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bobbo8
01/19/06, 08:45 AM
Ok so I'm am just overall unhappy with my life. My girlfriend who i love more than anything in the world broke up with me. I hate my job. I hate my school. I don't have too many friends. I hate my appearence. I cant stand being with my family for like 5 seconds. I dont want to anything other than lay in my bed all day and do nothing. I hate sleeping because it brings me closer to waking up to my shit job and my shit life but i hate being awake because of my shit job and shit life. What the fuck am i supposed to do?

Jra1
01/19/06, 08:47 AM
what are you supposed to do? stop being a whiny cunt would be a nice first step

DroppedUrPocket
01/19/06, 08:47 AM
Find something you love and go with it.

i like guitars
01/19/06, 08:52 AM
quit your job, change schools and get a hot bitch and youll be fine

fromwithin
01/19/06, 08:52 AM
Ok so I'm am just overall unhappy with my life. My girlfriend who i love more than anything in the world broke up with me. I hate my job. I hate my school. I don't have too many friends. I hate my appearence. I cant stand being with my family for like 5 seconds. I dont want to anything other than lay in my bed all day and do nothing. I hate sleeping because it brings me closer to waking up to my shit job and my shit life but i hate being awake because of my shit job and shit life. What the fuck am i supposed to do?

best thing you can do is find something you love like droppedurpocket said, it'll make you feel alot better and make you forget of what upsets you.

x_Thrice_x
01/19/06, 09:10 AM
Ok so I'm am just overall unhappy with my life. My girlfriend who i love more than anything in the world broke up with me. I hate my job. I hate my school. I don't have too many friends. I hate my appearence. I cant stand being with my family for like 5 seconds. I dont want to anything other than lay in my bed all day and do nothing. I hate sleeping because it brings me closer to waking up to my shit job and my shit life but i hate being awake because of my shit job and shit life. What the fuck am i supposed to do?

Do you ever get that feeling that when you wake up, you're dissapointed? It's pretty pathetic when that happens, it happens to me...

getupkid53
01/19/06, 09:27 AM
Stop being unhappy. It's mind over matter. If you decide you are going to hate everything, you'll be that way you're whole life. don't like your appearance... change it. Don't like your school..go to a different one (unless youre in hs, then ride it out and go wherever the hell you want for college). Don't like your job... quit, get a different one. No girl friend... go find one... but you have to stop being a whiny bitch... girls adore confidence.

whiteboypain
01/19/06, 12:57 PM
Ok so I'm am just overall unhappy with my life. My girlfriend who i love more than anything in the world broke up with me. I hate my job. I hate my school. I don't have too many friends. I hate my appearence. I cant stand being with my family for like 5 seconds. I dont want to anything other than lay in my bed all day and do nothing. I hate sleeping because it brings me closer to waking up to my shit job and my shit life but i hate being awake because of my shit job and shit life. What the fuck am i supposed to do?
um, you sound like me. It's called depression. I take medication for it, it does absolutely nothing for me.

DroppedUrPocket
01/19/06, 01:06 PM
Yeah, meds are another solution. It took me a while to come to terms that I need medication, but I realized it's not a good state to be in when I'm not on them.

Tyler Revolution
01/19/06, 01:51 PM
Go to church. And yes, I'm being serious.

amkfx3
01/21/06, 02:17 PM
these things happen... to everyone... so don't think that you're alone.

hating yourself and everything around you isn't going to help the situation. trust me, i know, because i was there and sometimes still am.

but you have to understand that you need to live your life for you and you need to start by loving yourself first. if you don't love yourself, noone is going to love you either. it's just one of those things that you need to accomplish first.

if you hate your school, then switch. you have that right. as for work, everyone hates their job... so that's natural. you can always find a new one. so what if you don't have a large following of friends. as long as you have a few really great and close ones, that's all you need. as for family, they will always be there, so i would just say to avoid them if you can and just deal with it when you can't avoid them. as for a woman, well, like i said before, you have to love yourself first.

i don't want you to think that this is an attack. sometimes we just need a good kick in the ass to snap us out of our sadness. it hurts, i know and i understand, but things will get better. what do they say, when it rains, it pours.

i hope it helps some...

bobbo8
01/21/06, 02:25 PM
these things happen... to everyone... so don't think that you're alone.

hating yourself and everything around you isn't going to help the situation. trust me, i know, because i was there and sometimes still am.

but you have to understand that you need to live your life for you and you need to start by loving yourself first. if you don't love yourself, noone is going to love you either. it's just one of those things that you need to accomplish first.

if you hate your school, then switch. you have that right. as for work, everyone hates their job... so that's natural. you can always find a new one. so what if you don't have a large following of friends. as long as you have a few really great and close ones, that's all you need. as for family, they will always be there, so i would just say to avoid them if you can and just deal with it when you can't avoid them. as for a woman, well, like i said before, you have to love yourself first.

i don't want you to think that this is an attack. sometimes we just need a good kick in the ass to snap us out of our sadness. it hurts, i know and i understand, but things will get better. what do they say, when it rains, it pours.

i hope it helps some...

Thank You.

FOBcareemo
01/21/06, 02:44 PM
Rent The New Guy

amkfx3
01/21/06, 02:47 PM
Thank You.

you are more than welcome. i just know that if i can't feel better, it makes me feel better to know that i've helped someone else in the same kind of situation.

*Sophii
01/21/06, 02:48 PM
i think amkfx3 totally right all you need to do is think positive and keep your head held high everything will always turn out better in the end we all go through rough times its hard to imagin but really everytime we go through a rough path it leads us up to being a stronger person a better inner being
hope everything turnes out

<3

Juliet R Delta
01/21/06, 07:20 PM
instead of concentrating on the things you hate, why not start doing things you actually like? even just a small thing. start doing things that are different - go different places, see different bands, listen to something different than the depressing shit that is soundtracking your life at the moment. think about your life in terms of where you are and where you'd like to be. then start something, anything, take one little step to start moving toward what you want to do. if you don't get off your arse you'll never forgive yourself for not doing anything to stop yourself from the slave to the week/misery guts you'll become.

amkfx3
01/21/06, 07:50 PM
think about your life in terms of where you are and where you'd like to be. then start something, anything, take one little step to start moving toward what you want to do.

juliet, you're right! i'm so glad that someone else realizes this as well.

that's so true though. there really is no use ramming straight into a deadend... especially since you'll get nowhere that way.

Juliet R Delta
01/21/06, 08:31 PM
juliet, you're right! i'm so glad that someone else realizes this as well.

that's so true though. there really is no use ramming straight into a deadend... especially since you'll get nowhere that way.

thanks anna. i saw your sig before and laughed, you seem pretty cool. :)

amkfx3
01/21/06, 10:17 PM
thanks anna. i saw your sig before and laughed, you seem pretty cool. :)

thanks. i do try. and btw, that is a direct quote. :)