no idea what to think/do

[Slaytus]

So heres my situation
back in december i had a party at my house and my gf didnt show up instead she went to her friends party, and during the course of the party the same drunk girl would come up to me and kiss me. I of course shoved her off since i have been dating my gf for over 2 years and im in love with her. Now a week after this party my gf finds out and thinks i cheated. (i didnt tell her) so we broke up and now we're both dating other people. We talk regularly on the phone and help one another when our bf/gf get drunk/high and forget about us. (we're both straightedge except sexually)We also talked allday on Valentines day cuz my gf was sickand her bf forgot her. She tells me she wants to have a serious future however she loves her bf (not as much as me). Now my gf is telling me she loves me and im like...falling back for my ex. So i guess my question is... what the fuck do i do? i dont love my current gf (i like her shes better lookin then my ex but not as sexual) but my ex is fallingin love wit another guy. Should i drop my ex or my current?


should i even be complaining?

[apoemtothedead]

Wow. There are a lot of you Warwickians.

[richter915]

Wow. There are a lot of you Warwickians.
rich white kids got tons to bitch about

[apoemtothedead]

rich white kids got tons to bitch about
Damn right we do.

My dad's stock fell below 30 yesterday, so we might have to start cutting back on lobster. :(

[Stereo Mike]

Damn right we do.

My dad's stock fell below 30 yesterday, so we might have to start cutting back on lobster. :(
:'(

[hobbes2809]

Now a week after this party my gf finds out and thinks i cheated. (i didnt tell her) so we broke up
if she broke up with you for that, she probably isnt worth keeping in the long run

assuming you told her you kept pushing the drunk girl off, and assuming you told her that the other people at the party would corroborate your story

also, why wouldnt you tell your gf of 2 years that there was some drunk girl hanging off you, its not like it was your fault so you probably shouldnt have to try and hide that from her in the first place

"honey, there was this crazy ass girl that got really drunk and kept trying to kiss me, but everytime she did I told her to get away and you can ask anyone at the party"

easy enough?

[richter915]

Damn right we do.

My dad's stock fell below 30 yesterday, so we might have to start cutting back on lobster. :(
I've never had lobster

aren't you not allowed to eat lobster anyway?

[MLLMillenium]

I've never had lobster

aren't you not allowed to eat lobster anyway?

...........what are you talking about...

[ArTkY_]

...........what are you talking about...
He's Jewish. Sabbath. No fish on Sabbath.

[MLLMillenium]

He's Jewish. Sabbath. No fish on Sabbath.

Gotcha, I know the jew laws. I lived on Long Island.

[iLikePants]

Sucks to be you I guess. I can't offer any advice, but kudos for having an awesome quote by Jansen in your sig.

[apoemtothedead]

I've never had lobster

aren't you not allowed to eat lobster anyway?
...that's beyond the point.

[Slaytus]

warwick isnt a rich town..i live in a 2 family apartment ha (im not complaining the top floor guy is chill)
see i didnt tell my gf of 2 years because she was under alot of stress with familiy issues,school, and lifeguarding courses. So i was waiting however she heard from the drunk girl what had happened and well...its a classic case of Vanilla Sky. (cept im not tom cruise and i dont wear a mask and im not rich)
i have kinda solved my problem by telling both ex and current gfs i love them but telling my ex we'll like...be togther in the future. im just gettin over the fact shes in love with another guy. thats always tough.

[IAPAI]

warwick isnt a rich town..i live in a 2 family apartment ha (im not complaining the top floor guy is chill)
see i didnt tell my gf of 2 years because she was under alot of stress with familiy issues,school, and lifeguarding courses. So i was waiting however she heard from the drunk girl what had happened and well...its a classic case of Vanilla Sky. (cept im not tom cruise and i dont wear a mask and im not rich)
i have kinda solved my problem by telling both ex and current gfs i love them but telling my ex we'll like...be togther in the future. im just gettin over the fact shes in love with another guy. thats always tough.

It sounds like you've solved the problem quite well then if you've still got a back-up. But how does that relate to Vanilla Sky? I just don't get it. Did the drunk girl at the party go crazy and try to drive you off of a bridge?

[GoWaitInTheCar]

If you love the girl, I don't see how you started dating someone else. Same with her. You guys were together that long and you dropped eachother easy as that? I'm not seeing the love. I'm only hearing the lust.

I kinda agree with a few people, you should of just told her it happened in the first place, if it wasn't your fault, then you should of told her.

Real relationships don't break up over something stupid like that. And if it is real, and I am wrong. You gotta go get your girl back.

[dave vegan]

It's samudaya man, you can't get attached to these girls or else you will be hurt in the long run. I say just enjoy the time you have with whoever you happen to be with at the time, that's all you can really ask for in life.

[OveriseFan]

You don't really love either of these girls it seems.

All you've said about them is that your current looks better than your ex, but isn't as sexual (i.e. GUESS WHAT, YOURE SHALLOW!)

Sorry, but I think you should seriously sort out your life.

[bobbo8]

Well, I find extremely hard to believe that your ex is already in love after only 2-3 months of being apart from you. I think you and your ex just need to figure out what the both of you want. I've been apart from my ex for 5months, still love her, but neither of us have started to see other people yet. I don't know what i'd do if i found out she loved someone else.

[Salomonbz90]

tough dude..Not sure how I would fare in this situation. Good luck with that though

[actionandaction]

Sucks to be you I guess. I can't offer any advice, but kudos for having an awesome quote by Jansen in your sig.

yeah, that jansen kid is cool.

[apoemtothedead]

yeah, that jansen kid is cool.
bullshit.

[Tyler Revolution]

So heres my situation
back in december i had a party at my house and my gf didnt show up instead she went to her friends party, and during the course of the party the same drunk girl would come up to me and kiss me. I of course shoved her off since i have been dating my gf for over 2 years and im in love with her. Now a week after this party my gf finds out and thinks i cheated. (i didnt tell her) so we broke up and now we're both dating other people. We talk regularly on the phone and help one another when our bf/gf get drunk/high and forget about us. (we're both straightedge except sexually)We also talked allday on Valentines day cuz my gf was sickand her bf forgot her. She tells me she wants to have a serious future however she loves her bf (not as much as me). Now my gf is telling me she loves me and im like...falling back for my ex. So i guess my question is... what the fuck do i do? i dont love my current gf (i like her shes better lookin then my ex but not as sexual) but my ex is fallingin love wit another guy. Should i drop my ex or my current?


should i even be complaining?
Haha, this is silly. You are considering being with one girl over the other because she is "better lookin" but the other is "more sexual?" And you're straight edge, except sexually? No, that means you're not straight edge. A better statement might be, "I don't do drugs or drink." Your girlfriend of two years was pretty quick to drop you, and then begin dating a new guy who forgets her on Valentine Day. I'd say forget about her.

[Slaytus]

im not really shallow, its just some guys look at a situtation differently based on looks. We dropped eachother fast because we had some bad fights. i personally think she throws the word love around. Julie on the other hand "falls fast" im to smart to say i love u to a girl now so i just kinda get julie off the subject at the moment. Anyway ive decided to drop my "love' because she was kind of a flirt and julie just does...everything the opposite of sxe (im not sxe i just dont fight,do drugs, or drink. correcting myself) so ya....
topic closed ha