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fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
brandnew=love
02/03/10, 11:14 PM
Wait, how old are you two?
Wait, how old are you two?
:-0
just break up with her. the longer you wait the more clingy she'll get and the more she'll cry.
Wait, how old are you two?
are you actually asking how old both of us are or are you just being a dick?
brandnew=love
02/03/10, 11:29 PM
:-0
just break up with her. the longer you wait the more clingy she'll get and the more she'll cry.
Hi Renee! Are you just as surprised to see me posting as I am? I slept all day after my day off from work, so I'll be up all night with nothing to do.
brandnew=love
02/03/10, 11:35 PM
are you actually asking how old both of us are or are you just being a dick?
A little bit from column A, a little bit from column B. Seriously, you're twenty and talking about running away? I'm younger than you and that just could be the dumbest thing I've ever heard... plus, you got yourself into that mess, you can get yourself out.
Deadbolt23
02/03/10, 11:37 PM
You've got to do it in person. Otherwise your an asshat.
dude, instead of writing all this crap on ap, you could have already broken up and be fine again. just get it over with.
Greg.Kushlan
02/04/10, 01:09 AM
If you plan on dumping her then you should do it in person, you deserve whatever you have to deal with when you tell her.
anthonydarko
02/04/10, 01:12 AM
Just tell her person and be a man about it. Other than her crying uncontrollably, what's the worst that could happen?
pleasedontpanic
02/04/10, 01:21 AM
Do it in person and just get it done with.
takemyhand
02/04/10, 01:51 AM
No one has ever broken up with me in person, and I kind of feel that I'd rather be broken up with over the phone. But maybe that's just me, haha.
introduction
02/04/10, 03:51 AM
it's like ripping off a band-aid. the faster, the better.
overdrive91
02/04/10, 04:16 AM
Tell her she looks fat in those jeans. She'll be gone soon enough.
Jennurna Gray
02/04/10, 04:43 AM
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
Is there any chance she could be pregnant? :O
Kozzy333
02/04/10, 04:51 AM
Drop the girl.
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
Be a man, Hulk. Do it in person. Actually, depending on how long you've been together, you can probably do phone. If it's less than 2 years, phone should be fine. I mean - it's not like she's going to want to hang around after you do it.
A little bit from column A, a little bit from column B. Seriously, you're twenty and talking about running away? I'm younger than you and that just could be the dumbest thing I've ever heard... plus, you got yourself into that mess, you can get yourself out.
I think he was joking about the running away part.
And Hours Pass
02/04/10, 06:18 AM
A little bit from column A, a little bit from column B. Seriously, you're twenty and talking about running away? I'm younger than you and that just could be the dumbest thing I've ever heard... plus, you got yourself into that mess, you can get yourself out.
Really enjoyed that.
JayBee420
02/04/10, 06:55 AM
Murder her and eat the body.
Do it in person and film it, then send it to cryingwife.com
maxvsmaradona
02/04/10, 07:06 AM
Back hand.
Yellowcard2006
02/04/10, 07:36 AM
You post pics of her. In this thread.
Then we give you better advice.
MattADALIE
02/04/10, 07:53 AM
First of all, it really depends on how long you two have been together which would set the stage for the severity of the issue. In any case, you should approach her about these problems and let her know what harm she is causing to the relationship. Be honest with her. For instance, if you feel like she's pushing you away with her emotional displays, tell her. If she can't handle it, then she's not ready for a relationship. If you feel like running away and ditching her plain and simple, then you're not quite ready yourself. Tackle the issue in person and see how it goes.
bladerdude360
02/04/10, 08:56 AM
Really? Just do it and get it over with.
Kassie09
02/04/10, 09:00 AM
break up with her, she sounds creepy. who cares if she cries..you hate her
herestoyoufla
02/04/10, 10:07 AM
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
My ex girlfriend pulled some shit from the Notebook, and starting crying and hitting me when i broke up with her.
She'll get over it though, and so will you, it's no big deal..
rhinitus
02/04/10, 10:08 AM
k you get into a pointless fight. then you somehow turn around what she said and make her feel like everything is her fault and has left you no choice but to break up "at least for now". that way, she'll still call you at 2am, and you won't have to feel guilty for picking up...
Echo Park
02/04/10, 10:46 AM
man i hate breakup with girls. I actually never truly did it. When i was 14 my girlfriend broke up with me, and it f-in hurt so I don't want to do anything like that to anyone. 9 years later I had to dump 3 girls and all I do is distance myself until they get the picture. The most recent one wouldn't, er still hasn't gotten the picture.
If you actually hate her, seeing her cry should give you great pleasure, no?
Alex DiVincenzo
02/04/10, 11:36 AM
Man up and drop her.
davehennessy
02/04/10, 11:38 AM
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
The hurt of a terrible moment (breakup) will pass. But if you're keeping yourself in a relationship you can't stand to be in, that's a lot worse and prolonged. Do what you feel you have to do.. and please do it in person. I've been broken up with over the phone and it's a ridiculous thing to do, so try to avoid it if possible
Andy Young
02/04/10, 12:24 PM
Just dump her via text.
emoishardcore
02/04/10, 12:24 PM
ask for anal. if that doesn't work, tell her she's being selfish. if it does work, well......your on your own. can't say it's ever worked for me.
Is there any chance she could be pregnant? :O
haha no. she just got her period like saturday. and we haven't had sex since before that.
matt_bergeron
02/04/10, 12:43 PM
No one has ever broken up with me in person, and I kind of feel that I'd rather be broken up with over the phone. But maybe that's just me, haha.
in person sucks.....but id rather that than a fucking text message.....thats just an asshole move
schmalz
02/04/10, 01:18 PM
Put in some copenhagen snuff and give her a big kiss. That should solve the issue.
oliviaemmer
02/04/10, 01:26 PM
How long have you been together? If it's a long time then I'd say tell her in a more constructive way that you feel like that. & then maybe it will be fixed.
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
Tell her the truth. Tell her that she seems deeply uphappy and you feel it is having a negative impact on the relationship and you can't carry on unless her behaviour changes. How old is she? Must be hormones! :-/
muzicislife31
02/04/10, 01:43 PM
Just do it in person. She'll be less upset in the long run if you treat her with respect.
DanielJames
02/04/10, 02:18 PM
If you had the balls to ask her out in person, you should have the balls to break up with her in person. Not sure how you guys started but that's my position on things. Regardless, if you're that unhappy with her then end it now instead of making it worse.
terror_91
02/04/10, 03:11 PM
Basically Op is a bitch. Man the fuck up. You are embarrassing.
SomedayTheFire
02/04/10, 03:41 PM
Wait, how old are you two?
:-0
Deadbolt23
02/04/10, 03:50 PM
Send her an offline message on msn. It's the classiest way to break it off.
songydarko
02/04/10, 04:49 PM
Be a damn man and tell her in person.
saveferris
02/04/10, 05:02 PM
fake your own death
Never fails
saveferris
02/04/10, 05:03 PM
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AlexEnglish
02/04/10, 05:11 PM
fuck.
ok so i'm with this girl and basically things have slowly gone up shit creek in the past month.
she's super clingy. she bitches all the time. she acts like she's fuckin 4. and she's controlling.
and moody
and cries a lot.
and i hate her.
and i wanna break up with her but of i do it in person she'll cry like you've never seen before. and it really hurts to see that.
but if i don't do it in person i look like an asshole.
thoughts? input? advice?
i think i should just run away
do it over the phone. your honestly not as much of an asshole if you do it over the phone.
Never fails
true that. its a flawless plan
princesschad
02/04/10, 05:39 PM
so she cries a lot, is moody, clingy, and bitches a lot?
does she look anything like this?
http://moesucks.files.wordpress.com/2009/06/tidus.jpg
(sorry man)
Jennurna Gray
02/04/10, 05:54 PM
haha no. she just got her period like saturday. and we haven't had sex since before that.
Before saturday when she got her period? Yuckk.
EDIT: I get it now, nevermind.
takemyhand
02/04/10, 07:55 PM
in person sucks.....but id rather that than a fucking text message.....thats just an asshole move
yeah a text would suck, but over the phone isn't bad.. you can just hangup on them, lol.
argg_xo
02/04/10, 07:58 PM
Wait, how old are you two?
:wave:
What's up buuuddyy?
worthwaiting
02/05/10, 02:25 AM
Do it in person. It's hard but it shows more respect.
man i hate breakup with girls. I actually never truly did it. When i was 14 my girlfriend broke up with me, and it f-in hurt so I don't want to do anything like that to anyone. 9 years later I had to dump 3 girls and all I do is distance myself until they get the picture. The most recent one wouldn't, er still hasn't gotten the picture.
That's how my bf did, but in the long run that's doing more harm than talking honestly about your feelings.
brandnew=love
02/05/10, 04:12 AM
I think he was joking about the running away part.
:shrug:
:-0
Haha, hi sir. It was just a long and boring night. so why not post a few times? I was going to make a thread about my slight issue, but decided against it.
:wave:
What's up buuuddyy?
Woah, it's Chelsea! Hi, ma'am! I've just been working and keeping busy... it's pretty heavy duty stuff. Other than that... hmm... I pierced my cartilage yesterday lol... I wasn't to sure about it then, and I'm not sure now but in a week or two I'll get it all solved and possibly fired from my job. Anywho, how have you been? Missed you!
it's like ripping off a band-aid. the faster, the better.
simple, profound, true.
argg_xo
02/05/10, 01:28 PM
Woah, it's Chelsea! Hi, ma'am! I've just been working and keeping busy... it's pretty heavy duty stuff. Other than that... hmm... I pierced my cartilage yesterday lol... I wasn't to sure about it then, and I'm not sure now but in a week or two I'll get it all solved and possibly fired from my job. Anywho, how have you been? Missed you!
Erik!!! Please do not get fired from your job because of your cartilage piercing, unless the job is complete crap and you really really hate it, then you have my blessing to get fired over something trivial. I'm glad you're keeping busy and working, is the heavy duty stuff a good thing or bad thing? I've been good, hanging out, finishing up school soon, missed you too! PM me sometime if you want to talk?
limepomegranate
02/05/10, 02:15 PM
Just be a man and dump that bitch. If she cries and stuff she just ends up making herself seem like a crazy bitch.
brandnew=love
02/05/10, 10:59 PM
Erik!!! Please do not get fired from your job because of your cartilage piercing, unless the job is complete crap and you really really hate it, then you have my blessing to get fired over something trivial. I'm glad you're keeping busy and working, is the heavy duty stuff a good thing or bad thing? I've been good, hanging out, finishing up school soon, missed you too! PM me sometime if you want to talk?
Lol, it is a shit job, tbh... the customers are douches, the managers act like they care but they don't, and it's minimum wage... the only thing I like about it is the people. It doesn't seem like I'll get fired cause of it though, which is cool too. It's good and bad 'heavy duty' lol... work has just worn me down quite a bit, but I feel happier than I have in some time and there's a girl I like at work. Sounds like you've been having fun... wait, done with school for good? What's your major? I definitely will pm you!
i did it.
i can't sleep. i feel absolutely horrible.
Jake Denning
02/06/10, 04:30 AM
then send it to cryingwife.com
oh wow, thats quite the wife.
argg_xo
02/06/10, 08:07 AM
Lol, it is a shit job, tbh... the customers are douches, the managers act like they care but they don't, and it's minimum wage... the only thing I like about it is the people. It doesn't seem like I'll get fired cause of it though, which is cool too. It's good and bad 'heavy duty' lol... work has just worn me down quite a bit, but I feel happier than I have in some time and there's a girl I like at work. Sounds like you've been having fun... wait, done with school for good? What's your major? I definitely will pm you!
Hhaha your shit job sounds just like mine! I like the people I work with because one of my best friend works with me and everyone pretty much likes me too! lol. I'm glad to hear that you feel happy about heavy duty work and that there is a girl!!! I'm almost done with classes and then I can apply for the occupational therapy program this summer so i can start that in the fall and get a real grown-up job! hopefully i get picked for the program! Have I mentioned that I've missed talking to you!
oh my fucking god!
so i broke up with her last night and this morning i wake up
AND SHE'S SITTING ON MY FUCKING BED!
AND I HAVE TO GO THROUGH EVERYTHING ALL OVER AGAIN!!!!
brandnew=love
02/06/10, 12:24 PM
Hhaha your shit job sounds just like mine! I like the people I work with because one of my best friend works with me and everyone pretty much likes me too! lol. I'm glad to hear that you feel happy about heavy duty work and that there is a girl!!! I'm almost done with classes and then I can apply for the occupational therapy program this summer so i can start that in the fall and get a real grown-up job! hopefully i get picked for the program! Have I mentioned that I've missed talking to you!
Lol, where are you working? Were you and your best friend friends before you started the job? Lol, everyone PRETTY much likes you? So that means there's someone that doesn't? There is a girl, just not sure if/how I'd ask her out lol... I don't care if she said no, just everyone at the store talks and in a day everyone would know and she's younger and I don't know what the managers would say and I know I'd get tired of everyones comments and looks, then everyone says that work relationships are unprofessional, and I don't even know if she already has a boyfriend. (lol, sorry, I should post a thread.) Ah, well I'm really stoked for you... my little chelsea is all grown up... lol j/k but that's exciting; do you know exactly where you'd want to work? I mean, you wouldn't be doing interventions or anything, right? I'm sure you'll get picked ma'am! Keep me updated! I missed you too... too much! Do you still talk to Mandi?
oh my fucking god!
so i broke up with her last night and this morning i wake up
AND SHE'S SITTING ON MY FUCKING BED!
AND I HAVE TO GO THROUGH EVERYTHING ALL OVER AGAIN!!!!
Change your locks lol. That's creepy...
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