Lost A Baby

[Mike Kraft]

So good friends of mine had a miscarriage, just last night. This was one they were planning for and were so happy about having. What do I say to them? What do I do? Should I even bring it up? It's a tragic loss.

[dropkickromance]

that sucks man. i'm sorry but i don't think you should bring it up. it's probably better off that way.

[sleepygrlgreen]

^agreed

[apoemtothedead]

Whatever you do don't say, "Hey. Did you lose weight?"

[sleepygrlgreen]

Whatever you do don't say, "Hey. Did you lose weight?"..................

[bigmike]

Whatever you do don't say, "Hey. Did you lose weight?"
haha.

[oldwirehands]

I usually laugh at these stories but usually the baby isn't planned. That is horrible. I guess just say that you're sorry to hear their loss. I'm sure they'll try again or maybe go to a doctor to find out how they can prevent it from happening again.

[Stereo Mike]

My mum had a miscarriage before she eventually gave birth to me.

How lucky for me.

[Greg]

well don't ask

"so when are you due again?"

[Jra1]

i was a medical miracle... my mum should be unable to conceive, but ta da.

im the second coming.

[oldwirehands]

i was a medical miracle... my mum should be unable to conceive, but ta da.

im the second coming.

You have the best sig on AP. End of story.

[Signals Corrupted]

well don't ask

"so when are you due again?"

mark's was better, but equally tasteless

[pUnkKid174]

there was a sign language teacher up at my school that had a miscarriage.....you shouldn't say anything about it, probably not for a good long while, like years, and don't look at them in a funny way because they will breakdown and start crying

[ClapClapSnap]

So good friends of mine had a miscarriage, just last night. This was one they were planning for and were so happy about having. What do I say to them? What do I do? Should I even bring it up? It's a tragic loss.

wow i'm so sorry....this happened to my best friend last year...it was really hard to deal with

we were actually going through a fight when she called me crying and told me what had happened...
treat it as a death..."i'm sorry for everything that happened, i'm sorry for your loss..." just be there for her in any way you can

how far along was she?

[bobbo8]

Dont bring her baby gifts.


Wow. I am an asshole.

[apoemtothedead]

mark's was better, but equally tasteless
You expected class out of me?

[Rebs]

My mom and my stepmom have both miscarried more than once. It is a highly emotional time for them, not only have they lost a child, but their hormones are also absolutely crazy. Just be there for support, be optimistic for her.

[dashboard1190]

offer them your support.