girl problems. guys and girls advice welcome.

[voncorn]

so, i've got this friend. she's basically punk. she listens to all the same music as me, skates, and plays guitar. i skate and play guitar too. i like her, and we have like a ton in common but i dont know if she likes me. i dont know how to tell or anything. i talk to her normally but i dont know how to approach the situation to possibly have some type of relationship with her.


HALP??!!

[Jennurna Gray]

this is almost identical to the problem i had earlier this year.
and he ended up liking me, too, at the least.
all i can say is go for it, dude.
taking chances is what life's all about.
plus, liking your friend doesn't always make things awkward,
even though things didn't work out for me, i'm still happy i told him.
we're closer than we've ever been, and i have someone to hold me when i'm lonely.
just approach her and ask her out to eat, just the two of you. :]
good luck, sir.

[raychull]

first responder didn't see what you did there.

[panties_nz]

do something "extra" man.
like i dont know, make her a mix cd, buy her something that she has wanted or you guys have talked about. make her something. just spontaneously. she will dig it. something so she knows that you like her that "extra".

if she goes for it you will totally know.

[phil19]

nice

[muttley]

lol.

[ohioforlovers]

"post pics, if your hot she likes you" lol.

[Auals]

make her a mix cd

Ooo do this. Nothing says my love is deep and meaningful like a Mix CD. OOOO YOU SHOULD PUT "Don't Wanna Miss A Thing" by that Aerosmith band on there :O AND DON'T FORGET IRIS by the Goo Goo Dolls.

man those songs show emotion...


seriously though, man up. Just fucking do it. I know it feels like the end of the world now but there will be other girls if she says no and (considering our current world status) probably more girls even if she says yes (after you two break up, unless you're both up for threesomes or she dumps you for being a pussy and making her a mixtape)

Good luck.

[_><_]

anal.

[ted is lying]

Try making a post on a internet website and hope that she some how finds it.

[chassmariee]

anal.
You beat me to it.

[zachff]

I'd suggest just whipping it out and seeing what happens

[rollerman4221]

Try making a post on a internet website and hope that she some how finds it.

MLIA has a bunch of people doing that lately, its pretty nifty

[Genuma]

i get it, you copied the other thread except flipped the genders.

[ted is lying]

i get it, you copied the other thread except flipped the genders.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v440/die-4-love/Lovers/chris.jpg

[andthetruthwill]

The way you find if a girl has interest in you is you find a way to touch her and see if she touches you back. Go someplace with her, open the door for her and put your hand on the small of her back as she passes you. That will get her thinking, for one. If you are hanging out and close to each other, give her a nudge with your elbow or shoulder, be playful. If she doesn't do it back, she's not into you. If she does, you're set for now. If you are brave, you could even try a tickle on her side. Or if you're hanging out and she says something like her back hurts, run your hand up and down her back. If she doesn't like you, she's not going to let it happen. All this comes before talking, the little touches and body movements back and forth will let you know what she thinks. Then you go from there and try not to fuck it up with your words.

[bladerdude360]

this is almost identical to the problem i had earlier this year.
and he ended up liking me, too, at the least.
all i can say is go for it, dude.
taking chances is what life's all about.
plus, liking your friend doesn't always make things awkward,
even though things didn't work out for me, i'm still happy i told him.
we're closer than we've ever been, and i have someone to hold me when i'm lonely.
just approach her and ask to eat her out, just the two of you. :]
good luck, sir.
Fixed ;-).

[bladerdude360]

Also, I don't see why people think it's so funny to make these spoof threads...usually they're just stupid.

[Sventhegreat]

Also, I don't see why people think it's so funny to make these spoof threads...usually they're just stupid.

Yeah there have been way too many of these lately.

[ZeroGravity107]

so, i've got this friend. she's basically punk. she listens to all the same music as me, skates, and plays guitar. i skate and play guitar too. i like her, and we have like a ton in common but i dont know if she likes me. i dont know how to tell or anything. i talk to her normally but i dont know how to approach the situation to possibly have some type of relationship with her.


HALP??!!

There's no way anyone can help you with that little of information. Kick the flirting up a notch and play it by ear. You'll be able to figure it out eventually.

[raychull]

Also, I don't see why people think it's so funny to make these spoof threads...usually they're just stupid.
basically.

[Jennurna Gray]

first responder didn't see what you did there.

i didn't.
lmao.

[raychull]

i didn't.
lmao.

lmao. lulz.

[BlackAxxe]

anal, always. no matter what.

[xmicxcorex]

The way you find if a girl has interest in you is you find a way to touch her and see if she touches you back. Go someplace with her, open the door for her and put your hand on the small of her back as she passes you. That will get her thinking, for one. If you are hanging out and close to each other, give her a nudge with your elbow or shoulder, be playful. If she doesn't do it back, she's not into you. If she does, you're set for now. If you are brave, you could even try a tickle on her side. Or if you're hanging out and she says something like her back hurts, run your hand up and down her back. If she doesn't like you, she's not going to let it happen. All this comes before talking, the little touches and body movements back and forth will let you know what she thinks. Then you go from there and try not to fuck it up with your words.


This is pretty much fact. It how my girlfriend and I start dating almost 2 years ago...and, strangely, the same with the girl before her.
Regardless of my story...body language says a lot more than words.

[xmicxcorex]

....damn. They got both of us!

"You know...you could learn something from compliment guy..."



-Family guy reference used.

[ReignofFiction]

or she dumps you for being a pussy and making her a mixtape)

Good luck.

I'm glad someone said that.

[donwagenblast]

Nut up or shut up.

[Fullcollapse3k]

Link her to this thread.

[intensified]

anal.

You fucking slut.

[intensified]

Nut up or shut up.

I just saw that movie tonight. Holy shit, so funny.

[donwagenblast]

I just saw that movie tonight. Holy shit, so funny.


I know, it was a lot better than I thought it was gonna be.

[raychull]

What the hell happened to the Chris Fallon advice thread? There have been so many "boy & girl problems" threads lately, I wish it were still around. I'm sick of seeing five or six threads all about basically the same thing.

[mattmatumbo]

Link her to this thread.

Mos def, best solution to da pwobwem.

[voncorn]

Obviously only half of you got the joke, albeit it was a dumb one. Locking this thread.

[intensified]

I know, it was a lot better than I thought it was gonna be.

Yeah, it was good. I wasn't too crazy about the main character though.