Girls, girls, girls...

[abusedcat]

Okay, so, I recently started dating this girl. I haven't ever really had a good relationship, and I finally think this one is going to work. Problem is: She lives two towns away. Now, Being a youngen (I'm turning 16 on Sept. 1st) I have trouble seeing her. I'm thinking I should get a work permit (Since at 15 it's hard to get a job), and just take the bus down to see her. Hell, I want to make it work.
Another thing is (I might just be over analyzing) that she just told me she's leaving for a party (which, I dont know, but like, all parties I've been to I've never arrived at a quarter to 11) and, well, she drinks. Should I be kind enough to bestow some trust in her? I'm just freaking out. Okay, I'm not sure if this made much sense, but here it goes.

[bonnie17]

well if you know you really love this girl, then you would've already put your trust into her. You should trust her when she goes, tell her you love her so much(if ya do)before she goes and MAYBE she wont do anything but drink and have fun. but thats just me. but also you should trust her then again you will have some doubt. you can trust her and not trust her at the same time! lol but do what your heart says lol goodluckness

[shes.a.ghost]

rule of thumb. when you have a gut feeling that something is wrong. it normally is.

[TheByrus]

youre 15 and it wont last.


get a fuck buddy who is closer.

[x togepi x]

yeah, you should be very careful about continuing a long distance relationship if you can't trust the person. I mean, if you're freaking out about going her going to a party, what are you going to do if she happens to mention one of her male friends? Becasue, if you guys talk at all, she's going to talk about one of her guy friends, and it seems like you'll get jealous.

[thisisastickup]

give it some time. how far away is two towns over.. my bf lives like.3 cities north of mine but thats only like 45 minutes driving

[Greg]

im so lost on how a work permit plays any part in this

[abusedcat]

im so lost on how a work permit plays any part in thisyeah, i didn't go much into it, but work permit = job, and job = money, and money = i can take bus to see her.
well, i woke up this morning to two missed calls and a voice message from her. basically a "hey, this partys boring, i dont know anyone, i love you, bye" but, it made me feel better.
this thread was just an anxiety attack.

[quitmyscene]

you guys are already at the "i love you" stage?
hm.

if you really want it to work, and if you both put effort into making it work, it can.

[Freud]

im so lost on how a work permit plays any part in this
hahahahah

[jklo16]

you guys are already at the "i love you" stage?
hm.

if you really want it to work, and if you both put effort into making it work, it can.

he's 15. of course he's at the "i love you stage". i had a boyfriend when i was 11 that said he loved me in my yearbook. i'm still surprised that didn't work.


my advice: get used to it. you're gonna have to deal with these same situations in every relationship you ever enter. if you can't trust someone at the ripe age of 15...you're in for some serious issues for the rest of your life. don't get too attached at your age...the probabiltity that it will work is pretty much none. enjoy yourself and don't stress too much about any of this.

[Shoes]

he's 15. of course he's at the "i love you stage". i had a boyfriend when i was 11 that said he loved me in my yearbook. i'm still surprised that didn't work.
hahahahaha

[cuetheflames]

trust her until she lies about something.

[boysdontcry17]

brace yourself son, you won't make it through the summer.

[unwritten]

brace yourself son, you won't make it through the summer.

hahaha.

Don't trust girls.

[boysdontcry17]

hahaha.

Don't trust girls.

haha true. dont get attached. have some action actionn on the side. nail and bail. it sounds bad but tis better than losing sleep over some girl.

[xvszero]

Well getting a job is a good idea no matter what, so go for it.

As for the rest, if you're not into drinking and partying you should probably find a girl who also isn't into it. Otherwise you're just setting yourself up for heartbreak.