Another reason I am an asshole

[splitsecond]

So I have been kind of seeing this girl, and by seeing I mean hooking up with. Except she bores me, I am not all that attracted to her (she is good looking, she just doesnt do it for me), and I just can't see it going anywhere. Last night she informed me she was a virgin and wasn't going to have sex with me (she is 23). Now I have to tell her that I don't think this is going anywhere before she does anything stupid for valentines day.

This will be fun.

[Stereo Mike]

Ouch.... good luck with that.

[FASSWcore]

what a shitty situation

[splitsecond]

And I cant lie, part of it is the no sex thing. My last GF, who I was madly in love with, wanted to wait, and I honored that, and I ended up hurt pretty bad by her. So, needless to say, I promised myself I wouldnt let myself get in that sort of situation again. I know some people will say its shallow, but I just cant deal with it at this point.

[I am all talk]

im really excited to see how this plays out

[splitsecond]

As pathetic as it is, I am doing it over IM. I mean there isnt much a of a relationship, we have hung out/hooked up 4 times. But I can tell she really likes me. I feel like shit because she really is a sweet girl, its just not there, you know?

[tiny222]

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Shittyyyyyy.

[mps]

And I cant lie, part of it is the no sex thing. My last GF, who I was madly in love with, wanted to wait, and I honored that, and I ended up hurt pretty bad by her. So, needless to say, I promised myself I wouldnt let myself get in that sort of situation again. I know some people will say its shallow, but I just cant deal with it at this point.
I can relate..

[allelish]

So I have been kind of seeing this girl, and by seeing I mean hooking up with. Except she bores me, I am not all that attracted to her (she is good looking, she just doesnt do it for me), and I just can't see it going anywhere. Last night she informed me she was a virgin and wasn't going to have sex with me (she is 23). Now I have to tell her that I don't think this is going anywhere before she does anything stupid for valentines day.

This will be fun.
Wow. I'm in the same situation. Only there is no sexual issue involved. I think i'm just using this girl when i go out and stuff...

[mps]

Wow. I'm in the same situation. Only there is no sexual issue involved. I think i'm just using this girl when i go out and stuff...
The thing is you have to make the decision of whether or not it is worth it, although you may be enjoying yourself, you are hating yourself at the same time. I've been there. You can never really get out of it without coming of as/feeling like a bastard about it.

[allelish]

The thing is you have to make the decision of whether or not it is worth it, although you may be enjoying yourself, you are hating yourself at the same time. I've been there. You can never really get out of it without coming of as/feeling like a bastard about it.
exactly. I already felt like a tool cause i said i don't wanna go out. So she said keep it as it is which is cool with me for now, but i'll look like an ass eventually cause i'm gonna have to break it all off soon.

[mps]

exactly. I already felt like a tool cause i said i don't wanna go out. So she said keep it as it is which is cool with me for now, but i'll look like an ass eventually cause i'm gonna have to break it all off soon.
Lust my friend..

[allelish]

Lust my friend..
lust from who?

[mps]

lust from who?
Me.

[allelish]

homo

[mps]

Yeah..

[lostntheseethru]

i guess i dont understand the meaning of "hooked up"

[mps]

i guess i dont understand the meaning of "hooked up"
It means ANAL SEX!!!! That's right.

[allelish]

It means ANAL SEX!!!! That's right.
so we "hooked up" that night in the Swiss forest?

[lostntheseethru]

It means ANAL SEX!!!! That's right.
haha ok...well thats still sex then right???

[mps]

so we "hooked up" that night in the Swiss forest?
I still cant walk straight..

[allelish]

haha ok...well thats still sex then right???
not for me, or this guy. She is a virgin.

[lostntheseethru]

not for me, or this guy. She is a virgin.
that was my point...

[allelish]

that was my point...
oh yeah, read your post wrong, sorry.

[lostntheseethru]

oh yeah, read your post wrong, sorry.
its all good...i was just saying i thought there had to be something sexual for it to be "hooking up" if theres no sex then how is it hooking up?

[mps]

its all good...i was just saying i thought there had to be something sexual for it to be "hooking up" if theres no sex then how is it hooking up?
Rimjob.

[splitsecond]

its all good...i was just saying i thought there had to be something sexual for it to be "hooking up" if theres no sex then how is it hooking up?

Well I would say getting the girl naked, in my bed, and doing lots of "other" things is hooking up. Personally I think its anything thats slightly passed making out. If it was sex, id just say i fucked her.

[Fallinlove]

I saw this thread's topic and I thought it was about SLADE...
Oh well...

[lostntheseethru]

Rimjob.
hahaha...ok seriously...you might as well have sex.

[mps]

Well I would say getting the girl naked, in my bed, and doing lots of "other" things is hooking up. Personally I think its anything thats slightly passed making out. If it was sex, id just say i fucked her.

Yeah, my point exactly.

Rimjob.

[lostntheseethru]

Well I would say getting the girl naked, in my bed, and doing lots of "other" things is hooking up. Personally I think its anything thats slightly passed making out. If it was sex, id just say i fucked her.
well that just sounds dumb... i mean from her. not that im saying you should just go have sex with anyone just because or anything. but if shes not wanting to have sex and to stay a virgin then she shouldnt be going that far either...its stupid.

[xTJx]

How can you hook up with a girl without having sex with her? I thought that's what hooking up was...

[lostntheseethru]

How can you hook up with a girl without having sex with her? I thought that's what hooking up was...
thats what ive been saying...

[xTJx]

thats what ive been saying...

Oh if you posted that earlier, I apologize. I didn't bother to read past the 5th post in detail...

[splitsecond]

well that just sounds dumb... i mean from her. not that im saying you should just go have sex with anyone just because or anything. but if shes not wanting to have sex and to stay a virgin then she shouldnt be going that far either...its stupid.

Yeah, and she goes about as far as possible without actually technically having sex. Its dumb.

[mps]

Yeah, and she goes about as far as possible without actually technically having sex. Its dumb.
Just stick it in her when she's not paying attention.

[splitsecond]

I saw this thread's topic and I thought it was about SLADE...
Oh well...

I'll take that as a complement.

[lostntheseethru]

Yeah, and she goes about as far as possible without actually technically having sex. Its dumb.
that is stupid...did she give a reason as to why she wont have sex? like is it a moral reason or something like that?

[splitsecond]

that is stupid...did she give a reason as to why she wont have sex? like is it a moral reason or something like that?

I think its religious. She didnt say that, but I know she is pretty religious. I think she is Methodist, they are pretty strict.

[allelish]

I think its religious. She didnt say that, but I know she is pretty religious. I think she is Methodist, they are pretty strict.
not so strict that she wouldn't get her box out though...

[lostntheseethru]

I think its religious. She didnt say that, but I know she is pretty religious. I think she is Methodist, they are pretty strict.
haha i guess im methodist...i dont really follow religion anymore, but i was raised methodist. i dont think they are that strict. one of the main reasons i continued to let religion be part of my life until about 3 years ago...


anyway, its just a dumb idea to me to let it get that far if you arent willing to have sex. its not any less wrong.

[allelish]

anyway, its just a dumb idea to me to let it get that far if you arent willing to have sex. its not any less wrong.
Are we drawing a line at handjob?

[splitsecond]

not so strict that she wouldn't get her box out though...

No fucking shit. I didn't know Jesus wanted girls to be cock teases.

[splitsecond]

haha i guess im methodist...i dont really follow religion anymore, but i was raised methodist. i dont think they are that strict. one of the main reasons i continued to let religion be part of my life until about 3 years ago...


anyway, its just a dumb idea to me to let it get that far if you arent willing to have sex. its not any less wrong.

Thats kind of how I feel. I mean i am religious, and I dont care. Maybe I am a bad person, but I have a hard time reconciling sexual rules that were made when there was no dating, with a time that people date for years before they marry.

[lostntheseethru]

Are we drawing a line at handjob?
im not drawing any kind of line....i guess when i say wrong i just mean it in the idea that if you dont wanna have sex its cuz you think its wrong for the situation. im not saying going around screwing every guy in site and doing whatever else...i just think this girl has something not right going on in her brain if this is how shes thinking

[lostntheseethru]

Thats kind of how I feel. I mean i am religious, and I dont care. Maybe I am a bad person, but I have a hard time reconciling sexual rules that were made when there was no dating, with a time that people date for years before they marry.
yea i see what youre saying.

[splitsecond]

im not drawing any kind of line....i guess when i say wrong i just mean it in the idea that if you dont wanna have sex its cuz you think its wrong for the situation. im not saying going around screwing every guy in site and doing whatever else...i just think this girl has something not right going on in her brain if this is how shes thinking

well she is a girl, of course there is something not right in her brain.

[mps]

well she is a girl, of course there is something not right in her brain.
Hahaha..

[lostntheseethru]

well she is a girl, of course there is something not right in her brain.
ooooh arent you just SOOOOOO funny...

[mps]

ooooh arent you just SOOOOOO funny...
Yeah.

[lostntheseethru]

Yeah.
no one asked you!!!:p

[mps]

no one asked you!!!:p
Well, neeeer.