i need advice

[Nat06]

okay guys i need your advice. my dad says he will come to my graduation ( he lives in oregon and im in new mexico) if i pay him 175 dollars for gas and stuff. i want him there and all but i dont know if i should pay him to come to his daughters graduation. so guys what should i do?

[dontgrabtindy]

what an ass hole

[sweet tragedy]

i don't think you should have to pay him to come to your graduation. it almost defeats the purpose.

[boldt_action]

haha, don't bother. Seriously, save your money. He's not worth it.

[boldt_action]

go buy 24 dvd's instead.

[Tyler Revolution]

Tell him you'll give him a Sum 41 cd if he comes.

[Stereo Mike]

okay guys i need your advice. my dad says he will come to my graduation ( he lives in oregon and im in new mexico) if i pay him 175 dollars for gas and stuff. i want him there and all but i dont know if i should pay him to come to his daughters graduation. so guys what should i do?
Your Dad's a dick.

[Shatter590]

any father who asks for money to see his own child graduate is not worth having there. seriously, do NOT send him money. By him asking, he has shown that he doesn't really care about you.

[Nat06]

can u really buy 24 dvd's with $175?

[dontgrabtindy]

can u really buy 24 dvd's with $175?

u could buy a season of 24

[DroppedUrPocket]

Pretty much, your dad isn't a good dad. That's really sad that he wants you to pay him to come to your graduation.

[oldwirehands]

Yeah, don't pay him. Its not worth it.

[xTJx]

That's fucked up...I know he's your dad and all, but I'm with everyone else here, there's no way YOU should have to pay him to come...it's like he's a dad for hire or something like that

[roxy]

Do not give him money. If he really cared he would come just to see you at this milestone. He sounds like he would take the money and not come still. I don't know if I am judging him too harshly though

[Loch_Doun]

all these people are quick to judge your father when they really dont know him, he could be a good guy but doesnt have the money right now...

[StartingLine182]

no

[roxy]

all these people are quick to judge your father when they really dont know him, he could be a good guy but doesnt have the money right now...
a father wouldn't say i am not going unless you pay me. he would get a second job to make some extra cash to come.

[sweet tragedy]

a father wouldn't say i am not going unless you pay me. he would get a second job to make some extra cash to come.

agreed. a graduation is a milestone, something worth making sacrafices for.

[chroma23]

What a douchebag.

[Loch_Doun]

all these people are quick to judge your father when they really dont know him, he could be a good guy but doesnt have the money right now...
but with that said i still wouldnt give him the money, dont get the wrong idea, i just dont think you should talk shit on the guy when you dont even know him at all

[hXc_pwnage]

Hell no.

[splitsecond]

Fuck that. Spend that 175 on some booze and a new dress and go fuck your daddy issues away with a lucky boy.

[tiny222]

everyone pretty much summed up what i think.
your dad obviously needs to get his priorities straight if he cant come up with enough money to see his daughter graduate. it's not like graduation is a spur of the moment thing that you can't save up for.

[Greg]

your dad is a dbag

[cris545]

i agree with everyone... don't pay him, its like giving him a gift for going to your birthday party when its supposed to be the other way around.

[The Game]

if my dad asked me to pay for him to come to my graduation id tell him to get lost

if he wants to be there he will be

if not, this is something you have done for yourself, you dont need other peoples support to achive anything

[Shoes]

a father wouldn't say i am not going unless you pay me. he would get a second job to make some extra cash to come.
Exactly

[JacksColdSweat]

Fuck that. Spend that 175 on some booze and a new dress and go fuck your daddy issues away with a lucky boy.

exactly

[whiteboypain]

Don't pay him. That is rediculous. He should find his own way there. He should be there for you. Don't pay him! that's crazy.

[bigmike]

i'd probably pay it and then punch him in his teeth.

[exxxoduss]

i agree pay him to come, and then punch him in the teeth and tell him you hate him lol

[bigmike]

i agree pay him to come, and then punch him in the teeth and tell him you hate him lol

that's cuz we hard ass ******.

[sleepygrlgreen]

i'm sorry, that really sucks. why is he asking you for money to go see you?

[bonnie17]

you shouldn't have to pay him, he's an asshole, your his daughter and he's supposed to love you enough to see you graduate. thats sooo messed up if he wants you to pay him! Call him up and give him a frikin talk. set him straight.

[UndertheTELE]

Say you'll pay him and then don't... and then demand a graduation gift... whats he gonna do?

[boldt_action]

u could buy a season of 24
You could get 2 or 3.

[HungJury]

Yea, don't pay him. He should be getting YOU a graduation gift. That's pretty sad :(

[Suchasucker]

Wow... that's just low. I can't believe someone would seriously say that to their child.

Definitely don't send him money.

I know he's your dad and you'd like him to be there, but he's really not worth if he's making it a money issue. You're better off without him.

[ghostyouare]

Pay me to come, I'm much more sexy

[Andy]

Spend the cash on getting a new dad.