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[mediocrgreenday]

alright ill keep this brief. in hs i was dating a girl for 3 years. in college after about a semister we broke up. it was both of our first relationships, and me being a guy thought that i must be single, even though i was in a pretty good relationship with the nicest and most gorgeous girl i could ask for. anyways she got a new bf pretty quickly after that, but proceeded to call me every now and then. i never called her cause i didnt think it was right. no big deal i guess, but sometimes while her bf was away (army) shed call me after a night of drinking and be crying or something saying she missed me. i brushed it off cause i didnt want to ruin whatever she had, basiclly i didnt know what to do. then i finally get the call a year ago saying shes going to marry this guy, who is only around for acouple months, then leaves for acouple months. i wasnt terribly happy, but i just said that if thats what makes her happy then im happy for her. you can see at this point i really never wanted her back, never really gave it any thought. now its the end of college and i saw her out on the town and we hung out and had some drinks. after while walking on the street she walked quickly by me crying, her friend held back and said that she had memories of me. damn. that messed with my head. the girl is supposed to be getting married this shouldnt be happening, and on top of that i have never met a nicer/prettier girl then her since we broke up. i want her to be happy, and dont want to be a home wrecker, but i want her to make the right choice. i called her a day later and she didnt pick up, im guessing shes going to go with the ignore it rutine. i dont know if i should do anything or let her go her own way. anyone have any opinions?

[Stereo Mike]

That wasn't brief.

But let her go.

[Mitch]

Knock her out and hide her in your closet.

Seriously, I have like 5 chicks in mine.

[preppyak]

Knock her out and hide her in your closet.

Seriously, I have like 5 chicks in mine.
hmm, you too....it's an awesome strategy...use duct tape, people can't even hear them scream

[Spicoli hey bud]

hmm, you too....it's an awesome strategy...use duct tape, people can't even hear them scream
duct tape fixes everything

[preppyak]

duct tape fixes everything
haha, hilarious avatar

[allelish]

she clearly shoudn't be marryng this guy. Its up to you whether you wanna tell her that or not though...tricky.

[mediocrgreenday]

she clearly shoudn't be marryng this guy. Its up to you whether you wanna tell her that or not though...tricky.

yeah thats what im saying. i think ill stay out of it, hopfully whatever happends is for the best

[mediocrgreenday]

Knock her out and hide her in your closet.

Seriously, I have like 5 chicks in mine.

closet is full

[kg00d]

You know at a wedding where its asked if somoene doesn't agree on this marriage for a reason well here is a reason. Its obvious she still cares for you a lot and if you truly mean that she is the best girl that you have encountered over many years i wouldn't be letting her go.

[leafsacc]

You know at a wedding where its asked if somoene doesn't agree on this marriage for a reason well here is a reason. Its obvious she still cares for you a lot and if you truly mean that she is the best girl that you have encountered over many years i wouldn't be letting her go.

I agree, if she means that much to you, maybe you should consider trying to help her, but it is a really tough situation, not one that I would want to be in.

[mediocrgreenday]

I agree, if she means that much to you, maybe you should consider trying to help her, but it is a really tough situation, not one that I would want to be in.

thanks. yeah i dont know, i dont want to tear it wide open and make her go through misery, but at the same time, to me, it doesnt seem like shes ready to get married. i thought about talking to one of her best friends about this, but im not sure.

[ides of march]

just tell her "are you really ready for this?" and does she only cry about you when she drinks, cuz that could be a problem

[mediocrgreenday]

just tell her "are you really ready for this?" and does she only cry about you when she drinks, cuz that could be a problem

i havnt had the chance to ask her that, i guess thats why i posted this cause i didnt know if i should ask her that. she didnt pick up last time i called so i figured her (and probably her friends) decided it was best to leave it alone. and yeah, when shes sober she acts like everythings 100% ok, when i have a feeling deep down it is not. she even has told me how much her bf reminds her of me, and i just brush it off, but damn, this doesnt seem right.

[Saves The Night]

i havnt had the chance to ask her that, i guess thats why i posted this cause i didnt know if i should ask her that. she didnt pick up last time i called so i figured her (and probably her friends) decided it was best to leave it alone. and yeah, when shes sober she acts like everythings 100% ok, when i have a feeling deep down it is not. she even has told me how much her bf reminds her of me, and i just brush it off, but damn, this doesnt seem right.Totally serious here: Tell her how you feel, that she shouldnt marry the dude and if you really mean what you said about never finding anything better, id try to start something again. I mean, wow, thats just like a movie.

[abandnamedjon]

She seriously shouldn't be marrying this dude.

[edrinsane69]

i want her to be happy, and dont want to be a home wrecker, but i want her to make the right choice.

You said it, so you should let her go. Friendship lasts forever anyway.

[Saves The Night]

You said it, so you should let her go. Friendship lasts forever anyway.yeah but its obvious he probably still likes her...and then were is friendship going to get you...awkward

[Jentheoptimist]

alright ill keep this brief.
Fucking liar!!!!!!!

[lightcollapse]

talk to her. it can't hurt.

[kg00d]

talk to her. it can't hurt.

Exactly

[splitsecond]

let her go. she is already boning someone else.

[mediocrgreenday]

let her go. she is already boning someone else.

you obviously didnt read my post.

everyone else though thanks alot for reading it. i guess i still dont know what the fuck to do haha, this is a tough ass situation. i guess i need to talk to her, but i have a feeling shes not gonna budge or really listen.

[mediocrgreenday]

You said it, so you should let her go. Friendship lasts forever anyway.

yeah but what i really said is i want her to make the right choice.

[PlaCracktheSky]

Man you only live once, maybe you will never find another girl that is as good as her. You have to go for it!!!!!!

[Saves The Night]

Man you only live once, maybe you will never find another girl that is as good as her. You have to go for it!!!!!!exactly

[Shoes]

Man you only live once, maybe you will never find another girl that is as good as her. You have to go for it!!!!!!
Amen!
Don't let her marry this guy, it's not fair on all three of you. Don't let her spend the rest of her life with the wrong guy. Do you still love her?

[mediocrgreenday]

Amen!
Don't let her marry this guy, it's not fair on all three of you. Don't let her spend the rest of her life with the wrong guy. Do you still love her?

I dont know. I think so, or I wouldnt care about this so much. I just text messaged her about 5 minutes ago saying to give me a call when she ready too. that way she cant just ignore a regular call, and at the same time the ball is in her court so if she just wants to drop it she will, and ill have to let it be. its not like her to drop somthing thats really important like this though so I know shes really thinking about stuff right now, and I know that if she never calls back then she really is happy with the guy i guess.

[Saves The Night]

I dont know. I think so, or I wouldnt care about this so much. I just text messaged her about 5 minutes ago saying to give me a call when she ready too. that way she cant just ignore a regular call, and at the same time the ball is in her court so if she just wants to drop it she will, and ill have to let it be. its not like her to drop somthing thats really important like this though so I know shes really thinking about stuff right now, and I know that if she never calls back then she really is happy with the guy i guess.NO DUDE...take it from me, sometimes women dont call back because they think things are alright, and obviously they are not...you need to find her and tell her and plus thats bonus because you still like her obviously...go after her.

[PunkDrums182]

alright ill keep this brief. in hs i was dating a girl for 3 years. in college after about a semister we broke up. it was both of our first relationships, and me being a guy thought that i must be single, even though i was in a pretty good relationship with the nicest and most gorgeous girl i could ask for. anyways she got a new bf pretty quickly after that, but proceeded to call me every now and then. i never called her cause i didnt think it was right. no big deal i guess, but sometimes while her bf was away (army) shed call me after a night of drinking and be crying or something saying she missed me. i brushed it off cause i didnt want to ruin whatever she had, basiclly i didnt know what to do. then i finally get the call a year ago saying shes going to marry this guy, who is only around for acouple months, then leaves for acouple months. i wasnt terribly happy, but i just said that if thats what makes her happy then im happy for her. you can see at this point i really never wanted her back, never really gave it any thought. now its the end of college and i saw her out on the town and we hung out and had some drinks. after while walking on the street she walked quickly by me crying, her friend held back and said that she had memories of me. damn. that messed with my head. the girl is supposed to be getting married this shouldnt be happening, and on top of that i have never met a nicer/prettier girl then her since we broke up. i want her to be happy, and dont want to be a home wrecker, but i want her to make the right choice. i called her a day later and she didnt pick up, im guessing shes going to go with the ignore it rutine. i dont know if i should do anything or let her go her own way. anyone have any opinions?
You should talk to her, or a mutual friend about it because she can't be marrying this guy unless she's certain it's what she wants.

[mediocrgreenday]

NO DUDE...take it from me, sometimes women dont call back because they think things are alright, and obviously they are not...you need to find her and tell her and plus thats bonus because you still like her obviously...go after her.

ahh i dont know. i really think she may call though i know it will be in the back of her mind till she does it.

[Love As Arson]

Have sex with her simply based upon principle.

[brandnizzle32]

Have sex with her simply based upon principle.


i dont know alot about life, but this seems like a good idea.... go with this..

[kshtoinks12]

Knock her out and hide her in your closet.

Seriously, I have like 5 chicks in mine.
i couldn't, there's no room w/ all the dead babies

[lucky_krystle]

i couldn't, there's no room w/ all the dead babies

oh sam... :shake:

[brandnizzle32]

hhahhaa dead babies, always a funny topic... !?!

[ezgil]

wow that is one hell of a situation

you did the right thing to text her imo, but if she doesn't call, you should take action and don't let it slip by, carpe diem man.

edit: i dedicate my first post to u haha. Good luck!

[mediocrgreenday]

wow that is one hell of a situation

you did the right thing to text her imo, but if she doesn't call, you should take action and don't let it slip by, carpe diem man.

edit: i dedicate my first post to u haha. Good luck!


hahah sweet. thanks