Cheating

[guacadoggie]

Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...

[Kozzy333]

Snitch.

[4N6 science]

stay out of that train wreck.

[argg_xo]

He's dating the daughter too? I'm lost.

[AndrewIcex]

Hmm I have no idea, tough situation.

Maybe, tell him that you know all about his game first?

[Urglegrew]

Hmm I have no idea, tough situation.

Maybe, tell him that you know all about his game first?


agreed, just tell him you know and to just end his relationship with the new girl or you'll tell. Then hopefully he will fess up, and maybe they could just get over it.

[wendjiqn]

He's dating the daughter too? I'm lost.
He's dating the little sister's friends mom as well as his girlfriend. I think.

[alice+interiors]

Sounds like this 'sister's friend' is setting you guys up for a beautiful prank. Make sure you have proof before acting on this..

[Bi11 Lumburgh]

don't step on the mans game, you'll be lucky if you have game like that at his age, only for your own son to cock block you, F that

[Sventhegreat]

don't step on the mans game, you'll be lucky if you have game like that at his age, only for your own son to cock block you, F that

Haha fo sho.

No definitely do not bring this up to the girlfriend first. I would ask your dad about it.

[BBScience]

You have no business messing with your father's personal life. I mean if he was cheating on your own mother, mabye, but this is just a girlfriend. It's none of your business imo.

If anything, be an adult about it...and talk to your dad like a man. Don't take the word of some random 16 year old girl who you don't even know.

[songydarko]

Tell the girlfriend. If you don' tell her now, she'll end up looking like a fool in the end. Spare her the trauma. I think you should probably talk to your dad first though.

[mybreakingpoint]

stay out of it, it's not really your place. cheating sucks, but when it's all said and done, she's just going to be your dad's ex and he's still going to be your dad. you've got to live with your dad the rest of your life, don't make him resent you for whatever reason.

[SincerelyMe]

Not your place; stay out of it. Nothing good will come of you getting involved.

[zachff]

Talk to your dad.

[Thug_Nasty]

your dad is a pimp.

dont hate the player, hate the game

[kbi the crowing]

Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...

if you don't want to stay quite, tell your dad you know, not his girlfriend.

[crimsonandclovr]

if i were you, i'd talk to my dad. but i'm too chicken to do that, so i'll probably just end up dropping hints that i know something's up. a little guilt trip here and there...

[Waldorf]

your pop is a playa

don't be a playa hata

your dad is a pimp.

dont hate the player, hate the game

hahaa yea bro

[argg_xo]

He's dating the little sister's friends mom as well as his girlfriend. I think.
oh,that makes more sense!

[ReadyForAction]

oh,that makes more sense!
haha that definitely took me a few times to understand

[zion the lion]

Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...

For the love of god, ignore all of these people and tell this chick. Dont think that it isnt your business because it kind of is, he is your dad after all. It would probably fuck up the girlfriend's kids (if they're younger) if you dont tell her now so that she can make a decision for herself.

[zion the lion]

stay out of it, it's not really your place. cheating sucks, but when it's all said and done, she's just going to be your dad's ex and he's still going to be your dad. you've got to live with your dad the rest of your life, don't make him resent you for whatever reason.

If his dad is a real man at all, he wont resent his child. And he doesnt have to live with him for the rest of his life if he doesnt want to.

[Aphasia17]

If his dad is a real man at all, he wont resent his child. And he doesnt have to live with him for the rest of his life if he doesnt want to.

As someone who can speak from experience, I agree with you 100%.

to the guy with the dilemma: I think you should tell your dad that you know and give him what you feel is the best possible advice. if you like and respect his girlfriend, there's no need to tell her and embarrass her. that would be dropping a bombshell on someone who doesn't deserve it. hopefully she can get out of the situation without being hurt too badly. If your dad refuses to tell her and still wants to play around with both women, then I'd say take the situation into your own hands. just go with your gut feeling.

[chassmariee]

Pretend you didn't see shit.

[cristinaa]

I would tell my dad I knew and tell him that he should stop. Encourage him as much as possible...but it's not your place to tell her. It's his decision whether or not he wants her to know. I guess if it kept doing it and got really serious and I really liked her, its possile that I might say something.

[Waldorf]

make him choose and take the leftovers for yourself

[zion the lion]

As someone who can speak from experience, I agree with you 100%.

to the guy with the dilemma: I think you should tell your dad that you know and give him what you feel is the best possible advice. if you like and respect his girlfriend, there's no need to tell her and embarrass her. that would be dropping a bombshell on someone who doesn't deserve it. hopefully she can get out of the situation without being hurt too badly. If your dad refuses to tell her and still wants to play around with both women, then I'd say take the situation into your own hands. just go with your gut feeling.

When cheaters are confronted by a third party, they usually do nothing about it, especially if the third party is their own child. He needs to tell this chick so that she can make her own decision...it would be a bigger bombshell for her to find out herself or from the daughter of the other woman.

[Skillen]

Next time you see your dad, just be like "DAWG" and go for the high five.

[muttley]

Call Jerry.

[introduction]

Where does one draw the line when it comes to interfering with someone's relationship?

The other day I went to my dad's house for dinner; he also had his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years and her four kids over. After dinner my little sister asked if she could speak to me in her room. She showed me her string of im's with this 17 year old girl who's mother was dating my dad. Apparently they've been dating for four months while he was also dating his other girlfriend, whom I like and respect very much.

So, this is where my question arises: should I tell his girlfriend? I don't feel my dad deserves her...


don't tell the girlfriend first, definitely tell your dad you know what he's doing, but don't directly tell him what he should do, you should just imply to him that you think he's doing the wrong thing by both of these women. this way, you don't have to get involved between your father and his girlfriend, and he won't resent you for going behind his back (even if he's a cheater!). if he does nothing about it, then you should take more drastic action, like telling him what you're going to do. remember that there's always the slightest possibility that he's innocent.

[guacadoggie]

So the new girlfriend called him out on this and broke it off with him after her daughter told her what was going on. I didn't interfere at all, even though I wanted to since he did this to my mom a few years ago. He said he was going to talk to his other gf about it. His excuse was lame.

I think my dad has some mental problems if he is repeatedly doing this in different relationships.