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cuetheflames
04/27/06, 06:23 PM
is it okay or NOT okay to date your best buds old/ex girlfriend.

im talking something that was sorta serious, like 5 months+.
no 2 week bullshit.

i think you shouldnt ever, theres plenty of other girls out there for your friend to find, its bullshit if he trys to get with your ex.

what do you guys say?
erik516
04/27/06, 06:34 PM
if you want to lose that friend, id say go for it!
Greg
04/27/06, 06:38 PM
in most cases i would say no

but i guess it depends on the situation... is the girl amazingly hot? did your friend even really like her that much?
FeynmanWannabe
04/27/06, 07:01 PM
is it okay or NOT okay to date your best buds old/ex girlfriend.

im talking something that was sorta serious, like 5 months+.
no 2 week bullshit.

i think you shouldnt ever, theres plenty of other girls out there for your friend to find, its bullshit if he trys to get with your ex.

what do you guys say?
I say: Why would you want to stop someone you care about from being happy. If a friend were to go after an ex just for a fuck, then I'd be a little annoyed but if he's serious why would I be so selfish as to stop it?
roxy
04/27/06, 07:02 PM
it is not okay. there are plenty of other girls. your friends will always be there but the girl won't. especially when you are younger.
thisisastickup
04/27/06, 07:06 PM
so.. because you went oout with her your denying her the privelege of being able to date your friends?
enj0i29
04/27/06, 07:12 PM
Bro's before Ho's.
Unless she sucks a mean dick.
dashboard1190
04/27/06, 07:14 PM
Despite you saying "no 2-week bullshit", I'm in high school, so 2 weeks is good.

Last year, I dated this girl for about two weeks (she's a fat bitch, no resentment I swear), and had liked her for a long time before. One time when we were on a date (my best friend was there too), I notice that something just feels weird. We ended up breaking up that weekend. I asked both my ex and my best friend if they liked each other, and they both strongly denied it.

Fast forward two months. I kept telling my friend that I didn't care what he did (deep down I did), but I said that I was only looking out for him. I had dated this girl, and then after we broke up, our friendship wasn't the same, and I didn't want that to happen to him. So, they ended up going out. They spent from May-August. I feel bad because the whole time they were dating, I badmouthed them all the time behind their back.

They ended up breaking up and no one even talks to the girl anymore, but my friend has apologized so many times for doing that. I said it was okay, and that I was only trying to look out for him.

Overall answer: No, it is not right to date your friends ex.
minusthejosh
04/27/06, 07:45 PM
No way, not even worth thinking it. Bro's before Ho's
dontgrabtindy
04/27/06, 07:49 PM
go for it
colorlesscliche
04/27/06, 08:15 PM
I wouldn't do it. But whatever.
cris545
04/27/06, 08:28 PM
I'd say no, put yourself in his shoes, I'm sure he wouldn't like it. If she's really worth something at least talk to him about it before making any moves, but the odds are she's not really that special. Like everyone said, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
enj0i29
04/27/06, 08:56 PM
I wouldn't do it. But whatever.

Holy shit, i love your sig. Her and Pickler in a 3-some would be DIVINE
apoemtothedead
04/28/06, 12:17 AM
No.
brandnizzle32
04/28/06, 05:08 AM
Well i wouldnt, but me and my best friend have an understanding... so nevermind i would, plus if u bang her in the ass its like not the same ...... Its the loop hole.. ( hahah )
chrisxxtina
04/28/06, 07:07 AM
Why double dip into the same pool as your friend/sibling/whatever? You're only asking for trouble, even if they give their blessing. Plus, if they boned, and then you nail the other person...uhhh ew. Do you really want to be that guy? I sincerely hope not.

So basically..if someone you know has been with them in the relationship sense or the physical sense...don't go for it.
SonEric84
04/28/06, 08:43 AM
Unwritten!!!
cuetheflames
04/28/06, 11:27 AM
it is not okay. there are plenty of other girls. your friends will always be there but the girl won't. especially when you are younger.

yeah thats exactly my thoughts.
wyverna
04/28/06, 12:40 PM
This was on City Guys. They said it was never ok.
boysdontcry17
04/28/06, 03:20 PM
nope. do not date your date your best friends ex gf. a fuck and chuck is tolerable but only after a long time has passed and you friend is fully over the prostiskank.
apoemtothedead
04/28/06, 05:34 PM
Unwritten!!!
Law!!!
SonEric84
04/28/06, 06:58 PM
Law!!!


I'm seein' red...
apoemtothedead
04/28/06, 07:04 PM
I'm seein' red...
dun nuh nuh
dun dun dun
nuh nuh dun

FOLLOW THE LEADER!!!