I Like The Girl With The Emotional Barrier

[cwhit412]

And I'm trying to break through. I've been friendly with her, and have been trying to get to know her for the entire school year. We've been sitting at lunch a lot more often, and she's just totally resistant to any real positive emotions. I'm thinking about doing something for her on V-day, but I'm not sure if it's worth it.

[songydarko]

I'm not sure doing something for Valentine's Day would get through to her if she's been like that for this long. Maybe you need to give up?

[Kassie09]

If you think you'll like her keep trying. You'll break it eventually.

[terror_91]

Show her who is boss. Whip it out at lunchtime.

[rhinitus]

Valentine's Day is not the way to go. Start giving her more passive attention. Give her a nice little "hey whats up" and continue on with your day. If you've been laying it on and all of a sudden you're not nearly as available, she'll notice. And she'll either try to get you to come back around, or she won't. And if she doesn't, she probably doesn't like you. In which case you should find someone else anyway...no sense in wasting your time trying to crack someone that doesn't want to be cracked, especially if there's nothing in it for you...

[Deadbolt23]

Show her who is boss. Whip it out at lunchtime.

This will definitely work.

[gergs]

Give it up. Girls with emotional barriers are nothing but headache, heartache, and just a lot more trouble than they're worth.

Look at Zooey Deschanel in every movie she's ever been in. Girl with emotional barriers is charming for Zooey, but that's because you're not in on the bullshit she's putting the guy du jour in her movies through. If your potential chick is as hot as Ms. Deschanel, then by all means keep plugging away. 2 months down the line, when shit gets real and she has to make a choice between retaining her barriers or actually letting you in, don't be surprised by the disappointment.

[JordanBuell]

never give up on a girl with daddy problems.

[Juturna25]

yeah shit is not worth it. girls with emotional problems are just baggage.

[Mibabalou]

And I'm trying to break through. I've been friendly with her, and have been trying to get to know her for the entire school year. We've been sitting at lunch a lot more often, and she's just totally resistant to any real positive emotions. I'm thinking about doing something for her on V-day, but I'm not sure if it's worth it.

its high school champ no girl is worth you times if you cant fuck her in 2 months move on

you are not gonna marry any of these people so if a girl takes to long move on to one who will put out im sure you can find one

[herestoyoufla]

Valentine's Day is not the way to go. Start giving her more passive attention. Give her a nice little "hey whats up" and continue on with your day. If you've been laying it on and all of a sudden you're not nearly as available, she'll notice. And she'll either try to get you to come back around, or she won't. And if she doesn't, she probably doesn't like you. In which case you should find someone else anyway...no sense in wasting your time trying to crack someone that doesn't want to be cracked, especially if there's nothing in it for you...
THIS. If you pretend like your only mildly interested, it gets them every time.

[kbi the crowing]

And I'm trying to break through. I've been friendly with her, and have been trying to get to know her for the entire school year. We've been sitting at lunch a lot more often, and she's just totally resistant to any real positive emotions. I'm thinking about doing something for her on V-day, but I'm not sure if it's worth it.

Valentine's Day is not the way to go. Start giving her more passive attention. Give her a nice little "hey whats up" and continue on with your day. If you've been laying it on and all of a sudden you're not nearly as available, she'll notice. And she'll either try to get you to come back around, or she won't. And if she doesn't, she probably doesn't like you. In which case you should find someone else anyway...no sense in wasting your time trying to crack someone that doesn't want to be cracked, especially if there's nothing in it for you...


^^^listen to him

[inthemidst]

Give it up. Girls with emotional barriers are nothing but headache, heartache, and just a lot more trouble than they're worth.

Look at Zooey Deschanel in every movie she's ever been in. Girl with emotional barriers is charming for Zooey, but that's because you're not in on the bullshit she's putting the guy du jour in her movies through. If your potential chick is as hot as Ms. Deschanel, then by all means keep plugging away. 2 months down the line, when shit gets real and she has to make a choice between retaining her barriers or actually letting you in, don't be surprised by the disappointment.

Love Zooey. I end up hating her character at the end of 500 Days of Summer haha.

[jeremypeele]

Fake your death, if she doesn't get emotional about that, she is obviously either:

A. a robot
B. a retard
C. she's not into you.
D. All of the above. (A retarded robot who's not into you.)

[SomedayTheFire]

To the OP: She's just not that into you.

Love Zooey. I end up hating her character at the end of 500 Days of Summer haha.
Same. I got really pissed off at her hahaha

[cwhit412]

It's not like that. Just...she kinda has barrier around her. It's not that she's not emotional, she just doesn't let people into her life very easily.

[Un'Aria Ancora]

Valentine's Day is not the way to go. Start giving her more passive attention. Give her a nice little "hey whats up" and continue on with your day. If you've been laying it on and all of a sudden you're not nearly as available, she'll notice. And she'll either try to get you to come back around, or she won't. And if she doesn't, she probably doesn't like you. In which case you should find someone else anyway...no sense in wasting your time trying to crack someone that doesn't want to be cracked, especially if there's nothing in it for you...

No... Don't start the mind games. I hate when girls do it, and i'm guessing all guys feel the same way.

[SomedayTheFire]

It's not like that. Just...she kinda has barrier around her. It's not that she's not emotional, she just doesn't let people into her life very easily.
Set up an elaborate plan to threaten her life, and then save her. Girls always like the guy who saved their life.

[terror_91]

To the OP: She's just not that into you.


Same. I got really pissed off at her hahaha

Love Zooey. I end up hating her character at the end of 500 Days of Summer haha.

We should start an official hate thread haha

[kemichels]

And I'm trying to break through. I've been friendly with her, and have been trying to get to know her for the entire school year. We've been sitting at lunch a lot more often, and she's just totally resistant to any real positive emotions. I'm thinking about doing something for her on V-day, but I'm not sure if it's worth it.

It works sometimes. One time I was seeing this girl who I knew was semi-dating another guy and I wasn't sure how interested she was in me. Finding Nemo was always a little inside joke with us (I have no idea why), so for valentines day I went over to her house, gave her a Finding Nemo coloring book, a cute home-made Finding Nemo card with stickers, etc. It wasn't much, but it sure beat the hell out of the generic basket of chocolates that the other dude she was seeing gave her.

I would say doing something small, but thoughtful would be good. Don't make it seem like you're totally in love with her, but make it kind of casual-flirty, just saying you figured you've been seeing more of each other and figured it'd make her happy to receive a Valentine's Day gift from someone.

[anamericangod]

Cum in her hair.

[cwhit412]

Cum in her hair.

And this is why I love AP.net.
I get both serious answers and legit lols.

[terror_91]

And this is why I love AP.net.
I get both serious answers and legit lols.
She won't be laughing.

Just a tip, make sure she doesn't have anything "stabby" nearby when you condition her hair.

[cwhit412]

She won't be laughing.

Just a tip, make sure she doesn't have anything "stabby" nearby when you condition her hair.

I mean lol answers for me.
I laughed.
I don't "think" she would.

[terror_91]

I mean lol answers for me.
I laughed.
I don't "think" she would.
The only way we will know is if you try it. Tell us how it goes.

[cwhit412]

The only way we will know is if you try it. Tell us how it goes.

Eh. Don't want to mess up her hair. It's attractive.
I'm gonna get so much shit for that comment.

[songydarko]

It works sometimes. One time I was seeing this girl who I knew was semi-dating another guy and I wasn't sure how interested she was in me. Finding Nemo was always a little inside joke with us (I have no idea why), so for valentines day I went over to her house, gave her a Finding Nemo coloring book, a cute home-made Finding Nemo card with stickers, etc. It wasn't much, but it sure beat the hell out of the generic basket of chocolates that the other dude she was seeing gave her.

I would say doing something small, but thoughtful would be good. Don't make it seem like you're totally in love with her, but make it kind of casual-flirty, just saying you figured you've been seeing more of each other and figured it'd make her happy to receive a Valentine's Day gift from someone.
Do nots like to hear.

[Lycareth]

its high school champ no girl is worth you times if you cant fuck her in 2 months move on

This is definitely true. By no means carry this attitude for the rest of your life but high school is bumping a car while parallel parking compared to the tragic accident that is life beyond. Dude, just drive off.

Also it couldn't hurt your chances to put some interest into other girls. We all know she'll get somewhat jealous for the attention.

[Mibabalou]

This is definitely true. By no means carry this attitude for the rest of your life but high school is bumping a car while parallel parking compared to the tragic accident that is life beyond. Dude, just drive off.

Also it couldn't hurt your chances to put some interest into other girls. We all know she'll get somewhat jealous for the attention.

yeah thats what i mean

in college and stuff its worth caring but high school not really

[denissuxx]

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[Amour For Liars]

Fake your death, if she doesn't get emotional about that, she is obviously either:

A. a robot
B. a retard
C. she's not into you.
D. All of the above. (A retarded robot who's not into you.)
you always have the best post.

and dude, they're right, take it from me. I went to rehab over weed for 3 months in sophmore year. No matter how hot a chick is if shes loopy, so not worth it. Trust me, even as boring as the normal chicks are, what happens when your unstable future gf has an issue with you she cant put into words. Its either her wrist or your dick.

[Yellowcard2006]

You are in the friend zone. Find a new girl

[And Hours Pass]

Give it up. Girls with emotional barriers are nothing but headache, heartache, and just a lot more trouble than they're worth.

Look at Zooey Deschanel in every movie she's ever been in. Girl with emotional barriers is charming for Zooey, but that's because you're not in on the bullshit she's putting the guy du jour in her movies through. If your potential chick is as hot as Ms. Deschanel, then by all means keep plugging away. 2 months down the line, when shit gets real and she has to make a choice between retaining her barriers or actually letting you in, don't be surprised by the disappointment.

I sincerely could not have put this better myself.

never give up on a girl with daddy problems.

Sound advice.

its high school champ no girl is worth you times if you cant fuck her in 2 months move on

you are not gonna marry any of these people so if a girl takes to long move on to one who will put out im sure you can find one

Also sound advice.

Fake your death, if she doesn't get emotional about that, she is obviously either:

A. a robot
B. a retard
C. she's not into you.
D. All of the above. (A retarded robot who's not into you.)

It's been too long since I've read one of your posts. Glad to see one pop up.

Set up an elaborate plan to threaten her life, and then save her. Girls always like the guy who saved their life.

This isn't a half bad idea...

you always have the best post.

and dude, they're right, take it from me. I went to rehab over weed for 3 months in sophmore year. No matter how hot a chick is if shes loopy, so not worth it. Trust me, even as boring as the normal chicks are, what happens when your unstable future gf has an issue with you she cant put into words. Its either her wrist or your dick.

Not to be insensitive, but what did the weed rehab have to do with the rest of that story?

[LoginBanned]

Valentine's Day is not the way to go. Start giving her more passive attention. Give her a nice little "hey whats up" and continue on with your day. If you've been laying it on and all of a sudden you're not nearly as available, she'll notice. And she'll either try to get you to come back around, or she won't. And if she doesn't, she probably doesn't like you. In which case you should find someone else anyway...no sense in wasting your time trying to crack someone that doesn't want to be cracked, especially if there's nothing in it for you...

Listen to this guy.

[LoginBanned]

you always have the best post.

and dude, they're right, take it from me. I went to rehab over weed for 3 months in sophmore year. No matter how hot a chick is if shes loopy, so not worth it. Trust me, even as boring as the normal chicks are, what happens when your unstable future gf has an issue with you she cant put into words. Its either her wrist or your dick.

I'm not sure if that made any sense.

[argg_xo]

Fake your death, if she doesn't get emotional about that, she is obviously either:

A. a robot
B. a retard
C. she's not into you.
D. All of the above. (A retarded robot who's not into you.)

One particular guy I know is always trying to get with the emotionally guarded girl and it never works out, I always assume the girls are robots and no one ever gets my theory. I'm glad someone else finally does.

ps-the answer is always "D"

[UnderMyDreams]

Get her number and hang out with her outside of lunch?

Come on, this isn't that hard.

[MyNameIsRoss]

give up

[rhinitus]

I'm not sure if that made any sense.

yeah, who goes to rehab for weed anyway?

[roughroads]

Valentines day is way overrated, definitely don't try to win her over like that.

Note: try desperation day (The day before Valentines Day)

[Jaimehere]

Fake your death, if she doesn't get emotional about that, she is obviously either:

A. a robot
B. a retard
C. she's not into you.
D. All of the above. (A retarded robot who's not into you.)

this sums it up right here

[LoginBanned]

yeah, who goes to rehab for weed anyway?

Her wrist or your wang, is he trying to be poetic?

[rhinitus]

Her wrist or your wang, is he trying to be poetic?

it might sound nice, but in reality you know girls that are that fucked in the head are for sure the ones that will try the hardest at doming guys up...so his attempt at poetry is just misinformed

[LoginBanned]

it might sound nice, but in reality you know girls that are that fucked in the head are for sure the ones that will try the hardest at doming guys up...so his attempt at poetry is just misinformed

We all learn the hard way

[terror_91]

Eh. Don't want to mess up her hair. It's attractive.
I'm gonna get so much shit for that comment.
It would be much more attractive with your vanilla juice all in it.

[po0ty]

you always have the best post.

and dude, they're right, take it from me. I went to rehab over weed for 3 months in sophmore year. No matter how hot a chick is if shes loopy, so not worth it. Trust me, even as boring as the normal chicks are, what happens when your unstable future gf has an issue with you she cant put into words. Its either her wrist or your dick.


2 questions:

they have fucking weed rehab?

and 2nd,

what the fuck does you going to rehab have anything to do with this thread? l0l.

[Amour For Liars]

yeah, who goes to rehab for weed anyway?
a 16 year old caught with a half ounce at school, and I wasn't caught. I was snitched on. And No I didn't take it in school. They found it in my glove compartment, my car at the time had a passenger door that wouldn't lock. It was either 3 months of rehab, or some time in juvinile detention and expulsion from school. Obvious choice.

[Amour For Liars]

2 questions:

they have fucking weed rehab?

and 2nd,

what the fuck does you going to rehab have anything to do with this thread? l0l.


I totally forgot how I was trying to make a point. Im saying I met girls with the emotional boundries in rehab. Two, no positive quality in these girls was worth the trouble. Im not stoned anymore, so I can't explain my anaology. Im pretty much as clueless as what I was going on about as everyone else.

[po0ty]

I totally forgot how I was trying to make a point. Im saying I met girls with the emotional boundries in rehab. Two, no positive quality in these girls was worth the trouble. Im not stoned anymore, so I can't explain my anaology. Im pretty much as clueless as what I was going on about as everyone else.

lmao, it probably made sense at one point it's ok. and sorry, that sucks about getting snitched. sucks a lot of d.

[Amour For Liars]

lmao, it probably made sense at one point it's ok. and sorry, that sucks about getting snitched. sucks a lot of d.
edit:
said 2 much.

[rhinitus]

I totally forgot how I was trying to make a point. Im saying I met girls with the emotional boundries in rehab. Two, no positive quality in these girls was worth the trouble. Im not stoned anymore, so I can't explain my anaology. Im pretty much as clueless as what I was going on about as everyone else.

i mean no offense...but i don't think rehab is the most intuitive place to pick up girls

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[Amour For Liars]

i mean no offense...but i don't think rehab is the most intuitive place to pick up girls
I couldnt agree more, but dude, when your trapped in a white walled building for 3 months, and dont even get enough privacy to "relieve yourself"..
banging the hot emo chick with big boobs definatly becomes a repetative thought process around month 2. lol

[po0ty]

edit:
said 2 much.

hah

i read what it said before ;)

[rhinitus]

I couldnt agree more, but dude, when your trapped in a white walled building for 3 months, and dont even get enough privacy to "relieve yourself"..
banging the hot emo chick with big boobs definatly becomes a repetative thought process around month 2. lol

emo chicks dont have big boobs, especially the hot ones

[ReadyForAction]

Dude I totally know what youre going through, I'm trying to bang this lesbian and it isnt easy at all

[Andrew33]

You just like the girl with the biggest challenge.

[terror_91]

You just like the girl with the biggest challenge.
Nice code for tits.

[Andrew33]

Nice code for tits.

<---- this guy gets it.