Shy

[Midtown19]

I know its kinda weird to post here about personal problems, but whatever. I have a problem. It's hard for me to talk to people for the first time. For the most part, I can't walk up to girls and start a conversation. I have quite a lot of guy friends and am pretty confortable for the most part around them but whenever a girl comes around, I get totally nervous and tense up. It's kinda bad. I don't know if I have social anxiety or anything but I was just wondering what some people do to make that first step more easy...

And no, I'm not gay...

[apoemtothedead]

Stop being gay.

[bigmike]

I know its kinda weird to post here about personal problems, but whatever. I have a problem. It's hard for me to talk to people for the first time. For the most part, I can't walk up to girls and start a conversation. I have quite a lot of guy friends and am pretty confortable for the most part around them but whenever a girl comes around, I get totally nervous and tense up. It's kinda bad. I don't know if I have social anxiety or anything but I was just wondering what some people do to make that first step more easy...

And no, I'm not gay...
Oh, what you have is a form of social anxiety. I believe it's called "Pussy-itis". It's quite common among some people. I've heard side-effects are being alone and posting retarded ass shit about being said "pussy" on a music website.
Remedy: Quit posting on here, reach down, find your balls, and when they drop try saying "hi" to a girl.

[CROMagnon]

Oh, what you have is a form of social anxiety. I believe it's called "Pussy-itis". It's quite common among some people. I've heard side-effects are being alone and posting retarded ass shit about being said "pussy" on a music website.
Remedy: Quit posting on here, reach down, find your balls, and when they drop try saying "hi" to a girl.
i never post in this forum, but i have to say this is the best advice ever

[xTJx]

Stop being gay.

Hahaha for some reason this made me laugh really really hard

[xTJx]

Oh, what you have is a form of social anxiety. I believe it's called "Pussy-itis". It's quite common among some people. I've heard side-effects are being alone and posting retarded ass shit about being said "pussy" on a music website.
Remedy: Quit posting on here, reach down, find your balls, and when they drop try saying "hi" to a girl.

If this was like a one-liner, I probably would have fell over laughing

[roxy]

You are too old to be still afraid of talking to girls.

[xTJx]

You are too old to be still afraid of talking to girls.

omg omg omg omg omg a girl came in!!! what do i say!!! what do i say!!!...

*runs and hides in the corner*

[iLikePants]

Just pretend they're dudes.

[ForlrnPerplxity]

Just pretend they're dudes.
yeah, and then you might turn gay. then you wouldn't be nervous about asking one of them for their number.

[iLikePants]

yeah, and then you might turn gay. then you wouldn't be nervous about asking one of them for their number.

Good thinking.

[randomgrrl2]

I know its kinda weird to post here about personal problems, but whatever. I have a problem. It's hard for me to talk to people for the first time. For the most part, I can't walk up to girls and start a conversation. I have quite a lot of guy friends and am pretty confortable for the most part around them but whenever a girl comes around, I get totally nervous and tense up. It's kinda bad. I don't know if I have social anxiety or anything but I was just wondering what some people do to make that first step more easy...

And no, I'm not gay...
You just need to spend more time around girls. Hang out with them in group situations. It would be easiest if they had boyfriends already so its not so much pressure for you.

[xStareAtThesunx]

I think the best thing you can do is spend more time with them and just try to be calm. Life is too short to sit around and be shy and nervous. I'm kinda like that with guys too. Try and slowly start going up to girls and just small talking so you get more comfortable around them. I love when people come up to me and do that because then you meet new people and make new friends. Good luck with it.

[lightcollapse]

gah. no matter how lame it is, i am in your exact position most of the time.

[lucky_krystle]

i'm curious, have you ever had a girlfriend?

[Stereo Mike]

Hahaha for some reason this made me laugh really really hard
Because it's funny.

[cuetheflames]

pop like 4 or 5 viagra, then walk around town on a friday night with a raging boner, then you dont need to worry about starting convo because girls will talk to you.

the slutty ones at least.

[Midtown19]

i'm curious, have you ever had a girlfriend?

Yea, actually. Not a lot. 4 or 5 I'd say. I know people are quick to judge and poke fun but the problem isn't me being afraid of girls. After I get to a certain comfort level, it comes pretty easy. It' s just getting over that first hump and breaking the ice... Whatever, this was a dumb thread to create anyway. I guess I should of expected backlash...

[fromwithin]

wear sunglasses and/or a disguise.

or

throw on some girl pants and get a stupid hairstyle and then tell the girls youre in a band.

[lucky_krystle]

Yea, actually. Not a lot. 4 or 5 I'd say. I know people are quick to judge and poke fun but the problem isn't me being afraid of girls. After I get to a certain comfort level, it comes pretty easy. It' s just getting over that first hump and breaking the ice... Whatever, this was a dumb thread to create anyway. I guess I should of expected backlash...

so my good friend mitchell told me an awesome joke the other day

how much does a polar bear weigh?
enough to break the ice

try it, see if it works.

[andrewlterry]

Just pretend they're dudes.
Genius

[Shatter590]

id offer advice, but id be the wrong person to do so

[xYouFailMex]

Oh, what you have is a form of social anxiety. I believe it's called "Pussy-itis". It's quite common among some people. I've heard side-effects are being alone and posting retarded ass shit about being said "pussy" on a music website.
Remedy: Quit posting on here, reach down, find your balls, and when they drop try saying "hi" to a girl.

^^^wins the thread