Ethical issue

[nphizzle]

So three years ago me and the girl of my dreams flirted around and talked about hooking up. that ended once we went off to college and she moved. I've now been dating a different girl for a year and a half who I'm very happy with and i can honestly say i love. I'm going to visit a friend soon and this dream girl happens to go to school near him. i contacted her and let her know i'm coming and we got in deep convo and it came to us talking about hooking up again. She still wants to. Am i wrong for wanting to and would i be wrong for acting on it for one night?

P.s. I've never cheated in my life and generally look down on this but this is the former girl of my dreams we're talking about.

[terror_91]

I hope that you do it and the guilt eats away at you until you are fucking broken and only a shell of your former self.

[jong44]

I hope that you do it and the guilt eats away at you until you are fucking broken and only a shell of your former self.

Agreed. Dude face it, you lost her. Unless you plan on breaking up with your current gf to. Don't. That's fucking horrible.

[po0ty]

I don't see why you would piss away a good relationship with someone you love because your "dream girl" wants to "hookup".

[-karla]

tosspot

[Scrandon]

Yes youre wrong and you know it or you wouldnt ask this stupid question. wow kid its still cheating regardless of who its with.

[phil19]

dont be a dick. you say you love the girl you're with, enough said. if you love her this shouldnt even be a consideration.

[Manicapathy]

P.s. I've never cheated in my life and generally look down on this but this is the former girl of my dreams we're talking about.

So....yea. Ideally, you'd be with the girl of your dreams now. Stop thinking with your junk, start thinking with your brain.

[roughroads]

So three years ago me and the girl of my dreams flirted around and talked about hooking up. that ended once we went off to college and she moved. I've now been dating a different girl for a year and a half who I'm very happy with and i can honestly say i love. I'm going to visit a friend soon and this dream girl happens to go to school near him. i contacted her and let her know i'm coming and we got in deep convo and it came to us talking about hooking up again. She still wants to. Am i wrong for wanting to and would i be wrong for acting on it for one night?

P.s. I've never cheated in my life and generally look down on this but this is the former girl of my dreams we're talking about.

Are you kidding me?
So deep conversations to you involve cheating on your girlfriend(of which you're allegedly In Love) and hooking up with some girl from 3 years ago.
I hope this is a joke that's just not funny.

[Carolina.Alex]

bad idea

[Brand-new-123]

The fact that you even needed to create a thread about this concerns me.

[Carolina.Alex]

Are you kidding me?
So deep conversations to you involve cheating on your girlfriend(of which you're allegedly In Love) and hooking up with some girl from 3 years ago.
I hope this is a joke that's just not funny.


lol your name is rough roads

[spunkmastaflex]

dont dooooo her

[FallenAngel117]

dont be an idiot. if your gf was in the same position what would you hope she did?
you cant possibly wanna know or accept another man all over your gf.. seriously

[SomedayTheFire]

Do it. You'll regret it either way.

[Xzylem300]

Don't be a idiot. It's people like you that ruin shit for all the normal genuine guys. Dick..

Also it's amazing to see the internet crowd still has a soul

[Sventhegreat]

She's probably a big ho-bag now anyways, which is why she still wants to hook up with you. So be sure to strap your jimmy if you do bone her.

[introduction]

it's like you've never watched tv in your life.

[CobraLucha]

I hope that you do it and the guilt eats away at you until you are fucking broken and only a shell of your former self.

Yeye dis dude sez it best!

[po0ty]

The fact that one of you brought up the possibility of fucking after not talking for so long makes me question your judgment of her as "dream girl" as well

[roughroads]

lol your name is rough roads

Christ, how many accounts do you have wally?

[Mochem]

ya dude go for it

[kbi the crowing]

She's probably a big ho-bag now anyways, which is why she still wants to hook up with you. So be sure to strap your jimmy if you do bone her.

:appl:

[Smeee]

I can't believe you say you love your current girlfriend, yet you're still considering hooking up with this other girl... It's pretty low.

[Carolina.Alex]

Christ, how many accounts do you have wally?

i'm not telling

[roughroads]

i'm not telling

fair enough, you a legit member now or still just trolling along?

[SonEric84]

Break up with your current girlfriend even if you don't do it, this thread alone is proof you don't really love her.

[LamarVannoy]

You're a dick for even considering this.

[acemvivere]

Let's be practical, here. Why risk losing someone you love who is right fucking next to you over someone you haven't seen for (I'm assuming this, don't correct me if I'm wrong, it won't help your case) three years?

If you still insist, try this approach: "Hey, while I'm away, do you mind if I fuck this girl I really wanted to but was never able to?"

Then make a new thread about how you now need a replacement set of testicles.

[Carolina.Alex]

fair enough, you a legit member now or still just trolling along?

this isn't waldorf, i was just messing with you

[roughroads]

this isn't waldorf, i was just messing with you

You took waldorf's joke about my username... Not cool.

[showmethefever]

Threesome.

[floodedheart456]

I am so glad to hear all the responses from other males saying how stupid it would be for you to cheat.

[rhinitus]

lol how can you say you love her if you are premeditating a cheating session? i was dating my girlfriend (at the time) for like 3 months, went on spring break, saw one of my homecoming dates in a bar in fucking florence, kissed her on the lips with no tongue to say hello and did some very dirty grinding...and for the rest of my trip i felt like the biggest piece of shit ever. it nearly ruined it. it wasn't that big of a deal...and i still felt guilty as fuck.

don't be a dipshit.

[phil19]

lol how can you say you love her if you are premeditating a cheating session? i was dating my girlfriend (at the time) for like 3 months, went on spring break, saw one of my homecoming dates in a bar in fucking florence, kissed her on the lips with no tongue to say hello and did some very dirty grinding...and for the rest of my trip i felt like the biggest piece of shit ever. it nearly ruined it. it wasn't that big of a deal...and i still felt guilty as fuck.

don't be a dipshit.

this made me laugh

[rhinitus]

this made me laugh

was like borderline about to finger her, on the dance floor, right in front of the stage where a beatles cover band was playing. doesn't get much classier than that.

i loved her boobs.

[phil19]

was like borderline about to finger her, on the dance floor, right in front of the stage where a beatles cover band was playing. doesn't get much classier than that.

i loved her boobs.

that's all class

[howthegodschill]

Threesome.

This.

If your girlfriend really loves you, she will be down.

[Carolina.Alex]

You took waldorf's joke about my username... Not cool.

I apologise

[Dorian Grey]

So three years ago me and the girl of my dreams flirted around and talked about hooking up. that ended once we went off to college and she moved. I've now been dating a different girl for a year and a half who I'm very happy with and i can honestly say i love. I'm going to visit a friend soon and this dream girl happens to go to school near him. i contacted her and let her know i'm coming and we got in deep convo and it came to us talking about hooking up again. She still wants to. Am i wrong for wanting to and would i be wrong for acting on it for one night?

P.s. I've never cheated in my life and generally look down on this but this is the former girl of my dreams we're talking about.

Hahahahahahahaha!

I hope your girlfriend sees this thread and realizes what a sack of shit you are.

[Loyaltabk]

Hit dat'!

[JordanBuell]

Do it. You'll regret it either way.

hahaha sums up life.

[Mibabalou]

anal

[Mibabalou]

This.

If your girlfriend really loves you, she will be down.

LOLOLOLLLL

[warstory]

you're not wrong for wanting to
but it would be wrong to act on it

[superxero]

The girl your dating should be the girl of your dreams man!

[pleasedontpanic]

I doubt you love your girlfriend if you would even think about this.

[coma]

I wanna cheat on my girlfriend. Should I do it?

Fucking REALLY? That's the question you come with? What the fuck do you think? Go with your instinct here, because society has clearly indoctrinated what is wrong vs. what is right in this scenario. Mull it over.

[Deadbolt23]

This is fake. No one is this stupid.

[terror_91]

I am so glad to hear all the responses from other males saying how stupid it would be for you to cheat.
Wow, seems like you missed all the sarcasm... ;-)

[arizonahotrock]

What Would Tiger Do?

[zachff]

Do it. You'll regret not doing it for the rest of your life

[Charles777]

Don't be an asshole.

[mybreakingpoint]

don't fucking do it unless you break-up with your current girlfriend first PERMANENTLY. don't ever do that to someone, even if they don't know about it. so fucked up.

[inthemidst]

If you're in love with your current girlfriend, don't mess it up just to hook up with this other chick. You'll end up regretting it for a long time. Seriously, don't do it.

[Reaver]

Do it. You'll regret not doing it for the rest of your life
as much as it is a stupid move, this is true. the fact that you made this thread, shows that you don't love your gf as much as you might think and that you still long for your "dream girl".
Think about one thing: do you believe that your current relationship is meant to be? could you imagine marrying her one day? are you really happy with her?
If you didn't shout yes immediately after reading those questions, you should seriously consider breaking up with her right now and going for the other girl.
Imagine this: you turn down your "dream girl" and try to forget about her while staying with your girlfriend. some time from now, maybe some years you break up coz it didn't work out anymore and that dream girl has commited herself to someone else in the meantime.
Would you be ok with that or would you regret your choice?

I'm not saying you should do it, I'm saying you should carefully think about this and act accordingly.

[rhombuspresents]

If you love her, then definitely don't hook up. It's not worth ruining your current relationship over so I would say just stay away.

[live.]

Clearly you do not love your current girlfriend.

[wildrocks90]

definetly a bad idea, in the end ur gf will prob leave u and the girl of ur dreams will just be a one time hookup kind of thing

[davehennessy]

and i can honestly say i love.

if you actually loved her, this thread wouldn't exist