i need relationship advice bad

[Shroomkilla]

so me and my girl were going out 9 months and recently decided to take a break ( i know the break cliché is usually an easy way to say its over, but in this case its not ). We havent told anyone about it but the main reason for it is because she is to busy with work. My dilemma is what do I do to keep her in my life. I never see her because shes working, the only time we hang out is to get food or something and thats barely 30 mins, and iv tried to see if she could hangout on her off days and made plans with her on those days and things come up or the plans are broken. Her excuse is "Oh i didnt know those were set plans" when i ask her earlier that day if we were still on for tonight and she says yes. Am i the only one who finds this fucking ridiculous ? I know her friends come first and mine do aswell but is there not a time to draw the line ? She hangs out with everyone but me basicly and I know shes not cheating but still that shit fucking hurts. idk sorry to bring you into my self pitty but its just like wtf idk what to do and need some advice and to vent.

[Judge'sDaughter]

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but are you sure that she wants to be with you? She's avoiding you, using work and friends as excuses, and now you're taking a break.

[Shroomkilla]

thanks for the input, that could be but i think and hope she has the respect to just say it if thats the case

[anamericangod]

She's just not that into you.

[Shroomkilla]

im not in denial or anything i mean i still talk to her on the phone and shit like and everything it just all feels different i mean i still love the girl but its just different..idk how to explain.

[Shroomkilla]

idk i just dont wanna lose the chick.. i mean il move on but shes just not someone i want to forget like that

[Five-Star]

Get over her dude. 16 year old's have no buisness worrying about stuff like this

[Kozzy333]

Drop The Girl

[Shroomkilla]

i know its hard though i mean iv been friends with girl for 5+ years ha its kind of hard

[caress me down]

It's not so easy to just get over someone, age has nothing to do with it

[Jake Denning]

(see usertitle for advice)

[hamish.]

She's cheating on you.

[Richard Maxim]

She might just be blowing someone else.

Or she's a lez now.

[anthonydarko]

Best thing to do right now is to move on and find a girl who wants to spend her time with you.

[Reaver]

thanks for the input, that could be but i think and hope she has the respect to just say it if thats the case

yeah everybody hopes so, but still a LOT of people (if not most) do that. if she doesn't want to see you and ditches you like that, she's just not into you that much.
and you're right it is fucking rediculous.

[thespearkid]

so me and my girl were going out 9 months and recently decided to take a break ( i know the break cliché is usually an easy way to say its over, but in this case its not ). We havent told anyone about it but the main reason for it is because she is to busy with work. My dilemma is what do I do to keep her in my life. I never see her because shes working, the only time we hang out is to get food or something and thats barely 30 mins, and iv tried to see if she could hangout on her off days and made plans with her on those days and things come up or the plans are broken. Her excuse is "Oh i didnt know those were set plans" when i ask her earlier that day if we were still on for tonight and she says yes. Am i the only one who finds this fucking ridiculous ? I know her friends come first and mine do aswell but is there not a time to draw the line ? She hangs out with everyone but me basicly and I know shes not cheating but still that shit fucking hurts. idk sorry to bring you into my self pitty but its just like wtf idk what to do and need some advice and to vent.
OK. So one of two things may be happening here:
1. She's doesn't really want to be with you all that badly.
2. She is afraid of an emotional connection so she's keeping you at a distance.

Honestly, I think it's probably #1 but if you really care about this girl, talk to her about it and figure out whether or not it could be #2. There's no point in remaining in a relationship that's not really going anywhere. Also, breaks are meant to benefit a relationship. If yours is a detriment, you guys are probably easing towards a break up. Again, just talk to her.

[denissuxx]

Drop The Girl

She's not worth the time

[lew_1987]

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[schmalz]

Stop calling her
Stop trying to make plans
Make her start to wonder. At 16, it's all about playing games lol

[ablueskytragedy]

She doesn't want you.

[AndrewIcex]

Just go and talk to her, but don't smother her with questions... I did that once, no good can come from it sir.

[killerswells]

it's over man. sleep with her friends.

[RecklessXRandy]

Anal

[Five-Star]

Anal

Never Fails!

[Smeee]

Ahh the PL forum... the wind beneath my wings...

[AndrewIcex]

Never Fails!
See: My user title :-)

[Five-Star]

haha, if it isn't anal it's fail.

[AndrewIcex]

Haha nice, I came up with my user title in this thread... I was stoked on it. haha.

[AndrewIcex]

Wait.. not this thread, the Hoodies Thread. my bad.

[Five-Star]

lmao nice, yea man I saw this show on tv today some kid walked into the wall, it said WALK FAIL. I was fuckin crying.

[AndrewIcex]

lmao nice, yea man I saw this show on tv today some kid walked into the wall, it said WALK FAIL. I was fuckin crying.
Hahaha nice! I flip off of walls :-)

[Five-Star]

Yea I know. I seen it in the post a pic thread. Gotta teach me it some time.

[AndrewIcex]

Its quite easy actually, its just all about getting over the learning curve... once you can do some sort of flips on the ground, you gain a tolerance of the fear for the rest. That is my main theory and look on it.

[Five-Star]

I can't flip at all so wont be trying that. I used to be able to a backflip, dont know why I can't anymore.

[AndrewIcex]

I actually hurt myself really bad one time doing a standing back tuck (backflip) and since then I rarely do one... but I am capable.

[Five-Star]

Yea I landed on my kneck one time. That was the last one ever.

[AndrewIcex]

Ouuuuch, yeah... I don't blame you sir, don't blame you at all..

I just one time landed and pulled something really badly in my foot, I landed forward and it was really painful.

[Five-Star]

Yea man, shit sucks.

Dame we jacked this thread.

[SSLYBY]

She's really fucking your brother when she says she's at work.

[Five-Star]

Keep it in the family.

[AndrewIcex]

Yeah, we did jack it... and she might be jacking your brother...

Sorry, gotta get it back on topic.

[SSLYBY]

Keep it in the family.

She's fucking her own brother?

[AndrewIcex]

Keeping it in HIS family, not hers.

[Five-Star]

She's fucking her own brother?

No, you said she's fucking his bro so I said keep it in the family.

[AndrewIcex]

Exactly, I read it correctly.

[Five-Star]

That's why your awesome.

[SSLYBY]

Maybe she's having a threesome with her brother and his brother.

[SSLYBY]

Sorry to interrupt your bromance guys!! I'll leave you two alone!

[Five-Star]

Lmao, thats a ho.

[AndrewIcex]

Maybe she's having a threesome with her brother and his brother.
Good call. You might be on to something.

Sorry to interrupt your bromance guys!! I'll leave you two alone!
I love you, man.

Lmao, thats a ho.
People call that Kentucky style actually, its unfortunate that people think that. Haha

[Five-Star]

That's wild style.

[AndrewIcex]

Kentucky is not wild, its boring as fuck.

Though UK has its wild moments, this college can get crazy...

[Five-Star]

Lol, my town is boring as hell. Love when I get to travel.

[AndrewIcex]

I feel like no one is even on AP.net... its weird.

I travel often, its sweet. My mother works for Delta, that is mainly why I do.

[Five-Star]

Haha nice, I travel some times. Been to Miami twice. PA like three times. Capecod a bunch of times. SC earlier this year. Dont know where to next.

[AndrewIcex]

Try Hawaii, its really nice there.

And try San Diego, my favorite Cali spot.

[Five-Star]

My ex actualy moved there. I didn't want to fly over seas. One day though. Def gotta check out Cali, it's the only place I want to go that I have not been to. I want to go back to Miami to.

[AndrewIcex]

Yes sir, Cali is definitely a good place... slightly overrated, but still fun.

We have jacked this thread to hell and back..

OP to get back at her, convince her to have some sexy time again.

Then after you Tap it, Scrap it.

[Five-Star]

Yea man, just hit it some more. Get her to do something strange liiiiiiike o I dont knoooooooooooow. ANAL!!!

[Urglegrew]

She's just not that into you.

lolz, thats a movie

[chrisstahl]

She's just not that into you.

I hope we meet someday.

[anamericangod]

I hope we meet someday.

You not being a female greatly decreases the odds of this happening.