to be the one to make the first move
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
agreed, do it.
DeathCabForCoon
01/18/06, 03:14 PM
go for it
guys dont have to be the one to make the first move
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
Totally. I think im the first reply without a 24 avatar.
GotToLoveIt
01/18/06, 03:18 PM
im just afraid of making a total ass out of myself and him being like what the hell i've only known u for a week
ClapClapSnap
01/18/06, 03:20 PM
im just afraid of making a total ass out of myself and him being like what the hell i've only known u for a week
just keep hanging out with him...you don't need to verbalize it just yet...
hopefully just flirting with him will be enough for him to notice
just keep hanging out with him...you don't need to verbalize it just yet...
hopefully just flirting with him will be enough for him to notice
do that
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
That would be me.
Vincewithouthee
01/18/06, 04:25 PM
just keep hanging out with him...you don't need to verbalize it just yet...
hopefully just flirting with him will be enough for him to notice
Go with her idea.
ClapClapSnap
01/18/06, 04:45 PM
yeah because if you've only known him for a week...he'd probably get freaked out if you told him you had a "huge crush" on him or whatever
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
When did we meet ?
GoWaitInTheCar
01/18/06, 05:44 PM
I'm not sure how you could have a huge crush on a guy, if you've only known him for one week.
However, I think you should tell him, I agree with the past posts, guys don't like making the first move, but they'll go along with it if a move was made.
GotToLoveIt
01/18/06, 08:32 PM
he was the one that started flirting with me. i think i'll kinda see how things go before i say anything.
dontgrabtindy
01/18/06, 08:33 PM
why not
GotToLoveIt
01/18/06, 08:39 PM
why not
i don't want him to get all weirded out
LostSymphonies
01/18/06, 08:43 PM
blowjobs are good ice breakers
lightcollapse
01/18/06, 09:53 PM
blowjobs are good ice breakers
personally i prefer anal sex, but i mean people have different taste.
WakingTheMisery
01/18/06, 10:30 PM
i'm having a hard time telling a girl i have a crush on her. she is always busy.
thejetstolehome
01/18/06, 10:35 PM
go for it
guys dont have to be the one to make the first move
some of us are huge pussies with that sort of thing
so true...i'm one of those huge pussies with that sort of thing...plus, i think it's great when the girl makes the first move
whiteboypain
01/19/06, 12:03 AM
Ok so I have a huge crush on a guy that I just met like a week ago. We haven't really hung out but he is super nice and he kind of flirts with me. What I'm basically wondering is it too soon to tell him that I have a crush on him? And should I wait for him to make the first move?
eh, i say go for it. Follow your heart. Do what feels right to you.
gillianhsieh
01/19/06, 01:14 AM
no way, don't make the first move. if he really liked you he'd do it himself, and if he only medium lukewarm likes you then you won't have missed anything anyway.
plus revealing "feelings" only puts you in an awkward position, suppose they came out the wrong way? a gajillion things could go wrong. i vote don't do anything.
Tuesday's Gone
01/19/06, 05:29 AM
You should go for it .... and feel it out ..... what the hell do you have to loose?.... Who knows he might be the right catch
grab his dick.... see what he does then.....
that'll tell you all you need to know
GotToLoveIt
01/19/06, 12:50 PM
sometimes when we talk he makes sexual comments. like i think he might like me too, but i'm afraid to make the first move because I might be wrong and make and ass out of myself.
i like guitars
01/19/06, 01:07 PM
show him a little titty and let him stick it in
lucky_krystle
01/19/06, 01:13 PM
just keep hanging out with him...you don't need to verbalize it just yet...
hopefully just flirting with him will be enough for him to notice
i do agree... however a lot of guys find it hot when girls make the first move.
well... not that i know first hand cuz i am a wimp when it comes to this, but i have talked about this with a few of my guy friends and they love when a girl makes the first move. besides... if he is flirting with you then he must be interested!
GotToLoveIt
01/19/06, 07:54 PM
ahhh...idk if i should i have a feeling he feels the same way, but im a wuss.
blondepunk666
01/19/06, 10:42 PM
yeah just flirt with him it should work, but ive heard some guys like girls who make the first move um or maybe just my ex liked that cause he sucked at making moves lol. anyway, just flirt with him and just get to know each other better casue then it would be easier to make a move.
GotToLoveIt
01/20/06, 01:30 PM
we flirt so much with each other. i think i have a pretty good chance with him.
Juliet R Delta
01/21/06, 12:31 AM
just tell him - last night i told this guy i like how i felt, and big surprise, he doesn't like me in that way, but hey, its the next morning, and i'm still walking around. and when the next guy i like comes along, i'll probably do the same thing. (and, probably, so will he, haha)
GotToLoveIt
01/21/06, 10:28 PM
i think he has a pretty good idea that i like him. so...idk i guess i probably should just tell him.
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