im so lame

[selftitled85]

ok a while back i made a thread about the girl i like. unfortunately im a pussy and still never said anything. i have gone back to jmu a couple weekends now and each time i just seem to like her more and more. unfortunately being so far away makes things so difficult. what do you guys think i should do?

[apoemtothedead]

lamewad.

Just talk to her. I guess.

[seconds]

talk to her. tell her.

[selftitled85]

lamewad.

Just talk to her. I guess.

i talk to her as much as i can.

[apoemtothedead]

i talk to her as much as i can.
Talk to her about how you feel, dummy.

[selftitled85]

Talk to her about how you feel, dummy.

haha. im a freaking pessimist and always believe the worst. i guess it comes with being shot down so many times the past couple months that im just afraid im gonna fail.

[apoemtothedead]

haha. im a freaking pessimist and always believe the worst. i guess it comes with being shot down so many times the past couple months that im just afraid im gonna fail.
Yeah I feel like that too. But hey, it worked once.

[pinkjinx87]

I'm a pessimist too when it comes to things like that.

[selftitled85]

Yeah I feel like that too. But hey, it worked once.


yeah. i mean it has worked before but i was also sure she liked me. this one i have no clue. seriously im the worst when it comes to reading women. i cant tell what they are thinking at all.

[pinkjinx87]

Question: Guys do the asking out or the girls? I usually wait till a guy asks me out, but sometimes I get impatient.

[selftitled85]

Question: Guys do the asking out or the girls? I usually wait till a guy asks me out, but sometimes I get impatient.


honestly...i would love it if the girl would ask me. im a loser and sometimes afraid to make the first move. if she could do it and get me over that hump i would love it.

[pinkjinx87]

Well don't the guys usually do that? I wouldn't mind asking a guy out, but I'm not sure.

[getupkid53]

I'm going to give you years of advice...

If you can't get the balls up to tell her your feelings, she wouldn't want you anyways. Girls like confidence (girls like assholes to, but what are you going to do).... If you can't get the confidence to ask her out, she will never want to date you.

It's better to try and fail than to never have tried at all.

Look at it this way... If you don't talk to her, you will most likely spend the rest of your life wondering / regretting your decision.

Or you could stop being a pussy... thats another way to look at it.

Who cares if she shoots you down. There are plenty of women out there. She's just one.

[lucky_krystle]

i think i remember that thread. anyways... if you are a wimp then why dont you just hint to her that you like her and see what response you get.

1. eye contact... but dont stare at her like a creep
2. touch her, her arm, her shoulder, just lightly every now and then... and dont put you hands all over her or she'll think you're some sort of rapist.
3. dont stand a mile away from her, stand within a foot from her so she gets the hint that you are interested.
4. compliment her, but dont over do it. tell her her eyes look gorgeous today, or that every time you see her she gets more and more beautiful.
5. smile a lot, but not too much. you want to seem like a nice guy. if you smile too much she will wonder what perverted thoughts are going through your head.

try this and see what kind of a response you get back from her. if she likes you she will return the hints... then maybe you will feel more comfotable about making a move on her or asking her out.

[lucky_krystle]

and the most important piece of advice:

dont listen to anything michael (getupkid) has to tell you about chicks!!!

[getupkid53]

and the most important piece of advice:

dont listen to anything michael (getupkid) has to tell you about chicks!!!

Don't be stupid... If he's going to be all coy about it he mine as well just walk up and cock slap her... then there will be no doubt that he is interested. Screw that lil' pussy crap. He's been talking about this for months.. He needs to say something or shut up and move on...Flirting is so 9th grade...

[SonEric84]

I say just tell her, because to me wondering is worse than knowing what will actually happen if you speak up. I know it's easier said than done, but you gotta do it. Good luck dude.

[selftitled85]

Don't be stupid... If he's going to be all coy about it he mine as well just walk up and cock slap her... then there will be no doubt that he is interested. Screw that lil' pussy crap. He's been talking about this for months.. He needs to say something or shut up and move on...Flirting is so 9th grade...


dude im 20 going on 5. im much better prepared for the boys vs girls old skool games where the boys chase the girls around. you also try to chase the one you like the most. if it was like that id be golden.

[Shatter590]

you can either talk to her or end up like me.

[save_me]

tough luck there buddy

[exxxoduss]

Don't be stupid... If he's going to be all coy about it he mine as well just walk up and cock slap her... then there will be no doubt that he is interested. Screw that lil' pussy crap. He's been talking about this for months.. He needs to say something or shut up and move on...Flirting is so 9th grade...

yeah just tell her. your getting to the age where its stupid to just run in circles with the girl. (or any girl for that fact) don't get me wrong it took me like a week to ask this girl out, but once i did everything worked out. it doesn't hurt to ask. it may hurt getting shot down, but pain is temporary. it goes away, and there will always be another girl to replace this one if it doesn't work out. but you need to find out.

[x__emokiss]

yoo gotta b straight with 'er and let her no how yoo feel before its too late. She cld find sum1 else if your not quick, if yoo reli like her then the best and onli solution is to let her no asap lol if yoo need nemore help just ask <333