Cos Christmas just won't be the same...

[3wotkris]

So yeah a couple of weeks ago me and my girlfriend broke it off over a couple of stupid, stupid fights. I've known her for six years and we'd been together almost two years and she meant everything to me. First girlfriend n' all, first everything tbh. We'd been through a lot together, we were close to each other's families, we'd been to Paris together and shit, she was finger tight with my band too.

Now it turns out she's kinda with a friend of mine who is a manic depressant with bi-polar disorder. That's not to say she'd been cheating cos she hadn't, but it really fucked me up to hear that, I've been depressed from it, lost a shit load of weight and sleep over it, and I feel like I'm going crazy. What she did by going with this guy was a real dick of a move, and I shouldn't even want to look at her again, but I can't help still wanting her back :/ And its pretty obvious from the way she is with me that she still feels something too, but she seems so reluctant to admit it. Every single one of our friends is on my side (including ALL of her family) and say she's not worth it, but I can't help but feel she is :/

Any advice?

PS tl;dr, Anal yadda yadda yadda

[ted is lying]

It is hard to get over people especially ones that you known for six years, my advice see a counselor, therapist about it. After all it makes way more sense then asking a bunch of kids off the internet. I feel your pain going threw a similar situation myself.

[3wotkris]

It is hard to get over people especially ones that you known for six years, my advice see a counselor, therapist about it. After all it makes way more sense then asking a bunch of kids off the internet. I feel your pain going threw a similar situation myself.

Yeah man, I've been considering that. I can't seem to get any of it out of my head at any point of the day, and I don't even know why. It should be so much easier but it just isn't :/

[fightinirish217]

I've been through the same situation, went to counseling and it really helped me. Good luck.

[3wotkris]

The main thing that's getting at me is, she still clearly has feelings for me, she still flirts with me big style and we kissed like around the same time she was getting together with this guy. That's gotta mean something, right?

[Jennurna Gray]

Six years is a pretty long time...


D:

Trust me, I know how you feel.

[Smeee]

Counselling or a friend who's been through the same thing (and has dealt with it well)l always help. I went through a messy and serious break up a couple of years ago and know how bad it can be. Hope it all works out for you man!

[alert=danger]

Without sounding harsh, just let it go.

She broke up with you, got with someone else, and I can guarantee you would be happier without her. If she broke up with you once, she could easily do it again.
Went through the same thing a while ago. My girlfriend of three years broke up with me, and got with someone else pretty quickly, and I just thought "Fuck it" I have now found someone new, not sure whats going on but I'm happy.
Once you are over this things will get better, just give it time.

[3wotkris]

ah, but another spanner in the works is that I broke it off, though tbh I had a LOT going on in my life at the time and I wasn't thinking straight at all.

But yeah, I can see where you're coming from for sure.

[Josh Weinstein]

living well is the best revenge.

[And Hours Pass]

living well is the best revenge.
I've heard this idea before and really agree with it.

Love your username.

[wroteurname]

living well is the best revenge.

Clearly his only option now is to save the world.

[banditandrew]

I am sorry buddy that really sucks, moving on would be the best solution. I know it sounds easier than it really is but time heals all.

[anamericangod]

Call both of them out as harshly as you can. Be a huge dick. You do not want her back, and you should have nothing to do with either of them.

I had to deal with something a lot like this a few years ago and it was easily the worst thing I'd ever gone through. Abandon fucking ship, and save yourself a lot of pain. Especially at your age it is not worth the mindfuck.

Try to have sex with as many of her friends as possible.

[theclap]

Call both of them out as harshly as you can. Be a huge dick. You do not want her back, and you should have nothing to do with either of them.

I had to deal with something a lot like this a few years ago and it was easily the worst thing I'd ever gone through. Abandon fucking ship, and save yourself a lot of pain. Especially at your age it is not worth the mindfuck.

Try to have sex with as many of her friends as possible.

This.

[sleepyseanzzz]

honest question.....what does tl;dr mean?

[Theseventhson]

honest question.....what does tl;dr mean?
Too long; Didn't read.

[SincerelyMe]

Tell her to go fuck herself and cut her out completely.

[3wotkris]

I would be tempted but we have History class together (with no chance of transferring) and we have the same best friend :/

[anamericangod]

I would be tempted but we have History class together (with no chance of transferring) and we have the same best friend :/

Who gives a shit? What does that even matter? Nobody is forcing you to have anything to do with her anymore. Man up.

High school history class lol.

[3wotkris]

College history class, actually ;) not that the difference is so much haha

[anamericangod]

Delete her from your life.

This situation is the definition of DWEP.

[CTMarshall]

Call both of them out as harshly as you can. Be a huge dick. You do not want her back, and you should have nothing to do with either of them.

I had to deal with something a lot like this a few years ago and it was easily the worst thing I'd ever gone through. Abandon fucking ship, and save yourself a lot of pain. Especially at your age it is not worth the mindfuck.

Try to have sex with as many of her friends as possible.
This is the only good idea in the thread.

[SincerelyMe]

I would be tempted but we have History class together (with no chance of transferring) and we have the same best friend :/

Because it's so hard to ignore people in class. Come on. So what if you share friends? You can hang out separately.

You're just looking for excuses to keep her in your life.

[rollerman4221]

The faster you get her out of your life, the faster you will get over it. I did it, it works. Keeping her around just makes you hurt longer

[bladerdude360]

Why are so many people telling this kid to go get therapy because a girl broke up with him? Just suck it up and move on. It's part of life, figure out a way to deal with it.

[Castaway01]

Why are so many people telling this kid to go get therapy because a girl broke up with him? Just suck it up and move on. It's part of life, figure out a way to deal with it.
what he said ^

[sleepyseanzzz]

Too long; Didn't read.

thank you sir

[EvilZeppelin]

It is hard to get over people especially ones that you known for six years, my advice see a counselor, therapist about it. After all it makes way more sense then asking a bunch of kids off the internet. I feel your pain going threw a similar situation myself.

So true. It took me years to get over my first girlfriend, I found that music helped and so did hobbies to get my mind off of it.

[ted is lying]

So true. It took me years to get over my first girlfriend, I found that music helped and so did hobbies to get my mind off of it.
Im so sick of the person at the moment that it ruined everything I enjoy. I can't find any music to listen to it is so annoying. Also I just bough a new Ipod and I havnt even used it yet, weird.

[EvilZeppelin]

Im so sick of the person at the moment that it ruined everything I enjoy. I can't find any music to listen to it is so annoying. Also I just bough a new Ipod and I havnt even used it yet, weird.

Look into a music genre that you haven't listen to that?

[ted is lying]

Look into a music genre that you haven't listen to that?
I really have everything from lil wayne to miley to gatsby american dream.

[AlexEnglish]

do anything but cut.
seriously.
dont fucking do it, or think about doing it for a second.

lighter note;

fuck bitches and get money.

[Mibabalou]

anal