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LPMagic
03/06/06, 01:33 AM
I just want to meet the right girl. The thing is, I don't see myself meeting her at the bar and that's the only place where I interact with girls unless it's talking on the phone or computer with girls I knew in high school (all of whom have boyfriends or are not a possibility).

I'm not out for sex or for a crutch or anything. Just looking for a person that completes me and makes me happy. Maybe it's because I've had alcohol in me and I'm alone, I don't know. Thanks for listening.

- Jeff

yaz
03/06/06, 02:41 AM
thats sweet and how do you know you wont find anyone in a bar? you never know your luck, giving up is the wrong option.

kg00d
03/06/06, 06:01 AM
I just want to meet the right girl. The thing is, I don't see myself meeting her at the bar and that's the only place where I interact with girls unless it's talking on the phone or computer with girls I knew in high school (all of whom have boyfriends or are not a possibility).

I'm not out for sex or for a crutch or anything. Just looking for a person that completes me and makes me happy. Maybe it's because I've had alcohol in me and I'm alone, I don't know. Thanks for listening.

- Jeff

I must say its quite hard to meet the right one. I couldn't really offer much advice because i'm in the exact same position.

missericacourt
03/06/06, 06:32 AM
there are other places than bars to meet girls. and if someone can love michael jackson, theres hope out there for the rest of us. you'll find her. ;)

Nat06
03/06/06, 08:54 AM
dont worry you'll find her someday.. you seem sweet and girls like sweet guys. hope things work out for you.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 09:12 AM
you are seriously my favorite person on this site jeff....i mean that.

Spicoli hey bud
03/06/06, 09:51 AM
did you look under the couch cushions?

you know what you need to really do? stop looking, and things will fall into place.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 10:00 AM
did you look under the couch cushions?

you know what you need to really do? stop looking, and things will fall into place.
hahaha i liked that...but you're right about the stop looking thing. it always works for me...too bad i have the worst luck in the entire world and i always find crazy people.

Tyler Revolution
03/06/06, 10:27 AM
I just want to meet the right girl. The thing is, I don't see myself meeting her at the bar and that's the only place where I interact with girls unless it's talking on the phone or computer with girls I knew in high school (all of whom have boyfriends or are not a possibility).

I'm not out for sex or for a crutch or anything. Just looking for a person that completes me and makes me happy. Maybe it's because I've had alcohol in me and I'm alone, I don't know. Thanks for listening.

- Jeff
I feel the exact same way. I came to school, only 2 hours away from my hometown. I went to partys and bars, and just about every girl I met at a bar seemed like a girl I wouldn't want to date, and I couldn't see myself with them. I know that I didn't give it much of a chance, but every girl I met was the kind I didn't want to be with. The first weekend I went home I hungout with one of my friends from highschool. A little background... I dated this girl in highschool, when I was a senior and she was a freshman. It didn't work out, but I became best friends with one of her friends. That was about 3 years ago. I stayed best friends with this girl, as time went on we saw each other less and less, and this last summer we didn't hangout at all. So when I was going home for the first time, I didn't know what I was going to do at home, so I called her, and we hungout. I went home the next two weekends, and we hungout, and I started liking her, and she started liking me... and we started dating. We've been together for about 5 months now, and I'm extremely happy. I go home every weekend, but I have a lot more fun going home, so I don't think I'm missing out on much. Anyways, I don't think that all girls at bars or partys are the type I wouldn't date, but it just seemed like that. I don't know why I just told you this story, just thought I'd share. Isn't there any other place you could look for a girl, besides the bars? Girls in your classes, any girls at the rec centers, girls at shows? I don't know, just keep an eye out, and good luck. Sorry for all that rambling.

Shatter590
03/06/06, 11:52 AM
I just want to meet the right girl. The thing is, I don't see myself meeting her at the bar and that's the only place where I interact with girls unless it's talking on the phone or computer with girls I knew in high school (all of whom have boyfriends or are not a possibility).

I'm not out for sex or for a crutch or anything. Just looking for a person that completes me and makes me happy. Maybe it's because I've had alcohol in me and I'm alone, I don't know. Thanks for listening.

- Jeff

I know where youre coming from. Thing is, I've met my ex's online and its led to periods of bliss (that end, I will admit it).

I dont feel that the bar is the right place for these things. Neither are shows, for about the same reasons. But then again you can;t just close your eyes. You can meet the right folks in class or anywhere.

Also dont go looking. Though I HATE to admit it, every girl I've found kinda fell in my lap, never when I went looking (like this weekend...what a drag).

I guess you just need patience...and diligence.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:02 PM
you are seriously my favorite person on this site jeff....i mean that.
Boooo!

jaykay, I love Jeffy, too.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:03 PM
Boooo!

jaykay, I love Jeffy, too.
well hes never ever been mean to me...not once. you cant say that.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:04 PM
well hes never ever been mean to me...not once. you cant say that.
Mhmm!

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:08 PM
Mhmm!
nuh uh....


jeff was even nice to me before i became part of the ap cheers. back when i used to leave him annoying comments on xanga. you and tyler werent nice to me until i was an ap cheers regular.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:09 PM
nuh uh....


jeff was even nice to me before i became part of the ap cheers. back when i used to leave him annoying comments on xanga. you and tyler werent nice to me until i was an ap cheers regular.
I am the nicest to everyone. 0:)

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:13 PM
I am the nicest to everyone. 0:)
*cough*bullshit*cough*

haha im just kidding. you know i love you sean....i just love jeff more :*

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:14 PM
*cough*bullshit*cough*

haha im just kidding. you know i love you sean....i just love jeff more :*
:\

LPMagic
03/06/06, 12:21 PM
Thank you to everyone who had nice things to say and advice for me. To the guys in my position, it's comforting to hear that I'm not the only guy on AP who cares about finding the right girl. To the girls (especially Megg :) ), thanks for the kind words and reassurance. I've had some bad relationships in the past (and who hasn't, right?) but it's just been so long since the last one that I feel like a hopeless romantic who's screwed up the only chances he'll get. Thanks again, everyone.

- Jeff

dashboard1190
03/06/06, 12:33 PM
I just want to meet the right girl. The thing is, I don't see myself meeting her at the bar and that's the only place where I interact with girls unless it's talking on the phone or computer with girls I knew in high school (all of whom have boyfriends or are not a possibility).

I'm not out for sex or for a crutch or anything. Just looking for a person that completes me and makes me happy. Maybe it's because I've had alcohol in me and I'm alone, I don't know. Thanks for listening.

- Jeff

same.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:35 PM
Thank you to everyone who had nice things to say and advice for me. To the guys in my position, it's comforting to hear that I'm not the only guy on AP who cares about finding the right girl. To the girls (especially Megg :) ), thanks for the kind words and reassurance. I've had some bad relationships in the past (and who hasn't, right?) but it's just been so long since the last one that I feel like a hopeless romantic who's screwed up the only chances he'll get. Thanks again, everyone.

- Jeff
you'll find her jeff...and she will be one damn lucky girl

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:39 PM
I'll date you Jeff.

LPMagic
03/06/06, 12:47 PM
you'll find her jeff...and she will be one damn lucky girl
I'll date you Jeff.
:wow:

- Jeff

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:53 PM
I'll date you Jeff.
oooh hell no!!!

ill fight you for him.


to jeff: sean will leave you for a random exotic animal anyway...you dont want him.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 12:54 PM
oooh hell no!!!

ill fight you for him.


to jeff: sean will leave you for a random exotic animal anyway...you dont want him.
That's how I do, baby.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:57 PM
That's how I do, baby.
haha

LPMagic
03/06/06, 12:58 PM
That's how I do, baby.
Like they do on the Discovery Channel?

- Jeff

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 12:58 PM
Like they do on the Discovery Channel?

- Jeff
oh thats classic...im jealous i didnt think of that...

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 01:01 PM
Heiroglyphics, lemme be specific, I wanna be down in your south seas.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 01:03 PM
Heiroglyphics, lemme be specific, I wanna be down in your south seas.
i can see you dancing at your computer in your chair like you're having a party at the computer singing this song.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 01:07 PM
i can see you dancing at your computer in your chair like you're having a party at the computer singing this song.
I dance all the time.

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 01:08 PM
I dance all the time.
me too

x_Thrice_x
03/06/06, 01:16 PM
I never thought about that, but it's true, if you go looking you can only come back dissapointed... chicks just kinda fall into your lap most of the time and then all is good again

good luck

roxy
03/06/06, 03:33 PM
this thread is pretty much over but i would like to repeat everyone else, don't go looking. just let things happen.

i went to a party last night determined, left with just my friends. got locked out of the building and found not one but 4 great guys. its when you are trying to hard that you miss all the good girls

lostntheseethru
03/06/06, 03:42 PM
this thread is pretty much over but i would like to repeat everyone else, don't go looking. just let things happen.

i went to a party last night determined, left with just my friends. got locked out of the building and found not one but 4 great guys. its when you are trying to hard that you miss all the good girls
i very much find them when i quit looking. and the ex that i always kick myself for letting go...yea he ALWAYS shows up when i give up and get over him. so i know how it goes.

fedhed7
03/06/06, 03:47 PM
Everything will work itself out eventually. Chin up Jeff.

DroppedUrPocket
03/06/06, 03:48 PM
Ashley is the right girl for me.

Krlos
03/06/06, 06:25 PM
maybe you'll find girls in this site.

roxy
03/06/06, 09:26 PM
Ashley is the right girl for me.
you are the right boy for me. now please report to boston

LPMagic
03/06/06, 09:31 PM
maybe you'll find girls in this site.
I wish it were as simple and meaningful for me to meet a girl online, but I need that contact. I need to be able to lay with her, go out with her, hold her hand, talk face to face. Long distance just does not work and I sincerely doubt anyone would move to Fargo for any reason, nevermind to be with me.

Again, thanks for the kind words everyone.

- Jeff

unwritten
03/06/06, 09:33 PM
My current gf left a note on my car. She turned out to be amazing. Shit happens when you least expect it. Good Luck dude.

randomgrrl2
03/06/06, 10:47 PM
Hey, so many girls are in the same situation, just looking for that right guy. I'd say just go out and try to meet new people. Have your friends introduce you to their friends ect. You and the right girl will find each other.

aminorthreat55
03/06/06, 10:58 PM
Just do your thing and live your life and she'll appear when you least expect it. That's how it seems to happen. I sure as hell wasn't looking for anything when I found it.

DroppedUrPocket
03/07/06, 08:04 AM
you are the right boy for me. now please report to boston
:salute:

punkrockcasual
03/07/06, 09:51 AM
Just do your thing and live your life and she'll appear when you least expect it. That's how it seems to happen. I sure as hell wasn't looking for anything when I found it.

You were on Gay Street, what did you expect?

lostntheseethru
03/07/06, 10:19 AM
I wish it were as simple and meaningful for me to meet a girl online, but I need that contact. I need to be able to lay with her, go out with her, hold her hand, talk face to face. Long distance just does not work and I sincerely doubt anyone would move to Fargo for any reason, nevermind to be with me.

Again, thanks for the kind words everyone.

- Jeff


i think you are crazy and dont give yourself enough credit....

Shatter590
03/07/06, 11:35 AM
you really do need to give yourself more credit. girls can sense that. not to be conceited, but i have so little confidence around girls that they actually feel it and move away from me when we talk. you need to believe a bit more in yourself.

again, when you wait it might be better, but then again, how long do you have to wait? as much as i feel waiting and seeing is the best method, sometimes you need to be just a little proactive.

jaimej
03/07/06, 11:51 AM
You can't make it happen, love. Just do what you're doing and it will happen.

Saves The Night
03/07/06, 06:31 PM
thats sweet and how do you know you wont find anyone in a bar? you never know your luck, giving up is the wrong option.I agree, dont give up, and try meeting people through a mutual friend, that can sometimes lead to something good.

Lueda Alia
03/09/06, 01:18 AM
I wish it were as simple and meaningful for me to meet a girl online, but I need that contact. I need to be able to lay with her, go out with her, hold her hand, talk face to face. Long distance just does not work and I sincerely doubt anyone would move to Fargo for any reason, nevermind to be with me.

Again, thanks for the kind words everyone.

- Jeff
Don't underestimate yourself. It's the worst thing you could possibly do. And never stop dreaming, wishing and waiting. It will all come true eventually, especially for someone like you. I am sure of it.

LPMagic
03/09/06, 01:22 AM
Don't underestimate yourself. It's the worst thing you could possibly do. And never stop dreaming, wishing and waiting. It will all come true eventually, especially for someone like you. I am sure of it.
:)

- Jeff

aCe_
03/09/06, 01:39 AM
We all know who Jeff's #1 girl is..

sleepygrlgreen
03/09/06, 10:06 AM
thats sweet and how do you know you wont find anyone in a bar? you never know your luck, giving up is the wrong option.because bar girls are often times drunken whores.

lostntheseethru
03/09/06, 10:12 AM
because bar girls are often times drunken whores.
i go to bars a lot and im not a drunken whore...

sleepygrlgreen
03/09/06, 10:16 AM
i go to bars a lot and im not a drunken whore...i didn't say all girls. my point is, if you find someone at a bar, chances are they go often and will continue to, which will probably increase the probability of them becoming future alcoholics if they aren't already. and who wants to be with an alcoholic?

lostntheseethru
03/09/06, 10:22 AM
i didn't say all girls. my point is, if you find someone at a bar, chances are they go often and will continue to, which will probably increase the probability of them becoming future alcoholics if they aren't already. and who wants to be with an alcoholic?
riiiigghht....i actually go a lot cuz i have friends who play in bands at bars....you can be an alcoholic without a bar too. i dont want to meet the man of my dreams at a bar either, but your reasoning is a little off.

sleepygrlgreen
03/09/06, 10:25 AM
riiiigghht....i actually go a lot cuz i have friends who play in bands at bars....you can be an alcoholic without a bar too. i dont want to meet the man of my dreams at a bar either, but your reasoning is a little off.not off, just a bit exaggerated although in some cases true. and again, i'm not talking about all people. many go for other reasons, obviously.

LPMagic
03/09/06, 11:02 AM
I don't mean to jump in the middle of your back-and-forth here, but just to clarify why I said that:

I realize that there are alcoholics in and out of bars. I realize that going to the bar does not mean you're a whore. To be honest with you, I'd like to meet someone who didn't hang out at the bars at all. I've seen the drama that can come out of going there. When you throw your inhibitions to the wind around a bunch of horny and uninhibited 20-somethings, there's a good chance something will happen that you won't like.

Do I think going to the bar is fun? A lot of times, yes. Do I think there is no way I could meet a girl there that ends up being right / good for me? No. Generalizing and stereotyping isn't what I'm trying to do. I'm just finding out more and more that what I want is more likely in a coffee shop than in a bar.

- Jeff

we are cured
03/09/06, 01:03 PM
Thank you to everyone who had nice things to say and advice for me. To the guys in my position, it's comforting to hear that I'm not the only guy on AP who cares about finding the right girl. To the girls (especially Megg :) ), thanks for the kind words and reassurance. I've had some bad relationships in the past (and who hasn't, right?) but it's just been so long since the last one that I feel like a hopeless romantic who's screwed up the only chances he'll get. Thanks again, everyone.

- Jeff

dude i came from a really shitty relationship..i had an exorbitantly hot girlfriend with (you guessed it) insecurity issues- that were pushed onto me. i broke up with her about 2 years ago, and i've been single since then. i hear you man, but the whole thing is, girls sense desperation and insecurity like a rottweiler senses fear. the only difference is they won't attack you (though that would be interesting).

my ex girlfriend was all about the people around her, but had no clue who she was, and hence had no idea what her goals and aspirations were. in fact she didn't have any. her beauty and popularity always got her by. i feel really bad for people like that, but there's always hope that one can turn it around. now im not saying that you have anything to do with her issues. but everyone can take a lesson from her. you're young, you have to come to grips with loving yourself before you can get in another relationship and make it work. sometimes it seems like its never going to happen, especially at bars where all these wasted people convene. don't give up hope, but shelve the hope for now and go out and be yourself. we're only around for so long, and to waste it dreaming of an ideal girl that is probably not out there (note- the girl for you is out there. but no girl is going to match what you have in your head) would be a shame.

we are cured
03/09/06, 01:06 PM
I don't mean to jump in the middle of your back-and-forth here, but just to clarify why I said that:
Do I think going to the bar is fun? A lot of times, yes. Do I think there is no way I could meet a girl there that ends up being right / good for me? No. Generalizing and stereotyping isn't what I'm trying to do. I'm just finding out more and more that what I want is more likely in a coffee shop than in a bar.

- Jeff

yeah man exactly, go to the bar to have a good time. but also on the other hand, there might be a girl in there that feels the same way you do.

neo506
03/09/06, 01:08 PM
I agree, dont give up, and try meeting people through a mutual friend, that can sometimes lead to something good.

Thats ture man. Most of the girls I've met recently that I'm interested in have been through a mutual friend. And keep in mind, this stuff happens when you least expect it

LPMagic
03/09/06, 01:23 PM
dude i came from a really shitty relationship..i had an exorbitantly hot girlfriend with (you guessed it) insecurity issues- that were pushed onto me. i broke up with her about 2 years ago, and i've been single since then. i hear you man, but the whole thing is, girls sense desperation and insecurity like a rottweiler senses fear. the only difference is they won't attack you (though that would be interesting).

my ex girlfriend was all about the people around her, but had no clue who she was, and hence had no idea what her goals and aspirations were. in fact she didn't have any. her beauty and popularity always got her by. i feel really bad for people like that, but there's always hope that one can turn it around. now im not saying that you have anything to do with her issues. but everyone can take a lesson from her. you're young, you have to come to grips with loving yourself before you can get in another relationship and make it work. sometimes it seems like its never going to happen, especially at bars where all these wasted people convene. don't give up hope, but shelve the hope for now and go out and be yourself. we're only around for so long, and to waste it dreaming of an ideal girl that is probably not out there (note- the girl for you is out there. but no girl is going to match what you have in your head) would be a shame.
yeah man exactly, go to the bar to have a good time. but also on the other hand, there might be a girl in there that feels the same way you do.
Thank you so much for the advice. I mean it.

- Jeff

lostntheseethru
03/09/06, 01:30 PM
jeff, i have the best advice of everyone on here....move to indianapolis, and ill take care of you ;)

LPMagic
03/09/06, 02:05 PM
jeff, i have the best advice of everyone on here....move to indianapolis, and ill take care of you ;)
:wow: That is the best advice I've ever heard.

- Jeff

aminorthreat55
03/18/06, 08:26 AM
You were on Gay Street, what did you expect?
Hahahaha it was actually in another state.

Nick Lopez
03/18/06, 07:22 PM
Hm.

Andy
03/18/06, 07:29 PM
yeah, I understand what youre saying. All the girls I meet at clubs and shit seems like total skanks.

FASSWcore
03/18/06, 07:36 PM
you seem like a good dude..there's nothing you can do but be yourself, and the shitty girls will go away...have a good time and let a relationship come to you

Jentheoptimist
03/18/06, 07:42 PM
yeah, I understand what youre saying. All the girls I meet at clubs and shit seems like total skanks.
Skanks like hot swiss boys. Hi Andy. ;) hahah.

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:01 PM
I'm looking for the right guy. Most aggrivating thing ever. I finally decide I'm ready for a relationship and now I can't find anyone.

neo506
03/18/06, 09:02 PM
I'm looking for the right guy. Most aggrivating thing ever. I finally decide I'm ready for a relationship and now I can't find anyone.

hi

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:04 PM
hi
hola

neo506
03/18/06, 09:06 PM
hola
whats goin on?

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:07 PM
whats goin on?
Just got home and now I'm really bored. you?

neo506
03/18/06, 09:08 PM
Just got home and now I'm really bored. you?

windin down after a long day of work

where'd ya come in from?

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:11 PM
windin down after a long day of work

where'd ya come in from?
a party, so I'm really wired

neo506
03/18/06, 09:12 PM
a party, so I'm really wired

good times...by the way I agree with your post/this thread. I'm slowly realizing the girl I've fallen for and I wot work out. Its so hard

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:14 PM
good times...by the way I agree with your post/this thread. I'm slowly realizing the girl I've fallen for and I wot work out. Its so hard
I'm just bitter and impatient I think. I've been a bit of a player for the past few months and I'm ready to settle down a bit, but the boys aren't thinking the same way I am.

neo506
03/18/06, 09:18 PM
I'm just bitter and impatient I think. I've been a bit of a player for the past few months and I'm ready to settle down a bit, but the boys aren't thinking the same way I am.

I've been in a dry spell until the past month or two, until this girl, and now its seems to be in a rut and so I've grown impatient as well. Theres a serious lack of prospects around here. Or maybe my standards are too high. Whatever

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:25 PM
I've been in a dry spell until the past month or two, until this girl, and now its seems to be in a rut and so I've grown impatient as well. Theres a serious lack of prospects around here. Or maybe my standards are too high. Whatever
I know my boy standards are high, but if I'm going to settle down, I'm so relationship-ADD that I have to have a guy that will keep my attention. I have to be really picky to keep from hurting anyone in the long run.

LPMagic
03/18/06, 09:27 PM
you seem like a good dude..there's nothing you can do but be yourself, and the shitty girls will go away...have a good time and let a relationship come to you
Thanks.

- Jeff

neo506
03/18/06, 09:28 PM
I know my boy standards are high, but if I'm going to settle down, I'm so relationship-ADD that I have to have a guy that will keep my attention. I have to be really picky to keep from hurting anyone in the long run.

it'll happen someday (hopefully soon)

keep your head up

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:28 PM
it'll happen someday (hopefully soon)

keep your head up
I'll try. Hopefully it will be soon or I think I might burst.

LPMagic
03/18/06, 09:38 PM
I'll try. Hopefully it will be soon or I think I might burst.
I know the feeling.

- Jeff

neo506
03/18/06, 09:40 PM
I know the feeling.

- Jeff

ditto

Rebs
03/18/06, 09:40 PM
I know the feeling.

- Jeff
Good to know I'm not alone

lostntheseethru
03/18/06, 09:45 PM
I know the feeling.

- Jeff
i already told you how to fix this problem....

LPMagic
03/18/06, 09:47 PM
i already told you how to fix this problem....
:wow:

- Jeff

lostntheseethru
03/18/06, 09:49 PM
:wow:

- Jeff
:D

jusscali
03/18/06, 09:51 PM
man...i feel like i just wrote that thread, as i just got in early from a run at the bar...

honestly, im a couple months removed from the end of a major relationship, a relationship i was set on for quite a ways into the future, and shes become the bar hoppin girl that u dont want to bring home, well for more than ya know lol. its been tough, but i gues u just have to be confident in urself adn that this shit goes in cycles, and that when ur not lookin, or worried about it, some girl will just enter ur life and make u the person u want to be. everyday i get a lil more sure of this, even tho it does get lonely and u do lose patience. just know that nearly everyone who isnt with someone is out there trying to find the same thing you are, and for people like us who want to find the right person are worthy and deserving of such a thing.

somethings gonna come ur way man. keep it real.

LPMagic
03/18/06, 09:55 PM
man...i feel like i just wrote that thread, as i just got in early from a run at the bar...

honestly, im a couple months removed from the end of a major relationship, a relationship i was set on for quite a ways into the future, and shes become the bar hoppin girl that u dont want to bring home, well for more than ya know lol. its been tough, but i gues u just have to be confident in urself adn that this shit goes in cycles, and that when ur not lookin, or worried about it, some girl will just enter ur life and make u the person u want to be. everyday i get a lil more sure of this, even tho it does get lonely and u do lose patience. just know that nearly everyone who isnt with someone is out there trying to find the same thing you are, and for people like us who want to find the right person are worthy and deserving of such a thing.

somethings gonna come ur way man. keep it real.
You too. The good guys win in the movies, maybe in life too.

- Jeff

Speyside
03/18/06, 09:56 PM
Hey Jeff, I haven't read all the replies in this thread, but much love man. I know exactly where you're coming from.

I think I may have found a girl I could be in a relationship with, but I haven't come up with a way to spend some time with her yet.

LPMagic
03/18/06, 09:57 PM
Hey Jeff, I haven't read all the replies in this thread, but much love man. I know exactly where you're coming from.

I think I may have found a girl I could be in a relationship with, but I haven't come up with a way to spend some time with her yet.
You're a good guy, one of my favorites around the board. Good luck with your current situation

- Jeff

jusscali
03/18/06, 09:57 PM
hopefully man, hopefully.

ThexQuietxCull
03/18/06, 10:18 PM
i guess i dont have the current problem of finding the girl, because i know its her that i want to be with. its just a matter of distance and time. but finding that girl is incredibly hard. i didn't realize it was her that i wanted to be with until recently. but what is harder on a person, finding that person, or not being able to be with that special person?

xTJx
03/18/06, 10:20 PM
Jeff, all will work out for you man. No worries. Seriously, trying to meet girls in a bar for a relationship thing never works out. Just let the cards come, play the hand that you're dealt and just wait for the pocket rockets. Then, you are golden.

Speyside
03/18/06, 10:36 PM
Jeff, all will work out for you man. No worries. Seriously, trying to meet girls in a bar for a relationship thing never works out. Just let the cards come, play the hand that you're dealt and just wait for the pocket rockets. Then, you are golden.
What he said, "wait for the pocket rockets."

..wait..

neo506
03/18/06, 10:55 PM
What he said, "wait for the pocket rockets."

..wait..
http://kofler.dot.at/c64/download/pocket_rockets.gif

why wont it show up?

bobbo8
03/19/06, 12:18 AM
There is no "right girl". in the end you get fucked. so you might as weel forget about it. just have fun who you are with, and if it lasts, then congratulations it lasts. If it dont last then you think the way i do. Just take life 1 moment at a time.


PS.
Im drunk. so this might not make sense.

aCe_
03/20/06, 06:22 AM
You've got all the right girls for you here on ap.

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 06:25 AM
You've got all the right girls for you here on ap.

yet another ap hook-up in progress??? ;)

aCe_
03/20/06, 06:26 AM
yet another ap hook-up in progress??? ;)haha, well it is a growing trend.

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 06:39 AM
haha, well it is a growing trend.

haha no siht! there arent any ap guys near me! not saying i would jump on the bandwagon or anything.

aCe_
03/20/06, 06:42 AM
haha no siht! there arent any ap guys near me! not saying i would jump on the bandwagon or anything.This could turn into a dating service website. But ap uses music interest.

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 06:51 AM
This could turn into a dating service website. But ap uses music interest.

did you ever see the thread about hooking up fellow ap-ers? it was a funny one! it was awhile back though.

aCe_
03/20/06, 06:54 AM
did you ever see the thread about hooking up fellow ap-ers? it was a funny one! it was awhile back though.I don't know, but I can imagine.

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 06:56 AM
haha no siht! there arent any ap guys near me! not saying i would jump on the bandwagon or anything.
i already told jeff hes moving to indy and ill take care of him

aCe_
03/20/06, 06:58 AM
i already told jeff hes moving to indy and ill take care of himHe needs an ap girl like you.

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 07:00 AM
i already told jeff hes moving to indy and ill take care of him

megg you are the ap pimpette! ;)

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 07:05 AM
megg you are the ap pimpette! ;)
haha what can i say?

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 07:08 AM
haha what can i say?

i know i know... you cant help it that you are so sexy and charming. hey, even i cant keep my hands off your ass (when i drink! haha!)
joe is my ap hubby... although he hasnt been on in a long time. :\

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 07:10 AM
i know i know... you cant help it that you are so sexy and charming. hey, even i cant keep my hands off your ass (when i drink! haha!)
joe is my ap hubby... although he hasnt been on in a long time. :\
oh darn....whoops did i say that out loud??? ;)

LPMagic
03/20/06, 08:30 AM
And I thought it was hard for a pimp outchea...

- Jeff

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 08:38 AM
oh darn....whoops did i say that out loud??? ;)

hahaha. its cool. you have sean and jeff. i have evan and joe!

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 08:41 AM
hahaha. its cool. you have sean and jeff. i have evan and joe!
nah...ashley has sean. i just have jeff, but its cool cuz jeff is my favorite.

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 08:46 AM
nah...ashley has sean. i just have jeff, but its cool cuz jeff is my favorite.

and ashley has michael because nobody else wants him anymore! hahaha!

LPMagic
03/20/06, 08:49 AM
nah...ashley has sean. i just have jeff, but its cool cuz jeff is my favorite.
How could I not love this girl?

- Jeff

lucky_krystle
03/20/06, 08:51 AM
How could I not love this girl?

- Jeff

just to let you know, i had her first! :p

LPMagic
03/20/06, 08:53 AM
just to let you know, i had her first! :p
Way to rub it in. :(

- Jeff

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 09:03 AM
and ashley has michael because nobody else wants him anymore! hahaha!
well he doesnt really count cuz hes never on...

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 09:04 AM
How could I not love this girl?

- Jeff
:D you saw my sig right?

lostntheseethru
03/20/06, 09:05 AM
just to let you know, i had her first! :p

this is true
Way to rub it in. :(

- Jeff

no worries, i love you more.

LPMagic
03/20/06, 02:01 PM
this is true


no worries, i love you more.
:D ... :dance: ... :headspin:

- Jeff

aCe_
03/21/06, 07:54 PM
Looks like Jeff found his girl.;)

kg00d
03/21/06, 07:57 PM
I need to find the right girl damnit

lostntheseethru
03/21/06, 08:16 PM
Looks like Jeff found his girl.;)
huh?

lucky_krystle
03/24/06, 07:43 AM
anal?

#5!

Shatter590
03/24/06, 08:33 AM
i need a girl who likes to go out to the shows
i need a girl who wont make fun of my clothes
im looking for a special girl
who wants to go around the world
if youre my special girl, would ya let me know

angel_in_hell48
03/24/06, 09:35 AM
Awe, I think it's sweet that you're looking for the right girl. You seem like a sweet guy. Atleast you're honest and say that you're not just looking for sex. That's a very good thing. I checked out your profile and think you're ubber cute!

<33333333
Miss Kristy

lostntheseethru
03/24/06, 09:46 AM
oh wow...

enj0i29
03/24/06, 06:10 PM
look for numbers in the bar bathrooms. Those are always good choices.
Especially if they're CARVED in.

Stereo Mike
03/24/06, 06:12 PM
Awe, I think it's sweet that you're looking for the right girl. You seem like a sweet guy. Atleast you're honest and say that you're not just looking for sex. That's a very good thing. I checked out your profile and think you're ubber cute!

<33333333
Miss Kristy
Get a fucking room.