View Full Version : Pictures = Cheating?
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:58 AM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
deFobbed14yrs
07/30/09, 10:06 AM
i'm guessing this happened to you?
bahahahahaha omg hahaha, sorry i guess it's not funny for you. lol.
i wouldn't call it cheating, but it's equally bad. dump him.
i'm still laughing, not my fault.
deFobbed14yrs
07/30/09, 10:06 AM
and if yes, dump that motherf'er b/c he's straying
Charles777
07/30/09, 10:08 AM
Yes, because it means he would like to have sex with said girl. I would stab a motherfucker if this shit happened to me.
LaDiabla
07/30/09, 10:12 AM
does masturbation count as cheating?
so I guess no.
Not cheating, but not good.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:16 AM
he says..i get the real thing..and that it "just happened" and that he wants to be with me..but clearly not as much as i thought...idk if its necessarily cheating..but idk if i can trust him....idk who this girl is...theres no name..just a number...so obv he's trying to hide it. he was texting her while we were at dinner with his friends last nite!..i just feel like a fucking joke lol....
Heart-A-Tact
07/30/09, 10:17 AM
Not cheating, but not good.
Pretty much. Confront him.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:18 AM
Pretty much. Confront him.
i did last nite...woke him and was like im leaving..and we argued about it...i did make the mistake of goin thru his phone..but he had been acting strange all week..at least thats how i felt...something was off, but he said he was fine..clearly more than fine
joeag1985
07/30/09, 10:19 AM
Dump him.
Animalhill
07/30/09, 10:19 AM
does masturbation count as cheating?
so I guess no.
This is my response.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:20 AM
alright then soo i guess the question is should i break up with him or try to work it out?
he says..i get the real thing..and that it "just happened" and that he wants to be with me..but clearly not as much as i thought...idk if its necessarily cheating..but idk if i can trust him....idk who this girl is...theres no name..just a number...so obv he's trying to hide it. he was texting her while we were at dinner with his friends last nite!..i just feel like a fucking joke lol....
you probably are.
alright then soo i guess the question is should i break up with him or try to work it out?
dump him, take me.
someone had to say it...
Heart-A-Tact
07/30/09, 10:24 AM
alright then soo i guess the question is should i break up with him or try to work it out?
Seems like you've already tried working it out.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:24 AM
dump him, take me.
someone had to say it...
hahaha yea....germany ey? ive been thinking about moving ....lol jk =P
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:27 AM
Seems like you've already tried working it out.
not exactly...i confronted him last nite obv..but then we went to sleep..and he had work super early this morning..soo we havent really talked about it further or whats gonna happen with us...his brother thinks we should be together , but that he also cant believe he would do that....idk..i want it to work..but i need something from him to make me feel like i can trust him, that he actually wants to be with me like he says
Seriously, put his ass on the street.
hahaha yea....germany ey? ive been thinking about moving ....lol jk =P
yes! success!
but seriously, how do you evaluate his behavior? i mean, is he sorry and trying hard to convince you that it was a big mistake or anything?
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:35 AM
yes! success!
but seriously, how do you evaluate his behavior? i mean, is he sorry and trying hard to convince you that it was a big mistake or anything?
he kept saying he was sorry last night...and that he didnt know what else to say
he said it wouldnt happen again but i dont know if i can believe him now
he kissed me before he left for work but we didnt really talk in the morning
and he lives with his brother and his gf and his brother's gf heard me crying after he left and she came up the stairs to talk to me
and then i came down and was getting water for my "bf"s dog whom i love to pieces and then was talkin to his brother and my "bf" came back and picked up the Harley saying he was selling it or something? and i think he was pissed i was talkin to them cuz he obv figured i was talkin abotu what happened and he like slammed the door on the way out
i texted him when he left saying i needed answers to things and that i want to be over it
and he say ya..but that was it hasnt texted me since..except when i asked where my money was from last nite
i know he works hard and a lot but clearly had time to take the Harley? idk im so confused
If he didn't already have sex with the girl he sent the picture to, he at least wants to and "was" trying to... dump him.
ApricotChick
07/30/09, 10:41 AM
Well. Unless you really like him and think it's going to go somewhere (which I can't see with someone who takes pictures of themselves, sends them via internet, and then refuses to talk about it) I'd just dump him.
Machu505
07/30/09, 10:41 AM
Oh wow.
Sweet your from indiana! Yes!
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 10:49 AM
Well. Unless you really like him and think it's going to go somewhere (which I can't see with someone who takes pictures of themselves, sends them via internet, and then refuses to talk about it) I'd just dump him.
it was in text messages
llwilliamsll
07/30/09, 10:51 AM
alright then soo i guess the question is should i break up with him or try to work it out?
You don't need a forum to answer that. I'm sure if you're somewhat of an intelligent person, you can figure out what you should do on your own.
takemyhand
07/30/09, 10:52 AM
it was in text messages
oooh well in that case, it's all good.
im going to give you the benefit of the doubt because you have an awesome avatar and give you a second chance to equal your taste in men as good as your taste in music. drop this scumbag and find a dude that is well worth your needs. this scenester piece of shit and his tight jeans is replaceable and you can do much better than his shitty greasy long hair and patchy beard. plus those boney hip bones of his have to bother you... right? I'm sure he listens to shitty music anyway, that is grounds alone for dumpage. Drop this zero and get with a hero.
AndrewIcex
07/30/09, 10:53 AM
Pics or it didn't.. wait..
maxvsmaradona
07/30/09, 10:53 AM
Wait, he sent a picture of his penis!?
lolz
makeshiftmind
07/30/09, 10:53 AM
sounds like a real winner that one
he kept saying he was sorry last night...and that he didnt know what else to say
he said it wouldnt happen again but i dont know if i can believe him now
he kissed me before he left for work but we didnt really talk in the morning
and he lives with his brother and his gf and his brother's gf heard me crying after he left and she came up the stairs to talk to me
and then i came down and was getting water for my "bf"s dog whom i love to pieces and then was talkin to his brother and my "bf" came back and picked up the Harley saying he was selling it or something? and i think he was pissed i was talkin to them cuz he obv figured i was talkin abotu what happened and he like slammed the door on the way out
i texted him when he left saying i needed answers to things and that i want to be over it
and he say ya..but that was it hasnt texted me since..except when i asked where my money was from last nite
i know he works hard and a lot but clearly had time to take the Harley? idk im so confused
sorry to say, but from what i can tell, he isn't really interested in you. it seems to me that you're the one working hard on keeping the relationship alive, and he's taking it for granted.
if that action of him sending that picture to another girl wasn't intended, then he would be totally embaressed. just saying sorry and that it won't happen again, proves that he isn't sorry at all. he just wants you to forget about it, playing it down.
stop acting like you need him, tell him that it won't work that way. explain yourself and if he isn't convicingly sorry about it, dump him.
maybe you're lucky and he'll realize what he had when you're gone, and try to get you back.
ApricotChick
07/30/09, 10:56 AM
it was in text messages
I don't think that really matters.
im going to give you the benefit of the doubt because you have an awesome avatar and give you a second chance to equal your taste in men as good as your taste in music. drop this scumbag and find a dude that is well worth your needs. this scenester piece of shit and his tight jeans is replaceable and you can do much better than his shitty greasy long hair and patchy beard. plus those boney hip bones of his have to bother you... right? I'm sure he listens to shitty music anyway, that is grounds alone for dumpage. Drop this zero and get with a hero.
agreed on the avatar and everything else.
ApricotChick
07/30/09, 10:59 AM
oooh well in that case, it's all good.
Yeah. I mean, as long as he wasn't charged outrageous texting fees, who gives a shit?
I don't think I'd stay with someone who did that.
ReadyForAction
07/30/09, 11:00 AM
Drop him now
takethisback
07/30/09, 11:02 AM
Question. Is the other girl cute?
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 11:02 AM
I'd call it cheating. Not to mention the flirting/dirty talk that must have been going on surrounding said picture.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 11:03 AM
fuck threads like this on this website, what the fuck?
its the personal life forum. someone actually posted a real problem.
Animalhill
07/30/09, 11:06 AM
Pics or it didn't.. wait..
:-d
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 11:07 AM
im going to give you the benefit of the doubt because you have an awesome avatar and give you a second chance to equal your taste in men as good as your taste in music. drop this scumbag and find a dude that is well worth your needs. this scenester piece of shit and his tight jeans is replaceable and you can do much better than his shitty greasy long hair and patchy beard. plus those boney hip bones of his have to bother you... right? I'm sure he listens to shitty music anyway, that is grounds alone for dumpage. Drop this zero and get with a hero.
hahah actually he's not scene at all lol...he wears Hurley and shit...and not skinny at all lol...so yea...that doesnt really apply..that skinny hips thing
shimmyshakes
07/30/09, 11:07 AM
I wouldn't call it cheating, but if I were the gf, I'd dump him asap.
its the personal life forum. someone actually posted a real problem.
agreed.
Nolessthanblink
07/30/09, 11:09 AM
You're really hot. Fuck this guy. He's a tool. Come take a visit down to Texas. ;) haha
denissuxx
07/30/09, 11:14 AM
Dump his ass.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 11:14 AM
its the personal life forum. someone actually posted a real problem.
the PL forum should disappear. look at the tool above me who wants this girl to visit him.
this ruins the website to an extent
GetWellBoss
07/30/09, 11:15 AM
this is an emotional cheating issue. did he ever touch anyone else? no(from what we know). But he is not being faithful to you and is sending pictures to someone else. Which they probably sent something back too.
End it. It's pretty much going to be bad from here on out.
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 11:16 AM
the PL forum should disappear. look at the tool above me who wants this girl to visit him.
this ruins the website to an extent
Look at the guy I'm quoting whose sarcasm meter is broken.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 11:17 AM
Look at the guy I'm quoting whose sarcasm meter is broken.
.........?
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 11:20 AM
.........?
.........!
lew_1987
07/30/09, 11:21 AM
You're 22; figure it the fuck out yourself.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 11:22 AM
You're 22; figure it the fuck out yourself.
:thumbup:
oncedarkness
07/30/09, 11:25 AM
I think it's cheating, no doubt. Don't let him say it "just happened." It's not like he accidentally cursed in front of your parents. If he told you "it slipped, I'm sorry, it just happened," then you could fly with that. Not sending another girl a picture of his snausage. I think that staying with him would be disrespecting yourself and setting a bad precedent of what you will tolerate in future boyfriends.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 11:28 AM
sorry to say, but from what i can tell, he isn't really interested in you. it seems to me that you're the one working hard on keeping the relationship alive, and he's taking it for granted.
if that action of him sending that picture to another girl wasn't intended, then he would be totally embaressed. just saying sorry and that it won't happen again, proves that he isn't sorry at all. he just wants you to forget about it, playing it down.
stop acting like you need him, tell him that it won't work that way. explain yourself and if he isn't convicingly sorry about it, dump him.
maybe you're lucky and he'll realize what he had when you're gone, and try to get you back.
i think he's just stuck on the fact that i checked his phone...and it was wrong...very wrong and i know that...but i think what he did blows what i did out of the water...i just had a bad feeling this whole past week..and i just needed to know what was up...now i wish i hadnt =/
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 11:28 AM
I think it's cheating, no doubt. Don't let him say it "just happened." It's not like he accidentally cursed in front of your parents. If he told you "it slipped, I'm sorry, it just happened," then you could fly with that.
Look... first of all, it's not like you tripped and fell into her... and then out of her... and then into her... again.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 11:31 AM
You're 22; figure it the fuck out yourself.
if you have no sound advice..then dont post
i surely dont need anymore bullshit at this point in time
GetWellBoss
07/30/09, 11:34 AM
i think he's just stuck on the fact that i checked his phone...and it was wrong...very wrong and i know that...but i think what he did blows what i did out of the water...i just had a bad feeling this whole past week..and i just needed to know what was up...now i wish i hadnt =/
what he is doing is called re-direction. he's taking what he did wrong and trying to re-direct the issue onto you by being upset about what you did.
What you did is wrong too(it seems you get that though). It breaks trust. What he did was EXTREMELY wrong though.
There is a reason you had a "bad feeling" this week. Humans have those feelings to protect themselves.
This is over. End it now before it gets worse.
i think he's just stuck on the fact that i checked his phone...and it was wrong...very wrong and i know that...but i think what he did blows what i did out of the water...i just had a bad feeling this whole past week..and i just needed to know what was up...now i wish i hadnt =/
he has no right to blame you right now, if he still does it just means that he has nothing to say and wants to detract from it.
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 11:35 AM
i think he's just stuck on the fact that i checked his phone...and it was wrong...very wrong and i know that...but i think what he did blows what i did out of the water...i just had a bad feeling this whole past week..and i just needed to know what was up...now i wish i hadnt =/
It was more wrong that he (did it at all, and then) kept that from you than it was for you to go through his phone. And I'm going to say that, regardless if you consider it cheating or not, it's a trust issue. Secret secrets are no fun, secret secrets hurt someone.
I say you post n00dz on AP. Hopefully your bf will see them, and get a taste of his own medicine.
It's a win-win for all.
Nightfox33
07/30/09, 11:36 AM
Ashlee Simpson???
Is Pete sending pictures again?
It was more wrong that he (did it at all, and then) kept that from you than it was for you to go through his phone. And I'm going to say that, regardless if you consider it cheating or not, it's a trust issue. Secret secrets are no fun, secret secrets hurt someone.
i would even go so far to say, that it wasn't wrong of you to check his mails. it wasn't, because you were fucking right.
lew_1987
07/30/09, 11:45 AM
if you have no sound advice..then dont post
i surely dont need anymore bullshit at this point in time
It was completely serious advice.
try anal
then he wont cheat on you anymore
That's a deal breaker ladies!
/Tina Fey
try anal
then he wont cheat on you anymore
hahahaha, awesome advice.
on a frequency
07/30/09, 11:50 AM
please get rid of him
but seriously dump his ass, i know if my girlfriend sent pictures of her tits to some guy id dump her on the spot.
freewheelburnin
07/30/09, 11:54 AM
if you have no sound advice..then dont post
i surely dont need anymore bullshit at this point in time
honestly. it is cheating. at least to me. i had a relationship end over this same exact shit. we were together for two years and she sent a few to her ex. who's to say that the girl he sent these pictures to is the only one? could be five more ya know? guys are horny fucks and will do whatever it takes to see a chick naked. if he was sending some, she was too for sure. i guess the easiest way to look at it is this. if you cant trust him with something as simple as a cell phone...how could you trust him with anything? he can tell you he wants to be with you...and that he won't do it again, but as a betting man, i'd be willing to put fifty bucks down he does it again within the next month. hope you figure this out, if i were in your position i'd end it immediately.
GetWellBoss
07/30/09, 11:55 AM
but seriously dump his ass, i know if my girlfriend sent pictures of her tits to some guy id dump her on the spot.
agreed.
loudog024
07/30/09, 12:04 PM
Yea, you're a moron if you don't end this one. He might as well be cheating, you're wasting your time. Game over. He'll miss you when you're gone, that's usually how it works.
Burnout2888
07/30/09, 12:06 PM
1) What the hell does "it just happened" mean? You really are going to take that? Come on. "I don't know, I pulled my pants down, pulled a picture of her up on the laptop, got my dick hard and took a picture. It just all happened so fast."
2) Like everyone else - he's going to do it again. Guaranteed. He had no reason to do it the first time, and if she had taken the bait, I guarantee you he would have snuck out and had sex with her. Why do you want that? He only stopped because he was caught. He wasn't planning on ever telling you, and don't be naive to believe that he was.
3) This thread would get two thumbs up if that mystery girl he sent these to was actually a guy.
i did last nite...woke him and was like im leaving..and we argued about it...i did make the mistake of goin thru his phone..but he had been acting strange all week..at least thats how i felt...something was off, but he said he was fine..clearly more than fine
Send a half naked picture of yourself to someone and see how he responds. Then dump him anyway.
fezmar9
07/30/09, 12:12 PM
i am more of a "taste of your own medicine" kind of guy
sometimes words just do not do justice
sometimes it is best to have them go through the same experience
if i were in your shoes, i would have a pic of some other guys dick as the wallpaper of my phone
then somehow casually get him to look at your phone - leave it on a table near him or have his friend call you then hand the phone to him with the screen facing him
or if you wanted to be REALLY REALLY mean, you could take his phone and trade your phone number for the other girls number. this way when you text him, her name comes up and you can mess with him. send him flirty texts and see if he goes for it.
but thats just me
i love the taste of sweet revenge <3
given your responses in this thread, you seem like more of a nice girl, so this probably isnt up your alley :(
SonEric84
07/30/09, 12:17 PM
It's still a form of being unfaithful and dishonest. Wrong is wrong, no matter how big the sin. Little stuff like this is a pretty good inkling of bigger things to come later on down the road. Best to rid yourself of this BS now.
...and guys like this get girlfriends...urgh.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 12:17 PM
OP is going to forgive him because she's a dumb bitch.
Burnout2888
07/30/09, 12:19 PM
OP is going to forgive him because she's a dumb bitch.
Yep.
Send a half naked picture of yourself to someone and see how he responds. Then dump him anyway.
this.
argg_xo
07/30/09, 12:23 PM
He's probably going to keep doing it.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 12:25 PM
fuck threads like this on this website, what the fuck?
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
haha.
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
Yer super elite.
argg_xo
07/30/09, 12:31 PM
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
dude, this is a punk website, we should start threads about our personal punk life problems. not shit about grainy camera phone pics. wtf.
Animalhill
07/30/09, 12:33 PM
fuck threads like this on this website, what the fuck?
maybe... go somewhere else?
Bi11 Lumburgh
07/30/09, 12:43 PM
I say you post n00dz on AP. Hopefully your bf will see them, and get a taste of his own medicine.
It's a win-win for all.
I came in here to say this, thought I was gonna be the first to mention this,
post your own half naked pics so you can even the playing field a bit
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 12:52 PM
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
hey everyone, lets use posts as a guide to how smart everyone is!
people with less than 5000 posts are totally useless, we'll vote them off the island first! naw forget it, they might as well just be assassinated.
20000+ posters are the only ones who should be allowed to speak!
right?!
JesusOnXtc
07/30/09, 12:52 PM
If you are really wanting to work it out and if he really is as sorry as he says, then have him text the chick to "fuck off" in front of you.
Neo Cassady
07/30/09, 12:55 PM
If you are really wanting to work it out and if he really is as sorry as he says, then have him text the chick to "fuck off" in front of you.
You honestly believe that will prove he's sorry? He'd probably just wait until she wasn't around, then explain to the other girl what happened. There is nothing she should do except leave him.
hey everyone, lets use posts as a guide to how smart everyone is!
people with less than 5000 posts are totally useless, we'll vote them off the island first! naw forget it, they might as well just be assassinated.
20000+ posters are the only ones who should be allowed to speak!
right?!
hey parrot, just for the record. you're a total moron and i fully agree with thespearkid. get off of pl, please.
danielineffigy
07/30/09, 01:03 PM
He doesn't trust you because you went through his phone. You don't trust him because he sent some SMS Boner Jamz to another lady.
Sounds like you both need to start over with other people. If you stay with him you are very very foolish.
Kassie09
07/30/09, 01:16 PM
I would definitely dump my boyfriend if he did that, I am sure he'd dump me if I did that. I'm not really sure why you'd show another girl a picture like that without the intent of fucking. Sooo..I wouldn't say it was cheating..but it was leading up to it.
inreverie
07/30/09, 01:55 PM
Dump him! Then, snap his phone in half and go get decent guy!
thespearkid
07/30/09, 01:59 PM
hey everyone, lets use posts as a guide to how smart everyone is!
people with less than 5000 posts are totally useless, we'll vote them off the island first! naw forget it, they might as well just be assassinated.
20000+ posters are the only ones who should be allowed to speak!
right?!
i'm sorry. i should've been more clear. i don't actually think we should give a shit what you think. i can see how you'd make that mistake though.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 02:00 PM
i'm sorry. i should've been more clear. i don't actually think we should give a shit what you think. i can see how you'd make that mistake though.
oh yeah, youre really clever. i wanna be you.
Thomas Nassiff
07/30/09, 02:02 PM
hey parrot, just for the record. you're a total moron and i fully agree with thespearkid. get off of pl, please.
im totes jealous of everyone who has more posts than me. even if theyre all douches and come on to music sites to talk about sexting.
im totes jealous of everyone who has more posts than me. even if theyre all douches and come on to music sites to talk about sexting.
yeah, i come to this "music site" and mainly stay in pl, because it entertains me. if you don't like this part of ap, then join the other parts.
actually, i shouldn't even talk to you because you're obviously a total idiot.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 02:11 PM
yeah, i come to this "music site" and mainly stay in pl, because it entertains me. if you don't like this part of ap, then join the other parts.
actually, i shouldn't even talk to you because you're obviously a total idiot.
dude, he can't read. it's a waste of time.
bladerdude360
07/30/09, 02:14 PM
I don't see how you could not dump this guy. If you walked into a room and he was showing some girl his cock, what would you do? If he said "Nothing was going to happen, I was just showing her what it looked like," would you believe him?
HelpMeSleep
07/30/09, 02:25 PM
yes. and I know it's been said, but dump his stupid ass.
Manicapathy
07/30/09, 02:38 PM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
HOW DARE YOU EVOKE THE POWERS OF THE PL FORUM FOR SUCH A RIDICULOUS QUESTION! THOU MUST DROP THIS DOUCHIEST OF DOUCHE BAGS LIKE A BAD HABIT!
takemyhand
07/30/09, 02:56 PM
Yeah. I mean, as long as he wasn't charged outrageous texting fees, who gives a shit?
exactly.
Cheesus
07/30/09, 03:10 PM
Did the photo come out good?
Rob Hrx
07/30/09, 04:12 PM
My friend has a theory on this: if you wouldn't do it with your girlfriend/wife/significant other in the room with you... it's cheating. This would have to have a pretty incredible backstory to make it acceptable. Fuck 'em.
fake empire
07/30/09, 04:16 PM
Are you keeping him sexually satisfied?
Indoor Living
07/30/09, 04:25 PM
alright then soo i guess the question is should i break up with him or try to work it out?
Don't settle. If he's gonna do dumb shit, kick him to the curb, you can do better.
altemose09
07/30/09, 04:37 PM
it's not cheating but it's creepy. drop the guy.
hey everyone! let's give a shit what the guy with 500 posts thinks!
post counts mean nothing
4N6 science
07/30/09, 04:51 PM
Would you like to send naked pics to me to get back at him?
thespearkid
07/30/09, 04:58 PM
post counts mean nothing
someone who has only posted 500 times comes in here and questions the need for an entire forum. in this case, yeah, his post count means no one cares.
Boot Toots
07/30/09, 05:02 PM
I'd say it's very similar. It's foreshadowing for him wanting to eventually show the girl his junk in person in the future.
someone who has only posted 500 times comes in here and questions the need for an entire forum. in this case, yeah, his post count means no one cares.
perhaps he lurks more than he posts?there are people around since 2003 with less than 500 posts. besides,he is right.there is no need for this forum.
i wouldnt say this was cheating exactly, but it certainly is frowned upon
Jimmy_Love
07/30/09, 05:20 PM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
Hey I'm not going to claim to be an expert on relationships or the perfect boyfriend, but i've held a very healthy relationship with a girl that I love for quite some time. While I've never experienced something of this caliber, we have both had a share of screw-ups. However, before things escalate to the point where things are beyond repair we talk about things. I think a lot of couples end relationships prematurely because they fail to communicate. I stand in firm belief that the key to a good, healthy relationship is communication. There's no denying that he fucked up, but give him a chance to explain himself/apologize, and then explain to him why this hurt you. I highly recommend doing this before dumping him, who nows maybe things can be fixed.
I wish you the best of luck =)
thespearkid
07/30/09, 05:21 PM
perhaps he lurks more than he posts?there are people around since 2003 with less than 500 posts. besides,he is right.there is no need for this forum.
if it wasn't for this forum, all these shitty threads would be made in general. this forum has a purpose and as much as people bitch about it, they'd bitch even more if it wasn't here.
timtowner
07/30/09, 05:22 PM
If the person is on the other side of the country or world, I would let it slide. Its like looking at porn except its homemade :)
if it wasn't for this forum, all these shitty threads would be made in general. this forum has a purpose and as much as people bitch about it, they'd bitch even more if it wasn't here.
there wouldn't be nearly as many threads if this forum didnt exist.The main reason so many pointless threads get made here is due to this forum having the reputation it does. the same ammount of pointless threads wold be made in general regardless of this forums existence.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 05:27 PM
there wouldn't be nearly as many threads if this forum didnt exist.The main reason so many pointless threads get made here is due to this forum having the reputation it does. the same ammount of pointless threads wold be made in general regardless of this forums existence.
by that logic, why don't you never come into this forum? seems like it would save time. and yes, without PL to attract most of the trolls, they would be in general.
by that logic, why don't you never come into this forum? seems like it would save time. and yes, without PL to attract most of the trolls, they would be in general.
I'm never in here.Dont know why I stumbled in here today,maybe it was faith :shrug: Trolls will always be around,but without PLs reputation there is little chance the same ammont would be around.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 05:30 PM
I'm never in here.Dont know why I stumbled in here today,maybe it was faith :shrug: Trolls will always be around,but without PLs reputation there is little chance the same ammont would be around.
trolls don't exist because PL is around. PL is around because trolls exist.
trolls don't exist because PL is around. PL is around because trolls exist.
I never said trolls exist becase of PL.The ammount of trolls is due to PL having the rep it does.Trolls who havent heard of PL go to general,trolls who know about PL go there. The vast majority of trolls in here are due to the rep this place has.
AndrewIcex
07/30/09, 05:55 PM
Soooo... no pics? yet?
thespearkid
07/30/09, 06:04 PM
I never said trolls exist becase of PL.The ammount of trolls is due to PL having the rep it does.Trolls who havent heard of PL go to general,trolls who know about PL go there. The vast majority of trolls in here are due to the rep this place has.
so getting rid of PL means those trolls will go to general.
so getting rid of PL means those trolls will go to general.
had the pl not existed those trolls wouldn't be here.
Edit:this just keeps going arond in circles brah
LaDiabla
07/30/09, 06:21 PM
http://bluebuddies.com/gallery/Is_This_A_Smurf/jpg/Trolls_Not_Smurfs.jpg
trolls are alll ovaaa thaa place
x
llwilliamsll
07/30/09, 06:25 PM
i think he's just stuck on the fact that i checked his phone...and it was wrong...very wrong and i know that...but i think what he did blows what i did out of the water...i just had a bad feeling this whole past week..and i just needed to know what was up...now i wish i hadnt =/
Haha, you seem like someone easily walked over. Are you implying that all would be fine as long as you didn't know about it? "Hey if the guy is cheating on me, I'm fine as long as I don't know about it...". That's fine though, don't break up with him. Everything will be fine.
3) This thread would get two thumbs up if that mystery girl he sent these to was actually a guy.
hahaha, if only that were the case
zion the lion
07/30/09, 07:07 PM
Dump his cheating ass, he's a cheater, cheating cheating cheat cheat cheater.
They're all cheatters.
anamericangod
07/30/09, 07:09 PM
It depends if he was wearing socks or holding a can of PBR.
ArmedROBery
07/30/09, 07:51 PM
If you really want to fuck with him, pretend your fine with him for at least a day. Get a hold of his phone somehow, and upload a picture of a dimple dick to his phone, and send it to the girl. Be like "hey babe, I'm sorry I lied about my dong. Here's the real 'thang." I'm sure word will spread of his short-cummings.
/ba-dum-chhhhaaa
trappedintime
07/30/09, 08:05 PM
Cheating. Dump him. Move on. :-)
sweetforever
07/30/09, 08:49 PM
Dump him and then fuck his brother and record it on tape and show it to him.
Dump him and then fuck his brother and record it on tape and show it to him.
and dont forget to post it on here so we can ll see too
sweetforever
07/30/09, 09:08 PM
and dont forget to post it on here so we can ll see too
Of course of course, how could I have forgotten the most important part
loudpunkguitar
07/30/09, 09:10 PM
its cheating, he was stirring things up with another person. as everyone has pointed, its not like he did this by accident. its one thing to walk down a street, notice a hot a girl and glance. its another thing to take a picture of yourself half naked, put in a text message, and send it to someone.
basically whats going on is he is trying to have you both. hes gonna stay with you as long you let him so he can do whatever he wants with you, and he is gonna mess with this girl and try and get whatever he can from her. either that or he is sticking with you cause even though he would rather have her, he hasn't sealed the deal yet, and so he wants someone to be there in case this doesn't work out for him.
either way, he is taking advantage of you and violating the trust of a relationship.
the fact that you even brought it up on this forum says to me that you already know you need to get rid of him but you are attached or don't have will to do it. so you need a group of people to back you up.
you know what's right though, so just do it already.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:15 PM
If you really want to fuck with him, pretend your fine with him for at least a day. Get a hold of his phone somehow, and upload a picture of a dimple dick to his phone, and send it to the girl. Be like "hey babe, I'm sorry I lied about my dong. Here's the real 'thang." I'm sure word will spread of his short-cummings.
/ba-dum-chhhhaaa
hahahahahah awesome...tho i doubt ill be left with his phone anymore..that is if i see him after this
and i fuckin cleaned half his house ..fucked him and then i find fuckin pictures...Jesus Christ lol...i should put this on fmylife.com or something
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:20 PM
its cheating, he was stirring things up with another person. as everyone has pointed, its not like he did this by accident. its one thing to walk down a street, notice a hot a girl and glance. its another thing to take a picture of yourself half naked, put in a text message, and send it to someone.
basically whats going on is he is trying to have you both. hes gonna stay with you as long you let him so he can do whatever he wants with you, and he is gonna mess with this girl and try and get whatever he can from her. either that or he is sticking with you cause even though he would rather have her, he hasn't sealed the deal yet, and so he wants someone to be there in case this doesn't work out for him.
either way, he is taking advantage of you and violating the trust of a relationship.
the fact that you even brought it up on this forum says to me that you already know you need to get rid of him but you are attached or don't have will to do it. so you need a group of people to back you up.
you know what's right though, so just do it already.
youre exactly right... and its killing me to think i have to...i am attached..to him to his family to his friends to his sweet dog that cuddles with me every night im there...its so fuckin messed up isnt it?
Of course of course, how could I have forgotten the most important part
not sure mate, but dont worry, i got your back
loudpunkguitar
07/30/09, 09:25 PM
youre exactly right... and its killing me to think i have to...i am attached..to him to his family to his friends to his sweet dog that cuddles with me every night im there...its so fuckin messed up isnt it?
the longer you put it off the harder its gonna be and the more likely you are to talk yourself out of it.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:29 PM
the longer you put it off the harder its gonna be and the more likely you are to talk yourself out of it.
or he dumps me ...like has happened with other bf's...ive only had 3 well 4 so far lol....
GoWaitInTheCar
07/30/09, 09:29 PM
Oh, nice..
loudpunkguitar
07/30/09, 09:31 PM
or he dumps me ...like has happened with other bf's...ive only had 3 well 4 so far lol....
don't give him that opportunity
Alex DiVincenzo
07/30/09, 09:38 PM
I wouldn't say cheating given that there was no physical content, but it's a scummy, dumpable offense.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:38 PM
don't give him that opportunity
he said that yea he fucked up but he was pissed i went thru his phone..and that we need to think about what we want relationship wise..just seems like he doesnt care if he hurt me, but he never came off as that type of person
ive never had someone treat me so well...just so confused..its like a horrible dream ...makes me wanna throw up lol
loudpunkguitar
07/30/09, 09:45 PM
he said that yea he fucked up but he was pissed i went thru his phone..and that we need to think about what we want relationship wise..just seems like he doesnt care if he hurt me, but he never came off as that type of person
ive never had someone treat me so well...just so confused..its like a horrible dream ...makes me wanna throw up lol
dump him and then throw up, lol
i'm not suggesting that its easy though, but you deserve someone that wants to be with you, that is all.
konvalbr
07/30/09, 09:47 PM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
you're retarded, of course it is. he's not being true to you. moron
amour faux
07/30/09, 09:52 PM
drop that zero and get with the hero.
i don't know what that means but i heard Rob Van Winkle say it once.
spritelybrin
07/30/09, 09:53 PM
you're retarded, of course it is. he's not being true to you. moron
thanks for your kind words =]
do girls get turned on my that anyway?
zion the lion
07/30/09, 10:17 PM
do girls get turned on my that anyway?
Penis = ugly as hell
so no. I dont know why guys think I'll get turned on by that anyway.
omgrawr
07/30/09, 10:20 PM
i always considered cheating either doing something sexual or making out, so technically no. but id still break the fuck up with anyone that sent half naked pictures to someone
Penis = ugly as hell
so no. I dont know why guys think I'll get turned on by that anyway.
your implying guys randomly send you photos of their penis in attempts to turn you on?
i always considered cheating either doing something sexual or making out, so technically no. but id still break the fuck up with anyone that sent half naked pictures to someone
its kind of sexual? it has sexual implications.
thespearkid
07/30/09, 10:21 PM
Penis = ugly as hell
so no. I dont know why guys think I'll get turned on by that anyway.
hey zion, you owe my pics.
zion the lion
07/30/09, 10:22 PM
your implying guys randomly send you photos of their penis in attempts to turn you on?
Multiple guys have multiple times. A few have gone as far as to say "hey lets go on aim/msn!" and then end up on their fucking webcams with their dick out, asking me if I want to get naked.
do girls get turned on my that anyway?
only if you have a raging hard on
zion the lion
07/30/09, 10:23 PM
hey zion, you owe my pics.
naked? I aint your ho
thespearkid
07/30/09, 10:25 PM
naked? I aint your ho
not nekkid. clothed.
Jake Denning
07/30/09, 10:29 PM
well heck, the thread already died when I came back.
omgrawr
07/30/09, 10:34 PM
its kind of sexual? it has sexual implications.
well true. but i mean like physical things like handjobs, blowjobs, and actual sex.
zion the lion
07/30/09, 10:36 PM
not nekkid. clothed.
Well that leads me to this question. When something happens to the cord, can you buy a new one, or do you have to buy a whole new camera?
Multiple guys have multiple times. A few have gone as far as to say "hey lets go on aim/msn!" and then end up on their fucking webcams with their dick out, asking me if I want to get naked.
theirs no way on hell id have enough confidence to do that.
1. id rather do it in person.
2. id be too scared they would record it and put it on the net.
only if you have a raging hard on
oh! thats why my pics didnt work. i thought everyone wanted to see my flacid penis? whose the goose.
well true. but i mean like physical things like handjobs, blowjobs, and actual sex.
so youd be cool for your gf sending/recieving naked pics to/off other dudes?
oh! thats why my pics didnt work. i thought everyone wanted to see my flacid penis? whose the goose.
you are. i recommend you give it another shot whilst in the middle of a chubby. i predict the ladies will love it
you are. i recommend you give it another shot whilst in the middle of a chubby. i predict the ladies will love it
:blink:
thespearkid
07/30/09, 10:47 PM
Well that leads me to this question. When something happens to the cord, can you buy a new one, or do you have to buy a whole new camera?
wait. what? i just want to know what you look like.
omgrawr
07/30/09, 10:48 PM
so youd be cool for your gf sending/recieving naked pics to/off other dudes?
...no. hence the part where i said "but id still break the fuck up with anyone that sent half naked pictures to someone" -.-
limegreenfruit
07/30/09, 10:53 PM
Since it's txt-ing I just think where did he get her number from?
If it was online you can easily go on find a stranger and do whatever but they would just keep it on the computer.
If someone was in a long distance relationship and this happened to them, of course it's cheating.
A few years ago the guy I'm with now kissed a girl he used to know. We worked through it but it takes work and you both have to want to be in the relationship.
He doesn't seem to realize that he's done anything wrong and might even be embarrassed to admit what he is up too.
zion the lion
07/30/09, 11:00 PM
theirs no way on hell id have enough confidence to do that.
1. id rather do it in person.
2. id be too scared they would record it and put it on the net.
Me too, I would never do that to anyone, but I know enough people who do that kind of thing, to scare me away from taking any dirty pictures ever.
wait. what? i just want to know what you look like.
I took a whole bunch of pictures when I was out shooting/hiking and when I tried to upload the pictures, I realized that my bunny chewed through my cord...so I asked that question.
Sic Transit Zeb
07/30/09, 11:03 PM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
Just send me some pics and you can call it even lol.
Me too, I would never do that to anyone, but I know enough people who do that kind of thing, to scare me away from taking any dirty pictures ever.
i live my life by a very simple mantra.
dont take naked pictures if yourself.
its working great so far!
nude photo scandals for me: 0
nude photo scandals for rhianna: 1 (and look what happened to her)
zion the lion
07/30/09, 11:21 PM
i live my life by a very simple mantra.
dont take naked pictures if yourself.
its working great so far!
nude photo scandals for me: 0
nude photo scandals for rhianna: 1 (and look what happened to her)
Haha me too. One ex kept trying to get me to send naked pics to him while we were together, and kept saying "oh babe you can trust me" even though he bragged to me about sending his ex girlfriend's naked pictures to everyone (including me) after she broke up with him.
Five-Star
07/30/09, 11:22 PM
Haha me too. One ex kept trying to get me to send naked pics to him while we were together, and kept saying "oh babe you can trust me" even though he bragged to me about sending his ex girlfriend's naked pictures to everyone (including me) after she broke up with him.
zioooooooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
zion the lion
07/30/09, 11:35 PM
zioooooooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yo, what have you been up to?
Five-Star
07/30/09, 11:37 PM
nuttin much maan dude im fuckin drunk what are you up toooo?
thespearkid
07/30/09, 11:45 PM
Me too, I would never do that to anyone, but I know enough people who do that kind of thing, to scare me away from taking any dirty pictures ever.
I took a whole bunch of pictures when I was out shooting/hiking and when I tried to upload the pictures, I realized that my bunny chewed through my cord...so I asked that question.
well how about i pm you my number and you pic-message me a couple.
zion the lion
07/30/09, 11:55 PM
nuttin much maan dude im fuckin drunk what are you up toooo?
doing what i do best! getting high hahaha.
also, me and the people i live with got in a car accident earlier this year and they found out that my mom has nerves spilling out into her neck, so the insurance company is giving us 30,000 dollars just for pain and suffering. i feel so rich!
zion the lion
07/30/09, 11:57 PM
well how about i pm you my number and you pic-message me a couple.
no can do. I know this one is going to sound like a crazy excuse, but it really happened. last winter i dropped my phone on the ice and the camera lense thing got scratched up so pictures dont show up.
Five-Star
07/30/09, 11:58 PM
doing what i do best! getting high hahaha.
also, me and the people i live with got in a car accident earlier this year and they found out that my mom has nerves spilling out into her neck, so the insurance company is giving us 30,000 dollars just for pain and suffering. i feel so rich!
rich giiiiiiiiiirl man i got high to but the weed kciks my ass. vodka i love weed just sloooows me doooown. now im bout to go to some girls house and do some thaaaaaaaangs
Trioxide
07/31/09, 12:00 AM
i think its cheating. dump the bastard. the only person who should be seeing his cock is you.
zion the lion
07/31/09, 12:02 AM
rich giiiiiiiiiirl man i got high to but the weed kciks my ass. vodka i love weed just sloooows me doooown. now im bout to go to some girls house and do some thaaaaaaaangs
i'm gonna go get myself some chineese food. yay china!!!!!!!!!! dont get nobody pregnant!
Five-Star
07/31/09, 12:05 AM
i'm gonna go get myself some chineese food. yay china!!!!!!!!!! dont get nobody pregnant!
haha i kno dude i dont plan to. have fun wit the chinese talk to you lata
thespearkid
07/31/09, 12:06 AM
no can do. I know this one is going to sound like a crazy excuse, but it really happened. last winter i dropped my phone on the ice and the camera lense thing got scratched up so pictures dont show up.
what about the pictures that we on your alleged myspace? aren't they still on your computer? couldn't you just up one to photobucket and send me the link? i want to be the only person on AP who knows what you look like.
killerswells
07/31/09, 12:20 AM
He doesn't trust you because you went through his phone. You don't trust him because he sent some SMS Boner Jamz to another lady.
Sounds like you both need to start over with other people. If you stay with him you are very very foolish.
lolz.
the real question is, why are you dating someone dumb enough to text a girl while you are out for dinner with him? i mean, if you are going to cheat, at least be smart about it. dumbass.
the first thing i do when i get a new ladies number is to send her a piccie of my dong. if thats cheating then im in trouble
maxvsmaradona
07/31/09, 12:26 AM
This thread is still making me roflcaust. ahaha, penis.
dump
cheating all the way
Multiple guys have multiple times. A few have gone as far as to say "hey lets go on aim/msn!" and then end up on their fucking webcams with their dick out, asking me if I want to get naked.
what. the. fuck.
you didn't tell me you were that fucked up.
he said that yea he fucked up but he was pissed i went thru his phone..and that we need to think about what we want relationship wise..just seems like he doesnt care if he hurt me, but he never came off as that type of person
ive never had someone treat me so well...just so confused..its like a horrible dream ...makes me wanna throw up lol
he acts like that because he has no excuse. he thought he can flirt and send nudes to other girls and whatnot, and you wouldn't ever find out.
zion the lion
07/31/09, 01:09 AM
what about the pictures that we on your alleged myspace? aren't they still on your computer? couldn't you just up one to photobucket and send me the link? i want to be the only person on AP who knows what you look like.
The myspace picture is a mix of me and my friend (like us comibned). there arent any pictures of me on this computer, the ones with me on them are both destroyed.
what. the. fuck.
you didn't tell me you were that fucked up.
what?
thespearkid
07/31/09, 01:12 AM
The myspace picture is a mix of me and my friend (like us comibned). there arent any pictures of me on this computer, the ones with me on them are both destroyed.
what?
so there are no pictures of you on the internet and no possible way to get some up?
zion the lion
07/31/09, 01:57 AM
so there are no pictures of you on the internet and no possible way to get some up?
if there are any, on the internet, they're at least a couple years old.
bigblue2015
07/31/09, 07:39 AM
Dump him. No reasonable excuse for sending another girl a picture of your cock. There's no way around it.
therookielot
07/31/09, 08:23 AM
Looking for opinions on this:
does sending some other girl pictures of yourself half naked and and your fuckin hard dick when you have a girlfriend....go under the catergory of cheating?
just wondering...thoughts?
1. drop the dude.
2. hook up with me instead.
3. profit.
In all seriousness though, it treads the line of cheating. I don't see this dude staying faithful to you for very long. I think you two should take some time to evaluate the future of your relationship. It does not look good at this point.
Unless he's one of those dudes who wants a steady girlfriend, but also wants some action on the side. I'm a dude, I see this shit happen all the time. One kid that I've known since high school was dating this girl since freshman year, but messed around with so many girls in their 6 year run of their relationship. He was madly in love with the girl too, he just liked to screw around.
spritelybrin
07/31/09, 08:36 AM
i told him we needed to talk to today..but he says he's busy today...
which translated means..i dont care enough about you to make time
ReignofFiction
07/31/09, 08:56 AM
That's just stupid, I say he gets the boot.
i told him we needed to talk to today..but he says he's busy today...
which translated means..i dont care enough about you to make time
honey, do yourself a favor and end it right away. if you think we're wrong, then confront him. tell him that he has to decide, either talk about it right now or you're gone. i'll bet some money that he will break up right then.
Rey1789
07/31/09, 09:02 AM
i told him we needed to talk to today..but he says he's busy today...
which translated means..i dont care enough about you to make time
that's most probably code for he's cheating today. dump him, cause no matter what, sending naked pictures to someone isn't nescessarily cheating, but it's on the virge.
This is what kills me about women in general. You consistantly trip over yourselves to get to the nearest complete and total asshole, and then when it turns out he's a fucking asshole, you get legitimately surprised and shocked. I'm sorry to say, but any douchebag who's shallow and vapid enough to send pictures of his DICK to other women is NOT worth your, or any other woman's time.
If he put himself in your shoes, he would rage at you and break up with you. There's no question. His fragile ego would not allow him to forgive you, and really, he shouldn't. So why the hell would you even think about forgiving him? If you don't DEMAND better for yourself, you really aren't going to do any better. Kick the piece of shit to the curb, steal the assholes dog, and go find a man who is comfortable enough in his masculinity so that he doesn't have to chase after every twat that will compliment his greased up gym rat body.
You can thank me later.
SonEric84
07/31/09, 09:23 AM
This is what kills me about women in general. You consistantly trip over yourselves to get to the nearest complete and total asshole, and then when it turns out he's a fucking asshole, you get legitimately surprised and shocked. I'm sorry to say, but any douchebag who's shallow and vapid enough to send pictures of his DICK to other women is NOT worth your, or any other woman's time.
If he put himself in your shoes, he would rage at you and break up with you. There's no question. His fragile ego would not allow him to forgive you, and really, he shouldn't. So why the hell would you even think about forgiving him? If you don't DEMAND better for yourself, you really aren't going to do any better. Kick the piece of shit to the curb, steal the assholes dog, and go find a man who is comfortable enough in his masculinity so that he doesn't have to chase after every twat that will compliment his greased up gym rat body.
You can thank me later.
Hell yes.
JustAHomeBoy
07/31/09, 09:33 AM
This is what kills me about women in general. You consistantly trip over yourselves to get to the nearest complete and total asshole, and then when it turns out he's a fucking asshole, you get legitimately surprised and shocked. I'm sorry to say, but any douchebag who's shallow and vapid enough to send pictures of his DICK to other women is NOT worth your, or any other woman's time.
If he put himself in your shoes, he would rage at you and break up with you. There's no question. His fragile ego would not allow him to forgive you, and really, he shouldn't. So why the hell would you even think about forgiving him? If you don't DEMAND better for yourself, you really aren't going to do any better. Kick the piece of shit to the curb, steal the assholes dog, and go find a man who is comfortable enough in his masculinity so that he doesn't have to chase after every twat that will compliment his greased up gym rat body.
You can thank me later.
This man speaks the truth.
lovely864md
07/31/09, 10:00 AM
I fully support snapping his phone in half and kicking him to the curb. Really, you're 22, how is this a question? Respect yourself.
Richard Maxim
07/31/09, 10:06 AM
and if yes, dump that motherf'er b/c he's straying
I use strayed all the time and everyone thinks its a stupid word. thanks for helping me bring it back.
bigblue2015
07/31/09, 10:08 AM
This is what kills me about women in general. You consistantly trip over yourselves to get to the nearest complete and total asshole, and then when it turns out he's a fucking asshole, you get legitimately surprised and shocked. I'm sorry to say, but any douchebag who's shallow and vapid enough to send pictures of his DICK to other women is NOT worth your, or any other woman's time.
If he put himself in your shoes, he would rage at you and break up with you. There's no question. His fragile ego would not allow him to forgive you, and really, he shouldn't. So why the hell would you even think about forgiving him? If you don't DEMAND better for yourself, you really aren't going to do any better. Kick the piece of shit to the curb, steal the assholes dog, and go find a man who is comfortable enough in his masculinity so that he doesn't have to chase after every twat that will compliment his greased up gym rat body.
You can thank me later.
This is a quality post.
This is what kills me about women in general. You consistantly trip over yourselves to get to the nearest complete and total asshole, and then when it turns out he's a fucking asshole, you get legitimately surprised and shocked. I'm sorry to say, but any douchebag who's shallow and vapid enough to send pictures of his DICK to other women is NOT worth your, or any other woman's time.
If he put himself in your shoes, he would rage at you and break up with you. There's no question. His fragile ego would not allow him to forgive you, and really, he shouldn't. So why the hell would you even think about forgiving him? If you don't DEMAND better for yourself, you really aren't going to do any better. Kick the piece of shit to the curb, steal the assholes dog, and go find a man who is comfortable enough in his masculinity so that he doesn't have to chase after every twat that will compliment his greased up gym rat body.
You can thank me later.
this. good man.
Mirrorsandfevers
07/31/09, 10:27 AM
Just kill him.
Just kill him.
someone that cruel doesn't die that easy. you need to ram a plug right in his heart. that'll teach him.
spunkmastaflex
07/31/09, 10:44 AM
i told him we needed to talk to today..but he says he's busy today...
which translated means..i dont care enough about you to make time
well, if he talked about a time that was good for him, then he is trying at least to make time. IMO, he should get over you going thru is phone a lot sooner than you should about him sending pics of himself. He is just mad/confused that he got caught. But as far as this is concerned, he hasnt said anything about who this girl is or how he got her number? And if he has delayed it this long, he is just hoping you drop the topic... dont drop it, get the answers, you deserve them.
spritelybrin
07/31/09, 11:01 AM
Thanks everyone for your advice..its givin me a lot of stress but a lot of confidence too..to not be scared to let go when i deserve better..
.he said he heard from a couple ppl that i took girls numbers out of his phone! which is totally untrue! im that much of a crazy bitch lol...he is still trying to make this out as me being the one in trouble...but i guess were gonna talk when he has a lunch break...soo idk..im gonna try and be strong and if he has nothing worthwhile to say..then im ending it, he was soo good to me til this all happened..he really was one of the best bfs ive ever had..but deep inside the whole time i just had this feeling of too good to be true..and i was right..and sometimes i hate being right...
spritelybrin
07/31/09, 11:02 AM
maybe i should post a pic of him on here so everyone can watch out lol what a fuker
hes just gonna smooth talk you and you will be back together will him. just like every female
GetWellBoss
07/31/09, 11:16 AM
go for it. just not of "him".
hes just gonna smooth talk you and you will be back together withl him. just like every female
my thoughts exactly.
perceptrons
07/31/09, 11:47 AM
my thoughts exactly.
All males thoughts who have any knowledge of females.
Also, perhaps he wants a lady with better grammar?
cw-ello
07/31/09, 12:19 PM
*If you're suspicious of something, you're probably right, and snooping through a phone is a minor offense all things considered
*While I'd say this doesn't constitute cheating, it does say that he's looking for the opportunity to cheat
*If he's looking for opportunity to cheat he probably already has
*You're dating a guy who takes cellphone pictures of his genitals...that's reason alone to dump a guy
deFobbed14yrs
07/31/09, 01:02 PM
I use strayed all the time and everyone thinks its a stupid word. thanks for helping me bring it back.
wait seriously? who are these people
Girls are all the same.
JUST DUMP HIM
cory-182
07/31/09, 01:32 PM
Dump him. Date me.
I don't do Facebook, Myspace or Twitter.
mick2late
07/31/09, 01:52 PM
he says..i get the real thing..and that it "just happened" and that he wants to be with me..but clearly not as much as i thought...idk if its necessarily cheating..but idk if i can trust him....idk who this girl is...theres no name..just a number...so obv he's trying to hide it. he was texting her while we were at dinner with his friends last nite!..i just feel like a fucking joke lol....
You will be a fucking joke if you don't dump his lame ass.
danielineffigy
07/31/09, 01:59 PM
http://www.poptower.com/images/db/10076/450/450/is-she-really-going-out-with-him.jpg
bigblue2015
07/31/09, 02:39 PM
http://www.poptower.com/images/db/10076/450/450/is-she-really-going-out-with-him.jpg
Hahaha I love that show
fearthesloths
07/31/09, 02:51 PM
i didn't bother reading the whole thread so i'm sure many other people said the same thing.
get rid of him, you deserve better than that
you deserve much better, dump his sorry ass.
Richard Maxim
07/31/09, 07:21 PM
wait seriously? who are these people
Some people from my job, real haters but no worries. were bringing that shit in style.
Sarcasm
07/31/09, 07:39 PM
http://www.poptower.com/images/db/10076/450/450/is-she-really-going-out-with-him.jpg
haha, that fits in so well.
Dump him.
deFobbed14yrs
07/31/09, 07:45 PM
Some people from my job, real haters but no worries. were bringing that shit in style.
fuck yeah
Akissforher
07/31/09, 08:13 PM
find out why hes been acting weird, if he's treating you badly, leave his naked photo sending ass
maxvsmaradona
07/31/09, 09:38 PM
pshhh ahahah penises! This is too funny!
It's pretty much as close to cheating as you can get, without cheating.
Throw his ass to the curb.
donwagenblast
07/31/09, 10:12 PM
Infidelity happens when the thought first arrives. Dump him.
writeacliche
08/01/09, 02:18 PM
TL:DNR this entire thread but I'll cruise on over with my opinion anyways:
Get the fuck rid of him. If you aren't some insane woman then you deserve at least an ounce of respect and what he is doing is completely disrespectful.
SincerelyMe
08/01/09, 02:46 PM
I wouldn't quite call this cheating, but I would get rid of him.
GameKiller
08/01/09, 06:22 PM
I wouldn't quite call this cheating, but I would get rid of him.
I agree.
behappy123
08/01/09, 06:24 PM
I agree.
Same. What a douche.
spritelybrin
08/02/09, 10:47 AM
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
Sorry it had to go that way, but I think you're doing the right thing. Good luck!
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
you gotta look at the bright side of things, so many guys in here already offered themselves to you.
you just need to pick. =)
writeacliche
08/02/09, 11:45 AM
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
From what you've said so far it seems like he gave you your answer already.
Man I hate guys like that. Trust me when I say this: There are good guys out there willing to do anything to make you happy. Don't settle for less.
muttley
08/02/09, 12:03 PM
Is this question really necessary?
killerswells
08/02/09, 12:36 PM
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
no offense, but since when does changing some text on a social networking site affect what happens in real life?
not that im saying you shouldnt break up with the guy, but you are being just as childish as he is. either dump him face to face, or stay with him. dont play stupid fucking games.
llwilliamsll
08/02/09, 12:39 PM
soo if anyone cares...i put myself as single on facebook today lol...cuz he never returned my call from last nite so yea...
one of my best friends says that if he doesnt call me now or try to work it out..then i already got my answer of how much he really cares about this so called 'relationship'...or relationshit rather...thanks guys! for all your words of advice and encouragement! =P
http://www.nerve.com/CS/blogs/61fps/2009/01/facepalm.jpg
You really seem to know how to handle relationships
Undue Noise
08/03/09, 02:44 AM
It's not cheating, but dump his ass anyway.
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