The Break Up (Starring Vince Vaughn and Personal Life Forum)

[James Johnson]

http://netdna.pearsonified.com/images/entries/dumpsville.jpg


Been dumped or had to end it with someone yourself? Need to get something off your chest or get some advice from your fellow bleeding hearts? This is now the thread for you!

[Ari Christos]

Dumpsville could also imply that you smell like shit.

[Charles777]

Love the thread title.

[Lirr168]

Seeing the beginning of the title on the front page, I thought this was going to be about the movie, lol. This thread can only better than it.

[aamberlynn]

I adore that picture :)

[lbopm]

I really liked the movie personally. I love Vince Vaughn playing himself. It sounds sarcastic but I'm serious. He cracks me up.

[sleepyseanzzz]

i liked the part where we saw jennifer annistons buttocks.

[limepomegranate]

http://netdna.pearsonified.com/images/entries/dumpsville.jpg


Been dumped or had to end it with someone yourself? Need to get something off your chest or get some advice from your fellow bleeding hearts? This is now the thread for you!
Thankyou soooo much for this thread! Serious brownie points and love in my book :-)

[terror_91]

Dumpsville could also imply that you smell like shit.
Hahahaha.

I love the idea of someone coming in feeling really crappy about life and then seeing that and thinking "Now I'm really smelly too :-("

[James Johnson]

glad you guys are ok with this!

[Ari Christos]

Hahahaha.

I love the idea of someone coming in feeling really crappy about life and then seeing that and thinking "Now I'm really smelly too :-("

Haha that's what I was going for. That extra kick when you're already down. "Man, I really miss Elizabeth. And I need to shower, apparently"

[terror_91]

Haha that's what I was going for. That extra kick when you're already down. "Man, I really miss Elizabeth. And I need to shower, apparently"
I'm actually laughing out loud and I'm not sure why. It's not even that funny. It's just "This day could not get any worse... Oh god, I smell of poo" hahaa.

Shit, I've got the maturity of an eight year old haha.

[Loyaltabk]

heard that movie sucked

[James Johnson]

Fact- never saw this film.

[SophGod]

I'LL START WITH THE BREAK UP STORIES I GUESS.


March 26, 2008 I got broken up with by my girlfriend of 6 months and it still stings today.

[James Johnson]

I'LL START WITH THE BREAK UP STORIES I GUESS.


March 26, 2008 I got broken up with by my girlfriend of 6 months and it still stings today.

You never truly do get over the big ones.

[qwerty22]

I'LL START WITH THE BREAK UP STORIES I GUESS.


March 26, 2008 I got broken up with by my girlfriend of 6 months and it still stings today.

that's crazy. i guess it takes finding someone better to put it behind you though.

[SophGod]

You never truly do get over the big ones.

yup.

that's crazy. i guess it takes finding someone better to put it behind you though.

yeah, i've been with 2 other girls since her but both those only lasted a few weeks, it's like no one can compare. but i'm sure i'll find someone, soon. it just sucks because her and her boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now. just makes me feel like shit sometimes.

[Ari Christos]

yup.



yeah, i've been with 2 other girls since her but both those only lasted a few weeks, it's like no one can compare. but i'm sure i'll find someone, soon. it just sucks because her and her boyfriend have been together for a year and a half now. just makes me feel like shit sometimes.

That's the worst. I know that feeling. Like no other girl is interesting anymore. The right girl will come along and take your mind off of her eventually. Hang in there man.

[whoaisame]

I've brought this up in other threads, but heres a good place to bring it up again I guess haha. Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me for some other guy, under the guise that she needed freedom in college etc. Long story short, we still hang out all the time behind this kids back and behind the backs of everyone she knows (except her parents, who love me). When we are together now (tho it took about a month to get to this) we get along better than ever, have sex all the time, and so on. Yet, she still wants to be with this kid. He found out about us having sex etc.. 2 weeks into their "relationship" (she refuses to admit he is her boyfriend) and they got into a huge fight and broke up, got back together the next day, then they got into a huge fight 2 days ago cause hes an idiot and did some stupid shit at her parents house and they hate him now. Yet, she still wants to make things work there apparently. I just dont fucking get it. Why try to make something so obviously wrong work that early in their relationship, when she already has something that works and is great. Still says "I Love You" and everything like nothing has changed. And just for the record, its not sex (or better sex) that she is looking for, if anything that is why she is still with me lol. Maybe I am just a loser? I dont mean that in a pathetic way, just honestly have no clue wtf is goin on.

[James Johnson]

I've brought this up in other threads, but heres a good place to bring it up again I guess haha. Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me for some other guy, under the guise that she needed freedom in college etc. Long story short, we still hang out all the time behind this kids back and behind the backs of everyone she knows (except her parents, who love me). When we are together now (tho it took about a month to get to this) we get along better than ever, have sex all the time, and so on. Yet, she still wants to be with this kid. He found out about us having sex etc.. 2 weeks into their "relationship" (she refuses to admit he is her boyfriend) and they got into a huge fight and broke up, got back together the next day, then they got into a huge fight 2 days ago cause hes an idiot and did some stupid shit at her parents house and they hate him now. Yet, she still wants to make things work there apparently. I just dont fucking get it. Why try to make something so obviously wrong work that early in their relationship, when she already has something that works and is great. Still says "I Love You" and everything like nothing has changed. And just for the record, its not sex (or better sex) that she is looking for, if anything that is why she is still with me lol. Maybe I am just a loser? I dont mean that in a pathetic way, just honestly have no clue wtf is goin on.

Way to get used!

[whoaisame]

Way to get used!

you're completely right. i realize this. but i cant walk away, especially when it feels like we are still together when we hang out. i know i should tho, at least until she realizes how fucked up this is.

[James Johnson]

you're completely right. i realize this. but i cant walk away, especially when it feels like we are still together when we hang out. i know i should tho, at least until she realizes how fucked up this is.

She deserves nothing. She has proven twice over she cannot be trusted- she fucked you over and now is fucking this dude over with you. She is not worth your time, people that form habits like this do not usually break them and she will repeat this forever.

Bail on her immediately without explanation and find somebody worthy. Take comfort in the fact people like her are never truly happy, to busy building lies and justifying being scum so they can sleep at night.

[warstory]

I've brought this up in other threads, but heres a good place to bring it up again I guess haha. Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me for some other guy, under the guise that she needed freedom in college etc. Long story short, we still hang out all the time behind this kids back and behind the backs of everyone she knows (except her parents, who love me). When we are together now (tho it took about a month to get to this) we get along better than ever, have sex all the time, and so on. Yet, she still wants to be with this kid. He found out about us having sex etc.. 2 weeks into their "relationship" (she refuses to admit he is her boyfriend) and they got into a huge fight and broke up, got back together the next day, then they got into a huge fight 2 days ago cause hes an idiot and did some stupid shit at her parents house and they hate him now. Yet, she still wants to make things work there apparently. I just dont fucking get it. Why try to make something so obviously wrong work that early in their relationship, when she already has something that works and is great. Still says "I Love You" and everything like nothing has changed. And just for the record, its not sex (or better sex) that she is looking for, if anything that is why she is still with me lol. Maybe I am just a loser? I dont mean that in a pathetic way, just honestly have no clue wtf is goin on.

I'm ashamed to admit I have been the girl in this situation. It's no excuse but I was dealing with a lot of majorly stressful issues in my personal life and well everyone deals with their problems differently.
Anywho
The whole situation ended up being bad news for everyone involved. No one was happy and everyone was drained from all the bs. I've managed to maintain a very rocky (at best) friendship with one of the guys but that is all. My advice to you would be to just let her go.

[whoaisame]

I'm ashamed to admit I have been the girl in this situation. It's no excuse but I was dealing with a lot of majorly stressful issues in my personal life and well everyone deals with their problems differently.
Anywho
The whole situation ended up being bad news for everyone involved. No one was happy and everyone was drained from all the bs. I've managed to maintain a very rocky (at best) friendship with one of the guys but that is all. My advice to you would be to just let her go.

How does "stressful issues" tie into this at all? I will never understand women. This situation only brought on MORE stressful issues for you and everyone involved. What the hell was your thought process? I'm honestly asking.

[James Johnson]

How does "stressful issues" tie into this at all? I will never understand women. This situation only brought on MORE stressful issues for you and everyone involved. What the hell was your thought process? I'm honestly asking.

"I need an upsize in dicking and attention stat!"

[billyboatkid]

Sept 3rd. Gf broke up with me..

Still trying to shake it. Thought she was the one.. Fuck me.

[davehennessy]

My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me four weeks ago. Absolutely positively the girl of my dreams, amazing in every way


... :-(

[SophGod]

That's the worst. I know that feeling. Like no other girl is interesting anymore. The right girl will come along and take your mind off of her eventually. Hang in there man.

Thanks, man. Means a lot.

[Deadbolt23]

This thread has a bad case of the pathetics. I guess I can participate.

Broke up with my girl on Halloween last year. Not over it.

[warstory]

How does "stressful issues" tie into this at all? I will never understand women. This situation only brought on MORE stressful issues for you and everyone involved. What the hell was your thought process? I'm honestly asking.

There was no reasoning or thought process, that's what I was trying to say. I was being stupid and self destructive because I couldn't handle my shit. I realize it makes no sense because I was only making bigger problem. That was sort of the moral of my story. Women do stupid inexplicable thing so go find one who has matured.

[warstory]

"I need an upsize in dicking and attention stat!"

Lol! Ouch :(

[TheZeroKid]

Janurary 15th, 2010

After 2 weeks of confused feelings, my girlfriend of 4 years left me to be with another guy. I lost my best friend and the one person that truly knows everything about me. I could go into all of the details, but I'm just so tired of it all.

[James Johnson]

Lol! Ouch :(

Harsh but fair.

[davehennessy]

I was talking to a very close friend last night about how I went through a breakup four weeks ago. After talking for awhile, she reminded me of the saying "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with."

I'm just curious what people think about this (in regards to relationships).

[GueroCanelo]

People can come back to you but still leave you again.

[po0ty]

I was talking to a very close friend last night about how I went through a breakup four weeks ago. After talking for awhile, she reminded me of the saying "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with."

I'm just curious what people think about this (in regards to relationships).

The only problem with this is that many girls can never decide what they want. Going back to you after they realize they love you or some bullshit is fun until they get bored and break it off again.

[HangsLikeHeaven]

feb 9th, 2010, 3 years and 2 days, sucks

[whoaisame]

The only problem with this is that many girls can never decide what they want. Going back to you after they realize they love you or some bullshit is fun until they get bored and break it off again.

Yea. I fear that this is 100% true.

[&IllBeTheReason]

I'm in the single most inconsistent relationship ever. One day I want to be with him forever and the next I want to break up.

[whoaisame]

I'm in the single most inconsistent relationship ever. One day I want to be with him forever and the next I want to break up.

Well, you are female, so the craziness and irrationality is normal.

[&IllBeTheReason]

Well, you are female, so the craziness and irrationality is normal.
I want to be forgiving because of the Lost avatar but I can't because that's just so dumb. The inconsistency is actually the fault of the male in the relationship.

[whoaisame]

I want to be forgiving because of the Lost avatar but I can't because that's just so dumb. The inconsistency is actually the fault of the male in the relationship.

I was joking.

[<*)))><]

The answer the the rest of breaks ups for now on. http://images.4chan.org/b/src/1266527120196.jpg

[TheZeroKid]

The answer the the rest of breaks ups for now on. http://images.4chan.org/b/src/1266527120196.jpg

Rules 1 and 2

[<*)))><]

Rules 1 and 2
http://2.thumbs.4chan.org/b/thumb/1266529390446s.jpg

[limepomegranate]

I was talking to a very close friend last night about how I went through a breakup four weeks ago. After talking for awhile, she reminded me of the saying "If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with."

I'm just curious what people think about this (in regards to relationships).
Both my boyfriend and I have the same thoughts about on and off relationships (which even if it's once like the quote makes it out to be it's still an on and off relationship). If you break up you stay broken up because A:you had your chance and you didn't want to be with me the first time so B: what makes you think it'll work if it didn't work before? If my boyfriend and I break up we will not be getting back together that's just what we believe.

[davehennessy]

Both my boyfriend and I have the same thoughts about on and off relationships (which even if it's once like the quote makes it out to be it's still an on and off relationship). If you break up you stay broken up because A:you had your chance and you didn't want to be with me the first time so B: what makes you think it'll work if it didn't work before? If my boyfriend and I break up we will not be getting back together that's just what we believe.

I understand your thinking, but I think it really depends on the couple. My girlfriend and I actually broke up once before our most recent breakup, and we ended up getting back together two weeks later. Our most recent breakup was much heavier (or "real", if you want to put it that way) and I don't think we'll be getting back together anytime soon (if at all). However, one can always hope, which is why I like this saying (even if there are some loopholes with its theory in relation to relationships)

[limepomegranate]

I understand your thinking, but I think it really depends on the couple. My girlfriend and I actually broke up once before our most recent breakup, and we ended up getting back together two weeks later. Our most recent breakup was much heavier (or "real", if you want to put it that way) and I don't think we'll be getting back together anytime soon (if at all). However, one can always hope, which is why I like this saying (even if there are some loopholes with its theory in relation to relationships)
I think it depends solely on the individual. I've been in relationships where we've broken up and they're wanting to get back together with me and I said no because I don't believe in on and off relationships. No offense to anyone but I just think that if it didn't work out before it won't work a second time. That's just my opinion though and it'll probably never change even though I know people who've broken up and gotten back together and couldn't be happier. I just don't believe in it personally and neither does my boyfriend. That kind of thinking has also saved us from breaking up over stupid shit that a lot of couples do. It causes us to really think and talk things out more because we know that once we're broken up that's it for the both of us.

[po0ty]

I'm in the single most inconsistent relationship ever. One day I want to be with him forever and the next I want to break up.


If I ever go insane it will be from girls like you :wave:

[davehennessy]

If I ever go insane it will be from girls like you :wave:

Hahaha

[undonesweater93]

im just now out of my first relationship ever. given that i'm 16, and it was with a 14 year old girl it's a bit sad indeed. she broke up with me. it lasted about a month.

I was familiar with who she was when I met her at our School's Winter Carnival and we instantly REALLY hit it off. I gave her my aim and we almost instantly became best friends. About two weeks later we were talking about the people we like and being blind to the possibility i got out of her that she really liked me. She practically begged for me to give her a chance. about two weeks later i decided to go out with her because i liked her.

The first week wasnt really anything special, i was still trying to get over myself for having a GF in the first place, etc. The second week was the same, but the relationship was basically a friendship. Knowing this, I thought I would have to try to break up with her... but the third week changed my mind. She kissed me for the first time (which was also my first kiss) and it felt so right. I don't know what about it changed my mind but it changed it really quick! I really started to like her :-) and week 4 i thought that it was really becoming serious. We couldnt spend valentimes together and she was too sick to go to school monday or tuesday, so i hadnt seen her for a few days when she went on aim and broke up with me

she cited that she wasnt "emotionally mature" enough to be in a relationship. it sounded like a croc of shit at the time, so i got skeptical and i tried to change her mind. that didnt work. then she told me she didnt like me anymore and i told her i couldnt trust her because it was all fucking fine two days before. that apparently hurt her, but i was hurt worse. I was crying on and off for about 24 hours.

apparently that really freaked her out, so i pretty much pestered a mutual friend so i wouldnt get stalkery... i talked to a lot of people i shouldnt have like her (practically) best friend and her sister... and talking to her sister sent her over the edge. apparently she was cool with being my friend until then but that put her over the edge and made her "fucking terrified"

but days later... I'm insanely happy. there's not really an explanation, i just am :)

[limepomegranate]

im just now out of my first relationship ever. given that i'm 16, and it was with a 14 year old girl it's a bit sad indeed. she broke up with me. it lasted about a month.

I was familiar with who she was when I met her at our School's Winter Carnival and we instantly REALLY hit it off. I gave her my aim and we almost instantly became best friends. About two weeks later we were talking about the people we like and being blind to the possibility i got out of her that she really liked me. She practically begged for me to give her a chance. about two weeks later i decided to go out with her because i liked her.

The first week wasnt really anything special, i was still trying to get over myself for having a GF in the first place, etc. The second week was the same, but the relationship was basically a friendship. Knowing this, I thought I would have to try to break up with her... but the third week changed my mind. She kissed me for the first time (which was also my first kiss) and it felt so right. I don't know what about it changed my mind but it changed it really quick! I really started to like her :-) and week 4 i thought that it was really becoming serious. We couldnt spend valentimes together and she was too sick to go to school monday or tuesday, so i hadnt seen her for a few days when she went on aim and broke up with me

she cited that she wasnt "emotionally mature" enough to be in a relationship. it sounded like a croc of shit at the time, so i got skeptical and i tried to change her mind. that didnt work. then she told me she didnt like me anymore and i told her i couldnt trust her because it was all fucking fine two days before. that apparently hurt her, but i was hurt worse. I was crying on and off for about 24 hours.

apparently that really freaked her out, so i pretty much pestered a mutual friend so i wouldnt get stalkery... i talked to a lot of people i shouldnt have like her (practically) best friend and her sister... and talking to her sister sent her over the edge. apparently she was cool with being my friend until then but that put her over the edge and made her "fucking terrified"

but days later... I'm insanely happy. there's not really an explanation, i just am :)
Haha she's terrified because you talked to her sister? If I were her I would have thought you were trying to get in my sister's pants!

[&IllBeTheReason]

If I ever go insane it will be from girls like you :wave:
It's really not like that but I won't bother, lol.

[undonesweater93]

Haha she's terrified because you talked to her sister? If I were her I would have thought you were trying to get in my sister's pants!

well it was mainly because i was like getting scary emotional the day after the breakup. the next day i told her i was breaking down and everything (BIG mistake) and i was kind of bothering her. (texted her a lot, apologized like 5 times... etc. her friend (male) compared me to a really messed up ex of a mutual friend of both my ex, this male friend, and I.)

I'm just tired of caring...

[limepomegranate]

well it was mainly because i was like getting scary emotional the day after the breakup. the next day i told her i was breaking down and everything (BIG mistake) and i was kind of bothering her. (texted her a lot, apologized like 5 times... etc. her friend (male) compared me to a really messed up ex of a mutual friend of both my ex, this male friend, and I.)

I'm just tired of caring...
Next time...do the exact opposite. It'll drive her crazy (if she cares) that it seems like you didn't care that she broke up with you. Also, apologize once not more than that ok? Only one apology is needed and texting her a lot like that makes you seem desperate and yes, borderline crazy. Also, you're only 16! Go out and have fun! Besides, chances are whatever girlfriend you have in high school is not who you're going to end up with! I never dated in high school because I knew where I wanted to go to college and I don't believe in long-distance relationships (granted I know they can work) or choosing a college based on where your significant other is going. If you don't go where you want to for college and choose based on your significant other you're not going to be happy. That's just my opinion though!

[limepomegranate]

Dumpsville could also imply that you smell like shit.
Haha I bet everyone who sees that sign (if it's real) checks to see if they smell after-wards!

i liked the part where we saw jennifer annistons buttocks.
And she waxed her vag! She did have a nice pert tush!

heard that movie sucked
It was the ending...you wanted them to get back together but I guess it was too much like real life...aKa they didn't get back together and had that awkward first meeting in the end! Haha

Fact- never saw this film.
Don't...

I've brought this up in other threads, but heres a good place to bring it up again I guess haha. Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me for some other guy, under the guise that she needed freedom in college etc. Long story short, we still hang out all the time behind this kids back and behind the backs of everyone she knows (except her parents, who love me). When we are together now (tho it took about a month to get to this) we get along better than ever, have sex all the time, and so on. Yet, she still wants to be with this kid. He found out about us having sex etc.. 2 weeks into their "relationship" (she refuses to admit he is her boyfriend) and they got into a huge fight and broke up, got back together the next day, then they got into a huge fight 2 days ago cause hes an idiot and did some stupid shit at her parents house and they hate him now. Yet, she still wants to make things work there apparently. I just dont fucking get it. Why try to make something so obviously wrong work that early in their relationship, when she already has something that works and is great. Still says "I Love You" and everything like nothing has changed. And just for the record, its not sex (or better sex) that she is looking for, if anything that is why she is still with me lol. Maybe I am just a loser? I dont mean that in a pathetic way, just honestly have no clue wtf is goin on.
Cut her loose man. She is just using you because she knows that you love her and are there for her to fall back on.

This thread has a bad case of the pathetics. I guess I can participate.

Broke up with my girl on Halloween last year. Not over it.
I don't understand how people can break up with someone and "not be over it".

[Deadbolt23]

I don't understand how people can break up with someone and "not be over it".

...? You clearly have no idea what it's like to break up with someone you love.

Edit: And don't put that in quotation marks as if you know that I am actually over it. Tip: You don't know me.

[limepomegranate]

...? You clearly have no idea what it's like to break up with someone you love.

Edit: And don't put that in quotation marks as if you know that I am actually over it. Tip: You don't know me.
All I said was that I don't understand it. No need to get all bitchy. Jesus fucking Christ man.

[Deadbolt23]

All I said was that I don't understand it. No need to get all bitchy. Jesus fucking Christ man.

Okay...I'm sorry. Obviously need to learn to control myself if I'm gonna post about it on the internet. Just seemed like you were saying something because of the quotation marks.

[Ari Christos]

Haha I bet everyone who sees that sign (if it's real) checks to see if they smell after-wards!



I know I would haha. Deodorant sales there are probably skyrocketing.

[limepomegranate]

Okay...I'm sorry. Obviously need to learn to control myself if I'm gonna post about it on the internet. Just seemed like you were saying something because of the quotation marks.
I used that for emphasis I wasn't attacking you or anything. I've had that happen to me where an ex broke up with me and then told me he wasn't over me and I never understood that. That's all.

[limepomegranate]

I know I would haha. Deodorant sales there are probably skyrocketing.
Haha it's probably a plot from the deodorant companies to boost sales!

[Deadbolt23]

I used that for emphasis I wasn't attacking you or anything. I've had that happen to me where an ex broke up with me and then told me he wasn't over me and I never understood that. That's all.

Fair enough. Well, to answer your confusion, I broke up with my girlfriend because the relationship was damaging both of us. Hardest thing I hope I ever do.

[limepomegranate]

Fair enough. Well, to answer your confusion, I broke up with my girlfriend because the relationship was damaging both of us. Hardest thing I hope I ever do.
See if my relationship had been like that maybe I would have understood but it wasn't (at least I think it wasn't from what I remember).

[undonesweater93]

Next time...do the exact opposite. It'll drive her crazy (if she cares) that it seems like you didn't care that she broke up with you. Also, apologize once not more than that ok? Only one apology is needed and texting her a lot like that makes you seem desperate and yes, borderline crazy. Also, you're only 16! Go out and have fun! Besides, chances are whatever girlfriend you have in high school is not who you're going to end up with! I never dated in high school because I knew where I wanted to go to college and I don't believe in long-distance relationships (granted I know they can work) or choosing a college based on where your significant other is going. If you don't go where you want to for college and choose based on your significant other you're not going to be happy. That's just my opinion though!

Well Thanks :) its really great to hear that someone cares because this bitch doesnt fucking care that she hurt me.

[limepomegranate]

Well Thanks :) its really great to hear that someone cares because this bitch doesnt fucking care that she hurt me.
Well that's what makes her a bitch! And your welcome!

[undonesweater93]

Well that's what makes her a bitch! And your welcome!

another thing is i feel like i'm going through stages. sometimes all i want to do is ignore the situation entirely because i just dont care. sometimes all i want to do is talk to her like nothing happened and we never even went out. sometimes all i want to do is justify my reaction. I feel like a basket case

[whoaisame]

I don't understand how people can break up with someone and "not be over it".

Welcome to my life...or hers...or something.

another thing is i feel like i'm going through stages. sometimes all i want to do is ignore the situation entirely because i just dont care. sometimes all i want to do is talk to her like nothing happened and we never even went out. sometimes all i want to do is justify my reaction. I feel like a basket case

Same here dude.

[Tiffany:3]

Fact- never saw this film.
Well you shoooould.

[Tiffany:3]

You never truly do get over the big ones.
You do someday. trust me.

[Tiffany:3]

Dumpsville could also imply that you smell like shit.
haha this,

[Jennurna Gray]

http://netdna.pearsonified.com/images/entries/dumpsville.jpg


Been dumped or had to end it with someone yourself? Need to get something off your chest or get some advice from your fellow bleeding hearts? This is now the thread for you!
James, you should be a car salesman.

[limepomegranate]

James, you should be a car salesman.
I bet he is!

[James Johnson]

James, you should be a car salesman.

I work in online marketing so close?

[Jennurna Gray]

I work in online marketing so close?
If you sell things, close enough, ;]

[Shaned]

ex broke up with me on the 22nd, was only dating for a month and a half but i honestly felt like she could be the one. came out of the blue and was completely devastating. only other time i felt like this was when my first gf of 4 years and i split

[terror_91]

ex broke up with me on the 22nd, was only dating for a month and a half but i honestly felt like she could be the one. came out of the blue and was completely devastating. only other time i felt like this was when my first gf of 4 years and i split
That's shitty bro :-(

[brntsnfan]

Janurary 15th, 2010

After 2 weeks of confused feelings, my girlfriend of 4 years left me to be with another guy. I lost my best friend and the one person that truly knows everything about me. I could go into all of the details, but I'm just so tired of it all.


Totally hear you. Knew this guy since my sophmore year in high school, best friends, dated for 3 yrs. no clue why it ended. i've had about 4 short term relationships after the fact, but im still not over it. sad to say, but every day it's still fresh in my mind and i hate it.

[worthwaiting]

It's been 2 months since he broke up with me. I was quite okey for a while, but the depression is back in action. It kinda sucks that at first all your friends are there for you and ask you out and come visit you, but after a while you are supposed to be better and not whine anymore. But I cant forget those 13 months so easily.

And I hate how you don't only break up with one person but also with his family and friends. I miss belonging there, everyone was so nice to me and when they wished me happy bd it just made me miss old times more.

[ohheroine]

It's been 2 months since he broke up with me. I was quite okey for a while, but the depression is back in action. It kinda sucks that at first all your friends are there for you and ask you out and come visit you, but after a while you are supposed to be better and not whine anymore. But I cant forget those 13 months so easily.

And I hate how you don't only break up with one person but also with his family and friends. I miss belonging there, everyone was so nice to me and when they wished me happy bd it just made me miss old times more.


this. my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me in jan and every day its a struggle. i miss going to his house and being with his friends and family more than anything. i feel like i should be getting over it, but every day i still feel miserable with out him.

[bleach]

We were together for nearly three years, long-distance. I was recovering from depression but fell back and managed to alienate all my friends so I moved to England to be with my boyfriend after graduation. Then his parents came to visit, his mom made him realize that he wasn't happy with me, and he dumped me.

[terror_91]

We were together for nearly three years, long-distance. I was recovering from depression but fell back and managed to alienate all my friends so I moved to England to be with my boyfriend after graduation. Then his parents came to visit, his mom made him realize that he wasn't happy with me, and he dumped me.
That's shit. Can't believe that you moved here of all places as well. That's salt in the wound

[bleach]

That's shit. Can't believe that you moved here of all places as well. That's salt in the wound

I wasn't that far away from you, I was in Leeds.
I actually found it a nice change haha.

[terror_91]

I wasn't that far away from you, I was in Leeds.
I actually found it a nice change haha.
Leeds is quite good actually. It's just rainy up here. All the time. Today was absolutely fucking miserable.

[bleach]

Leeds is quite good actually. It's just rainy up here. All the time. Today was absolutely fucking miserable.
Well that does suck. It's raining here too, though.

[himynameisjohn]

in highschool about 4 years ago this girl broke up with me and became a lesbian. that bruised my ego a bit.

[InvisibleFellon]

fucking just ended. worst feeling ever. fuck fuck

[terror_91]

in highschool about 4 years ago this girl broke up with me and became a lesbian. that bruised my ego a bit.
You turn her gay?:-p

[himynameisjohn]

You turn her gay?:-p

apparently im THAT bad...haha

[Deadbolt23]

And I hate how you don't only break up with one person but also with his family and friends. I miss belonging there, everyone was so nice to me and when they wished me happy bd it just made me miss old times more.

Exactly. Pisses me off.

That's shit. Can't believe that you moved here of all places as well. That's salt in the wound

Be proud.

[istillfeelher]

I was with this girl for only 3 months but she was amazing in every way, we connected so well. So we got together but after a while she got really busy with school and sports and we couldn't see each other much. Our relationship got rocky and I felt like she was putting our relationship last. So we broke it off, but I never got over her.

So her birthday was this past Sunday, This was the first time I had seen her since we broke up. So we start really hitting it off like nothing had happened to us. So after the party she texts me and basically confesses she has feelings for me.

I don't know what to do, I really like her but I'm afraid it wouldn't work out because I can't see her much. It's like our only problem, other than that we had an amazing relationship.
I'm not sure if I should wait until I get a car and my license, or just go for it. I'm afraid if I don't act on this chance then it'll never happen.

[Deadbolt23]

I was with this girl for only 3 months but she was amazing in every way, we connected so well. So we got together but after a while she got really busy with school and sports and we couldn't see each other much. Our relationship got rocky and I felt like she was putting our relationship last. So we broke it off, but I never got over her.

So her birthday was this past Sunday, This was the first time I had seen her since we broke up. So we start really hitting it off like nothing had happened to us. So after the party she texts me and basically confesses she has feelings for me.

I don't know what to do, I really like her but I'm afraid it wouldn't work out because I can't see her much. It's like our only problem, other than that we had an amazing relationship.
I'm not sure if I should wait until I get a car and my license, or just go for it. I'm afraid if I don't act on this chance then it'll never happen.


Just start seeing her. Go slowly at first, and see whether it's working out. If not, then break it off.
Sweet avatar btw.

[terror_91]

Exactly. Pisses me off.



Be proud.
I am sort of but I miss america.

Too much rain here (I'm typing this on the most gorgeous of days aha) for me to like it really. It's depressing.

[Deadbolt23]

I am sort of but I miss america.

Too much rain here (I'm typing this on the most gorgeous of days aha) for me to like it really. It's depressing.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I can't wait to get away this summer. It has been lovely today though.

[terror_91]

Yeah, I know what you mean. I can't wait to get away this summer. It has been lovely today though.
I just sat down now and looked outside and I could swear it is July, actually swear it could be. My house is warm, I had the windows down driving back from school, such a nice day.

All I need is some sunshine in my life and it means I have a good day haha.

[tatmaster3]

vince tried to pick me up at a local chicago bar...

[tatmaster3]

hes very tall lol

[terror_91]

vince tried to pick me up at a local chicago bar...
Who's vince?

[Chancetobe]

Right, so, I was 'seeing' this guy for the past few months. I don't think I ever really liked him, but he was so nice that I kept hanging out with him whenever he asked, thinking maybe chemistry would come. Apparently it hasn't, because, I haven't heard from him for a month. But, I think it's way awkward when guys just cut off contact instead of breaking up with you, so I wanted to say something. Does this sound crazy awkward?

So, it's been a while. Normally when you haven't talked to a guy for a while, it's because they are either crazy busy, or aren't intereted anymore. Past experience tells me it is the latter. Personally, I'm a huge fan of being straight up and honest. So, I was going to ask you which was the case. However, I don't think that is necessary. I just wanted to let you know that you are a really sweet guy, and I wish you the best of luck in jobs, school, writiting, relationships, ect.

[James Johnson]

hes very tall lol

classy picture hahahaha

[Ari Christos]

classy picture hahahaha

I was thinking the same thing haha. I'm kinda flabbergasted, that looks impressive.

[Chancetobe]

You guys are unhelpful.

[James Johnson]

I was thinking the same thing haha. I'm kinda flabbergasted, that looks impressive.

I am equal parts impressed and disgusted hahaha

[James Johnson]

Right, so, I was 'seeing' this guy for the past few months. I don't think I ever really liked him, but he was so nice that I kept hanging out with him whenever he asked, thinking maybe chemistry would come. Apparently it hasn't, because, I haven't heard from him for a month. But, I think it's way awkward when guys just cut off contact instead of breaking up with you, so I wanted to say something. Does this sound crazy awkward?

So, it's been a while. Normally when you haven't talked to a guy for a while, it's because they are either crazy busy, or aren't intereted anymore. Past experience tells me it is the latter. Personally, I'm a huge fan of being straight up and honest. So, I was going to ask you which was the case. However, I don't think that is necessary. I just wanted to let you know that you are a really sweet guy, and I wish you the best of luck in jobs, school, writiting, relationships, ect.

So you were going to end it with this guy but he cut contact first?

Sounds like you got a lucky break unless I read it wrong?

[Ari Christos]

Right, so, I was 'seeing' this guy for the past few months. I don't think I ever really liked him, but he was so nice that I kept hanging out with him whenever he asked, thinking maybe chemistry would come. Apparently it hasn't, because, I haven't heard from him for a month. But, I think it's way awkward when guys just cut off contact instead of breaking up with you, so I wanted to say something. Does this sound crazy awkward?

So, it's been a while. Normally when you haven't talked to a guy for a while, it's because they are either crazy busy, or aren't intereted anymore. Past experience tells me it is the latter. Personally, I'm a huge fan of being straight up and honest. So, I was going to ask you which was the case. However, I don't think that is necessary. I just wanted to let you know that you are a really sweet guy, and I wish you the best of luck in jobs, school, writiting, relationships, ect.

He probably could tell you weren't interested in pursuing a relationship with him and decided to move on. If you weren't interested to begin with, what's the big deal?

[Chancetobe]

So you were going to end it with this guy but he cut contact first?

Sounds like you got a lucky break unless I read it wrong?
I kind of didn't think of it this way. More as, ohh, this is awkawrd, he's my facebook friend, he sees me online, he has my number, and while he once seemed super interested, now all of a sudden he isn't. You think I should just say nothing? It's not awkward to leave something not figured out?

He probably could tell you weren't interested in pursuing a relationship with him and decided to move on. If you weren't interested to begin with, what's the big deal?
1. The awkward thing described above. 2. Who likes to be dumped?

[Ari Christos]

I kind of didn't think of it this way. More as, ohh, this is awkawrd, he's my facebook friend, he sees me online, he has my number, and while he once seemed super interested, now all of a sudden he isn't. You think I should just say nothing? It's not awkward to leave something not figured out?


1. The awkward thing described above. 2. Who likes to be dumped?

No one likes to be dumped, but if you didn't have feelings for the person I don't see it as anything more than a brush off your shoulders. The awkward thing might be weird, but it's already been a month. If you want to sorta get proper closure on the situation, talk to him the next chance you get and just be honest if you want to find out. Ask him why you guys stopped talking because he was a real nice guy.

[Chancetobe]

No one likes to be dumped, but if you didn't have feelings for the person I don't see it as anything more than a brush off your shoulders. The awkward thing might be weird, but it's already been a month. If you want to sorta get proper closure on the situation, talk to him the next chance you get and just be honest if you want to find out. Ask him why you guys stopped talking because he was a real nice guy.
I'm bad at conversations like that. Which is why I perfer the message mode. Plenty of time to think out what you want to say, then close your eyes, press send, and quit thinking about it.

[James Johnson]

I kind of didn't think of it this way. More as, ohh, this is awkawrd, he's my facebook friend, he sees me online, he has my number, and while he once seemed super interested, now all of a sudden he isn't. You think I should just say nothing? It's not awkward to leave something not figured out?


1. The awkward thing described above. 2. Who likes to be dumped?

You are insane if you pursue it further but want nothing from him in future. Literally insane.

[Chancetobe]

You are insane if you pursue it further but want nothing from him in future. Literally insane.
Boys don't think at all the way that girls do. I think girls always want the closure, and guys just don't care. But ok. I'll refrain I guess. Because I don't want to be the crazy chic. I like to pride myself on being fairly sane.

[James Johnson]

Boys don't think at all the way that girls do. I think girls always want the closure, and guys just don't care. But ok. I'll refrain I guess. Because I don't want to be the crazy chic. I like to pride myself on being fairly sane.

No you have me all wrong! I ALWAYS want closure but there won't be anything you will want to hear if you do pursue- it will either be vague disinterest or something negative about you that made it happen. No need to really hear either regardless right? Just count your blessings and be grateful you got out of a potentially awkward conversation.

[Chancetobe]

No you have me all wrong! I ALWAYS want closure but there won't be anything you will want to hear if you do pursue- it will either be vague disinterest or something negative about you that made it happen. No need to really hear either regardless right? Just count your blessings and be grateful you got out of a potentially awkward conversation.
No wonder your the PL mod. You make a good point.

[James Johnson]

No wonder your the PL mod. You make a good point.

Made enough mistakes in my PL over the years to earn the role I think hahaha I did not choose PL, it was chosen for me. Typical. :-d

[Chancetobe]

Made enough mistakes in my PL over the years to earn the role I think hahaha I did not choose PL, it was chosen for me. Typical. :-d
I think the past year or so has been me making all my mistakes/needing advice/finally having some authority to give advice. Anyway, yeah, I guess you kind of got the short end of the stick, but you can always work your way up from not being paid to mod PL to not being paid to mod Music. And there's that sweet green name. Which, really, what more do you need? ;-)

[Chancetobe]

Wow, I feel uncomfortable even typing out the winky face, let alone seeing it on the page. I want that thing changed to be less creepy and constipated looking so bad.

[James Johnson]

I think the past year or so has been me making all my mistakes/needing advice/finally having some authority to give advice. Anyway, yeah, I guess you kind of got the short end of the stick, but you can always work your way up from not being paid to mod PL to not being paid to mod Music. And there's that sweet green name. Which, really, what more do you need? ;-)

To be honest I was wary of this role at first but I prefer it to any of the other forums for moderation now. :-)

[bung]

edit; n/m exact same advice above

[terror_91]

To be honest I was wary of this role at first but I prefer it to any of the other forums for moderation now. :-)
I inferred that that is pretty much because of my wit and whimsy. There is no need to thank me.

[steve187]

Someone kept prank calling me the other night and just playing the audio to this movie and not talking at all..was pretty creepy.

[tatmaster3]

hey guys haha stop making fun of my picture!

[terror_91]

hey guys haha stop making fun of my picture!
Have you got any pictures of yourself doing that with a penis? If so, post.

Kindest regards,
Terror.

[caress me down]

I be dumped

[brunoo]

sssssssssss

[MDPSKSK]

So I had to break up with my boy friend. We went out for 11 months. He was just being a dick basically and I had to end it. We decided that we were going to be friends. It was fine for about two days, except for the awkwardness. But then he called me while i was at practice yelling at me because I supposedly said that the only reason we broke up was so he could get with his cousin. I did not say that. That's gross. So we didn't talk for a few weeks, but the decided to give being friends a try again. Two days later... Found out he cheated on me with a 25 year old married woman with three children. I don't think we are supposed to be friends. Haha

[Deadbolt23]

So I had to break up with my boy friend. We went out for 11 months. He was just being a dick basically and I had to end it. We decided that we were going to be friends. It was fine for about two days, except for the awkwardness. But then he called me while i was at practice yelling at me because I supposedly said that the only reason we broke up was so he could get with his cousin. I did not say that. That's gross. So we didn't talk for a few weeks, but the decided to give being friends a try again. Two days later... Found out he cheated on me with a 25 year old married woman with three children. I don't think we are supposed to be friends. Haha

He sounds all kinds of classy.

[MDPSKSK]

He sounds all kinds of classy.

Oh yes. He is. After we broke up, he asked if we could have sex. Let's just say, I am glad I am moving soon.

[Deadbolt23]

Oh yes. He is. After we broke up, he asked if we could have sex. Let's just say, I am glad I am moving soon.

Yeah...Why were you dating this guy again?

[MDPSKSK]

Yeah...Why were you dating this guy again?

He was cool for the first 8 or 9 months. Then he was just a dick. And I put up with it for a few months, but I got sick of it. So I finally broke up with him. Obviously that was a good decision. It's funny how it takes a very very long time to truly see how someone really is.

[Deadbolt23]

He was cool for the first 8 or 9 months. Then he was just a dick. And I put up with it for a few months, but I got sick of it. So I finally broke up with him. Obviously that was a good decision. It's funny how it takes a very very long time to truly see how someone really is.

Yeah...people change. It isn't easy to find someone that you don't think is an idiot after a year.

[MDPSKSK]

Yeah...people change. It isn't easy to find someone that you don't think is an idiot after a year.


Haha. That's awful. Pretty much sucks. But it's very true. It's easy to find friends. But not someone to date.
I'm just happy that his car broke down the day after we broke up... He loved that car.

[Deadbolt23]

Haha. That's awful. Pretty much sucks. But it's very true. It's easy to find friends. But not someone to date.
I'm just happy that his car broke down the day after we broke up... He loved that car.

Comfort comes in silly packages.

[-whisp-]

I hate that I still think about my ex every now and then. I just want to forget about him completely. If it's true what they say that it takes half the time you were with that person to get over them properly, then that sucks.

[Thesleepingwell]

I hate that I still think about my ex every now and then. I just want to forget about him completely. If it's true what they say that it takes half the time you were with that person to get over them properly, then that sucks.

Always the problem with anyone you've dated or really liked.
I've got the same problem and I agree, it totally sucks.

[quitmyscene]

Hello, personal life thread.

I guess I'll rant here. I don't know what I'm doing. We were dating for.. let's see.. 45 months? 4 years in July. We've been living together since May 09. We haven't had any really big fights recently, but we had to talk to the landlord about getting a new lease and my first reaction was scared/stuck. It's just a bunch of little things that haven't changed and I found myself thinking that I had to leave now, because if I don't, I never will and I shouldn't feel "stuck" or whatever. Three days ago, I broke up with him. This is much harder than I imagined it would be. I thought it was a better, more mature decision to break up with him when I wanted to instead of just dragging it out and waiting until the lease is up. I didn't want to stay together just because I felt like we had to, you know? However.. we're still living together. It's SO hard to not kiss him/cuddle/have sex/etc. He's trying to change and is acting better, but I'm afraid that it's just like it always is - after a big fight, things would be "fixed" for a few weeks, then go back to normal until it built up to another big fight because you can't make somebody change.

And now I just don't know what I'm doing. I'm afraid if I stay and sign the lease, things won't change. Yet, if I leave... that'll be that. I know I wanted to leave, but now that I've made my decision, I can't remember the specifics of why I wanted to go and I'm afraid I'm making a big mistake. At the least, I can tell he's really making an effort and is trying to get me to stay. I don't know what I want to do anymore.

[terror_91]

I hate that I still think about my ex every now and then. I just want to forget about him completely. If it's true what they say that it takes half the time you were with that person to get over them properly, then that sucks.
Try distracting yourself with something else? Carry a gameboy around with you and whenever you start thinking about him start playing it.

[terror_91]

Hello, personal life thread.

I guess I'll rant here. I don't know what I'm doing. We were dating for.. let's see.. 45 months? 4 years in July. We've been living together since May 09. We haven't had any really big fights recently, but we had to talk to the landlord about getting a new lease and my first reaction was scared/stuck. It's just a bunch of little things that haven't changed and I found myself thinking that I had to leave now, because if I don't, I never will and I shouldn't feel "stuck" or whatever. Three days ago, I broke up with him. This is much harder than I imagined it would be. I thought it was a better, more mature decision to break up with him when I wanted to instead of just dragging it out and waiting until the lease is up. I didn't want to stay together just because I felt like we had to, you know? However.. we're still living together. It's SO hard to not kiss him/cuddle/have sex/etc. He's trying to change and is acting better, but I'm afraid that it's just like it always is - after a big fight, things would be "fixed" for a few weeks, then go back to normal until it built up to another big fight because you can't make somebody change.

And now I just don't know what I'm doing. I'm afraid if I stay and sign the lease, things won't change. Yet, if I leave... that'll be that. I know I wanted to leave, but now that I've made my decision, I can't remember the specifics of why I wanted to go and I'm afraid I'm making a big mistake. At the least, I can tell he's really making an effort and is trying to get me to stay. I don't know what I want to do anymore.
I'm really not sure what to say to this. On one hand, you obviously like him enough for it not to be a problem being around him and still doing things with him. On the other, you keep saying that things build up and up until they boil over into a fight.

Maybe you should try and defuse stuff before it becomes an issue. That's all I have, I know it's pretty much useless as advice for your problem but this shit is complex. Try speaking it through with your mum/best friend.

[-whisp-]

Try distracting yourself with something else? Carry a gameboy around with you and whenever you start thinking about him start playing it.

If I had one I'd totally do that. I've been trying to find a game that works on my Mac but it's been pretty impossible so I just watch episodes of different shows online.

[terror_91]

If I had one I'd totally do that. I've been trying to find a game that works on my Mac but it's been pretty impossible so I just watch episodes of different shows online.
Get the sims or something like that? Either that or World of Warcraft :-p

[-whisp-]

Get the sims or something like that? Either that or World of Warcraft :-p

hah I played World of Warcraft for 2 years (it's how I met my ex), I quit early last year and have no real reason to go back other than to waste time. I have thought about it, believe me, but I don't want to get into it again as it's my final most important year of my education. I am waiting for the new Star Wars mmo to come out this year though haha.

[terror_91]

hah I played World of Warcraft for 2 years (it's how I met my ex), I quit early last year and have no real reason to go back other than to waste time. I have thought about it, believe me, but I don't want to get into it again as it's my final most important year of my education. I am waiting for the new Star Wars mmo to come out this year though haha.
I stopped playing for my exams now as well haha. I was never any good at it. Always been an fps guy really. I've stopped following PC game news really, what's the Star Wars MMO looking like? Decent?

[-whisp-]

I stopped playing for my exams now as well haha. I was never any good at it. Always been an fps guy really. I've stopped following PC game news really, what's the Star Wars MMO looking like? Decent?

I haven't really kept up with it but there are some pretty awesome trailers on youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjhJcm-lpjc&feature=related
That's not the video I wanted to show, but it still gets me pretty excited.

[terror_91]

I haven't really kept up with it but there are some pretty awesome trailers on youtube.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VjhJcm-lpjc&feature=related
That's not the video I wanted to show, but it still gets me pretty excited.
That looks sick.

Also lol at the highest rated comment:

"Jethar2 (http://www.youtube.com/user/Jethar2) omgomgomg *fapfapfap*"

[-whisp-]

That looks sick.

Also lol at the highest rated comment:

"Jethar2 (http://www.youtube.com/user/Jethar2) omgomgomg *fapfapfap*"

haha yea that did give me a laugh.

[terror_91]

haha yea that did give me a laugh.
You decided what you are going to do to help you stop thinking about your ex?

[-whisp-]

You decided what you are going to do to help you stop thinking about your ex?

Not really no, not much I can do. I just think to much about everything... to top it off I was meant to fly back home tomorrow for a week but all UK flights have been canceled until we know further information about this ash cloud eruption thing.

[terror_91]

Not really no, not much I can do. I just think to much about everything... to top it off I was meant to fly back home tomorrow for a week but all UK flights have been canceled until we know further information about this ash cloud eruption thing.
That's shitty. I think they were only cancelled for today?
Where abouts are you if you don't mind me asking?

[-whisp-]

That's shitty. I think they were only cancelled for today?
Where abouts are you if you don't mind me asking?

Nah, it can go until tomorrow or even the weekend. I'm in Falmouth right now but home is Switzerland.

[terror_91]

Nah, it can go until tomorrow or even the weekend. I'm in Falmouth right now but home is Switzerland.
That sucks. I've not even seen the cloud yet. I read about how it stopped all four engines of a plane though. It's worthwhile keeping them on the ground :-p
Ah, cool. What you doing in England?

[-whisp-]

That sucks. I've not even seen the cloud yet. I read about how it stopped all four engines of a plane though. It's worthwhile keeping them on the ground :-p
Ah, cool. What you doing in England?

Thing is, I have to travel to Bristol airport which is about 5 hours by train so I won't know what's going on until I get there. I could be homeless for a night or two haha.
Just doing my studies over here, this is my fourth year.

[terror_91]

Thing is, I have to travel to Bristol airport which is about 5 hours by train so I won't know what's going on until I get there. I could be homeless for a night or two haha.
Just doing my studies over here, this is my fourth year.
That's pretty long. Sleeping in an airport isn't that bad. I've done it for connections for a couple hours and stuff.
Did you do a year in industry or something? Maybe a language? I don't know any other 4 year courses :-(

[-whisp-]

That's pretty long. Sleeping in an airport isn't that bad. I've done it for connections for a couple hours and stuff.
Did you do a year in industry or something? Maybe a language? I don't know any other 4 year courses :-(

Yea, I'm not that fussed really... as long as I'm not sleeping there for more than two days!
Nah, I did a 3 year BA and now I'm in the midst of doing my MA. No plans for what's next.

[terror_91]

Yea, I'm not that fussed really... as long as I'm not sleeping there for more than two days!
Nah, I did a 3 year BA and now I'm in the midst of doing my MA. No plans for what's next.
You could be like the film with Tom Hanks where he lives in an airport.
Damn, I thought I was going to get it. What have you got your BA in? I'll be starting my course this September hopefully, Politics at Notts.

[-whisp-]

You could be like the film with Tom Hanks where he lives in an airport.
Damn, I thought I was going to get it. What have you got your BA in? I'll be starting my course this September hopefully, Politics at Notts.

haha completely, that makes me feel a bit better.
Graphic Design. Oh nice, sounds good! I know someone who went to Nottingham, not a safe area from what I've heard. But I see that you're in Manchester which is probably just as bad. Another friend of mine is studying in Manchester and she's told me some crazy stories about crime over there.

[terror_91]

haha completely, that makes me feel a bit better.
Graphic Design. Oh nice, sounds good! I know someone who went to Nottingham, not a safe area from what I've heard. But I see that you're in Manchester which is probably just as bad. Another friend of mine is studying in Manchester and she's told me some crazy stories about crime over there.
Stop insulting all the places that I'm going to be living in :P
I live in a pretty decent area so I've not really been a victim of crime but some parts used to be really bad. What have you heard about Nottingham? You're scaring me now :P

[-whisp-]

Stop insulting all the places that I'm going to be living in :P
I live in a pretty decent area so I've not really been a victim of crime but some parts used to be really bad. What have you heard about Nottingham? You're scaring me now :P

hahaha well if it makes you feel any better I lived in Coventry aka Chaventry for my first 3 years which was/is a real shithole. I haven't heard much of Nottingham but a friend of mine got mugged/held up by knife..and he's a pretty big guy. I'm sure you'll be just fine though! Don't mean to scare you.
I'm going to head off now and catch some sleep as I have to get up quite early tomorrow. Nice chatting with you!

[terror_91]

hahaha well if it makes you feel any better I lived in Coventry aka Chaventry for my first 3 years which was/is a real shithole. I haven't heard much of Nottingham but a friend of mine got mugged/held up by knife..and he's a pretty big guy. I'm sure you'll be just fine though! Don't mean to scare you.
I'm going to head off now and catch some sleep as I have to get up quite early tomorrow. Nice chatting with you!
You got to warwick uni then?
Shit, I'm a pretty big guy aswell. That doesn't bode well.
So do, the pleasure was mine.

[-whisp-]

You got to warwick uni then?
Shit, I'm a pretty big guy aswell. That doesn't bode well.
So do, the pleasure was mine.

Nope it was Cov Uni. Warwick doesn't do graphics, very nice campus though.
So yeah, I won't be going home at all. Flight got canceled, was denied a refund for my train tickets, shit day pretty much!

[terror_91]

Nope it was Cov Uni. Warwick doesn't do graphics, very nice campus though.
So yeah, I won't be going home at all. Flight got canceled, was denied a refund for my train tickets, shit day pretty much!
Did you make your avatar?
My mum was planning to go to florida to go to her friend's 60th but she was also grounded. Who would've guessed a volcano would have done this?

[-whisp-]

Did you make your avatar?
My mum was planning to go to florida to go to her friend's 60th but she was also grounded. Who would've guessed a volcano would have done this?

I wish I did! It's a t-shirt design that I found online.
That's a shame, is she still planning to go? Would be sad if she missed it. Yea, it's insane how huge this eruption has caused.

[terror_91]

I wish I did! It's a t-shirt design that I found online.
That's a shame, is she still planning to go? Would be sad if she missed it. Yea, it's insane how huge this eruption has caused.
It's cool.
Yeah, she says she is going to go in october. It was one of her friend's birthdays which she is sort of bummed out about missing but there isn't much she can do.
They say it could last a year haha. The airlines have asked for a review about the flight ban though. Can't believe all the flights are still closed off; it's just crazy.

[aimee<3]

i liked this guy and have known him for more than 2 years and, i know people always say this but its true, i have never liked someone as much as i liked him. he biggest crush ive ever had. Well last year we started texting each other non-stop and eventually he told me he liked me. So, three days later he asks me to be his girlfriend ( again we've known each other for a while so this wasnt weird). well then three days later he finds out he has to move... to P.A. he told me the next day on our first date. he didnt want to tell me before the date so things wouldnt be weird, in a way im glad he didnt tell me before but it also still killed me. the reason he moved is becasue his parents are pastors for the Salvation Army in my town and the are suppose to stay in an area for about 3 years then move, they were here for 16 years so thats why it was a surprise. but the point to my story is.. it broke my heart cause i could see myself falling for him and now he is gone.

we dont talk any more... and when i think back about it, even though its been about a year ago, i get teary-eyed and it hurts.... ill never get over him

[terror_91]

i liked this guy and have known him for more than 2 years and, i know people always say this but its true, i have never liked someone as much as i liked him. he biggest crush ive ever had. Well last year we started texting each other non-stop and eventually he told me he liked me. So, three days later he asks me to be his girlfriend ( again we've known each other for a while so this wasnt weird). well then three days later he finds out he has to move... to P.A. he told me the next day on our first date. he didnt want to tell me before the date so things wouldnt be weird, in a way im glad he didnt tell me before but it also still killed me. the reason he moved is becasue his parents are pastors for the Salvation Army in my town and the are suppose to stay in an area for about 3 years then move, they were here for 16 years so thats why it was a surprise. but the point to my story is.. it broke my heart cause i could see myself falling for him and now he is gone.

we dont talk any more... and when i think back about it, even though its been about a year ago, i get teary-eyed and it hurts.... ill never get over him
That's really shitty but you just have to move on. There is little you can do but realise it wasn't meant to be and move on.

[aimee<3]

That's really shitty but you just have to move on. There is little you can do but realise it wasn't meant to be and move on.

i said ill never get over him but im moving on(slowly but surely) i actually have a new boyfriend ill always miss him but i know i shouldnt sit back and think the world ended because of one guy lol

[-whisp-]

It's cool.
Yeah, she says she is going to go in october. It was one of her friend's birthdays which she is sort of bummed out about missing but there isn't much she can do.
They say it could last a year haha. The airlines have asked for a review about the flight ban though. Can't believe all the flights are still closed off; it's just crazy.

It's refreshing to see a British person say 'bummed out' in a context that I would use it in. When I said that to my ex once he was shocked and said that it means something completely different in England, turns out he meant it in a dirty way ha.
It's insane how long this eruption is lasting...two friends of mine are in Amsterdam and I have no idea if they will be able to come back in time for when classes start up again on Monday. I've heard that some airports are opening up today but who knows for how long.

[OhCesar]

it was funny, I got dumped, but i think it added to the situation

[terror_91]

It's refreshing to see a British person say 'bummed out' in a context that I would use it in. When I said that to my ex once he was shocked and said that it means something completely different in England, turns out he meant it in a dirty way ha.
It's insane how long this eruption is lasting...two friends of mine are in Amsterdam and I have no idea if they will be able to come back in time for when classes start up again on Monday. I've heard that some airports are opening up today but who knows for how long.
Hah. I always thought bummed meant anal and bummed out meant upset.
Looks like most of it is gone now. To be fair, I really wouldn't mind being stuck somewhere interesting like Amsterdam. It would suck if it was like Calais but somewhere like Amsterdam would be great.

[Richard Maxim]

I'm going through a Nasty breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years and she still wants to be friends. Were going through the whole having sex when we should just be hanging out trying to be friends. It really is heartbreaking for me, listening back on the songs that we used to listen to together and thinking about how good things were when we first got together. I love her so much but what we have is toxic, getting together and breaking up over and over again.

[Posthardcore]

Girlfriend of 5 years put us on a break for a day... Dumb as hell. She got on my facebook and read my inbox messages my ex and I had written to eachother. I knew I shouldn't of added her but did anyway and now I have a little bit of feelings for her. Basically, I am fucked but I don't think the ex likes me much if at all in return so I think I might be good.

[AlexEnglish]

Here goes.

For a while, my girlfriend and I have been very iffy about our relationship, for many reasons (shes been flirting with other guys been needy, ive been not as interested, busy with other stuff) and i decided to end it right after her prom (her being in high school, I have already graduated). My plan was to go over to her house after prom, with my friend in the car so i have an excuse to leave when nessesary, and do it in a matter of ten minutes.
Last night, after another minor argument, she asks me " are you going to break up with me, I just want to know". It sucked lying to her for a while, she had been asking this question. So I told her yes, all the reasons included. Instead of breaking down, (______, your my everything, i love you dont leave me ill change), and begging like i thought she would (she did last time), she accepted it. Which was wierd, because it was almost the polar opposite of what i expected to happen. She called me back a few hours later, and we talked about it a little more, just why i did it, her feelings on it, how im getting most of my shit back, and if i am going to prom with her.
In conclusion, its strange how she is taking it. The main reason why it sucked doing this to her is that we were dating for a year and a half, and i didnt want to hurt her. It just sucks knowing that shes hurting and short of dating her again, I wish i could make her not hurt because she is still one of my best friends. We decided that after a little while, were going to hang out and be friends again, because after all that time, we cant cut eachother out of our lives.
just throwing all this out there, because majority of my posts have been on PL hahha

[SgtSmegma]

I'm going through a Nasty breakup with my girlfriend of 4 years and she still wants to be friends. Were going through the whole having sex when we should just be hanging out trying to be friends. It really is heartbreaking for me, listening back on the songs that we used to listen to together and thinking about how good things were when we first got together. I love her so much but what we have is toxic, getting together and breaking up over and over again.

As bad as it sucks, you need to either get back together or cut off all ties. Being friends is not possible in that close proximity of a break up. Maybe years down the line it will be possible, but not now.

[worthwaiting]

As bad as it sucks, you need to either get back together or cut off all ties. Being friends is not possible in that close proximity of a break up. Maybe years down the line it will be possible, but not now.
I agree.

I was dumped 4,5 months ago, it was my first love and it hurt like hell. At first I felt so tempted to talk to him 'cause I was so used to it and missed it so much and couldn't still totally accept the fact that he is out of my life, but my friends advised me not to and it was a really good advice. I made myself deadlines, like after 2 months I can talk to him. But when that time came I didn't even want to 'cause by that time I was so mad about the way he treated me in past months of our relationship.
But now, after 4,5 months, I think I'm ready to talk to him (we live in different cities so it will be through msn so a lot easier than in real life). I'm not mad anymore. I know the man I loved lived in the past. I know I don't want back the relationship we had in the end, I only miss how things were in olden days, but I know those days are gone and it's just something to accept.


I don't know what he will think when I start talking after that long time, hopefully not that I want to get back together with him. And actually I'm a bit disappointed that he haven't asked me how I'm doing (only wished me happy birthday). Maybe he is thinking it's good for me 'cause I know when he was dumped in his previous relationships, he cut off all communication, not even saying happy birthday or anything.

[terror_91]

Girlfriend of 5 years put us on a break for a day... Dumb as hell. She got on my facebook and read my inbox messages my ex and I had written to eachother. I knew I shouldn't of added her but did anyway and now I have a little bit of feelings for her. Basically, I am fucked but I don't think the ex likes me much if at all in return so I think I might be good.
It doesn't sound like this is a good situation for you mate. It sounds like you are getting your hurt over and over and that is not good for you. I think your best option is to cut it off completely.
Here goes.

For a while, my girlfriend and I have been very iffy about our relationship, for many reasons (shes been flirting with other guys been needy, ive been not as interested, busy with other stuff) and i decided to end it right after her prom (her being in high school, I have already graduated). My plan was to go over to her house after prom, with my friend in the car so i have an excuse to leave when nessesary, and do it in a matter of ten minutes.
Last night, after another minor argument, she asks me " are you going to break up with me, I just want to know". It sucked lying to her for a while, she had been asking this question. So I told her yes, all the reasons included. Instead of breaking down, (______, your my everything, i love you dont leave me ill change), and begging like i thought she would (she did last time), she accepted it. Which was wierd, because it was almost the polar opposite of what i expected to happen. She called me back a few hours later, and we talked about it a little more, just why i did it, her feelings on it, how im getting most of my shit back, and if i am going to prom with her.
In conclusion, its strange how she is taking it. The main reason why it sucked doing this to her is that we were dating for a year and a half, and i didnt want to hurt her. It just sucks knowing that shes hurting and short of dating her again, I wish i could make her not hurt because she is still one of my best friends. We decided that after a little while, were going to hang out and be friends again, because after all that time, we cant cut eachother out of our lives.
just throwing all this out there, because majority of my posts have been on PL hahha
Don't end up like the other guy I quoted. You could end up dragging it out for a long time.

[7dollarsox.com]

i have a question for all you guys and gals too. i recently went through a break up, and it didnt last very long, but i was very comfortable with her very fast, something that rarely happens with me. i know in my brain that it was a healthy move, but im still having a really hard time with it. shes kind of a terrible person and into some terrible things, and i really wanted to see her through it because i know there is a good person inside her buried way deep down, but i cant do it.

anyway, i need to really cut her out of my life, but im having the hardest time not talking to her anymore. like she barely talks to me, unless i dont talk to her. i drunk text her all the damn time, and its so stupid. shes been hanging with this new dude who is just an awful human being, and is just going to further her destructive lifestyle, so i worry about her. a lot.

anyway, do you guys have any tips for cutting people out of yr life? or at least not talking to them anymore? i know that if i just stop talking to her, ill be cool in no time.

[terror_91]

i have a question for all you guys and gals too. i recently went through a break up, and it didnt last very long, but i was very comfortable with her very fast, something that rarely happens with me. i know in my brain that it was a healthy move, but im still having a really hard time with it. shes kind of a terrible person and into some terrible things, and i really wanted to see her through it because i know there is a good person inside her buried way deep down, but i cant do it.

anyway, i need to really cut her out of my life, but im having the hardest time not talking to her anymore. like she barely talks to me, unless i dont talk to her. i drunk text her all the damn time, and its so stupid. shes been hanging with this new dude who is just an awful human being, and is just going to further her destructive lifestyle, so i worry about her. a lot.

anyway, do you guys have any tips for cutting people out of yr life? or at least not talking to them anymore? i know that if i just stop talking to her, ill be cool in no time.
Delete the ways you can contact her. Easy.

[AFHA125]

My girlfriend of 1 year and I just ended. Hardest thing I've ever been through in my life. Makes me feel like I'll never find anyone again.

[lynnie]

I feel broken :(

[Jaimehere]

I feel broken :(

share the story why so the people of AP can help

[whoaisame]

Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up 6 months ago and she has been with another guy ever since. Cannot fuckin get over it no matter how hard I try. Fucking torture.

[Hell Yeah Aaron]

never saw it

[marchofmarty]

Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up 6 months ago and she has been with another guy ever since. Cannot fuckin get over it no matter how hard I try. Fucking torture.

I feel you. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up almost 3 years ago (4th of July '07) and a week after we broke up she started dating a new guy and has been with him ever since. I was borderline depressed for almost a year. It still bothers me to this day, but things eventually get better.

Kind of weird that a girl can date you for so long and end up being with a new guy right after you break up and fall in love with him.

[terror_91]

I feel you. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up almost 3 years ago (4th of July '07) and a week after we broke up she started dating a new guy and has been with him ever since. I was borderline depressed for almost a year. It still bothers me to this day, but things eventually get better.

Kind of weird that a girl can date you for so long and end up being with a new guy right after you break up and fall in love with him.
That assumes that she fell in love straight away and she hadn't fallen in love earlier.

Enjoy that thought.

[whoaisame]

I feel you. Me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up almost 3 years ago (4th of July '07) and a week after we broke up she started dating a new guy and has been with him ever since. I was borderline depressed for almost a year. It still bothers me to this day, but things eventually get better.

Kind of weird that a girl can date you for so long and end up being with a new guy right after you break up and fall in love with him.

She left me for him. Even worse. It's the worse nightmare I can think of.

[James Johnson]

She left me for him. Even worse. It's the worse nightmare I can think of.

Been there, suffered that.
Hang in there!

[ohheroine]

my boyfriend and i broke up in jan. i keep thinking its going to get better but even now with it almost june i have a hard time talking to other guys as more than friends and only see myself fitting back with him :/

[James Johnson]

my boyfriend and i broke up in jan. i keep thinking its going to get better but even now with it almost june i have a hard time talking to other guys as more than friends and only see myself fitting back with him :/

This is pretty common when the person has such a massive impact on your life for such a long time. Its kind of like a tiger in a zoo, after long enough they forget how to hunt and survive in the wilderness. Be tough and push yourself.

[StephenYoung]

I read these posts, and I have a really convinced feeling that I'm going to be the person to break my girlfriend's heart in the future, and she's going to be just like everyone here. That's almost as bad as being the broken-upee :(

[Richard Maxim]

I'm in love with my ex but I don't want to be with her cause she cheated on me. FML

[Burn That Shit]

I'm in love with my ex but I don't want to be with her cause she cheated on me. FML

solution: murderize her, with a stick. this will relieve your anger for her cheating on you, and also your sexual desire as you can have all the sex with her orifices and whatnot after she's dead.

[Richard Maxim]

solution: murderize her, with a stick. this will relieve your anger for her cheating on you, and also your sexual desire as you can have all the sex with her orifices and whatnot after she's dead.

Sounds like a fool-proof plan, I'll keep you updated.

[tmagrosky]

my girlfriend broke up with me this past august when i left jersey to go to school in florida, we were inseparable when we were dating and we went through alot together, when i came home for christmas, just as i was getting over her and finally moving on she calls me and texts me about her personal issues (real serious stuff), it was alot to deal with and we fought and it really messed with my head, i got into drugs, and drank pretty hard the last semester, and now that im home again it seems like il never move on and the sad thing is its really affecting me socially

[Sargent Sausage]

me and my gf of two years broke up yesterday (final time)... it was fucked, this happen during the day, then i seen her at the club making out with some guy that she was always texting when we were going out. when i seen that, no words can describe how sick to my stomach i got. im fucking depressed. confidence is at an all time low and i dont no what to do with myself... just keep replaying the scene over and over again.... they prob did more then kiss , whoops excuse me, i must use the facilities cuz im gonna be sick.

[Kid CudI]

well theres nothing wrong

[ChelseaRiane]

I've never been dumped, but I have been the dumper hah It was hard to do and I was still miserable after it happened even though it was my choice. Now I'm in a relationship, I'm happy for the most part but our relationship is extremely complicated. Well how we got together, not now. But we fight a lot and he says I'm a horrible girlfriend. And that I dont care enough. I just can't bring myself to leave him. Also, he wont leave me, so I cant be that bad, right?

[bunneh.]

Let me give it to you straight, AP.

So My ex and I broke up, oh about 40 minutes ago. We dated for almost 2 years and had many ups and downs but I always went out on a limb for her, always put her first and tried to make her happy. Last summer she got drunk and fooled around with some guy and I was a wreck about that for so long. I've dealt with it pretty well and I stayed with her through it. I don't know if I regret it or not because I really do love her and we ended up having many a great times even after that all happened.

I had some minor depression problems before that little incident last summer and if anything, that whole situation amplified it so much more and I've been dealing with it ever since.

(For some insight, after it happened, i lost 20 pounds over 3 days from not eating. It's not that I didn't want to, my body physically couldn't.)

We argued more, I was seeing a counselor at college for some time and to be honest, it really helped. Going on meds has been a lasting issue in my head and I really want to try and make it without them but I digress.

We argued a lot more, my temper was shorter and to be honest, there was a part of me that still resented her but I tried to dilute it as much as I could through time. Underneath it all, i know she really hates herself for doing it and i think it really snowballed into the roots of most of our problems today. Well, yesterday.

See I know people argue. It just happens when you're around someone for so long. You take them for granted and sometimes its not as easy as you may want it to be. But relationships take a lot of work once you get going at them. It's not all fucking butterflies and snowflakes. Her reasons for not wanting to continue our relationship was that she was exhausted from arguing and generally unhappy - a fact that until now, I was pretty much oblivious to. She is horrible at communicating how she feels and when we do argue, I tend to lead the conversation. Lately her temper has been much shorter, she's increasingly defensive and snippy. And she doesn't realize that it doesn't help a thing. It makes them so much worse and all the while, i'm trying to work on my attitude and be patient. How am i supposed to accomplish anything when she is doing the opposite? It's so difficult.

And i mention all this shit stuff because well, I feel like shit. But I love spending time with her and I truely don't understand how 'unhappy' she can be. We have a great time together. Inside jokes, active lifestyles, the works. She is really nice to be around. I'm so lost, you know?

In all honesty, I'm doing better then I should be, mostly because we've come so close to breaking up before, that I've suffered through a lot of it already. But the ONE thing that gets me is all the parties she will go to and all of the guys she will meet, make out with and fuck. I swear, that's the shittiest thing I'm feeling about right now. Nothing makes me more upset because I had liberties with her body and herself that other guys are going to get to enjoy now. Son of a bitch.

That was all very cut and dry, but I had to get it out of my head. I've gone through so much with this girl, good and bad. And if tomorrow, she decided she wanted to get back together and that she would genuinely try better to communicate, I would get back with her in a second. Reading this, yep. Sounds fucking crazy. But I would really look forward to what could come of us if she made some changes like I have and decided it was all really worth it. I'm really broken up about it and I'm really afraid of how I'm going to feel given my deeply depressive history.

But if worse comes to worse, there's this really hot chick who works in the library that i've been dying to meet.


EDIT: And it blows that this happens to be my 412th post, because she's from Pittsburgh and that's the area code. Fack.

[terror_91]

Let me give it to you straight, AP.

So My ex and I broke up, oh about 40 minutes ago. We dated for almost 2 years and had many ups and downs but I always went out on a limb for her, always put her first and tried to make her happy. Last summer she got drunk and fooled around with some guy and I was a wreck about that for so long. I've dealt with it pretty well and I stayed with her through it. I don't know if I regret it or not because I really do love her and we ended up having many a great times even after that all happened.

I had some minor depression problems before that little incident last summer and if anything, that whole situation amplified it so much more and I've been dealing with it ever since.

(For some insight, after it happened, i lost 20 pounds over 3 days from not eating. It's not that I didn't want to, my body physically couldn't.)

We argued more, I was seeing a counselor at college for some time and to be honest, it really helped. Going on meds has been a lasting issue in my head and I really want to try and make it without them but I digress.

We argued a lot more, my temper was shorter and to be honest, there was a part of me that still resented her but I tried to dilute it as much as I could through time. Underneath it all, i know she really hates herself for doing it and i think it really snowballed into the roots of most of our problems today. Well, yesterday.

See I know people argue. It just happens when you're around someone for so long. You take them for granted and sometimes its not as easy as you may want it to be. But relationships take a lot of work once you get going at them. It's not all fucking butterflies and snowflakes. Her reasons for not wanting to continue our relationship was that she was exhausted from arguing and generally unhappy - a fact that until now, I was pretty much oblivious to. She is horrible at communicating how she feels and when we do argue, I tend to lead the conversation. Lately her temper has been much shorter, she's increasingly defensive and snippy. And she doesn't realize that it doesn't help a thing. It makes them so much worse and all the while, i'm trying to work on my attitude and be patient. How am i supposed to accomplish anything when she is doing the opposite? It's so difficult.

And i mention all this shit stuff because well, I feel like shit. But I love spending time with her and I truely don't understand how 'unhappy' she can be. We have a great time together. Inside jokes, active lifestyles, the works. She is really nice to be around. I'm so lost, you know?

In all honesty, I'm doing better then I should be, mostly because we've come so close to breaking up before, that I've suffered through a lot of it already. But the ONE thing that gets me is all the parties she will go to and all of the guys she will meet, make out with and fuck. I swear, that's the shittiest thing I'm feeling about right now. Nothing makes me more upset because I had liberties with her body and herself that other guys are going to get to enjoy now. Son of a bitch.

That was all very cut and dry, but I had to get it out of my head. I've gone through so much with this girl, good and bad. And if tomorrow, she decided she wanted to get back together and that she would genuinely try better to communicate, I would get back with her in a second. Reading this, yep. Sounds fucking crazy. But I would really look forward to what could come of us if she made some changes like I have and decided it was all really worth it. I'm really broken up about it and I'm really afraid of how I'm going to feel given my deeply depressive history.

But if worse comes to worse, there's this really hot chick who works in the library that i've been dying to meet.


EDIT: And it blows that this happens to be my 412th post, because she's from Pittsburgh and that's the area code. Fack.
I'm sorry. I hope you feel better. I think what your best option is is to go and speak to a counsellor because it has helped you in the past. You need to look out for yourself.

You are over-thinking it as well. Her post code is the same as the post number? Who gives a fuck? She uses a computer as well so computers will remind you of her! She has a grasp of the english language like you do and all other english people do! Everything can be traced back to someone so don't do that to yourself.

From the general gist I've got from the post, I think you will be better off without her. Take sometime to make sure that you are alright and head for the library girl. Best of luck bud.

[ChelseaRiane]

I'm dealing with a break up as we speak. Not so good.

[IJTKJH]

Let me give it to you straight, AP.

So My ex and I broke up, oh about 40 minutes ago. We dated for almost 2 years and had many ups and downs but I always went out on a limb for her, always put her first and tried to make her happy. Last summer she got drunk and fooled around with some guy and I was a wreck about that for so long. I've dealt with it pretty well and I stayed with her through it. I don't know if I regret it or not because I really do love her and we ended up having many a great times even after that all happened.

I had some minor depression problems before that little incident last summer and if anything, that whole situation amplified it so much more and I've been dealing with it ever since.

(For some insight, after it happened, i lost 20 pounds over 3 days from not eating. It's not that I didn't want to, my body physically couldn't.)

We argued more, I was seeing a counselor at college for some time and to be honest, it really helped. Going on meds has been a lasting issue in my head and I really want to try and make it without them but I digress.

We argued a lot more, my temper was shorter and to be honest, there was a part of me that still resented her but I tried to dilute it as much as I could through time. Underneath it all, i know she really hates herself for doing it and i think it really snowballed into the roots of most of our problems today. Well, yesterday.

See I know people argue. It just happens when you're around someone for so long. You take them for granted and sometimes its not as easy as you may want it to be. But relationships take a lot of work once you get going at them. It's not all fucking butterflies and snowflakes. Her reasons for not wanting to continue our relationship was that she was exhausted from arguing and generally unhappy - a fact that until now, I was pretty much oblivious to. She is horrible at communicating how she feels and when we do argue, I tend to lead the conversation. Lately her temper has been much shorter, she's increasingly defensive and snippy. And she doesn't realize that it doesn't help a thing. It makes them so much worse and all the while, i'm trying to work on my attitude and be patient. How am i supposed to accomplish anything when she is doing the opposite? It's so difficult.

And i mention all this shit stuff because well, I feel like shit. But I love spending time with her and I truely don't understand how 'unhappy' she can be. We have a great time together. Inside jokes, active lifestyles, the works. She is really nice to be around. I'm so lost, you know?

In all honesty, I'm doing better then I should be, mostly because we've come so close to breaking up before, that I've suffered through a lot of it already. But the ONE thing that gets me is all the parties she will go to and all of the guys she will meet, make out with and fuck. I swear, that's the shittiest thing I'm feeling about right now. Nothing makes me more upset because I had liberties with her body and herself that other guys are going to get to enjoy now. Son of a bitch.

That was all very cut and dry, but I had to get it out of my head. I've gone through so much with this girl, good and bad. And if tomorrow, she decided she wanted to get back together and that she would genuinely try better to communicate, I would get back with her in a second. Reading this, yep. Sounds fucking crazy. But I would really look forward to what could come of us if she made some changes like I have and decided it was all really worth it. I'm really broken up about it and I'm really afraid of how I'm going to feel given my deeply depressive history.

But if worse comes to worse, there's this really hot chick who works in the library that i've been dying to meet.


EDIT: And it blows that this happens to be my 412th post, because she's from Pittsburgh and that's the area code. Fack.

Damn, I'm really sorry. I just went through pretty much the same thing. It's shitty when someone suddenly tells you that they're unhappy just becasue of a few arguments especially when you feel like you're doing everything you can to make them happy. You're definitely right when you say that people just start taking each other for granted and how relationships stop being just "butterflies and snowflakes". After so long, there just isn't anything new and exciting about a relationship. You don't get butterflies in your stomach when you see them, you don't always wonder if they're thinking about you, you don't check your phone every 30 seconds to see if they've texted you. That's just life I guess.

But in my opinion, if she wants to get back with you, don't do it. I've made that mistake twice already and it's been great for a little bit, and we both do our best to change for the better and make each other happy, but after awhile, we both just resort back to our old habbits and we put each other through the same shit again. I don't necessarily know your entire situation with her, but I think you need to let go at least for now. Maybe try again in a year or something, but if you go back to her and this happens again, you'll just feel as shitty as you do now. Maybe hit up the hot girl in the library. Honestly, this might sound bad, but I think the best thing in the world for these situations is a good solid rebound. Someone to give you attention because that's what everyone misses the most.

Hope the best for you... Oh yeah, and if you just post something else, it won't be her area code anymore. Easy fix. :-)

[bunneh.]

Yeah I don't know what's going to happen. I've had the chance to talk to a surprising amount of people today, some i havent talked to in a long time, some are longtime friends. I've been listening to acoustic versions of Shake It Out by Manchester Orchestra and I haven't heard a word from her. I don't know if I will. Everything was completely abrupt and we've been through much worse than we have been dealing with recently. Relationships take work and I was always the one who kept fighting and she's the one who just gives up.

I feel really sad but when she cheated on me last summer, that felt a million times worse. I'm afraid it hasn't hit me yet because I feel like I could be much more upset. But I don't really know for sure. I'm kind of afraid.

[limepomegranate]

My boyfriend broke up with me last night but now he's asked me to go to his mother's this weekend which I am which I know is stupid. But he also asked me today to go help pressure wash his grandparents driveway like we had planned the other day or to just come to his grandparents house. I said no. I don't understand why he keeps asking to hang out and stuff when he broke my heart. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like i'm going to be sick.

[glamchic22]

I broke up with my boyfriend and I don't know if I did the right thing. My boyfriend was sick with cancer a year ago, he never went into remission, I was supportive all the time, but he has a few months and he is getting weaker, but at the same time it was getting harder. I had fights with him and his family as well because I needed time to process things. Something bad had happened to him a days ago, a lot of complications had come through and he was getting harder to deal with and I had my job and I just could not take it so I broke it off. I know it now sounds heartless, because I love him still but somehow I feel that I have let him down. I don't know how to go back and say sorry, his family is really angry and told me to get out and to stay away. I truly regret what I did, I do want to say sorry because I know he has a few months or even weeks left. I want him still to fight. But I'm left at a loss already at the moment, anyone ever experience this? Please help

[terror_91]

I broke up with my boyfriend and I don't know if I did the right thing. My boyfriend was sick with cancer a year ago, he never went into remission, I was supportive all the time, but he has a few months and he is getting weaker, but at the same time it was getting harder. I had fights with him and his family as well because I needed time to process things. Something bad had happened to him a days ago, a lot of complications had come through and he was getting harder to deal with and I had my job and I just could not take it so I broke it off. I know it now sounds heartless, because I love him still but somehow I feel that I have let him down. I don't know how to go back and say sorry, his family is really angry and told me to get out and to stay away. I truly regret what I did, I do want to say sorry because I know he has a few months or even weeks left. I want him still to fight. But I'm left at a loss already at the moment, anyone ever experience this? Please help
Selfish.

[glamchic22]

Selfish.

I know it is selfish, i do wanna go back and ask for forgiveness, but how? I know I made the mistake. Do you think he would take me back if I came to him and admit I was wrong?

[terror_91]

I know it is selfish, i do wanna go back and ask for forgiveness, but how? I know I made the mistake. Do you think he would take me back if I came to him and admit I was wrong?
How the fuck am I meant to know? Will he?

If you want to go back and ask for forgiveness, do fucking exactly that.

"Boyfriend, I am sorry I left you. Will you forgive me and take me back?"

Why the fuck does this need spelling out?

[glamchic22]

How the fuck am I meant to know? Will he?

If you want to go back and ask for forgiveness, do fucking exactly that.

"Boyfriend, I am sorry I left you. Will you forgive me and take me back?"

Why the fuck does this need spelling out?

woah... i was just asking. sorry.

[glamchic22]

woah... i was just asking. sorry.

its complicated when you are in the situation.

[glamchic22]

How the fuck am I meant to know? Will he?

If you want to go back and ask for forgiveness, do fucking exactly that.

"Boyfriend, I am sorry I left you. Will you forgive me and take me back?"

Why the fuck does this need spelling out?

its complicated when you are in the situation.

[terror_91]

woah... i was just asking. sorry.
You asked so I gave you an answer and what you were asking were fucking useless questions and I still devoted my thought and time to give you the best possible solution.

[AgainstTheCurrent]

You asked so I gave you an answer and what you were asking were fucking useless questions and I still devoted my thought and time to give you the best possible solution.

I agree with this.

You probably feel like shit for breaking up with him in his situation. I'm not gonna try make you feel worse, but you have to fix that situation immediately. Before it's too late.

[Bodich26]

Dumpsville could also imply that you smell like shit.

[Forever.Zero]

My boyfriend broke up with me last night but now he's asked me to go to his mother's this weekend which I am which I know is stupid. But he also asked me today to go help pressure wash his grandparents driveway like we had planned the other day or to just come to his grandparents house. I said no. I don't understand why he keeps asking to hang out and stuff when he broke my heart. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel like i'm going to be sick.

you're doing it pretty right by saying no to his requests.

[limepomegranate]

you're doing it pretty right by saying no to his requests.
Well we're back together now and we had a discussion about things that we each do that bother each other and we're trying to work at being better and not trying to pick fights etc. And it's working! Things have been better than ever and i'm really glad we're trying to work things out instead of just giving up! We're learning and growing from our past fights.

[Forever.Zero]

nice!

[terror_91]

Well we're back together now and we had a discussion about things that we each do that bother each other and we're trying to work at being better and not trying to pick fights etc. And it's working! Things have been better than ever and i'm really glad we're trying to work things out instead of just giving up! We're learning and growing from our past fights.
It's good that you are taking a mature approach to it :thumbup:

[jrayrocks9191]

Well, back in March, my ex broke things off with me, and we ended our relationship on mutual terms. She had to go to rehab for her drinking problem, so she told me she didn't want to have any distractions, so I agreed, and understood completely. One week later, on a Friday, she calls me just to chat or whatever, so I did, nothing out of the ordinary, and it ended that way too. A few more days later, I found out that she was hiding something from me when she had called me on Friday. She fucked her ex right before she had called me. Now, what really bothered me was that she would always talk to him, and I really had no problem with it, I trusted her, she said she had no feelings for him whatsoever. I had never felt more betrayed in my life. One week later, and you have sex with the guy that you claim to have no feelings for. So, as you can imagine, I was pretty mortified. I wasn't able to think, sleep, eat or do anything normally. I couldn't think without thinking of that guy mounting my ex girlfriend. I couldn't go to sleep without dreaming about the same damn thing. I couldn't eat for a week, literally. And at this point, I had seriously contemplated suicide, but with the help of one of my really good female friends, I was able to realize that she wasn't worth it, and that I had deserved better, and I love her to death for helping me through that.

But, a few weeks later, after everything had blown over, I would still think about her from time to time. I was into this other girl, but I was over my ex. At first, I wanted revenge on my ex, and little did I know, my ex hated the new girl that I was into, so we used it to our advantage, seeing as we both hated the same girl. We made sure she found out that we had been seeing each other, and what a big mistake that was. I had gotten a phone call from my ex a short while after this, asking if she could talk to me. So I drove to her house, picked and talked to her. Then things came up about this new girl, she got angry, and broke my nose and claims that "You're such a dick! You hooked up with someone that meant absolutely nothing to you! But I hooked up with someone that I actually used to love!" Now, after 3 months (at the time), this makes no sense to me. Right after she had broken my nose, I should have left, but I was glad I didn't. Things had calmed down, and we were actually talking calmly. One thing lead to another, she kissed me, I said everything right to get into her pants, and I did (BOOYA!). And that was the conclusion to my night.

The next day, I was thinking about it, and I realized it was a mistake that I had done that. But I was glad that I validated my feelings, which were none. I still had trouble doing some things or thinking about some things before I had sex with her that one last time. And now I can live freely, and care free, knowing that I have no feelings for her at all. THE END!

[natalieruthless]

the first boyfriend i ever had cheated on me. we dated for... 5 montsh, pretty long for a first relationship, id say.
anyway. i broke up with him. i just told him that i knew what he was doing, no i couldnt forgive him, and no we couldnt try to stay together.
it had to be done. im proud of myself for doing it. but it was still hard to do.
his cheating on me made me not trust guys for a couple of years.
which was completely stupid.
this happened a few years ago.

im just writing this because i just want to let everyone out there that they are strong, fantastic, beautiful, and lovely people. you dont deserve to be treated badly by anyone, male or female. and if something bad does happen, you have the strength to end it. even if it seems like you dont. believe in youself. i believe in you.
and if you have wronged somebody, please, learn from your ways, and better yourself. be able to look at your faults and recognize what needs work.

[limepomegranate]

It's good that you are taking a mature approach to it :thumbup:
Thanks!

[IJTKJH]

My girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me last month. She told me it was because she "wanted to see what else was out there" and insisted that it wasn't anything I was doing wrong. I did everything I could to convince she was being stupid but nothing worked. We didn't talk for a couple weeks but then we hung out and it was just like old times. Everything was great, we talked, joked, laughed, and of course eventually ended up in my bed. The next day she tells me she drunk kissed some guy at some party but doesn't want to be in a relationship. It pissed me off, but I didn't say anything because I know she didn't owe me anything. We faught on and off during that week for numerous things. During this whole month, she completely changed who she was and what she did. She used to be a lot of fun, but was really responsible too and never let things get too out of hand. But suddenly now she thinks she needs to go party all the time and stay out all night. I don't know if that's just how she's choosing to cope or whatevs, but it drives me crazy. and then she tells me that she's in a relationship with this prick that she kissed even though he's not her type at all. She says she's just having fun and going to make her own mistakes. She's told me plenty of times that she thinks she's fucking up her life and this guy probably isn't right for her, but it doesn't matter to her anymore. I want to hate her so bad, and ignore her. but if I don't talk to her, she doens't really try talking to me. I know it's probably her being stronger about it than I am, but I hate feeling like I don't matter to her anymore. I want to hate her so bad, but I don't think I'll ever be able to. I tell myself that I'm not going to talk to her for a long time, but slowly I begin convincing myself I should text her or something.

I know this is long. Sorry. I just wanted to bitch so bad. This is all I think about everyday now and it drives me insane. I know I sound like a bitch, but I want so bad to be okay, I just don't know how to right now. I really just wanna find some random girl and get laid.

[jrayrocks9191]

You really should just ignore her. It seems to me like she's taking you for granted, meaning she knows you'll always be there no matter what she does or says. It sucks, but you'll live. You'll find someone eventually. You really should just go find some random girl and get laid, and let her know that you're moving on too.

But really, just move on. Its going to hurt to think about other guys mounting your girlfriend, and it always will after every break up, but you should do the same.

Also, the best revenge is living well. If you read my post a few posts up, you'll get the jest of it.

[TheFractlEffect]

okay,

i'm in a shitty situation here, where i don't want to be committed to a relationship anymore. i'm 18, just graduated and have plans for college and apprenticeships... she's 16 and still in high school for a couple more years. i want to end it because i'm at a point where i'm going my seperate way. the number one thing is, it's going to hurt her.. and i just don't know how to break it to her

backstory.. it's been an on-off relationship, which started in december 08, when i was just 16. i had strong feelings for her and was happy, being my first real relationship. she ended it in march 09, claiming she didn't want to be in a relationship. i was in an absolute shitty mood for the next few months, didnt really have any ambition to do anything, checking my phone every five minutes to see if she had texted me, and i dreamt of having her back in my arms. having friends definitely helped the situation, stating that she wasnt worth all the depression, but i still wanted her back so bad. particularly one of my good friends had also been dumped sthe same month so i had somebody to relate to. two months passed and late may was approaching, and was shocked to see she was contacting me over facebook.. she wanted me back. of course, being me, i fell through on it and we were back in a relationship, despite my all my friends' opposition of my decision.

that summer i ran into another 'almost break-up' moment, when i had strong feelings for her still. in mid june of 09 she cheated on me at a friends birthday party and decided not to tell me until a month later, which obviously left me crushed. i unfortunately decided to stay with her after her practically saying she still wants to be with me. yep looking back, i was clueless and all iw anted to do was to be with her.. the next few months (August all the way until November) were equally as shitty, when i was back to checking my phone looking for a text from her and seeing none. i had gone almost a month without seeing her at one point, but over that whole span we were still in a 'relationship'. things continued that way but slowly got better nearing the holidays.. she was back into me and has been ever since, and i was still into her. life was good again, despite everything that happened..

fast forward until now, i would classify her as 'clingy' and she wants to be with me for a long long time. she cant go without texting me for over an hour, and i cant help but find it annoying at times.. it seems the situation i was in last summer has been reversed, i've practically fallen out of love, and honestly have figured out that after cheating on me last summer that i can't trust her. i reallyyyy don't want to hurt her but i know it will, knowing i need to end it soon.

when she'd stop wishing things would fall apart, she would stop suffering when they did.

[jrayrocks9191]

okay,

i'm in a shitty situation here, where i don't want to be committed to a relationship anymore. i'm 18, just graduated and have plans for college and apprenticeships... she's 16 and still in high school for a couple more years. i want to end it because i'm at a point where i'm going my seperate way. the number one thing is, it's going to hurt her.. and i just don't know how to break it to her

backstory.. it's been an on-off relationship, which started in december 08, when i was just 16. i had strong feelings for her and was happy, being my first real relationship. she ended it in march 09, claiming she didn't want to be in a relationship. i was in an absolute shitty mood for the next few months, didnt really have any ambition to do anything, checking my phone every five minutes to see if she had texted me, and i dreamt of having her back in my arms. having friends definitely helped the situation, stating that she wasnt worth all the depression, but i still wanted her back so bad. particularly one of my good friends had also been dumped sthe same month so i had somebody to relate to. two months passed and late may was approaching, and was shocked to see she was contacting me over facebook.. she wanted me back. of course, being me, i fell through on it and we were back in a relationship, despite my all my friends' opposition of my decision.

that summer i ran into another 'almost break-up' moment, when i had strong feelings for her still. in mid june of 09 she cheated on me at a friends birthday party and decided not to tell me until a month later, which obviously left me crushed. i unfortunately decided to stay with her after her practically saying she still wants to be with me. yep looking back, i was clueless and all iw anted to do was to be with her.. the next few months (August all the way until November) were equally as shitty, when i was back to checking my phone looking for a text from her and seeing none. i had gone almost a month without seeing her at one point, but over that whole span we were still in a 'relationship'. things continued that way but slowly got better nearing the holidays.. she was back into me and has been ever since, and i was still into her. life was good again, despite everything that happened..

fast forward until now, i would classify her as 'clingy' and she wants to be with me for a long long time. she cant go without texting me for over an hour, and i cant help but find it annoying at times.. it seems the situation i was in last summer has been reversed, i've practically fallen out of love, and honestly have figured out that after cheating on me last summer that i can't trust her. i reallyyyy don't want to hurt her but i know it will, knowing i need to end it soon.

when she'd stop wishing things would fall apart, she would stop suffering when they did.
When you know, you just know.
Its going to hurt her no matter what you do, just let her down softly. Make up some bullshit excuse like, "Babe, I'm going off to college, and I need to concentrate on my work, this isn't good bye, its see you later." Blah blah blah, etc. You never have to see her again.

[supkelly]

i got dumped back in may. i went out with him for about two months, but we grew really close.
we live in seperate states, only about 20 minutes away though. he said the distance got to him
and that we got too routine with things, so whatever, freedom. however lately he's been texting me
and saying he misses me, (weird) or telling me that he wants me (weirder) not gonna lie, i want the kid
back, because he treated me fairly well and no other guys are really interested in me. but then he'll act shady
and say we're talking too much or that he doesn't feel like talking.
don't know what to do. fuck.

[julietelizabeth]

i got dumped back in may. i went out with him for about two months, but we grew really close.
we live in seperate states, only about 20 minutes away though. he said the distance got to him
and that we got too routine with things, so whatever, freedom. however lately he's been texting me
and saying he misses me, (weird) or telling me that he wants me (weirder) not gonna lie, i want the kid
back, because he treated me fairly well and no other guys are really interested in me. but then he'll act shady
and say we're talking too much or that he doesn't feel like talking.
don't know what to do. fuck.

My opinion: Stay the fuck away. He's clearly messing you about.

[showmethefever]

supkelly is a fake account, calling it.

[supkelly]

My opinion: Stay the fuck away. He's clearly messing you about.

that's what my friend told me, but it's really difficult, hes got the type of personality where hes just like..adorable? i don't really know how to describe it. but it just sucks we had something really good

[jrayrocks9191]

that's what my friend told me, but it's really difficult, hes got the type of personality where hes just like..adorable? i don't really know how to describe it. but it just sucks we had something really good
He's acting, obviously. That's how they get to you, and take advantage of you.

You know you deserve better, so why settle for less? Every single woman deserves to be treated like a princess, and if he isn't doing that for you, find your prince.

[supkelly]

He's acting, obviously. That's how they get to you, and take advantage of you.

You know you deserve better, so why settle for less? Every single woman deserves to be treated like a princess, and if he isn't doing that for you, find your prince.

I wish it was as easy as you made it sound.. No guys really take an interest in me because I don't drink or smoke.. :/

[jrayrocks9191]

I wish it was as easy as you made it sound.. No guys really take an interest in me because I don't drink or smoke.. :/
That's nothing to be ashamed of. I don't smoke or drink either, at least I didn't until I found out that my ex cheated on me. Smoking both cigarettes and pot is disgusting, and the second I find out that someone that I'm interested in is into that, I immediately lose all respect. I just think it, and all other drugs are so dirty. Its such a turn off for me.

Just be patient, one day, you'll find someone that likes you for you. Don't change yourself for anyone but yourself.

Edit: And after looking at your profile picture, you're really pretty. I don't see why guys wouldn't be into you, but I have a quote that might help you out.

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid that they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think that something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

[supkelly]

That's nothing to be ashamed of. I don't smoke or drink either, at least I didn't until I found out that my ex cheated on me. Smoking both cigarettes and pot is disgusting, and the second I find out that someone that I'm interested in is into that, I immediately lose all respect. I just think it, and all other drugs are so dirty. Its such a turn off for me.

Just be patient, one day, you'll find someone that likes you for you. Don't change yourself for anyone but yourself.

Edit: And after looking at your profile picture, you're really pretty. I don't see why guys wouldn't be into you, but I have a quote that might help you out.

Girls are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they're afraid that they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think that something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

:) thank you..I'm not sure I agree with caliiing me pretty, but I really appreciate your advice. I'm sick of being lonelyy

[yourenotsam]

:) thank you..I'm not sure I agree with caliiing me pretty, but I really appreciate your advice. I'm sick of being lonelyy

...hey. It's Brian.

[jrayrocks9191]

:) thank you..I'm not sure I agree with caliiing me pretty, but I really appreciate your advice. I'm sick of being lonelyy
I know the feeling. You're not alone, darling. Just be patient and one day you'll find your Prince Charming.

[supkelly]

...hey

Brian:)

[supkelly]

I know the feeling. You're not alone, darling. Just be patient and one day you'll find your Prince Charming.

Aw, thank you, I hope :/ seems too far away

[jrayrocks9191]

Aw, thank you, I hope :/ seems too far away
If you're ever feeling lonely, and need to vent, just send me a private message or something. I'd be glad to talk with you.

[supkelly]

If you're ever feeling lonely, and need to vent, just send me a private message or something. I'd be glad to talk with you.
Thank you!
Same to you :)

[jrayrocks9191]

Thank you!
Same to you :)
Marry me? :D

[seraph1214]

I wish it was as easy as you made it sound.. No guys really take an interest in me because I don't drink or smoke.. :/

That's a definite plus. There's not a lot of girls your age like that anymore. I wish I had more friends that didn't smoke or drink.

[Sean Rizzo]

Marry me? :D
hahaha someone's optimistic here.

[jrayrocks9191]

hahaha someone's optimistic here.
Yes sir.

[natalieruthless]

I wish it was as easy as you made it sound.. No guys really take an interest in me because I don't drink or smoke.. :/

hey, im natalie and im also seventeen. i dont drink or smoke either (for the sole reason that i dont feel the need to), and honestly, i havent had that really hinder my relationships. if youre having that problem, maybe you need to look at the gus youre into/who are into you. im not saying that you have bad tastes or anything, but if guys cant accept you for your choices and where you stand on issues like drinking or smoking then theyre not worth your time. be a strong woman and stand for what you believe in, and dont let any body try to change that. i believe in you.
from your picture, you seem like a very pretty girl and im sure that you will find someone special someday. haha, lets hope i do as well.
i wish you all the luck in the world, and feel free to add me as a friend or PM me whenever youd like to chat,
that goes for anyone on here. i love chatting and helping out where i can with problems.

[Sean Rizzo]

Yes sir.
Hate being single? lol.

[jrayrocks9191]

Hate being single? lol.
Not really. I just hate being lonely. I would just love it if someone would make me their priority, rather than their option. I always feel like I'm the last resort of my friends, like they'll call me when they've got nobody better to hang out with.

[Sean Rizzo]

Not really. I just hate being lonely. I would just love it if someone would make me their priority, rather than their option. I always feel like I'm the last resort of my friends, like they'll call me when they've got nobody better to hang out with.
That sucks. Although the thing I always say about dating is that the person you are in love with is the friend that's always there.

[jrayrocks9191]

That sucks. Although the thing I always say about dating is that the person you are in love with is the friend that's always there.
I don't really miss having a girlfriend, I just miss the companionship that we had. Like, I could always had someone to talk to, and they'd always consider me before everyone else.

[Sean Rizzo]

I don't really miss having a girlfriend, I just miss the companionship that we had. Like, I could always had someone to talk to, and they'd always consider me before everyone else.
Yeah, that's the great thing. The love and companionship feed off each other and get stronger.

[jrayrocks9191]

Yeah, that's the great thing. The love and companionship feed off each other and get stronger.
Yeah, until the bitch cheats on you.

[Sean Rizzo]

Yeah, until the ****** cheats on you.
Hey man, I've been dating for 3 years and it hasn't happened because mine has integrity. Find some better chicks. :shrug:

[jrayrocks9191]

Hey man, I've been dating for 3 years and it hasn't happened because mine has integrity. Find some better chicks. :shrug:
Hahahaha. A while back, one of my friends made the comment, "Jordan, why do you always get with the crazy bitches?" And, right then and there, it clicked. He was right. I somehow always find myself attracted to women who've got like emotional baggage. I don't know why, I just am.

[Sean Rizzo]

Hahahaha. A while back, one of my friends made the comment, "Jordan, why do you always get with the crazy ******?" And, right then and there, it clicked. He was right. I somehow always find myself attracted to women who've got like emotional baggage. I don't know why, I just am.
Do you feel like you want to help them? I'm like that but if I see a relationships basket case I stay away from it.

[jrayrocks9191]

Do you feel like you want to help them? I'm like that but if I see a relationships basket case I stay away from it.
Not really, but I'll listen, and give advice. There was only one girl whose emotional baggage I had known. None of the other ones really tell me anything, they just seem to have emotional baggage.

The most recent girl I was interested in was kicked out of her house for apparently no reason, I still tried to pursue her, but she stood me up like twice after she had made plans with me, so I lost interest.