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pr0digy
10/26/09, 11:21 PM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

HometownHero
10/26/09, 11:59 PM
When you find them you let me know

cirerelleum
10/27/09, 12:08 AM
girls are bitches.

about3fitty
10/27/09, 12:09 AM
you bring it on yourself. stop complaining and so something about it. project a positive energy and good things will come to you

bNz719
10/27/09, 12:16 AM
you bring it on yourself. stop complaining and so something about it. project a positive energy and good things will come to you

I swear I had a fortune cookie that read this.

Auals
10/27/09, 12:21 AM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

You sound like a douche. Maybe stop that? And DEFINITELY stop listening to Prodigy, from my experience the only people who listen to Prodigy are druggies and lowlifes.

gr33ndayfr3ak
10/27/09, 12:23 AM
I swear I had a fortune cookie that read this.

which makes it even more true!

zion the lion
10/27/09, 12:31 AM
Theres a bit of lady hate in this thread.

And all of the nice cute girls are wasting their lives on the horrible guys who are only corrupting them.

bNz719
10/27/09, 12:42 AM
which makes it even more true!

I can agree with that.
If only I still had my collection of fortunes I could know for sure...

And all of the nice cute girls are wasting their lives on the horrible guys who are only corrupting them.

Very frustrating that this is the way it is. :/

Sventhegreat
10/27/09, 12:51 AM
Theres a bit of lady hate in this thread.

And all of the nice cute girls are wasting their lives on the horrible guys who are only corrupting them.

See we say the same things in all the "I need a nice boy" thread.

Clearly there is a lack of communication between the nice people.

MilesToGo
10/27/09, 12:52 AM
Nice people are the ones kept in the friend zone. Usually.

zion the lion
10/27/09, 12:58 AM
See we say the same things in all the "I need a nice boy" thread.

Clearly there is a lack of communication between the nice people.

Someone needs to fix it before they all kill themselves.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 01:16 AM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(
please direct me to a guy who follows that same criteria.

girls are bitches.
sweet Leighton avatar.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 01:56 AM
please direct me to a guy who follows that same criteria.


sweet Leighton avatar.

I'm a nice dude. All the girls that I really like alot went out of state for College. Def. not against a LDR, but eh, most girls arent down for it.

zion the lion
10/27/09, 02:03 AM
I'm a nice dude. All the girls that I really like alot went out of state for College. Def. not against a LDR, but eh, most girls arent down for it.

Whats a LDR?

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 02:10 AM
I'm a nice dude. All the girls that I really like alot went out of state for College. Def. not against a LDR, but eh, most girls arent down for it.
aw, that sucks. yeah, there's just not that many guys that I've met that interest me. and most guys that I meet that are single only want one thing anyway.

Whats a LDR?
long distance relationship.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 02:27 AM
aw, that sucks. yeah, there's just not that many guys that I've met that interest me. and most guys that I meet that are single only want one thing anyway.


long distance relationship.

Yeah, I'm still saving it for whoever I marry; I mean, just having something happen and having a kid out of the blue would absolutely tear my life in half. If I cant provide for a family and stuff, I might as well kill myself. So I mean, dudes like me are still around I suppose.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 02:37 AM
Yeah, I'm still saving it for whoever I marry; I mean, just having something happen and having a kid out of the blue would absolutely tear my life in half. If I cant provide for a family and stuff, I might as well kill myself. So I mean, dudes like me are still around I suppose.
well, I mean, I don't mind guys wanting sex. but I meet these guys where that is absolutely all they want and within the first time hanging out with them, they try. it's honestly disgusting.

chris07007
10/27/09, 02:50 AM
When you find them you let me know
haha touche


They're out there buddy, they are. As for places, the library has quite a few cute girls.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 02:54 AM
well, I mean, I don't mind guys wanting sex. but I meet these guys where that is absolutely all they want and within the first time hanging out with them, they try. it's honestly disgusting.


wow, you must be gorgeous.

But I dunno, I just really want it to mean something, which im sure your shooting for as well.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 02:57 AM
wow, you must be gorgeous.

But I dunno, I just really want it to mean something, which im sure your shooting for as well.
haha. I don't see what that has to do with it. all the guys I get attention from are just sleazebags, I guess.

well of course. sex isn't good if it doesn't mean something.

overdrive91
10/27/09, 02:59 AM
When you find out where these girls are hiding tell me. Could do with a nice girl and not a slag.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:04 AM
When you find out where these girls are hiding tell me. Could do with a nice girl and not a slag.
random but you live in my number one place I want to visit. please tell me Tokyo is as amazing as I imagine it to be.

overdrive91
10/27/09, 03:11 AM
random but you live in my number one place I want to visit. please tell me Tokyo is as amazing as I imagine it to be.

Tokyo is amazing. I love it. It's really different to anywhere I've been. People don't speak english though (like nearly 0) and it is expensive but definitely need to visit it.

Chromefox
10/27/09, 03:16 AM
All the nice girls are ugly. Pick one or the other.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:21 AM
Tokyo is amazing. I love it. It's really different to anywhere I've been. People don't speak english though (like nearly 0) and it is expensive but definitely need to visit it.
awesome. I've never been off this continent but it's at the top of my list for when I do.

overdrive91
10/27/09, 03:24 AM
awesome. I've never been off this continent but it's at the top of my list for when I do.

Do it, you won't regret it. If you do go visit shibuya. It's where i live.
I'm leaving japan next month though. sucks.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:26 AM
Do it, you won't regret it. If you do go visit shibuya. It's where i live.
I'm leaving japan next month though. sucks.
is it like a city or a suburb or what?
that sucks. where are you going?

overdrive91
10/27/09, 03:28 AM
is it like a city or a suburb or what?
that sucks. where are you going?

It's a part of tokyo, probably the most famous because of the most crowded crossing in the world.
I'm heading off to malaysia to see relatives than the UK for Uni. fun stuff.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:32 AM
It's a part of tokyo, probably the most famous because of the most crowded crossing in the world.
I'm heading off to malaysia to see relatives than the UK for Uni. fun stuff.
sweet. I'll definitely have to check it out.
at least you get to go to a lot of different places, I guess.

overdrive91
10/27/09, 03:36 AM
sweet. I'll definitely have to check it out.
at least you get to go to a lot of different places, I guess.

Haha yeah I've been to a few already like indonesia, England, saudi arabia, israel, malaysia and tokyo.
and to swing it back to the topic, japanese girls are cute as hell but you can't really communicate if you dont speak japanese. So the moral of the story is learn japanese.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:39 AM
Haha yeah I've been to a few already like indonesia, England, saudi arabia, israel, malaysia and tokyo.
and to swing it back to the topic, japanese girls are cute as hell but you can't really communicate if you dont speak japanese. So the moral of the story is learn japanese.
that's seriously awesome. learning the language would be cool although I definitely wouldn't be using it to pick up girls haha.

overdrive91
10/27/09, 03:45 AM
that's seriously awesome. learning the language would be cool although I definitely wouldn't be using it to pick up girls haha.
haha pick up guys then, though some of them are borderline homo though and uh japan apparently has the smallest in the male equipment department.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 03:47 AM
haha pick up guys then, though some of them are borderline homo though and uh japan apparently has the smallest in the male equipment department.
uh oh. that might be a problem. haha.

timb89
10/27/09, 04:00 AM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

i agree cute > hot.

Jennurna Gray
10/27/09, 04:04 AM
Yeah, I'm still saving it for whoever I marry; I mean, just having something happen and having a kid out of the blue would absolutely tear my life in half. If I cant provide for a family and stuff, I might as well kill myself. So I mean, dudes like me are still around I suppose.
Where have you been? I've been looking all over for you!

timb89
10/27/09, 04:11 AM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

i agree cute > hot.

timb89
10/27/09, 04:11 AM
whoops double post.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 04:11 AM
Where have you been? I've been looking all over for you!

Oh hello.

uhm, well, I've been around.

EDIT: I mean, on your mind. That sounds a whole lot cuter, right?

Trioxide
10/27/09, 04:22 AM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

Change all of the female references to male references and i agree.

But lets face it, what you are after doesn't exist... we are all evil bitches who eat boy's hearts and spit them out into nearby garbage bins minutes later.

Jennurna Gray
10/27/09, 04:36 AM
Oh hello.

uhm, well, I've been around.

EDIT: I mean, on your mind. That sounds a whole lot cuter, right?
haha, well, yes, actually you have.
Not you specifically (since until today, I had no idea of your existence), but your 'species', which is becoming extinct ever-so quickly.
KEEP IT GOING! :]

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 04:40 AM
haha, well, yes, actually you have.
Not you specifically (since until today, I had no idea of your existence), but your 'species', which is becoming extinct ever-so quickly.
KEEP IT GOING! :]

whatever that means?

andthetruthwill
10/27/09, 04:42 AM
Where are the nice girls? Ask Don Vito.

Jennurna Gray
10/27/09, 04:48 AM
whatever that means?
lol.
I don't know, I wasn't paying attention at the end there.
I blame the ADHD.
Sorry.

sodamnclever
10/27/09, 06:28 AM
Change all of the female references to male references and i agree.

For real.

songydarko
10/27/09, 06:36 AM
Most girls suck.

sleepyseanzzz
10/27/09, 06:54 AM
the nice girls are out in the world, you won't find them on your computer, at least probably not this website anyway

abcdefghijake
10/27/09, 07:03 AM
Where da sluts at

Ravenous
10/27/09, 07:50 AM
Most girls suck.

Literally and figuratively. Hahaha.

Rubato
10/27/09, 07:52 AM
I'm still laughing at the guy who said "Druggies and Lowlifes".

What are you, in the 50's?

And it's not like this phenomenon is confined exclusively to girls... call me when you find more than a handful of people that aren't shallow, mindless idiots in this day and age.

ilikesound93
10/27/09, 07:54 AM
I'm a nice girl. Guys don't seem to dig that, to me, though.

Charles777
10/27/09, 08:02 AM
They're all in my basement.

Charles777
10/27/09, 08:06 AM
I'm still laughing at the guy who said "Druggies and Lowlifes".

What are you, in the 50's?

And it's not like this phenomenon is confined exclusively to girls... call me when you find more than a handful of people that aren't shallow, mindless idiots in this day and age.
What are you, some kinda wise guy? You wanna throw hands?

pr0digy
10/27/09, 08:16 AM
You sound like a douche. Maybe stop that? And DEFINITELY stop listening to Prodigy, from my experience the only people who listen to Prodigy are druggies and lowlifes.

1) Furthest thing from a douche you will ever meet. Just frustrated and slightly drunk last night.
2) No idea who the hell prodigy is haha..my name is just my Xbox/Aim user name from like middle school.

Wildness774
10/27/09, 08:28 AM
yeah long distance relationships are hit or miss

Rubato
10/27/09, 08:34 AM
What are you, some kinda wise guy? You wanna throw hands?


If you wanna throw down in fisticuffs, fine, I've got Jack Johnson and Tom O'Leary waitin' for ya...right here!

Charles777
10/27/09, 08:35 AM
If you wanna throw down in fisticuffs, fine, I've got Jack Johnson and Tom O'Leary waitin' for ya...right here!
lolllllllllll

argg_xo
10/27/09, 08:49 AM
Bitches ain't shit, the nice girls are probably right in front of you.

lostxmyxmind
10/27/09, 09:03 AM
Why is that half the guys on this site think that all girls are bitches and drama queens? I swear that not all of us are like that.
Also, it seems like half of the girls that aren't like that get stuck in friend zone.

ReadyForAction
10/27/09, 09:11 AM
All the nice girls are busy sucking the dicks of guys who have better game then you

Rubato
10/27/09, 09:49 AM
Why is that half the guys on this site think that all girls are bitches and drama queens? I swear that not all of us are like that.
Also, it seems like half of the girls that aren't like that get stuck in friend zone.

Haha, right on the money.

Guys in highschool are fucking idiots, I should know, I was there once.

Rubato
10/27/09, 09:50 AM
Oh, shit the Original Poster is out of Highschool... hahaha... I guess I kind of just assumed from the nature of the topic he was like 16.

about3fitty
10/27/09, 10:03 AM
I swear I had a fortune cookie that read this.

haha thats creepy. its true though. everyone here should try it. it makes a huge difference

pr0digy
10/27/09, 10:21 AM
Oh, shit the Original Poster is out of Highschool... hahaha... I guess I kind of just assumed from the nature of the topic he was like 16.

Naw, it's just frustrating to always get stuck in the friend zone bullshit simply because you're an overly nice guy...I just don't agree with the concept that to get things you want you have to almost change the type of person you are.

Auals
10/27/09, 10:33 AM
1) Furthest thing from a douche you will ever meet. Just frustrated and slightly drunk last night.
2) No idea who the hell prodigy is haha..my name is just my Xbox/Aim user name from like middle school.

Ok. Fair enough then. Stay away from prodigy and drink until you can't move. That way you fix both issues. You'll be so drunk you won't be able to worry about anything else :)

TerrancePryor
10/27/09, 10:59 AM
Most of the girls that I've met in NJ are shallow pieces of garbage. I know that there are nice ones but good luck finding them.

zachff
10/27/09, 11:08 AM
why would you not want a hot girl.. confusing

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 11:09 AM
Change all of the female references to male references and i agree.

But lets face it, what you are after doesn't exist... we are all evil bitches who eat boy's hearts and spit them out into nearby garbage bins minutes later.
this totally gives me the mental image of Megan Fox in Jennifer's Body.

jmirand1
10/27/09, 11:12 AM
haha. I don't see what that has to do with it. all the guys I get attention from are just sleazebags, I guess.

well of course. sex isn't good if it doesn't mean something.

lies, lies, and lies.

jmirand1
10/27/09, 11:14 AM
why would you not want a hot girl.. confusing

Hot girls (8-10) are way more likely to cheat for obvious reasons, so I'm assuming that's the reason he wants a "cute (not hot)" girl.

crimsonandclovr
10/27/09, 11:18 AM
See we say the same things in all the "I need a nice boy" thread.

Clearly there is a lack of communication between the nice people.

Someone needs to fix it before they all kill themselves.

or, everyone just congregate in one place. put all the nice people from ap.net in one room to end the search once and for all, since apparently we just keep missing each other. seriously, we'll make a whole conference out of it. it'll solve everyone's problem.

Durden, T.
10/27/09, 11:24 AM
sex isn't good if it doesn't mean something.

Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's damn good. When it's ok, it's still pretty good.

Sventhegreat
10/27/09, 11:28 AM
Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's damn good. When it's ok, it's still pretty good.

Well put. Both of those things sound absolutely delicious right now.

zachff
10/27/09, 11:34 AM
Hot girls (8-10) are way more likely to cheat for obvious reasons, so I'm assuming that's the reason he wants a "cute (not hot)" girl.

massive generalization

jmirand1
10/27/09, 11:41 AM
massive generalization

Obviously. I don't use this generalization myself, I'm just pointing out that many, many guys out there operate with the "hot girls cheat" schema.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 11:54 AM
lies, lies, and lies.
I'd have to disagree. I've slept with a few guys and some of them were okay at the time but they didn't mean anything and it was sort of whatever. at this point, there's only one guy I really enjoy doing anything with. even kissing other guys feels weird and isn't particularly enjoyable.

Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's damn good. When it's ok, it's still pretty good.
at the time. but sometimes afterward you realize it wasn't worth it. sometimes I realize the pizza wasn't that great and wasn't worth the calories. sometimes I realize the guy wasn't that great and wasn't worth another notch in my bedpost.

Well put. Both of those things sound absolutely delicious right now.
pizza and sex? absolutely.

argg_xo
10/27/09, 12:07 PM
Sex is like pizza. When it's good, it's damn good. When it's ok, it's still pretty good.
This is the best thing I have read all day.

Durden, T.
10/27/09, 12:37 PM
at the time. but sometimes afterward you realize it wasn't worth it. sometimes I realize the pizza wasn't that great and wasn't worth the calories. sometimes I realize the guy wasn't that great and wasn't worth another notch in my bedpost.

Well, you're a girl, and girls regret eating everything because of calories.

salt1384
10/27/09, 12:48 PM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

Well you could start by typing full words and not using abbreviations.
Oh and also, for the record, not all girls play games and screw you over.

TerrancePryor
10/27/09, 12:49 PM
why would you not want a hot girl.. confusing

Hot girls are so full of themselves. They want sooo much because they look a certain way. I hate em.

HelpMeSleep
10/27/09, 12:53 PM
Well, you're a girl, and girls regret eating everything because of calories.
very clever. not. I definitely don't.

Smash Adams
10/27/09, 12:57 PM
sex with pizza is the best, unless the pizza starts talking, then I swear to never do acid again

zachff
10/27/09, 12:58 PM
Hot girls are so full of themselves. They want sooo much because they look a certain way. I hate em.
Seriously? I'm going to just pretend you didn't say that, because there are plenty of "hot" (which is a ridiculous, completely subjective term anyways) who are just as down to earth as "cute" (whatever the fuck that means) girls.

TerrancePryor
10/27/09, 01:01 PM
Seriously? I'm going to just pretend you didn't say that, because there are plenty of "hot" (which is a ridiculous, completely subjective term anyways) who are just as down to earth as "cute" (whatever the fuck that means) girls.


Well those kind of "hot" girls don't live here in Jersey.

zachff
10/27/09, 01:28 PM
Well those kind of "hot" girls don't live here in Jersey.
Well there's the problem, you live in New Jersey

Waldorf
10/27/09, 02:28 PM
I made them good girls go bad.

xmicxcorex
10/27/09, 03:40 PM
I swear I had a fortune cookie that read this.


I had one that read, "Get the Moo Goo Gai Pan"


Also, girls suck, in every possible manner of the word. Find one that does it right and you're ready set.

To be more serious here: ....anal. :irule:

Kassie09
10/27/09, 03:49 PM
I am cute. And I am nice.

win.

jk, theres a TON of cute nice girls though..I dunno where they're hiding where you live.

Waldorf
10/27/09, 03:57 PM
I am cute. And I am nice.

win.

jk, theres a TON of cute nice girls though..I dunno where they're hiding where you live.

Probably in the barns.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 04:03 PM
lol.
I don't know, I wasn't paying attention at the end there.
I blame the ADHD.
Sorry.

Everyone has ADHD really; no harm, no foul.

Kassie09
10/27/09, 04:08 PM
Probably in the barns.

Noooo cute girls dont hide in barns, they hide..at the mall

Smash Adams
10/27/09, 04:11 PM
Noooo cute girls dont hide in barns, they hide..at the mall
But The Mean Girls hung out in the mall and Regina called Susan's mom and told her she had herpes

Kassie09
10/27/09, 04:12 PM
But The Mean Girls hung out in the mall and Regina called Susan's mom and told her she had herpes

thats cause susan deserved it.

Smash Adams
10/27/09, 04:13 PM
thats cause susan deserved it.
Why? Because she got a cute guy?

Waldorf
10/27/09, 04:17 PM
I knew a girl who got tested for herpes once, back in grade 10.

Kassie09
10/27/09, 04:20 PM
Why? Because she got a cute guy?

yes.
jkkkkk, susan was beautiful<3

Smash Adams
10/27/09, 04:21 PM
yes.
jkkkkk, susan was beautiful<3
a beautiful butterfly like you

Kassie09
10/27/09, 04:22 PM
a beautiful butterfly like you

Thanks, Ian. You are my inspiration.

TerrancePryor
10/27/09, 04:35 PM
Well there's the problem, you live in New Jersey

Haha. I love New Jersey. The women here are kinda ehh. New York women are the best.

bNz719
10/27/09, 04:53 PM
I had one that read, "Get the Moo Goo Gai Pan"

Ahahaha what in the hell does that mean?

I knew a girl who got tested for herpes once, back in grade 10.

One of the most contributive posts I have ever witnessed. Well done, good sir!

Waldorf
10/27/09, 04:54 PM
Ahahaha what in the hell does that mean?

EDIT: It was an ad for the restaurant's Moo Goo Gai Pan.

http://www.asiangardengrassvalley.com/images/large/moogoogaipan.jpg

Waldorf
10/27/09, 04:55 PM
One of the most contributive posts I have ever witnessed. Well done, good sir!

Thx bro. I try.

bNz719
10/27/09, 04:58 PM
EDIT: It was an ad for the restaurant's Moo Goo Gai Pan.

http://www.asiangardengrassvalley.com/images/large/moogoogaipan.jpg

hahaha those cheap bastards

Waldorf
10/27/09, 05:02 PM
Ha same shit happens to me. I'm like the nice dude all the girls can talk to, but then when I meet a random girl at like a party I can easily hook up with her. I want something in between, but no its college your not "supposed to be in a relationship". I've had three chicks tell me that.

That party last night was awfully crazy. I wish we'd taped it. I danced my ass off, and had this one girl completely naked.
Drink my beer and smoke my weed, but my good friends is all I need...
Pass out at 3, wake up at 10, go out to eat, then do it again.
Man, I love college.

Yellowcard2006
10/27/09, 05:11 PM
If you're having girls problem, I feel bad for you son.

Jennurna Gray
10/27/09, 05:16 PM
Everyone has ADHD really; no harm, no foul.
:]
So uhm, what's up with the nice (CUTE, TOO?!) guy?

smogs
10/27/09, 05:42 PM
Don't worry, we're here.

11:11
10/27/09, 06:04 PM
Nice girls don't exist until college, and if you still can't find any when you're there, that's bad news.

Durden, T.
10/27/09, 06:33 PM
sex with pizza is the best, unless the pizza starts talking, then I swear to never do acid again

This wins.

aircourtneys
10/27/09, 08:00 PM
Nice girls are the ones who sit at home on the weekends. It's pretty hard to meet ladies that never go out....

musiclova
10/27/09, 08:09 PM
Okay I'm sick and tired of fucking dealing with dumb ass stupid chicks...Ladies I need to know where to find a cute (not hot) girl, who fucking doesn't play games....cuz i'm sick of getting fucked over :( :(

Your possibly just looking in the wrong place.Some girls are nice, you just need to look in the right place and don't be so picky with your girls... i can understand that you don't want a girl who plays games but i can't promise you that she isn't a "dumb ass stupid chick."

where to find some decent ladies? well, if your into music, check out cd shops and talk to a random girl....you never know.

framebyframe
10/27/09, 08:24 PM
:wave:

I've recently come to realize how much guys appreciate nice girls. I had the ugly duckling syndrome until about grade 10, and people ignored me because I was small and quiet.

I hate when people constantly say I'm cute though :-( It's kind of annoying especially because it makes me look younger. But for the record, not all nice girls are ugly. Keep looking!

le_rawr
10/27/09, 08:33 PM
We're around, finding a nice girl means work. We don't throw ourselves at you. Contrary to popular belief chivalry is not dead. You want a nice girl, it's not going to be that drunk girl at the party who's dancing on the table, it's the girl who's taking her home.

Kassie09
10/27/09, 08:37 PM
i think nice girls get over looked and over shadowed by the slutty and outgoing ones, theyre what guys are paying attention to when they're out..since they're the center of attention. Even if the guy is thinking 'wow, shut the fuck up ' or 'what a slut' his attention is still focused on her..making him forget about the nice ones and assume all girls suck.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 10:02 PM
:]
So uhm, what's up with the nice (CUTE, TOO?!) guy?

Lying around with job apps and scholarship stuff for college next year (yes, I do realize im a little off the ball for school, I took a break from school, worked a tour, and just worked), and I just got back with volunteering with some middle schoolers at a church I attend.

Don't worry, we're here.

Shawnaaaaaa

Nice girls are the ones who sit at home on the weekends. It's pretty hard to meet ladies that never go out....

You speak as if its a crime to spend a weekend at home with a lady. or alone. Whichever.

Auals
10/27/09, 10:42 PM
i think nice girls get over looked and over shadowed by the slutty and outgoing ones, theyre what guys are paying attention to when they're out..since they're the center of attention. Even if the guy is thinking 'wow, shut the fuck up ' or 'what a slut' his attention is still focused on her..making him forget about the nice ones and assume all girls suck.

That's why I don't go out in that sense. I don't go out looking for people. If I go out it's just to relax. However, I'm one of those guys who'd rather stay home and read/write/playmusic/watch a movie/tvshow. Most of the time I go out now is if I'm playing a gig or for friends birthdays. I do most of my introductions through friends at those types of things. Networking is much easier and safer. I won't date or even like someone unless I know them pretty well. And if they're friends with other friends of mine then it's a good way to get to know someone.

I really dislike guys who go partying to hook up. It's disgusting. One guy I used to know would hit on every girl in a pub and then when he struck out (which he would) he'd try to get us all to go to another one. If I'm going out, it's to catch up with friends. If I meet new ones, great.

I understand why people our age are so desperate to have someone but really, there's a crap load of people on this planet. Some you work with, some that are friends of friends and yet it's become a part of culture to go out and make a dick of yourself to find someone? It's pathetic and sad. And I hate to see what will happen in the future if this continues.

Kinda makes me hope for "A Brave New World" type outcome.

smogs
10/27/09, 11:16 PM
Shawnaaaaaa

Haha, no one's ever called Shawna before. But it works.

Hiiiiiiiiii

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 11:22 PM
Haha, no one's ever called Shawna before. But it works.

Hiiiiiiiiii

oh, uhm, I thought Afshawn = Shawna?

Awwwwwkward.

smogs
10/27/09, 11:36 PM
oh, uhm, I thought Afshawn = Shawna?

Awwwwwkward.

Hahaha, nah. When my parents named me Afshawn, they figured I could go by Shawn (they didn't really realize that was just a boys name. Oh foreigners) or Shawna. But it never actually happened.

It's all good though. I've been called a lot of things. That one was actually logical.

Jake Denning
10/27/09, 11:43 PM
Hahaha, nah. When my parents named me Afshawn, they figured I could go by Shawn (they didn't really realize that was just a boys name. Oh foreigners) or Shawna. But it never actually happened.

It's all good though. I've been called a lot of things. That one was actually logical.

Shawna could work for you, that could be rad.

I took a girl from Faroe Islands to Homecoming my senior year; Her legal name was Asgerd, but she went by Ashley, she was suuuuuuuper cute and a massive flirt. It was a great night.

smogs
10/28/09, 12:11 AM
Shawna could work for you, that could be rad.

I took a girl from Faroe Islands to Homecoming my senior year; Her legal name was Asgerd, but she went by Ashley, she was suuuuuuuper cute and a massive flirt. It was a great night.

It could work. I'll give it a try. But, I've been going for 19 years as Afshawn, so it could be tough to make the transition.

Haha, I'm glad the night went well for you. But to be honest, I'm more impressed you know someone from the Faroe Islands. The population there is crazy small.

Jake Denning
10/28/09, 12:36 AM
It could work. I'll give it a try. But, I've been going for 19 years as Afshawn, so it could be tough to make the transition.

Haha, I'm glad the night went well for you. But to be honest, I'm more impressed you know someone from the Faroe Islands. The population there is crazy small.

this is true; I wikipedia'd the heck outta that place the month of Homecoming.

Shawna is a cute name, you know you like it.

kaycey
10/28/09, 01:19 AM
nice girls go for bad boys.

HelpMeSleep
10/28/09, 02:30 AM
nice girls go for bad boys.
:nod:

deathinkosovo
10/28/09, 03:34 AM
nice girls go for bad boys.

Until the bad boys cheat on them for someone with a little bigger cup size. Then the nice girls crawl back to the good boys who, foolishly, accept them back with loving arms.

Jennurna Gray
10/28/09, 03:47 AM
Lying around with job apps and scholarship stuff for college next year (yes, I do realize im a little off the ball for school, I took a break from school, worked a tour, and just worked), and I just got back with volunteering with some middle schoolers at a church I attend.
That's totally cool. :D
You're damn nice.

Jake Denning
10/28/09, 04:25 AM
That's totally cool. :D
You're nice.

Thank you.

smogs
10/28/09, 08:32 AM
this is true; I wikipedia'd the heck outta that place the month of Homecoming.

Shawna is a cute name, you know you like it.

Hahaha how precious!

It is a cute name! I'm not denying that! I just don't think I'm much of a Shawna.

cirerelleum
10/28/09, 12:01 PM
sweet Leighton avatar.

thank you! thats the first comment i've gotten on it.

kaycey
10/28/09, 02:30 PM
:nod:
case and point then.

Waldorf
10/28/09, 03:13 PM
case and point then.

*in

Jake Denning
10/28/09, 05:01 PM
Hahaha how precious!

It is a cute name! I'm not denying that! I just don't think I'm much of a Shawna.

I think everyone question's their name at some point.

Jake Denning
10/28/09, 05:09 PM
I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.

HelpMeSleep
10/28/09, 09:28 PM
thank you! thats the first comment i've gotten on it.
you're welcome. I love her. :-)

case and point then.
yep, pretty much.

smogs
10/28/09, 09:29 PM
I think everyone question's their name at some point.

I never questioned my name. Just my height. haha. Always the tallest girl in class...now I'm in 6' tall.

I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.

Also, I drink every now and then, but I rather do so with my friends at home. But besides that, I like to think I fit the other requirements.

cirerelleum
10/28/09, 09:32 PM
you're welcome. I love her. :-)


she's the best. how could one not love her?

Codi23
10/28/09, 09:41 PM
I need a nice girl, too haha. They all be either bitches or manipulators round these parts.

lostxmyxmind
10/28/09, 09:52 PM
I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.
Hopefully you aren't asking too much, because just switch everything to a guy and I'm kind of in the same boat (ideally, but I realize that I might be asking too much as well).

HelpMeSleep
10/28/09, 10:07 PM
she's the best. how could one not love her?
agreed. please tell me you watch GG.

Jake Denning
10/28/09, 10:36 PM
Hopefully you aren't asking too much, because just switch everything to a guy and I'm kind of in the same boat (ideally, but I realize that I might be asking too much as well).

Read your latest blog entry, I feel EXACTLY the same way sometimes, particularly about shows I want to go to.

Don't worry, some dude is gonna be STOKED on you, you seem to be pretty cool.

wroteurname
10/28/09, 10:41 PM
Nice girls are the ones who sit at home on the weekends. It's pretty hard to meet ladies that never go out....

This is so true. I came to this realization a couple weeks ago. It just hit me "wow, no girls I would ever date hang out at the same sketchy-ass places I do."

wroteurname
10/28/09, 10:43 PM
yeah long distance relationships are hit or miss

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tVAlXp4CSLE/SECSAqQhgnI/AAAAAAAAAXo/tCyCEzwb9UY/s400/New+Found+Glory+-+Hit+or+Miss.jpg

HelpMeSleep
10/29/09, 01:18 AM
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_tVAlXp4CSLE/SECSAqQhgnI/AAAAAAAAAXo/tCyCEzwb9UY/s400/New+Found+Glory+-+Hit+or+Miss.jpg
oh look it's greg!

cirerelleum
10/29/09, 08:35 AM
agreed. please tell me you watch GG.

how else would i know of her? and don't say that cobra starship song haha

kaycey
10/29/09, 08:54 AM
yep, pretty much.
its all part of your charm(: you do your bass!

chris1152
10/29/09, 09:49 AM
I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.

You basically just described the girl I'm "in love" with.

framebyframe
10/29/09, 10:41 AM
That's why I don't go out in that sense. I don't go out looking for people. If I go out it's just to relax. However, I'm one of those guys who'd rather stay home and read/write/playmusic/watch a movie/tvshow. Most of the time I go out now is if I'm playing a gig or for friends birthdays. I do most of my introductions through friends at those types of things. Networking is much easier and safer. I won't date or even like someone unless I know them pretty well. And if they're friends with other friends of mine then it's a good way to get to know someone.

I really dislike guys who go partying to hook up. It's disgusting. One guy I used to know would hit on every girl in a pub and then when he struck out (which he would) he'd try to get us all to go to another one. If I'm going out, it's to catch up with friends. If I meet new ones, great.

I understand why people our age are so desperate to have someone but really, there's a crap load of people on this planet. Some you work with, some that are friends of friends and yet it's become a part of culture to go out and make a dick of yourself to find someone? It's pathetic and sad. And I hate to see what will happen in the future if this continues.

Kinda makes me hope for "A Brave New World" type outcome.

Sounds exactly like me. I think it's harder to find guys like this then it is girls though.

nice girls go for bad boys.

Not always true. I definitely do not.

I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.

Xanax? How would that have anything to do with her as a person? It's for anxiety and panic attacks. A nice girl is probably more likely to have bad anxiety than a mean one and I don't see how that would effect you at all. I have bad anxiety and take medication for it (not xanax though) and all it does is make me not want to die when I am in uncomfortable situations... Just saying. I agree with everything else on your list though :-)

kaycey
10/29/09, 11:13 AM
Not always true. I definitely do not.



you'll get bored eventually. i think people need to make mistakes now just to get it out of their system kinda so they can justify their actions in the future.
the best part of these relationship is that they never last long/ take intervals lol. you keep learning new things and you don't necessarily have to be a whore. there's nothing wrong with lust.

Codi23
10/29/09, 12:05 PM
Xanax? How would that have anything to do with her as a person? It's for anxiety and panic attacks. A nice girl is probably more likely to have bad anxiety than a mean one and I don't see how that would effect you at all. I have bad anxiety and take medication for it (not xanax though) and all it does is make me not want to die when I am in uncomfortable situations... Just saying. I agree with everything else on your list though :-)
I'm a dude, and I take Xanax. So, that kind of bothers me that someone wouldn't date me because I'm taking medicine that makes me feel more comfortable :-|. I don't understand the reasoning behind that, either haha.

framebyframe
10/29/09, 02:06 PM
I'm a dude, and I take Xanax. So, that kind of bothers me that someone wouldn't date me because I'm taking medicine that makes me feel more comfortable :-|. I don't understand the reasoning behind that, either haha.

I don't think a lot of people would even know about it anyway. None of my friends know I take medication. I don't think you have to worry :)

you'll get bored eventually. i think people need to make mistakes now just to get it out of their system kinda so they can justify their actions in the future.
the best part of these relationship is that they never last long/ take intervals lol. you keep learning new things and you don't necessarily have to be a whore. there's nothing wrong with lust.

Yeah you're right. Right now I don't go for bad guys just because I have a hard time trusting people as it is, and I automatically associate bad guys with being asshole's. But I have no idea what my tastes will be like in the future.

Jake Denning
10/29/09, 02:30 PM
Sounds exactly like me. I think it's harder to find guys like this then it is girls though.



Not always true. I definitely do not.



Xanax? How would that have anything to do with her as a person? It's for anxiety and panic attacks. A nice girl is probably more likely to have bad anxiety than a mean one and I don't see how that would effect you at all. I have bad anxiety and take medication for it (not xanax though) and all it does is make me not want to die when I am in uncomfortable situations... Just saying. I agree with everything else on your list though :-)

I was referring to girls who abuse drugs like Xanax and Pain-Killers, not ones who actually take the medicine for what it was intended. I would have no issue dating a girl who had stuff like that and was honest about using them correctly.

Codi23
10/29/09, 06:55 PM
I don't think a lot of people would even know about it anyway. None of my friends know I take medication. I don't think you have to worry :)

Thanks for the words of encouragement :-).

I was referring to girls who abuse drugs like Xanax and Pain-Killers, not ones who actually take the medicine for what it was intended. I would have no issue dating a girl who had stuff like that and was honest about using them correctly.
Ahhhh I see what you were saying. That's a definite turn off for me with women, too. Good deal :thumbup:.

phil19
10/29/09, 08:27 PM
i think ive possibly found one. but she has a boyfriend who is a dick

Codi23
10/29/09, 09:10 PM
i think ive possibly found one. but she has a boyfriend who is a dick
When does that not happen? hahaha. Seriously.

phil19
10/29/09, 09:11 PM
When does that not happen? hahaha. Seriously.

hahaha yeah i think you're right. sucks balls

SonEric84
10/29/09, 10:37 PM
I really would like a girlfriend who:

- Doesnt drink or do drugs (yes, including Xanax and whatnot)
- Dresses Modestly (Because if your cute, your cute)
- Has a clean mouth (I'm not into girls who are into cursing all the time)
- Doesnt have to have everything her way all the time
- Doesnt feel the need to go out all the time

I realize maybe i'm asking too much, but if a girl like that comes around, I would go broke for her.


This would be nice.

Auals
10/29/09, 10:56 PM
Sounds exactly like me. I think it's harder to find guys like this then it is girls though.

Xanax? How would that have anything to do with her as a person? It's for anxiety and panic attacks. A nice girl is probably more likely to have bad anxiety than a mean one and I don't see how that would effect you at all. I have bad anxiety and take medication for it (not xanax though) and all it does is make me not want to die when I am in uncomfortable situations... Just saying. I agree with everything else on your list though :-)

For the first topic I agree.

Secondly, if it's not too personal, are you on Lexapro? It's what I've been taking for the past year now. I've had anxiety my entire life but only got diagnosed a year ago and my life's starting to get back on the upside now. I was a mess, I don't know when you got diagnosed but as someone who had bad anxiety all the way through highschool/primaryschool, it was horrible. Thankfully I had friends who put up with the crazy things I used to do, the crazy highs and lows etc etc. But now things are ok :)

And thirdly, is your name an Honorary Title reference? Because if so, that's awesome. Everything I Once Had was my favourite song of 2005.

Jake Denning
10/30/09, 02:28 AM
I seriously doubt that there is a girl like what I want that exists.

It's really depressing.

mybreakingpoint
10/30/09, 08:15 AM
remember, every woman is a whore.

except your mother.

SonEric84
10/30/09, 12:47 PM
I seriously doubt that there is a girl like what I want that exists.

It's really depressing.



Yeah, very depressing.

Codi23
10/30/09, 01:56 PM
remember, every woman is a whore.

except your mother.
Hahahahaha :-d.

lostxmyxmind
10/30/09, 02:12 PM
remember, every woman is a whore.

except your mother.
:-(

TerrancePryor
10/30/09, 02:16 PM
remember, every woman is a whore.

except your mother.


Backed.

Waldorf
10/30/09, 02:17 PM
My mother was once not my mother. What was she then?

geebee889
10/30/09, 03:59 PM
Nice people are the ones kept in the friend zone. Usually.


That's usually my problem.

And we're right in front of you, you just need to see past the douchebags hitting on every breathing thing to find us.

Codi23
10/30/09, 04:52 PM
My mother was once not my mother. What was she then?
I'm sorry to tell you this, son... but she was a whore :-(.

hellogorgeous
10/30/09, 05:04 PM
I definitely feel like many people play games, whether they realize it or not, and whether they think it's necessary or not. I don't like games, or I think I don't like games, but I know if my boyfriend stopped playing somewhat 'hard to get' I would probably become very bored, no matter how much I love him.

mar_
10/30/09, 07:02 PM
I seriously doubt that there is a girl like what I want that exists.

It's really depressing.

I know girls that meet the little list of requirements you have.
But whether they're what you want, I don't know.
Not to mention they live nowhere near you.

Jake Denning
10/30/09, 11:00 PM
I know girls that meet the little list of requirements you have.
But whether they're what you want, I don't know.
Not to mention they live nowhere near you.

they always do

IntoTheSun
10/30/09, 11:15 PM
I seriously doubt that there is a girl like what I want that exists.

It's really depressing.

why is that? I mean, I guess no one's "dream girl/guy" truly exists, but sometimes, the person we love in real life is that much better.

/cheesy advice of the day

Sventhegreat
10/31/09, 12:16 AM
why is that? I mean, I guess no one's "dream girl/guy" truly exists, but sometimes, the person we love in real life is that much better.

/cheesy advice of the day

True that. I didn't think it was that cheesy. :)

IntoTheSun
10/31/09, 10:49 AM
True that. I didn't think it was that cheesy. :)

Haha, thanks. I try my best.