coworker advice

[SingleDoubt]

alright so ive been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half and things have been up and down (obviously) but right now, they're pretty much neutral. they're not great, but we arent fighting all the time. i stayed with her all through summer even when i had chances to go for other girls. now summer's coming to an end and i'm feeling like i need some time to be single. i'm going into college and she's still gonna be in high school so im not so sure how long this whole thing will last.

this is where the coworker thing comes in... i have a thing for one of my coworkers. it started out as just a friendship, but over the past couple of weeks we've been getting a lot closer and all my friends think that even though there's an age gap between us (im 18 and she's 21) that she's definitely into me. another plus is that last night when we were on she was really upset about her boyfriend who was supposed to come down this weekend to see her but decided to push it back to september because he wanted to hang out with his friends.

the plot gets even thicker in the fact that not only does my coworker's brother hate my guts, but i also dont think a relationship would ever work between us (she's going back to college in a little while.) i really just want a short little fling, just because its been so long since ive been with a girl besides my girlfriend.

any advice on how i should go about all of this?

[xvszero]

No offense, but if you need a fling because "its been so long since ive been with a girl besides my girlfriend" then you shouldn't have a girlfriend... now or ever.

[SingleDoubt]

No offense, but if you need a fling because "its been so long since ive been with a girl besides my girlfriend" then you shouldn't have a girlfriend... now or ever.
my bad, i can see where you're coming from... i dont think i mentioned that im bored to death with my relationship. that's why im saying that. i need some excitement... a change of pace.

[xvszero]

Well how about this. Before ANYTHING else... break up with the girlfriend NOW. If its over, don't waste more of her time just so you can have her around until you find something else.

Let her go man.

Then worry about the co-worker once you're single. Of course, apparently she has a boyfriend, so you'd still be a total whore to fuck her, but whatever.

[oldwirehands]

my bad, i can see where you're coming from... i dont think i mentioned that im bored to death with my relationship. that's why im saying that. i need some excitement... a change of pace.

Then break up with your girlfriend and get out there. Easy as that.

[Narcissm]

you really should finish things with your g/f....its not fair to keep her waiting on you and thinking everythings ok..especially when your 'bored to death' with the relationship. thats just mean.give her a chance to find someone else.

the co-worker you talked about is only going to sleep with you because her boyfriend fucked her off for his friends...does that make you feel good?? and she has a boyfriend...imagine how you would feel if some guy slept with a girl you really liked???!!

think about it.

/x

[bigmike]

donkey punch both your girlfriend and your co-worker and be done with it.

[mikeford]

perhaps you should follow the 3way and kill 2 birds with one stone... bang out coworker, spicen up relationship with gf.

just get them both really wasted first.

[we are cured]

drill the coworker, nobody will find out

[FourdyOz]

haha. thats what im sayin! pimp.

[Juliana101]

cheat on your girlfriend then make it seem like it's her fault.

[FondestMemory]

do the girlfriend a favour and break up with her. then go from there.

[DroppedUrPocket]

Yeah, chaulk up another one for the breaking up with your girlfriend. It's not fair to her whatsoever.

[livethesounds]

my bad, i can see where you're coming from... i dont think i mentioned that im bored to death with my relationship. that's why im saying that. i need some excitement... a change of pace.

Dont be a pussy, you have a girlfriend that your not totally high on, and she the same type of boyfriend. Make a move on her, if its just sex & messing around, then its great, nobody will tell anybody because both of you have somebody else. Banging co-workers is the best, i know from experience

[ForeverInADay]

my bad, i can see where you're coming from... i dont think i mentioned that im bored to death with my relationship. that's why im saying that. i need some excitement... a change of pace.
you're goign to dump your girlfriend and totally bitch and complain 2 weeks after you do dump her beacuse you'll miss her and blah blah blah

It'd be damn great if you dump your girlfriend, and the coworker wants nothing to do with you. hahaha

[xvszero]

It'd be damn great if you dump your girlfriend, and the coworker wants nothing to do with you. hahaha

Sadly I think this is why many people keep around the significant other when they think about fucking around. In case their new fuck buddy never materializes, or doesn't last.