View Full Version : Hey girls, explain this to me...
deathinkosovo
11/11/09, 10:08 PM
I've always found it weird and a bit of a buzzkill when you're talking to a girl you are very interested in, and she stops talking to you. Whether it's with a girl online or in person, this always seems to happen. I know I'm not alone on this, either. A good example would be meeting a girl on a dating site. You know she's looking for a boyfriend because her profile on there says so (in addition to the cheesy "All I want is a boy to cuddle with" baiting tactics littering her page). And you know she's interested because she has returned 10 of your not-so-subtle messages. If she wasn't into you, she wouldn't have responded in the first place, right? Eventually, you get to the point where you're like, "Fuck it, I'm asking her out." After asking her to coffee or dinner, boom, it happens: she stops cold and no further progress is made. No date for you, my friend. Nice try.
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
anthonydarko
11/11/09, 10:47 PM
She's just not into you.
CTMarshall
11/11/09, 11:26 PM
try a different dating site?
sdbrown
11/11/09, 11:37 PM
I've always found it weird and a bit of a buzzkill when you're talking to a girl you are very interested in, and she stops talking to you. Whether it's with a girl online or in person, this always seems to happen. I know I'm not alone on this, either. A good example would be meeting a girl on a dating site. You know she's looking for a boyfriend because her profile on there says so (in addition to the cheesy "All I want is a boy to cuddle with" baiting tactics littering her page). And you know she's interested because she has returned 10 of your not-so-subtle messages. If she wasn't into you, she wouldn't have responded in the first place, right? Eventually, you get to the point where you're like, "Fuck it, I'm asking her out." After asking her to coffee or dinner, boom, it happens: she stops cold and no further progress is made. No date for you, my friend. Nice try.
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
She found another guy? She found something about you she didn't like and didn't have the heart to tell you she's now turned off? or the fact that she's on a dating site played into the fact that she is shy in real life and can only interact online and you asking her out was too much out of her comfort zone but she's too uncomfortable to say that she she doesn't respond at all?
Just for future reference, I wouldn't go after a girl who says she just wants a boy to cuddle with. If all she wants is a warm, male body I worry that she's not too serious about a relationship, because people in a relationship don't just sit at home and cuddle. It might also save you from endless nights watching The Notebook and other horrible chick flicks on her couch.
mijakai
11/11/09, 11:56 PM
She's just not into you.
This. I don't understand how this is so hard to figure out.
loudpunkguitar
11/11/09, 11:57 PM
another possibility would be that she is stroking her ego or getting a self esteem boost from the online interaction or talking or whatever, but when it comes down to it, she isnt trying to get in a real relationship. or, as has been stated, maybe she's not into you. its one thing to chat online with someone you aren't that into, but when they ask you on a date and it gets real, you tend to block that junk.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 12:25 AM
lol @ internet dating
Came into here and say that, Don't understand how people fall in love through internet dating or even make progress.
anthonydarko
11/12/09, 12:29 AM
Came into here and say that, Don't understand how people fall in love through internet dating or even make progress.
Well think of what kinds of people actually do that and everything will be revealed to you.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 12:32 AM
Well think of what kinds of people actually do that and everything will be revealed to you.
I am aware of this but someone posting on here about it has me re-assessing the stereotype. :-d
dartanian=gods
11/12/09, 12:42 AM
Damn fickle broads.
papa_smurf
11/12/09, 12:45 AM
she just wanted somebody to give her attention/shower her with compliments.
she doesn't actually want to meet anyone.
Or, she wants n00dz.
She probably has 26 other guys telling her the exact same thing you are.
don't be a shmuck.
Thats all the advice I have.
Internet isn't for picking up girls, it's for wasting time. So, waste time telling chicks they look good, but don't expect a date.
Girls will always flirt to boost confidence.
You my friend, was a confidence boost.
You have two choices: Meet a girl at a gig or somewhere real so you establish an early connection or go gay.
ReturnedSnowDay
11/12/09, 12:54 AM
I'd suggest meeting people in realistic situations. Make more friends, go out more, meet people... Don't waste your time on dating sites.
Samc1803
11/12/09, 02:18 AM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
jay_klinkhammer
11/12/09, 03:32 AM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
I laughed
Domenic182
11/12/09, 03:40 AM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
That's funny.
deathinkosovo
11/12/09, 04:00 AM
This. I don't understand how this is so hard to figure out.
It's easy to figure out, but that's not the problem at hand. I just want to know why a girl can't come out and say "I'm not that into you" instead of stroking me off for days until she begins to ignore me. I think the sudden ignoring of someone is a lot harsher than straight honesty. I want to find out the reason why girls lead guys on instead of just being honest right off the bat.
It's sort of like going to a party with the intention of picking up a girl. You scan the scene and find someone to talk to. You talk to her the whole night until you're convinced she likes you and wants to get to know you more. But then she just leaves the party while you're in the bathroom. When I meet someone like that I wish they'd tell me if they think they'd be interested or not within the first five minutes. It'd save everyone a lot of time.
Me: Hi, you're hot, let's talk more.
Her: Hi, you sound interesting, but I'm not interested.
Me: Thank you for your honesty.
*walks away*
Painless.
deathinkosovo
11/12/09, 04:08 AM
I am aware of this but someone posting on here about it has me re-assessing the stereotype. :-d
What century are you living in? You do realize sites like match.com and others have 15 million members, right? I don't get what's so wrong with talking to someone online, then meeting them later on down the road. It seems safer and less invasive than hitting on a girl at a bar. Plus, it's easier to weed out what you're looking for. Instead of wasting money on a drink for a girl who looks good, you can send a message to a girl who you know looks good and shares your interests.
I don't internet date, but I did meet a girlfriend off myspace once. She lived 15 minutes from me and shared many interests. It started off awkward, but led to a nice relationship. The stigma surrounding doing anything over the internet is ridiculous. It's almost 2010; much of the world is online, and yes, that includes people looking for a date.
kbi the crowing
11/12/09, 06:16 AM
I've always found it weird and a bit of a buzzkill when you're talking to a girl you are very interested in, and she stops talking to you. Whether it's with a girl online or in person, this always seems to happen. I know I'm not alone on this, either. A good example would be meeting a girl on a dating site. You know she's looking for a boyfriend because her profile on there says so (in addition to the cheesy "All I want is a boy to cuddle with" baiting tactics littering her page). And you know she's interested because she has returned 10 of your not-so-subtle messages. If she wasn't into you, she wouldn't have responded in the first place, right? Eventually, you get to the point where you're like, "Fuck it, I'm asking her out." After asking her to coffee or dinner, boom, it happens: she stops cold and no further progress is made. No date for you, my friend. Nice try.
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
it means she doesn't like you.
kbi the crowing
11/12/09, 06:18 AM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
jesus christ that's hilarious
Jennurna Gray
11/12/09, 06:38 AM
Came into here and say that, Don't understand how people fall in love through internet dating or even make progress.
They can't. They just think so until they find out who that person REALLY is.
Jennurna Gray
11/12/09, 06:41 AM
This is why you meet people in person. And if you're arguing on the Internet's side, it's most likely because you can't get anybody in real life.
brokenwings
11/12/09, 07:36 AM
The stigma surrounding doing anything over the internet is ridiculous. It's almost 2010; much of the world is online, and yes, that includes people looking for a date.
totally agree. making fun of people who look for a date online was perhaps funny 5 years ago (and even then, no, it wasn't funny). now everyone does it. yeah, absolutely "normal" people do. to give an example: my sister and her husband originally got to know each other on the internet. wake up people, not all romantic endeavors have to start in bars or clubs
ted is lying
11/12/09, 07:38 AM
I believe serial monogamy sums up this thread perfectly.
songydarko
11/12/09, 07:46 AM
I've done this.... and sorry to say it buddy but usually it's her way of saying "not feeling it, leave me alone. See ya!" :|
speedfire
11/12/09, 08:38 AM
Its lame to do but its our way of saying we arent that into you or found someone else to talk to. I think almost every female out there is guilty of it.
Laural666
11/12/09, 08:45 AM
Well, she's either not into you anymore or your just boring, maybe it took her a while to figure that out.
Don't use internet dating sites, go to parties, try to meet people in the real world, not everybody is like they are on the internet.
You'll find someone.
Kassie09
11/12/09, 08:56 AM
I dunno, we're bitches cause ive done that. it's just..I CANT EXPLAIN IT TO A BOY.
joeyjoey
11/12/09, 08:57 AM
I've always found it weird and a bit of a buzzkill when you're talking to a girl you are very interested in, and she stops talking to you. Whether it's with a girl online or in person, this always seems to happen. I know I'm not alone on this, either. A good example would be meeting a girl on a dating site. You know she's looking for a boyfriend because her profile on there says so (in addition to the cheesy "All I want is a boy to cuddle with" baiting tactics littering her page). And you know she's interested because she has returned 10 of your not-so-subtle messages. If she wasn't into you, she wouldn't have responded in the first place, right? Eventually, you get to the point where you're like, "Fuck it, I'm asking her out." After asking her to coffee or dinner, boom, it happens: she stops cold and no further progress is made. No date for you, my friend. Nice try.
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
For starters, don't do dating sites.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 10:27 AM
Came into here and say that, Don't understand how people fall in love through internet dating or even make progress.
It's not so hard. (http://www.skype.com/)
But, I get your point. And I agree. I guess some people just have lesser standards in terms of dating.
Mibabalou
11/12/09, 10:48 AM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
lololol
Mibabalou
11/12/09, 10:49 AM
It's not so hard. (http://www.skype.com/)
But, I get your point. And I agree. I guess some people just have lesser standards in terms of dating.
i had a dream about t t swift last night
i really dont know why
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 10:51 AM
i had a dream about t t swift last night
i really dont know why
Haha, really? That's crazy. I had a dream I was grocery shopping with a professor of mine. Your dream wins, haha. Stop by the thread sometime, haven't seen you around, haha. Did you see she won 4 CMA nominations last night? (Video, Female Vocalist, Album, and Entertainer of the Year)
Corgkowznor
11/12/09, 11:18 AM
shes probably married
ohheroine
11/12/09, 11:25 AM
she did it obviously because she is a decent person and didnt want to be rude. she doesn't like you and honestly if you really started off a conversation with her by being like "hey, youre hot!" thats off-putting in itself. once a girl gets enough compliments and feels like she is better than the guy she is going to be done with him.
Mibabalou
11/12/09, 11:37 AM
Haha, really? That's crazy. I had a dream I was grocery shopping with a professor of mine. Your dream wins, haha. Stop by the thread sometime, haven't seen you around, haha. Did you see she won 4 CMA nominations last night? (Video, Female Vocalist, Album, and Entertainer of the Year)
yeah link me to the thread ill post the whole dream
its not sexual btw
MKEcasey
11/12/09, 11:52 AM
People get nervous when put in face to face situations. It is easy to be more social and out going on the phone or text or even brief social settings (i.e. conversation in class). But when you have that first encounter with the person for an extended period of time, it is quite possible for one or both of you to go into this freak out mode where you sort of shut down. It is just a part of being nervous.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 11:58 AM
yeah link me to the thread ill post the whole dream
its not sexual btw
Haha i'm on my phone right now. I could link you later on after class, or it comes up in the search. Also, what's with Man Utd losing to Chelsea? Haha. Fuck Chelsea.
Chancetobe
11/12/09, 01:08 PM
First of all, to the people saying you can't possibly find love online: you can. My mom has been with her boyfriend going on 4 years now, and they met on JDate. You all make it seem like the people just talk online and never meet in real life. Eventually they do, and that is when things either fizzle or get serious. Then it becomes all about real interaction - the dating site is just the manner of meeting people - which is soon enough forgotten. It doesn't necessarily make you pathetic either. My mom lives in a rural area, where there are very few single guys her age, so she needed to find someone further away, but she's not going to go to sit in some bar an hour away from us to meet sleezy guys. This was just her way of meeting someone normal, single, and her age.
Secondly, to the threadstarter - maybe the girl just felt guilty telling you she doesn't like you?
Formatfun
11/12/09, 01:14 PM
Maybe she stopped being into you a while ago, but kept talking to you because she didn't wanna like reject you and hurt your feelings? I don't know. I just see how it could be similar to having conversations through text... sometimes I don't feel like talking anymore but do anyway.
rosielikesyou
11/12/09, 01:20 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
I lol'd a whole bunch.
blinkme
11/12/09, 01:36 PM
unfortunately, as someone has already stated, girls aren't necessarily interested in you just because they reply to your message. i'm sure they have an idea that you're interested in them but all they really want is a confidence boost. what you see as major interest from a girl, they see as harmless flirting.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 01:37 PM
What century are you living in? You do realize sites like match.com and others have 15 million members, right? I don't get what's so wrong with talking to someone online, then meeting them later on down the road. It seems safer and less invasive than hitting on a girl at a bar. Plus, it's easier to weed out what you're looking for. Instead of wasting money on a drink for a girl who looks good, you can send a message to a girl who you know looks good and shares your interests.
I don't internet date, but I did meet a girlfriend off myspace once. She lived 15 minutes from me and shared many interests. It started off awkward, but led to a nice relationship. The stigma surrounding doing anything over the internet is ridiculous. It's almost 2010; much of the world is online, and yes, that includes people looking for a date.
It's just seems unreal for anything sincere to form from online dating. You need alot more than just conversations over the internet to feel comfortable around a person because once you are around them, who knows if that confidence will translate.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 01:41 PM
It's not so hard. (http://www.skype.com/)
But, I get your point. And I agree. I guess some people just have lesser standards in terms of dating.
haha, Romance through skype. I really think online dating is just for people who have never been in a serious relationship or just women and men in their late 30's, early 40's who have been divorced recently.
blinkme
11/12/09, 01:43 PM
totally agree. making fun of people who look for a date online was perhaps funny 5 years ago (and even then, no, it wasn't funny). now everyone does it. yeah, absolutely "normal" people do. to give an example: my sister and her husband originally got to know each other on the internet. wake up people, not all romantic endeavors have to start in bars or clubs
while I'm not convinced by Internet dating, my friend's sister met her husband online. they're still happily married.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 01:44 PM
They can't. They just think so until they find out who that person REALLY is.just
Well thats also the case in real life, When you first meet someone you're interested in, you don't show who you really are to them. It's too hard, You tell lies about yourself until you're comfortable enough to then show them the real you.
Ravenous
11/12/09, 01:45 PM
She's just not into you.
She's just not that into you. Hahaha.
Jennurna Gray
11/12/09, 01:50 PM
just
Well thats also the case in real life, When you first meet someone you're interested in, you don't show who you really are to them. It's too hard, You tell lies about yourself until you're comfortable enough to then show them the real you.
You've got a point, Richie.
bladerdude360
11/12/09, 01:51 PM
I wouldn't use internet dating sites if I were you.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 01:52 PM
haha, Romance through skype. I really think online dating is just for people who have never been in a serious relationship or just women and men in their late 30's, early 40's who have been divorced recently.
Yes. That and people not looking for a serious commitment.
First of all, to the people saying you can't possibly find love online: you can. My mom has been with her boyfriend going on 4 years now, and they met on JDate. You all make it seem like the people just talk online and never meet in real life. Eventually they do, and that is when things either fizzle or get serious. Then it becomes all about real interaction - the dating site is just the manner of meeting people - which is soon enough forgotten. It doesn't necessarily make you pathetic either. My mom lives in a rural area, where there are very few single guys her age, so she needed to find someone further away, but she's not going to go to sit in some bar an hour away from us to meet sleezy guys. This was just her way of meeting someone normal, single, and her age.
Secondly, to the threadstarter - maybe the girl just felt guilty telling you she doesn't like you?
I think people just mean "online dating" as in a relationship that doesn't meet often at all, and only talks/sees one another online. It's absurd to disagree with the fact that matchmaker sites, facebook, myspace, etc aren't great ways to meet people. Some people do it the old fashioned way, at bars, clubs, school, wherever, and others just can't handle the awkwardness of first approaching someone, so they do introductions in a digital form to ease their tensions. Nothing wrong with that. But, a relationship that is ONLY online, that's a bit of an issue.
Chancetobe
11/12/09, 01:54 PM
Yes. That and people not looking for a serious commitment.
I think people just mean "online dating" as in a relationship that doesn't meet often at all, and only talks/sees one another online. It's absurd to disagree with the fact that matchmaker sites, facebook, myspace, etc aren't great ways to meet people. Some people do it the old fashioned way, at bars, clubs, school, wherever, and others just can't handle the awkwardness of first approaching someone, so they do introductions in a digital form to ease their tensions. Nothing wrong with that. But, a relationship that is ONLY online, that's a bit of an issue.
Well, if it's only online, I don't think it's a realtionship at all.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 01:56 PM
Well, if it's only online, I don't think it's a realtionship at all.
Yeah and I think that's the point people are getting at with "online dating." But, in terms of meeting someone online and hooking up (not sexually, just meeting one another physically) somewhere else is totally acceptable in this day and age.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 01:59 PM
Yes. That and people not looking for a serious commitment.
Which is why you only see Brett Farve lookalikes on those match.com Commercials.
alexa_ATL
11/12/09, 01:59 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
holy lol
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 01:59 PM
You've got a point, Richie.
You know you do the same. =-)
Jennurna Gray
11/12/09, 02:03 PM
You know you do the same. =-)
Always.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 02:04 PM
Which is why you only see Brett Farve lookalikes on those match.com Commercials.
I wonder if the Brett Favre look-a-likes stay with you for a long time, lets say 16 years, and then break up with you. Then he'll say he's done dating girls, followed with him crying about it. Then, he'll date your best friend that lives in New York, and break up with her, and say he's done dating girls. And then, he'll date your other friend in Minnesota.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 02:08 PM
I wonder if the Brett Favre look-a-likes stay with you for a long time, lets say 16 years, and then break up with you. Then he'll say he's done dating girls, followed with him crying about it. Then, he'll date your best friend that lives in New York, and break up with her, and say he's done dating girls. And then, he'll date your other friend in Minnesota.have
I guess Some people just really have problems with commitment. See: My ex-girlfriend- She's great.
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 02:09 PM
have
I guess Some people just really have problems with commitment. See: My ex-girlfriend- She's great.
Have?
And, sorry about your ex :-(
richter915
11/12/09, 02:20 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
hahahahaahahahhahaha
richter915
11/12/09, 02:22 PM
I wonder if the Brett Favre look-a-likes stay with you for a long time, lets say 16 years, and then break up with you. Then he'll say he's done dating girls, followed with him crying about it. Then, he'll date your best friend that lives in New York, and break up with her, and say he's done dating girls. And then, he'll date your other friend in Minnesota.
o i see wat u did there
Kurt Retenauer
11/12/09, 02:28 PM
o i see wat u did there
I was wondering how long it would take for someone to reply with that.
Waldorf
11/12/09, 03:00 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
holy shit i am so glad i swallowed the water i was drinking like a second before i scrolled down
or it would've been time for my keyboard to learn the definition of 'short circuited'.
Richard Maxim
11/12/09, 03:03 PM
Have?
And, sorry about your ex :-(
Notice, SOME people.
Jordachejeans91
11/12/09, 03:12 PM
I've always found it weird and a bit of a buzzkill when you're talking to a girl you are very interested in, and she stops talking to you. Whether it's with a girl online or in person, this always seems to happen. I know I'm not alone on this, either. A good example would be meeting a girl on a dating site. You know she's looking for a boyfriend because her profile on there says so (in addition to the cheesy "All I want is a boy to cuddle with" baiting tactics littering her page). And you know she's interested because she has returned 10 of your not-so-subtle messages. If she wasn't into you, she wouldn't have responded in the first place, right? Eventually, you get to the point where you're like, "Fuck it, I'm asking her out." After asking her to coffee or dinner, boom, it happens: she stops cold and no further progress is made. No date for you, my friend. Nice try.
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
Sorry to break it to you man, but guys are guilty of this to, i have had this happen to me and i have done it to a girl on a few different occasions, and usually when i did it, i just got bored of the girl, or she just was no fun at all
Metal Now
11/12/09, 03:19 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
Weeping with laughter. Thank you, sir.
richter915
11/12/09, 03:45 PM
Sorry to break it to you man, but guys are guilty of this to, i have had this happen to me and i have done it to a girl on a few different occasions, and usually when i did it, i just got bored of the girl, or she just was no fun at all
she was probably fat too
zion the lion
11/12/09, 04:13 PM
Girls: What the fuck is this? What's the point of talking to a guy for so long before deciding you don't want anything to do with him? Either I'm the most naive guy in the world, or women really have no idea how a male's mind works. Whatever the excuse, I'd like to hear it.
Guys do that shit too, granted, they might be schizophrenic unmedicated guys who work 3 jobs because their parents abandoned them, but they do that shit, and it pisses me the fuck off, and every time they come back, its always "oh I've been busy". I dont want to hear that bullshit.
Came into here and say that, Don't understand how people fall in love through internet dating or even make progress.
Well, it gives you the chance to fall in love with someone for who they are. Like if two people are seriously internet dating, and are seriously looking for love, they'll be honest about who they are, there's not too much room for sex (which is a complete distraction in that arena) and you get the chance to connect intellectually, rather than just have that sexual attraction which only gets you so far. I'd almost rather date someone through the internet than meet them in real life.
Jaimehere
11/12/09, 06:11 PM
http://cdn0.knowyourmeme.com/i/5795/original/Courage-Wolf-She-put-you-in-friend-zone-Put-her-in-rape-zone.jpg
:rape:
Jordachejeans91
11/12/09, 06:13 PM
she was probably fat too
hahaha i unfortunately havent had the pleasure of being with a hippo
framebyframe
11/12/09, 08:47 PM
She found another guy? She found something about you she didn't like and didn't have the heart to tell you she's now turned off? or the fact that she's on a dating site played into the fact that she is shy in real life and can only interact online and you asking her out was too much out of her comfort zone but she's too uncomfortable to say that she she doesn't respond at all?
Just for future reference, I wouldn't go after a girl who says she just wants a boy to cuddle with. If all she wants is a warm, male body I worry that she's not too serious about a relationship, because people in a relationship don't just sit at home and cuddle. It might also save you from endless nights watching The Notebook and other horrible chick flicks on her couch.
This. I do this all the time :/
Samc1803
11/12/09, 10:06 PM
I laughed
That's funny.
jesus christ that's hilarious
lololol
I lol'd a whole bunch.
holy lol
hahahahaahahahhahaha
holy shit i am so glad i swallowed the water i was drinking like a second before i scrolled down
or it would've been time for my keyboard to learn the definition of 'short circuited'.
Weeping with laughter. Thank you, sir.
:rape:
I'm glad Courage Wolf was such a hit.
Whimsikill
11/12/09, 10:16 PM
I'm glad Courage Wolf was such a hit.
I feel like pretty much all the Courage Wolves are applicable to this situation.
steadysound
11/12/09, 10:32 PM
the same reason a guy won't talk to you after a date: they just realized they don't like you as much as they thought they would. it's hard to tell over the internet, especially. don't take it too hard, that's what experience is there for.
takemyhand
11/12/09, 10:39 PM
I guess there are a bunch of reasons, some might be:
-She was just on the site because she was bored and then when you wanted to get serious she stopped talking because she wasn't serious.
-She's not real, she's using pictures of someone else to make herself feel wanted, and you started getting serious so rather than confess she's just not going to reply anymore.
-She found someone else.
-She's in a solid relationship, but she uses the dating site to get compliments from other guys because she's bored of hearing it from the same guy, but she's not going to cheat on her boyfriend/husband in real life.
There's probably a lot more, but that's all I can think of.
I stopped talking to this one guy on the internet and he still tries to talk to me because he tried to go on an actual date with me because he started using "<3"s and stuff like that, which creeped me out. lol.
So, I don't know if any of this helped but I'm bored anyway.
xxxfreakxxx
11/13/09, 04:05 AM
I don't see how you can fall in love over internet dating.X-)
takemyhand
11/13/09, 05:22 AM
I don't see how you can fall in love over internet dating.X-)
He didn't say he 'fell in love'.
xica_sp4ever
11/13/09, 05:31 AM
She was just being nice the whole time.
xxxfreakxxx
11/13/09, 02:53 PM
He didn't say he 'fell in love'.
Whatever "dating,falling in love" still.
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