My friends over you.....maybe.

[Manicapathy]

So, I like this girl, and we've been talking to each other for a while. Nothing to very serious, but quite in the realm of potentially making a move on this one. Problem is, she is in some epic blood feud with my best friends. Now, she likes me fine, and my friends are somewhat apathetic twoard me going out with her, and she just doesn't want to be anywhere near these guys. So, any advice from the community?

[OveriseFan]

You can hang out with her and your friends separately? Easy answer. It doesn't always work, but with what you've said it seems like it could be fine (if your friends are "apathetic").

[nonamesleft]

Get her the fuck out. Not worth it.

[Codi23]

Bros before hoes :wave:.

Try to get them to at least tolerate each other. It's fine if they don't like each other, but it can be a difficult thing hanging out separately. Just don't lose your friends over some chick you're not sure you will go out with; it's not worth it.

[etheritcher]

I have some friends that absolutely do not like my boyfriend and my boyfriend hates some of them. It's really not a problem because I just don't hang out with the ones that are fighting. Easy peasy.

[evan324]

i always find it amusing that it's always 16 year olds that ask these questions, but i guess they need to learn as well.

i had the same problem with one of my girlfriends awhile ago, in the end we weren't together anymore.. it's a hard thing to do to keep 2 separate groups of friends and to keep a girl away from certain friends sometimes.

[Manicapathy]

Bros before hoes :wave:.

Try to get them to at least tolerate each other. It's fine if they don't like each other, but it can be a difficult thing hanging out separately. Just don't lose your friends over some chick you're not sure you will go out with; it's not worth it.
It's not so much a "Not sure" thing, I'm sure she'd be more than willing on her end. And the guys have this "Whatever you wanna do, man" attitude, but there's an underlying "you fucking traitor" vibe going. I dunno.

Is weird and complicated.

[Manicapathy]

i always find it amusing that it's always 16 year olds that ask these questions, but i guess they need to learn as well.

It's the magic number! Haven't you seen that movie Kids?

[Codi23]

It's not so much a "Not sure" thing, I'm sure she'd be more than willing on her end. And the guys have this "Whatever you wanna do, man" attitude, but there's an underlying "you fucking traitor" vibe going. I dunno.

Is weird and complicated.

This feels like I'm watching some high school tv show or something now haha.

I would just go for it, and your friends will deal with it. I'm sure it's just some stupid thing where they all don't get along, and it will pass with a little time. Girls tend to hold grudges, guys don't most of the time; so I'm sure your buddies will come around.

[abcdefghijake]

Go get yours Darien!

[BruisedxBroken]

This shit never ends well. I had a gf who had an ex bf that I fuckin hated. She still insisted on being his good friend, so I was like fuck it, you do what you want. We broke up quick. It just depends on what kind of personality you have and how much you're actually invested in each particular person...

[TheByrus]

Friends come and go, but sexual conquests last forever.

[Codi23]

Oh, and...

anal.

[nonamesleft]

Friends come and go, but sexual conquests last forever.

You're amazing.

[poseidon0513]

Bros before hoes :wave:.


this.

the exception to this rule is if you know you are going to get laid

[Manicapathy]

This shit never ends well. I had a gf who had an ex bf that I fuckin hated. She still insisted on being his good friend, so I was like fuck it, you do what you want. We broke up quick. It just depends on what kind of personality you have and how much you're actually invested in each particular person...
I've known these guys forever, but the thing is, both me and this girl are kinda off kilter. Remember that book the missing piece.....is like that with her. I dunno if it's for real, or if my junk is making my brain do these crazy mental gymnastics to get me laid, I dunno. So it could be really awesome, or an epic train wreck that leaves me friendless and alone. I think I'll take those odds, and hope if anything happens, I can patch t up pretty quick.

Oh, and...

anal.

Probably not gonna happen. She's what we like to call a "church goer" and i'm what the baptists so affectionately refer to as a "backslider."

If that happens, I either just made some epic sweet talk.....or it was rape.

[evan324]

It's the magic number! Haven't you seen that movie Kids?

don't think i have. all im thinking of is jack with robin williams.. but that isn't it at all.

[ActionActionFan]

Friends come and go, but sexual conquests last forever.

haha. I'm going to go with this.

[anthonydarko]

To be honest, it's really not worth dating someone that hates your friends. It never ends well.

[Ava1anche]

New Found Glory doesn't lie.

[ted is lying]

I been having a similar problem, this girl who i been chilling with and have a ton of fun with her but i cant bring her any where to my room cuz she hates my roommate. Gonna try and just keep them seperated.

[And Hours Pass]

I have some friends that absolutely do not like my boyfriend and my boyfriend hates some of them. It's really not a problem because I just don't hang out with the ones that are fighting. Easy peasy.

Yes, but don't you think it would be easier if your friends and boyfriend liked each other? I've been where you are, and I've been in relationships where my friends like the person I'm with, and the latter is FAR preferred.

i had the same problem with one of my girlfriends awhile ago, in the end we weren't together anymore.. it's a hard thing to do to keep 2 separate groups of friends and to keep a girl away from certain friends sometimes.

This. 100% this. It's honestly not worth it. Girls like this will come and go out of your life, but your friends always stick around.

[ReignofFiction]

Your friends will be there when she is long gone, if they are good friends ...so remember that and just don't be a douche to them. Bitches they come they go.

[etheritcher]

Yes, but don't you think it would be easier if your friends and boyfriend liked each other? I've been where you are, and I've been in relationships where my friends like the person I'm with, and the latter is FAR preferred.

I can see what you mean but I guess it depends on the relationship. If you like the person enough, you make it work.

[HometownHero]

I always basically hate my girls friends. I just make them choose the friends or me. I do what the fuck I want haha

[davidmest]

money over bitches such an easy decision.

[phil19]

girls just mess with your mind and trample all over your heart. stick with your friends

[dejaxentendu]

not worth it . it will be smooth sailing at first. and then youll just lose all of your friends and then once shes gone you will have no one and buy a litter of kittens

[oh_heykate.]

Well at least your friends don't care. But if this chick tells you you can't hang with them and winds up dumping you, then you got nothin. my past experiences tell me that high school girls are bitches and not worth your time. wait for a girl that's tight with you and your friends.

[oh_heykate.]

girls just mess with your mind and trample all over your heart. stick with your friends

this.

[QuarterToThree]

if they don't get along then in your best case scenario you still can only hang with them separately. think about how much time you have to spend with your friends and then think about splitting it in half. could you do it?

[bladerdude360]

Friends come and go, but sexual conquests last forever.
:-d This (and the smoothie I just had) made my night.

[timb89]

Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me..ah you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.

[Yellowcard2006]

Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me..ah you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.
The only advice OP ever needed. /thread

[miketheauthor]

I vote stay true to ya homies

[Manicapathy]

I always basically hate my girls friends. I just make them choose the friends or me. I do what the fuck I want haha
I steal lollipops.....from little babies.... 'CAUSE I'M A REAL MAN!

[framebyframe]

Don't do it. If she hates your friends then she will probably end up hating you, because I'm sure you and your friends are similar? It just seems like it would be too much of a hassle to make both relationships work. You don't want to be in the middle of that.

[DejaNew]

Bros before hoes :wave:.

Try to get them to at least tolerate each other. It's fine if they don't like each other, but it can be a difficult thing hanging out separately. Just don't lose your friends over some chick you're not sure you will go out with; it's not worth it.
I'm sorry, but there is no way you are the resident Thrice fan-boy.

[Codi23]

I'm sorry, but there is no way you are the resident Thrice fan-boy.

Calling me out, sucka?

[DejaNew]

Calling me out, sucka?
I am. I'm the Thrice fanboy here.

[Codi23]

I am. I'm the Thrice fanboy here.

I'm not saying I'm their "number one fan ZOMG!>!?!" or anything, they're just my favorite band of all time; maybe we can both reside here in peace and harmony?

[DejaNew]

I'm not saying I'm their "number one fan ZOMG!>!?!" or anything, they're just my favorite band of all time; maybe we can both reside here in peace and harmony?
We can reside in peace in the official Thrice thread. Why have you never been in there! Me and Tim(xJesusFreakx) have been compiling questions about each album, and we're coming up on Vheissu this week. If you call yourself a Thrice fanboy, you'd better be there. And be careful going around with that in your name. There are ALOT of people who's favorite band is Thrice. You're lucky you met a nice one.:-)

[Codi23]

We can reside in peace in the official Thrice thread. Why have you never been in there! Me and Tim(xJesusFreakx) have been compiling questions about each album, and we're coming up on Vheissu this week. If you call yourself a Thrice fanboy, you'd better be there. And be careful going around with that in your name. There are ALOT of people who's favorite band is Thrice. You're lucky you met a nice one.:-)

Wow, I guess I didn't know there was a Thrice centric thread, other than the Beggars one. I will check this out. Thank you for tolerating me fellow Thrice fan :worship:.

[Nick Le]

Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me..ah you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.

YES!

[Nick Le]

We can reside in peace in the official Thrice thread. Why have you never been in there! Me and Tim(xJesusFreakx) have been compiling questions about each album, and we're coming up on Vheissu this week. If you call yourself a Thrice fanboy, you'd better be there. And be careful going around with that in your name. There are ALOT of people who's favorite band is Thrice. You're lucky you met a nice one.:-)

I've read some of the responses and those questions. Really great; haven't gotten around to answering them though. Maybe soon!

[Crowe41]

Go for it dude. If your friends are your real friends they'll support you no matter what. Just make sure you don't forget to be a friend back...that will be the problem! If the girl in any way tries to keep you away from your friends because she doesn't like them...end that shit.

fml the spice girl song said it way better.

[makeshiftmind]

run #1. Bros before hos

[Manicapathy]

Update time!

So, I finally build up the nerve to ask the aforementioned girl out, when she tells meshe "Doesn't want to get involved with those guys." I try and argue about how I'm not some shallow bastard like them, but to no avail. Now, they are my friends and all, but I just.....I dunno, really fucking pissed now. They're cool and all, but it seems like a bullshit excuse to me.
FML

[Jake Denning]

Update time!

So, I finally build up the nerve to ask the aforementioned girl out, when she tells meshe "Doesn't want to get involved with those guys." I try and argue about how I'm not some shallow bastard like them, but to no avail. Now, they are my friends and all, but I just.....I dunno, really fucking pissed now. They're cool and all, but it seems like a bullshit excuse to me.
FML

shame, shoulda called the ISHC first

[Codi23]

Update time!

So, I finally build up the nerve to ask the aforementioned girl out, when she tells meshe "Doesn't want to get involved with those guys." I try and argue about how I'm not some shallow bastard like them, but to no avail. Now, they are my friends and all, but I just.....I dunno, really fucking pissed now. They're cool and all, but it seems like a bullshit excuse to me.
FML

Okay, so she doesn't want to go to an orgy with you and your friends; just do her by yourself?

If your friends are cool, they won't really care.

[dcd392]

Yo, I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you want my future forget my past,
If you wanna get with me better make it fast,
Now don't go wasting my precious time,
Get your act together we could be just fine

I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

What do you think about that now you know how I feel,
Say you can handle my love are you for real,
I won't be hasty, I'll give you a try
If you really bug me then I'll say goodbye.

Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

So here's a story from A to Z, you wanna get with me
you gotta listen carefully,
We got Em in the place who likes it in your face,
we got G like MC who likes it on an
Easy V doesn't come for free, she's a real lady,
and as for me..ah you'll see,
Slam your body down and wind it all around
Slam your body down and wind it all around.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta get with my friends,
Make it last forever friendship never ends,
If you wanna be my lover, you have got to give,
Taking is too easy, but that's the way it is.

If you wanna be my lover, you gotta, you gotta, you
gotta,
you gotta, you gotta, slam, slam, slam, slam
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down and wind it all around.
Slam your body down zigazig ah
If you wanna be my lover.
this is great advice, primarily zigazig ah.

[Manicapathy]

Update part 2:

Yea, fuck that noise. Found new girl what actually gets along with me AND my crew. Gonna see where that takes us. Thanks for the advice guys!

[ohioforlovers]

They said it.... Bros before Hoes. She may just make your friends turn on you, then if you break up, then what?

[ohioforlovers]

Update part 2:

Yea, fuck that noise. Found new girl what actually gets along with me AND my crew. Gonna see where that takes us. Thanks for the advice guys!

Haha. Being in high school makes finding new girls easier huh. haha.

[flabbergasted]

Ah, one of life's many decisions. This one is fairly simple, however. Which is more important to you? Your friends or a girl who could be your "ex" in a few weeks? Just think about who has been there for you and who's going to pick you up off the ground when you screw up. Answer those questions, and then you'll know. :)

[AlexEnglish]

So, I like this girl, and we've been talking to each other for a while. Nothing to very serious, but quite in the realm of potentially making a move on this one. Problem is, she is in some epic blood feud with my best friends. Now, she likes me fine, and my friends are somewhat apathetic twoard me going out with her, and she just doesn't want to be anywhere near these guys. So, any advice from the community?

dear diary, mood: apathetic

[ted is lying]

Update part 2:

Yea, fuck that noise. Found new girl what actually gets along with me AND my crew. Gonna see where that takes us. Thanks for the advice guys!
You should cockslap this bitch so she knows your in charge.

dear diary, mood: apathetic
thinking the same thing.

[Manicapathy]

dear diary, mood: apathetic
........I had that coming.

[kaycey]

So, I like this girl, and we've been talking to each other for a while. Nothing to very serious, but quite in the realm of potentially making a move on this one. Problem is, she is in some epic blood feud with my best friends. Now, she likes me fine, and my friends are somewhat apathetic twoard me going out with her, and she just doesn't want to be anywhere near these guys. So, any advice from the community?
tell your best friend that you just want to fuck/dump her. tell her you stopped talking to him because you had a fight with your best friend over her.
where exactly do you want to go with this.

[proventimes]

Dick her down and then bros before hoes!