Opposite sex friends

[ted is lying]

So if you have a friend of the opposite gender is it weird to sleep with them? Either sleep or sex? Does anyone do it with there friends?

[songydarko]

As in sleep sleep? Or what?

[ohioforlovers]

^^ Thats what I was going to say.

[MidCal]

Did you put your P in your bff's V?

[kemichels]

If you are both okay with it and it doesn't make things weird, then no.

[DanTGD]

Some friends then yeah it gets weird. Like your closest friends that you see all the time.

But if it's someone you see casually every now and again, it wouldn't be that bad to get with her once while drunk.

[ted is lying]

Well it is my best friend.

[kbi the crowing]

sleep sleep, I think things would be fine. sex might make things weird, you should prolly talk that out first rather then a heat of the moment kind of thing if you still want maintain a friendship.

[kbi the crowing]

Well it is my best friend.

do you want to date her or friends with benefits kind of thing

[MilesToGo]

Sleep with as in sleep, not weird. Sleep with as in sex, probably weird. Especially since most girls don't know how to have sex with someone and not get attached.

[mms13]

Sex is always gonna make it weird. You either want to be her friend or you want to hook up with her...I really don't believe theres an in between

[ted is lying]

do you want to date her or friends with benefits kind of thing
I guess friends with benefits, although the thing I find weird I dont find her physically attractive, even though I know she is one of the hottest girls I ever seen.

[bladerdude360]

I've slept in the same bed as girls without anything happening. But that's not always how it plays out haha. You should probably just talk to her about it first and figure out what you both want.

[AndrewIcex]

Live on the edge.

[play.tragic]

I guess friends with benefits, although the thing I find weird I dont find her physically attractive, even though I know she is one of the hottest girls I ever seen.


if you don't find her physically attractive, why would you want to be friends with benefits with her?

[Kassie09]

I've always slept in the same bed with my guy friends. It's not a big deal. They are basically a girl to me, I am basically a guy to them. Nothing would ever happen. It's just convenient.

[songydarko]

So you're saying you want to have sex with your best friend that isn't attractive... I'm not comprehending? Either way, I think if you want her like that then you obviously are attracted to her and it's not just a friend thing. I don't see how you can be in between either as someone else said up there.

[ted is lying]

I've slept in the same bed as girls without anything happening. But that's not always how it plays out haha. You should probably just talk to her about it first and figure out what you both want.
Like we slept in the same bed a ton of times and I know that eventually it will lead to something else. Considering half of the time im shit faced or under some type of drug.
if you don't find her physically attractive, why would you want to be friends with benefits with her?
Like I find her attractive I dont no how to explain it, i guess im not in love with her. And I just wonder if it is weird to have friends with benefits cause it will most likely happen.

[kemichels]

I think the moral of the thread is this kid is a 13 year old that's confused as fuck and he's trapped in an 18 year old's body.

[songydarko]

I think the moral of the thread is this kid is a 13 year old that's confused as fuck and he's trapped in an 18 year old's body.

You're probably right.

[kemichels]

You're probably right.

Thanks, now can we hijack this thread into something more fun like how I want to shoot on your face?

[songydarko]

Thanks, now can we hijack this thread into something more fun like how I want to shoot on your face?

LOL. We've hijacked way too many threads and I still WON'T let you shoot anything in my face. Unless it's German chocolate or maybe if you're like shooting baby kittens in my arms, then sure.

[songydarko]

Oh hey he changed the thread a little. Sleeping with your friends is okay, but having sex with them is weird. And no I would never have sex with my friends, unless I wanted them which makes them my interest rather than friend. That is all.

[kemichels]

LOL. We've hijacked way too many threads and I still WON'T let you shoot anything in my face. Unless it's German chocolate or maybe if you're like shooting baby kittens in my arms, then sure.

But if I shot my semen on your face, it could look like milk, which would attract baby kittens. Think of it that way.

Oh hey he changed the thread a little. Sleeping with your friends is okay, but having sex with them is weird. And no I would never have sex with my friends, unless I wanted them which makes them my interest rather than friend. That is all.

And sleeping with friends is fine. Having sex with them is fine only if you both know what you're getting into and there aren't feelings attached. You absolutely cannot let it get weird. If you're both 40 and haven't been laid and you seriously just need to fuck, by all means, do it. Being friends with benefits, in general, doesn't end up well.

[songydarko]

But if I shot my semen on your face, it could look like milk, which would attract baby kittens. Think of it that way.



And sleeping with friends is fine. Having sex with them is fine only if you both know what you're getting into and there aren't feelings attached. You absolutely cannot let it get weird. If you're both 40 and haven't been laid and you seriously just need to fuck, by all means, do it. Friends with benefits, in general dont end up well

LMAO.... NO. Fuck that shit. No no no. Never.

And okay that's fine and dandy but would you screw someone you weren't attracted to? I sure wouldn't.

[argg_xo]

LOL. We've hijacked way too many threads and I still WON'T let you shoot anything in my face. Unless it's German chocolate or maybe if you're like shooting baby kittens in my arms, then sure.

holy shit, i legit LOL'd at this!

[kemichels]

LMAO.... NO. Fuck that shit. No no no. Never.

And okay that's fine and dandy but would you screw someone you weren't attracted to? I sure wouldn't.

well I'd have to be semi attracted to them, obviously. Unless they have some weird chemistry.

[songydarko]

holy shit, i legit LOL'd at this!

hahaha thank you, thank you. ;)

[songydarko]

well I'd have to be semi attracted to them, obviously. Unless they have some weird chemistry.

I dunnno, I would never really just screw anything just because I was deprived. Not something i'd dos.

[argg_xo]

hahaha thank you, thank you. ;)
i agree 100% with that statement as well.

[yves.]

i've slept and had sex with (different) opposite sex friends and it really hasn't effected my friendship with them.

[songydarko]

i agree 100% with that statement as well.

You're a smart gal!

[4N6 science]

Well if you sleep with her, kiss being best friends away.

[4N6 science]

i've slept and had sex with (different) opposite sex friends and it really hasn't effected my friendship with them.

really? So I would assume you didn't become attached like most girls?

[songydarko]

Well if you sleep with her, kiss being best friends away.

Truth.

[argg_xo]

You're a smart gal!
haha thank you!

[songydarko]

i've slept and had sex with (different) opposite sex friends and it really hasn't effected my friendship with them.
That's pretty absurd.

[kemichels]

I dunnno, I would never really just screw anything just because I was deprived. Not something i'd dos.

Just saying...if I was 70 and had never been laid, and me and my friend were both up for some purely physical pleasure, I'd be down.

[kemichels]

i've slept and had sex with (different) opposite sex friends and it really hasn't effected my friendship with them.

Skank.

jk

[songydarko]

Just saying...if I was 70 and had never been laid, and me and my friend were both up for some purely physical pleasure, I'd be down.

LOL. Babe... that's like a whole different situation than what this kid is even talking about !

[songydarko]

Skank.

jk

:|

[Sventhegreat]

if you don't find her physically attractive, why would you want to be friends with benefits with her?

Because he needs to bust a nut up in someone's gut and this is his best shot!

[yves.]

That's pretty absurd.

how is it absurd?

really? So I would assume you didn't become attached like most girls?

not really. i don't know if it has to do with the fact that i've moved a lot so i don't really get too attached to people or what. i mean, i have really close friends but i guess i've learned to detach myself at a certain point.

[kemichels]

LOL. Babe... that's like a whole different situation than what this kid is even talking about !

Or if i was really ugly and I could get only ugly girls, I'd probably be down to fuck for pleasure.


Granted I am really ugly, but at least we get to fuck like rabbits ;)


/sick sex brag.

[4N6 science]

not really. i don't know if it has to do with the fact that i've moved a lot so i don't really get too attached to people or what. i mean, i have really close friends but i guess i've learned to detach myself at a certain point.

Ahh gotcha. Cause I've done this before and I knew I was just sleeping with my friend. I had to get out of the situation when she started wanting more and more.

[songydarko]

Or if i was really ugly and I could get only ugly girls, I'd probably be down to fuck for pleasure.


Granted I am really ugly, but at least we get to fuck like rabbits ;)


/sick sex brag.

Okay, would have beat your ass for this comment but I read it and totally laughed. Damn you asshole.
Btw, you're not really ugly, you're a sexy lil beast ova der. num num.
Still gonna kick you for this comment anyway tho.

[shimmyshakes]

sleeping? Not weird at all.

[AndrewIcex]

sleeping? Not weird at all.
Sexing?

[andthetruthwill]

It doesn't matter to me. If you find that person attractive and they want to, why not? You should just be clear what it is going to be before you do so that one of you doesn't get overly excited after the fact.

[carnotaurhunter]

I've slept in the same bed as my opposite gender friends many times. It wasn't weird at all.

[mybreakingpoint]

i've had sex with my best friend. it was funny and we joke about it all the time hahaha :shrug:

[kbi the crowing]

I guess friends with benefits, although the thing I find weird I dont find her physically attractive, even though I know she is one of the hottest girls I ever seen.

if you really value the friendship, I wouldn't even bring it up, I'd find another girl.
but you can be bold and ask her if you'd like.

[ilikesound93]

Sex is always gonna make it weird. You either want to be her friend or you want to hook up with her...I really don't believe theres an in between

So you don't believe in having a girlfriend?

[Waldorf]

sex is awesome do it with friends strangers and loved ones

[musiclova]

I guess friends with benefits, although the thing I find weird I dont find her physically attractive, even though I know she is one of the hottest girls I ever seen.
it is all fine as long as both of you are comfortable with it!

[ReadyForAction]

I've slept in the same bed as my best friend and it was cool until she kicked me in the waist whilst dreaming.

[ted is lying]

if you really value the friendship, I wouldn't even bring it up, I'd find another girl.
but you can be bold and ask her if you'd like.
Well we already been sleeping together. I just feel like one night I'm going to be to drunk and if she drinks who knows.

[ted is lying]

it is all fine as long as both of you are comfortable with it!
I guess I just want to know if others do it.

[Sventhegreat]

I guess I just want to know if others do it.

You look really hot in your profile pic. You can really rock the denim jacket.

[IntoTheSun]

You look really hot in your profile pic. You can really rock the denim jacket.

ahaha. Not what I would have expected an 18 year old male to look like. Damn kids these days and their steroids...

[ted is lying]

You look really hot in your profile pic. You can really rock the denim jacket.
Yeah that isnt me....

[nonamesleft]

I have more male friends than female friends. Many more. And we have shared a bed many times.. it's not that weird.

[kbi the crowing]

Well we already been sleeping together. I just feel like one night I'm going to be to drunk and if she drinks who knows.

you should tell her that then
be like "if this keeps going on I might try and do something"

[Alex Martin]

Have sex with her. One of you will get attached. Willing to be it will be you.

[chassmariee]

If you fuck your homies then they are not your homies anymore.

[Chancetobe]

I'm gonna go ahead and say bad idea. Relationship or bust, if this is that girl that you are with 24/7. Also, not to be mean, but I find her extremely average looking.

[Sventhegreat]

Yeah that isnt me....
http://www.vgchat.com/images/n00bies/oh_rly.jpg

[oldwirehands]

If one or the other is in a relationship, friendship is possible. When both are single, the sexual tension becomes greater. And lets face it, there is always sexual tension, unless one of them are ugly.

[ted is lying]

you should tell her that then
be like "if this keeps going on I might try and do something"
Yeah I told her. I feel like sooner or later we will be dating or something of category.

[ted is lying]

http://www.vgchat.com/images/n00bies/oh_rly.jpg
Yup.

[ted is lying]

I'm gonna go ahead and say bad idea. Relationship or bust, if this is that girl that you are with 24/7. Also, not to be mean, but I find her extremely average looking.
Yeah that is one, there is another...

[Chancetobe]

Yeah that is one, there is another...

Ohh, who? Who? That third best friend who is friends with this girl?

[ted is lying]

Ohh, who? Who? That third best friend who is friends with this girl?
I am.

[Chancetobe]

I am.

Huh? I asked who this other girl is. You lost me.

[ted is lying]

Huh? I asked who this other girl is. You lost me.
Just someone who I been chilling with lately.

[Waldorf]

hey guys i think michael j fox is a pretty cool guy and that the guitar solo in mara & me is awesome

[kbi the crowing]

Yeah I told her. I feel like sooner or later we will be dating or something of category.

so she's cool with it?

[bandrewes]

hey guys i think michael j fox is a pretty cool guy and that the guitar solo in mara & me is awesome

you got that right! slightly off topic though..

[Viva Sonata]

Girls are more likely to be friends with me. Guys are harder to set an impression with, but when I do become friends with one, I'm closer to them.

[ted is lying]

so she's cool with it?
Yeah, I guess so. I really didn't get a definitive answer.

[Klatzke]

Eh.. Not really okay, most of the time. Won't work out.

[kbi the crowing]

Yeah, I guess so. I really didn't get a definitive answer.

I'd get a definite answer, would help you decied on your next move

[PezMullet]

Just someone who I been chilling with lately.

pics or it didn't happen


also, my best(girl) friend moved 3 hours away. Everytime I go see her we end up drunk as fuck and I always sleep in her bed. The wordt thing that happened is me giving her a massage and we fell asleep cuddling. Nothing changed and we just laughed about it the next day.

[ted is lying]

I'd get a definite answer, would help you decied on your next move
I dont want to decide on a move, cause I dont care if I get with her.
pics or it didn't happen


also, my best(girl) friend moved 3 hours away. Everytime I go see her we end up drunk as fuck and I always sleep in her bed. The wordt thing that happened is me giving her a massage and we fell asleep cuddling. Nothing changed and we just laughed about it the next day.
Nothing happen yet.

[Waldorf]

hey guys i think kristen bell is pretty hot and that the world needs more star wars movies

[Waldorf]

I dont want to decide on a move, cause I dont care if I get with her.


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i will be shocked if your day isnt ruined after hearing this

[musiclova]

I guess I just want to know if others do it.

yes indeed my friend

[oldwirehands]

I recently watched an evolutionary psychology lecture on conflict between sexes. Turns out men have a much harder time being just friends the females.

[imirish06]

As shallow as it sounds, I don't think I'm friends with a single girl I don't find attractive.

[Jake Denning]

Or if i was really ugly and I could get only ugly girls, I'd probably be down to fuck for pleasure.


Granted I am really ugly, but at least we get to fuck like rabbits ;)


/sick sex brag.

http://img43.imageshack.us/img43/8408/fifty.gif

[Jake Denning]

As shallow as it sounds, I don't think I'm friends with a single girl I don't find attractive.

qft

[zion the lion]

I sleep with my guy friends all the time, I'll cuddle with them, we hold hands, I do that with my same sex friends too. I'm not too touchey feely but I wont pull away.

I did something sexual with a great friend, and we arent close at all anymore because of it. We dont even make eye contact when we're in the same room, I feel weird even saying his name. If you want to keep your friendship you need to set up rule and understand exactly what sex really means to the other person way beforehand.

[Fullblast]

This

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[ted is lying]

yes indeed my friend
well now not to sleep alone.

[carlster!]

Alright, so firstly, bitches is clingy. Sooo if you're not looking for a relationship, I'd say ex-nay on the sex.

Sleeping? Well if you find her attractive that can be quite risky muh friend. You have to have EXCELLENT self-control.

[wuduprod]

if you didn't want to have sex with her subconsciously, this thread wouldn't exist.

[ted is lying]

Well she went back home this weekend to surprise her father on her birthday and I think she wants me. At 6:21 in the morning she comes into my room jumps on me and says bye. Two hours later I get a txt "dooo u miss me?". Another 4 hours pass and I get one "man I miss you being around so so so much". Then some time around 11ish she skypes me and is talking to me for another two hours, while I was trying to study. Then repeat same thing the next day. And this morning at 8:30 I get a wake up call asking how my hangover is and how she misses me. I dont want to date this girl just be friends and I feel like now she wants to date also to add to the situation there is another girl.

edit: just got a txt from her.

[kemichels]

http://img43.imageshack.us/img43/8408/fifty.gif

still like the best .gif ever.

[kbi the crowing]

Well she went back home this weekend to surprise her father on her birthday and I think she wants me. At 6:21 in the morning she comes into my room jumps on me and says bye. Two hours later I get a txt "dooo u miss me?". Another 4 hours pass and I get one "man I miss you being around so so so much". Then some time around 11ish she skypes me and is talking to me for another two hours, while I was trying to study. Then repeat same thing the next day. And this morning at 8:30 I get a wake up call asking how my hangover is and how she misses me. I dont want to date this girl just be friends and I feel like now she wants to date also to add to the situation there is another girl.

edit: just got a txt from her.

wait so you'd rather have the other girl?

[ted is lying]

wait so you'd rather have the other girl?
Well yeah.

[kbi the crowing]

Well yeah.

can you tell the girl who's being clingy that you aren't interested in being more than friends?

[ted is lying]

can you tell the girl who's being clingy that you aren't interested in being more than friends?
She knows I told her several times, all every time I was very drunk.

[kbi the crowing]

She knows I told her several times, all every time I was very drunk.

tell her once sober then move on to the other girl?

[ted is lying]

tell her once sober then move on to the other girl?
Yeah well anyway no matter what she is going to be my best friend so I cant really just move on.

[kbi the crowing]

Yeah well anyway no matter what she is going to be my best friend so I cant really just move on.

im not saying move on like leave her alone, I mean let you and her be friends and stop worrying and go for the girl you really wanna go for

[ted is lying]

im not saying move on like leave her alone, I mean let you and her be friends and stop worrying and go for the girl you really wanna go for
Also I still enjoy just going to sleep together, always fun to sleep with another person to keep warm in the potsdam tundra.

[Five-Star]

I have slept with two of my bestys. Never did anything with them.

[Fallinto_rhythm]

baddddd news bears

[ted is lying]

so tonight i call my friend over because my roommate convinces me that she will turn off the lights, because I'm to tired to do it. So she comes and ends up sleeping in his bed, I hear some noises my imagination thinks they were making out. Then I hear "my arm is getting numb" when he says "I think I got a little on you" and he grabs some tissues. Now I can't sleep and im kind of freaking out.

[staciebx0]

Well she went back home this weekend to surprise her father on her birthday and I think she wants me. At 6:21 in the morning she comes into my room jumps on me and says bye. Two hours later I get a txt "dooo u miss me?". Another 4 hours pass and I get one "man I miss you being around so so so much". Then some time around 11ish she skypes me and is talking to me for another two hours, while I was trying to study. Then repeat same thing the next day. And this morning at 8:30 I get a wake up call asking how my hangover is and how she misses me. I dont want to date this girl just be friends and I feel like now she wants to date also to add to the situation there is another girl.

edit: just got a txt from her.

i dont understand, you said you didnt want her.... and there was another girl. now theres another guy for her aka your roommate which might make things awkward for you but good for her. if shes interested in you and shes made it blantly clear and youve told her while you were drunk you werent interested then she shouldnt have to wait around for you to come to realize you might be interested in her. maybe she moved on and your problems will be gone. feelings mess everything up, most likely now that that happened you'll want her. calling it in advance.

[richter915]

I've done both. it's pretty ok.

[richter915]

so tonight i call my friend over because my roommate convinces me that she will turn off the lights, because I'm to tired to do it. So she comes and ends up sleeping in his bed, I hear some noises my imagination thinks they were making out. Then I hear "my arm is getting numb" when he says "I think I got a little on you" and he grabs some tissues. Now I can't sleep and im kind of freaking out.
hahahaha

[ted is lying]

hahahaha
Yeah it made me crazy for like two days.

[fifpb99]

baddddd news bears

hahaha thats what i came in to say. sex = bad news bears. actual sleeping is cool though.

[richter915]

Yeah it made me crazy for like two days.
i feel ur pain, i been there before. You come out a stronger man.

[xxxfreakxxx]

i think sex would be weird, but just sleeping with i don't find it weird.

[Jennurna Gray]

It depends...
On the person, on you.
On your relationship.
And if you're ready to accept the changes that'll come with it.

[ted is lying]

i feel ur pain, i been there before. You come out a stronger man.
I hate her with other guys I don't feel like anyone is good enough. Only one person she been with I felt like he was good enough for her and it turned out he was freaking crazy. I just want the best.

[drawndead]

I hate her with other guys I don't feel like anyone is good enough. Only one person she been with I felt like he was good enough for her and it turned out he was freaking crazy. I just want the best.

im in a similiar spot dude. it sucks. just gotta roll with it and let people make mistakes and be a good friend

[ted is lying]

im in a similiar spot dude. it sucks. just gotta roll with it and let people make mistakes and be a good friend
yeah o well, she also doesn't like my girlfriend to much.

[drawndead]

yeah o well, she also doesn't like my girlfriend to much.

this girl is my ex but were still close and she comes to me on advice about other dudes and it kills me but i cant be like im the best cause i dont know if i am. but this one guy who is obsessed with her is nuts i give her advice on that. but its always friends before girlfriends/boyfriends thats what makes it so rough.

[ted is lying]

this girl is my ex but were still close and she comes to me on advice about other dudes and it kills me but i cant be like im the best cause i dont know if i am. but this one guy who is obsessed with her is nuts i give her advice on that. but its always friends before girlfriends/boyfriends thats what makes it so rough.
Yeah she just doesn't get along with my girlfriend, but she thinks she is good enough for me. To bad there is no way for everyone to be happy as possible. And I complete agree with you friends before girlfriend because they come and go friends are forever.

[Trizzy666]

[[saying]] I need help... and that someone who thinks they can help me should please message me before my life falls apart... Thank you... =,(

[drawndead]

Yeah she just doesn't get along with my girlfriend, but she thinks she is good enough for me. To bad there is no way for everyone to be happy as possible. And I complete agree with you friends before girlfriend because they come and go friends are forever.

yeah bro its rough just gotta find a happy medium

[ted is lying]

yeah bro its rough just gotta find a happy medium
Like is full of choices just hope you always make the right one.

[drawndead]

Like is full of choices just hope you always make the right one.

well said. and while making that decision we hope we dont piss off the ladies in our life haha

[Trizzy666]

[[[give me a rose]]] :-(

[Fallinto_rhythm]

hahaha thats what i came in to say. sex = bad news bears. actual sleeping is cool though.


sex is good...just not with your friends. Sex is good when you walk into a club find a victim and take em out back. Sex is bad news bears when you like your friend, you get them really drunk, and proceed to convince them that having sex with you is a great idea. Where the next morning you roll over akwardly and say in your head "why did I do this. I really fucking hope they don't remember" and your next move is to quietly get up as fast as you can without making a noise. That my friend is smooooooth get away. Oh, and actual sleeping is wonderful. My favorite as a matter of fact.