Would a guy say...

[kmart]

I was being optismtic I was hoping I was wrong that he wouldn't be that mean and cruel. And now I'm finally admitting that perhaps he isn't the person I thought he was.

And when I created the thread, I had just wanted to get a general opinion on it, being the friends that met him hated him and I knew would give slightly skewed advice.
You also need to remember that something might have happened to his phone or he might have gotten injured... stay optimistic. also not all guys are douches.

[bstthngunvrhd7]

You also need to remember that something might have happened to his phone or he might have gotten injured... stay optimistic. also not all guys are douches.

That's what I tried to tell myself at first...maybe his phone got cut off or he lost it--he lost it one other time. Maybe he got hurt--I sure hope not.
But the more I wait the more things tell me that he is just being a jerk and not worthy of my time. But I'm too nice and would like to see this work, that is why I contacted him tonight.
I'm trying to stay optimistic in general, it's just I don't know what else I can do besides give up on him and move on.

[kmart]

That's what I tried to tell myself at first...maybe his phone got cut off or he lost it--he lost it one other time. Maybe he got hurt--I sure hope not.

I'm trying to stay optimistic in general, it's just I don't know what else I can do besides give up on him and move on.
Just give him time. if he is into you he will find a way to contact you.

[bstthngunvrhd7]

Just give him time. if he is into you he will find a way to contact you.


But there has to be a point where him even attempting would be a waste of both our times.

[kmart]

if you like this guy give him time. if you think it will be a waste of time.. just forget about thhe guyX-)

[krystofer]

o-r02-oZAW4

[bstthngunvrhd7]

if you like this guy give him time. if you think it will be a waste of time.. just forget about thhe guyX-)


See I like him--I just don't like what he's doing now--what he's doing to me. It's just a lot of people (on here and friendwise) keep telling me that I'm better than him and that he is a waste of time.

I am willing to make it work friendshipwise, or even in a relationship. But I would only want to if he wanted.

[krystofer]

Your video didn't show up--just curious as to what it was.
a girl hitting a cowbell really awkwardly in her school band

[kmart]

See I like him--I just don't like what he's doing now--what he's doing to me. It's just a lot of people (on here and friendwise) keep telling me that I'm better than him and that he is a waste of time.

I am willing to make it work friendshipwise, or even in a relationship. But I would only want to if he wanted.
you wont find out what he wants if you dont give him a chance to reply.

[bstthngunvrhd7]

o-r02-oZAW4


How'd you know I used to be in marching band?

[bstthngunvrhd7]

you wont find out what he wants if you dont give him a chance to reply.

But how long is too long--I mean I think about how if I met another guy and then he decided to waltz back into the picture, what would I do?

[krystofer]

How'd you know I used to be in marching band?
is that you!?

[bstthngunvrhd7]

is that you!?


Nope I was in the colorguard all through high school and those def. were not our colors let alone the fact they are not from my state. But we would go to competitions like that where we'd be in dome or whatever--we would go to the RCA Dome in Indianapolis and perform on the football where the Colts play for Bands of America.

[krystofer]

Nope I was in the colorguard all through high school and those def. were not our colors let alone the fact they are not from my state. But we would go to competitions like that where we'd be in dome or whatever--we would go to the RCA Dome in Indianapolis and perform on the football where the Colts play for Bands of America.
haha, my school was ghetto, we didnt even have a football team...we did own a lion...zion the lion

[bstthngunvrhd7]

haha, my school was ghetto, we didnt even have a football team...we did own a lion...zion the lion

A real lion?

[krystofer]

A real lion?
yea, it lived at the zoo though, bummer

[bstthngunvrhd7]

yea, it lived at the zoo though, bummer

Lemme guess.. your school got to take field trips to go see it?

[krystofer]

Lemme guess.. your school got to take field trips to go see it?
false

[bstthngunvrhd7]

false

Terrible Terrible school :/

[Skillen]

I've came to the conclusion this must be a joke thread. Nobody can be this niave.

[bstthngunvrhd7]

I've came to the conclusion this must be a joke thread. Nobody can be this niave.

Nope, not a joke thread--I can see where it would look to you that way, but it's not. Just a girl who legitimately thought that a guy who says he's not a liar and a jerk and told her to contact him would just return the favor, even if it were to say that he hated her.

Hell, even the boy that led me on this summer had the guts to to tell me that he did lead me on and felt terrible about it.

[MichaelSmells]

I'll start off by saying that I obviously have a limited knowledge about yourself and the situation that you currently find yourself in, however just by reading this thread, and your posts within it, you seem like such a lovely, genuine and wonderful person.

I completely understand that this would be a difficult predicament for you at the moment, but from an outsiders perspective, if you're making the effort to contact him, if you're wearing your heart and emotions on your sleeve and he's just avoiding you, not responding to your every attempt, if he can't give you the courtesy of a five minute phonecall to inquire, discuss and explain how you're both feeling, then I'm sincrely sorry to say it, but he's just not worth your time. As much as it hurts, you deserve somebody that genuinely cares for you, who will go out of their way to make time for you no matter what the situation, a person that's going to adore spending time with you because as cliche and as silly as this is no doubt going to sound, they're going to love you for who you are. I'll cop my fair share of shit for that line, but you'll experience that feeling because you have your heart in the right place.

But what would I know? I'm basing my judgements off numerous things that I've read here, and conclussions that I may have jumped too. Perhaps he's a good guy? Only you really know how badly you want this to work and how much this means to you. I'm full of cliches this morning, but just do what comes naturally. Be positive and follow your heart.

It sucks but it's the truth. If a guy doesn't call you he doesn't like you. Read the book "He's just not that into you."

[bstthngunvrhd7]

It sucks but it's the truth. If a guy doesn't call you he doesn't like you. Read the book "He's just not that into you."

I did and I thought it was a crap book despite the fact it did give some advice, it's just my one guy friend I swear loves the movie and he always adds that in as an option when I come to him with questions about guys.

The guy that is the subject of this posting is just being an ass..I was finally able to track him down on Fbook and I asked him if everything was ok with him because I hadn't been able to get in contact with him and he said he'd been really busy at work and that he had to go shortly for lunch with his family (which is a legit reason because he's really tight with his famly, at least his mom and his sister) and so I asked if everything was cool with us and he's like 'yeah we cool' so whatever.

So I'm trying to forget about him and just let it play as it goes...though I'm figuring that he might come back into the picture if he gest lonely or whatever and then I'd like to play him.

[kmart]

I did and I thought it was a crap book despite the fact it did give some advice, it's just my one guy friend I swear loves the movie and he always adds that in as an option when I come to him with questions about guys.

The guy that is the subject of this posting is just being an ass..I was finally able to track him down on Fbook and I asked him if everything was ok with him because I hadn't been able to get in contact with him and he said he'd been really busy at work and that he had to go shortly for lunch with his family (which is a legit reason because he's really tight with his famly, at least his mom and his sister) and so I asked if everything was cool with us and he's like 'yeah we cool' so whatever.

So I'm trying to forget about him and just let it play as it goes...though I'm figuring that he might come back into the picture if he gest lonely or whatever and then I'd like to play him.
wow look how far youve come

[bstthngunvrhd7]

wow look how far youve come

Thanks, it does still hurt and I do still have feelings for him. I just don't understand why he'd want to drop me, a girl who was nothing but nice to him and really sweet to him, and someone that he legitimately had a great time with, so that is still causing me to hurt.
It's not that I don't wish him, well, I really hope that he has an amazing life, I'm just wishing that I knew what (or if) there was something wrong because he means something to me and I'd still like to have him around and in my life.
I was thinking if I hadn't heard from him in a month or two then to contact him and see what's up because I do wonder how he is doing. I just don't like there being the possibility that I mean nothing to him.
And I know that it might have sounded bitchy to say that I would like to play him, it's just how I felt at the time but it is still a bit of a revenge fantasy I have should I see him out and he doesn't say anything but then he try and contact me.

[overdrive91]

I told a girl once i hated technology and refused to have phones and such. She bought it.

[bstthngunvrhd7]

I told a girl once i hated technology and refused to have phones and such. She bought it.

Can't decide whether to laugh at this or to think it's kinda mean. But I will laugh instead =)