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sigh
04/12/03, 09:16 PM
even though no one is hear right now, i was wondering if age really matters alot in a relationship.
All i see are older guys going out with younger girls, i hardly ever see the reverse. Why is that?
The girl i like is 16, and im 14. Im taller than her, and she says im a lot smarter, and i dont think im immature. But it seems like theres a HUGE gap in between. Wat do u guys think?

angelicbiznatch
04/12/03, 09:22 PM
well, i think a small gap is ok, like 2-4 years; but otherwise...its just...eee

neb nawoc
04/12/03, 09:25 PM
well im 16, no gap there, so where does this lil chicky live? ;)

sigh
04/12/03, 09:25 PM
wow im honored to have made the thread in which youve first posted in, welcome to the forums and do u really think 2-4 years both ways dont matter?

sigh
04/12/03, 09:27 PM
oh thanks neb for ruining everything! jk where does she live? in my heart( heavy awww factor) no really right by me

angelicbiznatch
04/12/03, 09:32 PM
Originally posted by sigh
wow im honored to have made the thread in which youve first posted in, welcome to the forums and do u really think 2-4 years both ways dont matter?

thanks, and yea, i don't really think it makes too much a difference, especially if you're at the "high school age". it really shouldn't matter, so long as you guys really like each other and are comfortable with it.

sigh
04/12/03, 09:37 PM
i like her alot, but i have no clue if she likes me back Weve been good freinds for a long time though

kalika
04/12/03, 09:48 PM
age doesnt mean a thing as long as u are both feelin the love. haha. but serious 2 yrs is nuthin.

xTSTLx
04/12/03, 09:50 PM
the younger the members of the relationship are, the more age seems to matter, my parents are like 6 years apart, but you would never see a 12 year old date a 18 year old....its all relative

kalika
04/12/03, 09:57 PM
yeah thats tru, the older you get the less it matters. but i think 14 & 16 is ok. but if u were any younger sigh, it wouldnt work so much i dont think.

neb nawoc
04/12/03, 09:59 PM
well my current girlfriend is 8, and im 16, and there dont seem to be any problems.

kalika
04/12/03, 10:23 PM
nice to see your doin your part to promote peadophilia

Greg
04/12/03, 11:49 PM
age doesn't usually mean anything. unless it's a big gap. but 2 years is NOTHING. date her dude!

Alex Djaferis
04/13/03, 12:14 AM
in high school...4 years is pushing it. 2 is good...3...depends...4 pushing it.

Stompemplay
04/13/03, 03:35 AM
Originally posted by xTSTLx
you would never see a 12 year old date a 18 year old....its all relative

That would be one playa 12 year old

Jim Morgan
04/13/03, 03:42 AM
go for it

Greg
04/13/03, 04:29 AM
some senior in my school is dating a 7th grader. now that is messed up.

charly horse
04/13/03, 04:34 AM
i dated a senior and im a sophomore....but the other thing was is that he had a sister that was the same age as me......that really freaked me out...and yea so 2 years is nothing.....just ask her if she is ok going out with you ......it might freak her out..but it shouldnt .....lets hope she doesnt have a brother the same age as you....freaky

Punkette915
04/13/03, 05:54 PM
I'm 16 and i like a guy that's 14.... he's actually pretty mature. It's kinda wierd, but he's a freshman, and i'm a sophmore... so he will be 15 soon. We don't fit eachother either and it's kinda wierd... but yeah 2 years isnt that big of a deal

sigh
04/13/03, 06:01 PM
Originally posted by alsublimereject
i dated a senior and im a sophomore....but the other thing was is that he had a sister that was the same age as me......that really freaked me out...and yea so 2 years is nothing.....just ask her if she is ok going out with you ......it might freak her out..but it shouldnt .....lets hope she doesnt have a brother the same age as you....freaky
her brothers a yaer younger then me, weve been like best friends since along time.
Thanks you guys, still i guess i still feel a little weird

kalika
04/13/03, 06:03 PM
yeah i went out with an 18 yr old and i was 16

sigh
04/13/03, 06:07 PM
Originally posted by kalika
yeah i went out with an 18 yr old and i was 16
yea guys date younger girls more here than vice versa tho

punkchick22
04/13/03, 06:08 PM
Originally posted by Greg
some senior in my school is dating a 7th grader. now that is messed up.

EW.

age = no big deal. unless its like...a 8 year old girl and a 16 year old guy!! cough neb nawoc cough

kalika
04/13/03, 06:20 PM
Originally posted by sigh
yea guys date younger girls more here than vice versa tho '

yeah u dont see it alot.

blink182fan
04/13/03, 08:20 PM
Originally posted by Punkette915
I'm 16 and i like a guy that's 14.... he's actually pretty mature. It's kinda wierd, but he's a freshman, and i'm a sophmore... so he will be 15 soon. We don't fit eachother either and it's kinda wierd... but yeah 2 years isnt that big of a deal

haha, at first i thought you were that girl that, that one guy i think "sigh" or something likes or yeah, ok, i'm done now

ifeelused
04/14/03, 01:25 AM
i am 16, and i was "with" a 19 year old for a little bit, but because i was too young for him it ended, although we're still friends

YouWish22
04/14/03, 04:13 AM
Beat this. My sister started working at Lowe's and this guy named Jim started buying her tons of presents. A new TV, VCR, and DVD Player. He bought her a cellphone and one night while we were all smoking he tried to give her $90. Now they are seeing each other.... the thing is she is 21 and he is 41. Now that's an age gap.

chickmagnet2385
04/14/03, 06:21 AM
i don't think the age really matters unless it's more than 3 years. I'm 18 and my g/f is 15 but I just turned 18 2 months ago and she will be 16 in august.

alpha21
04/14/03, 07:37 AM
Originally posted by sigh
even though no one is hear right now, i was wondering if age really matters alot in a relationship.
All i see are older guys going out with younger girls, i hardly ever see the reverse. Why is that?
The girl i like is 16, and im 14. Im taller than her, and she says im a lot smarter, and i dont think im immature. But it seems like theres a HUGE gap in between. Wat do u guys think?


Obviously you never listen to Loveline

usually the reason that young girls like older guys is because they are mess up because their daddys are gone or are assholes.
they are trying to simulate the abuse from the negative attention by their fathers.

There is a reason why it is against the law for a 20 year old and a 15 year old to be together. Any guy who has to have a relationship with someone younger, has problems getting chicks his own age (gee I wonder why!!!!)

NetNerdsRevenge
04/14/03, 07:38 AM
Originally posted by sigh
even though no one is hear right now, i was wondering if age really matters alot in a relationship.
All i see are older guys going out with younger girls, i hardly ever see the reverse. Why is that?
The girl i like is 16, and im 14. Im taller than her, and she says im a lot smarter, and i dont think im immature. But it seems like theres a HUGE gap in between. Wat do u guys think?

I was in your same situation and ill i can say is go for it. Itll either feel good or so weird you'll just be friends. either way you wont completly lose her

evil zach
04/14/03, 08:22 AM
Age dosn't matter. I've dated girls both younger and older then me. As long as I can have decent conversation, I'm happy. unless thay are like 11 years old. I learned my lesson after hearing her pelvis snap....

alpha21
04/14/03, 08:27 AM
Originally posted by evil zach
Age dosn't matter. I've dated girls both younger and older then me. As long as I can have decent conversation, I'm happy. unless thay are like 11 years old. I learned my lesson after hearing her pelvis snap....

I think instead of pelvis snap, you mean jaildoor slam...

evil zach
04/14/03, 08:30 AM
you seem crankey

alpha21
04/14/03, 08:38 AM
Originally posted by evil zach
you seem crankey


rape is NOT funny and pisses me off!!!

evil zach
04/14/03, 08:41 AM
who says it was rape? Your just jumping to conclusions.

alpha21
04/14/03, 08:53 AM
Originally posted by evil zach
who says it was rape? Your just jumping to conclusions.


you said 11 years old

evil zach
04/14/03, 08:58 AM
she seduced me!

FishAlotNBePunk
04/14/03, 08:59 AM
Originally posted by evil zach
she seduced me!

hahahahahahahahaha!

alpha21
04/14/03, 09:01 AM
Originally posted by evil zach
she seduced me!

Oh I'm sure the judge will understand, in that case (sarcasm)

evil zach
04/14/03, 09:23 AM
I was just trying to share an embarisng story with you guys, and you ruined it. FOR SHAME!

punkskasucks
04/14/03, 09:42 AM
i want some donuts

theused_FSF
04/14/03, 09:44 AM
we have donut balls at school with our breakfast, they came in plastic wrappers and are fuckin awesome, me and my friends went back after breakfast and asked the nicest cafeteria lady for some and she gave us a shit load of them free

evil zach
04/14/03, 09:44 AM
If you wanna split the cost i'll drive

blaarg
04/14/03, 01:40 PM
Originally posted by sigh
even though no one is hear right now, i was wondering if age really matters alot in a relationship.
All i see are older guys going out with younger girls, i hardly ever see the reverse. Why is that?
The girl i like is 16, and im 14. Im taller than her, and she says im a lot smarter, and i dont think im immature. But it seems like theres a HUGE gap in between. Wat do u guys think?
i can top that: i'm a freshman (in highschool) and i'm going out with a senior. so to answer your question: no.

day in paradise
04/14/03, 03:31 PM
Originally posted by blaarg
i can top that: i'm a freshman (in highschool) and i'm going out with a senior. so to answer your question: no.

with all the social standards either the girl is a social outcast or you got MADDDDD game.

cheez mastah
04/14/03, 03:43 PM
Originally posted by day in paradise
with all the social standards either the girl is a social outcast or you got MADDDDD game.





you know blaarg is teh sexy

the grey race
04/14/03, 05:07 PM
Originally posted by evil zach
she seduced me!


hahahahahaha that was good

ToTheOne
04/14/03, 06:05 PM
Originally posted by neb nawoc
well my current girlfriend is 8, and im 16, and there dont seem to be any problems.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

child date jokes are always funny

Greg
04/15/03, 12:15 AM
im a sophmore and i might start dating a junior soon. which is mad crazy for me. but i doubt it'll work out.

YouWish22
04/15/03, 03:37 AM
Originally posted by Greg
im a sophmore and i might start dating a junior soon. which is mad crazy for me. but i doubt it'll work out.

How is that crazy? That's only one year ahead. I'm a sophmore and I'm going out with a junior. How come it won't work out?

irapedyourkid
04/15/03, 04:24 AM
Yea, my gf is a sophomore and i'm a jr, no problem.. Except for at parties that get busted and she is a minor.... but um, hopefully that wont happen again.

AudioBoxers
04/15/03, 04:27 AM
Originally posted by irapedyourkid
Yea, my gf is a sophomore and i'm a jr, no problem.. Except for at parties that get busted and she is a minor.... but um, hopefully that wont happen again. yea thats cool though, I mean there is this girl that lives accross the street, she is in 8th grade and her mom is bomb, She is one of the hottest girls I have seen in a while, even for a 8th grader, I am a sophmore and I dont care, she has a good personality, good bodie, and is fun to hang out with. She doesnt look like a 8th grader though more of a sophmore

Greg
04/15/03, 06:47 AM
Originally posted by YouWish22
How is that crazy? That's only one year ahead. I'm a sophmore and I'm going out with a junior. How come it won't work out?

it's crazy cause it's me. i haven't even dated girls my won age. it prolly won't work cause it's me. i have the worst luck with girls. whenever i think it could be more they always just want to be friends.

charly horse
04/15/03, 09:43 AM
Originally posted by Greg
it's crazy cause it's me. i haven't even dated girls my won age. it prolly won't work cause it's me. i have the worst luck with girls. whenever i think it could be more they always just want to be friends.

old story dude

blaarg
04/15/03, 09:52 AM
Originally posted by day in paradise
with all the social standards either the girl is a social outcast or you got MADDDDD game.
a little from column "a," a little from column "b."
nah no one really cares, everyone tells me i look like i'm 17-ish, and she actually thought i was for a while

charly horse
04/15/03, 10:00 AM
Originally posted by blaarg
a little from column "a," a little from column "b."
nah no one really cares, everyone tells me i look like i'm 17-ish, and she actually thought i was for a while ]

i love you baby!

blaarg
04/15/03, 11:53 AM
Originally posted by alsublimereject
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i love you baby!
i almost sort of half know you....



feel the love!

evil zach
04/15/03, 11:58 AM
Originally posted by blaarg
i can top that: i'm a freshman (in highschool) and i'm going out with a senior. so to answer your question: no.
I always thought you were older for some reason.

blaarg
04/15/03, 12:12 PM
Originally posted by evil zach
I always thought you were older for some reason.
see? and he doesn't even know what i look like!
now i'll probibly be able to buy beer without getting carded at like age 18.

AtTheDriveIn.
04/15/03, 12:36 PM
Originally posted by alpha21
Obviously you never listen to Loveline

usually the reason that young girls like older guys is because they are mess up because their daddys are gone or are assholes.
they are trying to simulate the abuse from the negative attention by their fathers.

There is a reason why it is against the law for a 20 year old and a 15 year old to be together. Any guy who has to have a relationship with someone younger, has problems getting chicks his own age (gee I wonder why!!!!)

thats not true at all. my boyfriend is older than me, not my much, but im not dating him because i have a bad relationship with my father, and he's not dating me because he cant get chicks his own age, we love eachother. that comment is just a generalization of guys that go out with girls ALOT younger than them. keyword being alot.

and to answer your question, sigh, i don't think that 2 years is that big of a deal. I mean if the younger party were a girl, it wouldn't matter, but its not, and that still shouldn't affect it, so my advice to you would be go ahead and persue things with this chick.

charly horse
04/15/03, 01:28 PM
Originally posted by blaarg
i almost sort of half know you....



feel the love!



yes.....love....i want to buy beer...