my life just keeps getting worse and worse

[mogley]

my life fucking sucks so badly right now. the day after my birthday i walk downstairs and see my mom crying i ask whats wrong and she tells me that her and my dad are splitting up. i found out that he bought a house 30-40 minutes away and had already left that morning. so that sucked. my moms fucking depressed as shit/ is becoming an alcoholic. my sister cant stand my mom so shes mad at her because she wants to move in with my dad and they wont let her yet. my little brother is a mess. im a mess. and then i find out 30 mintues ago that my girlfriends parents found pictures of her and i drinking and playing beer pong at some party. so now im pretty sure they hate me. and shes grounded for a long ass time.shes the one person i need most right now and i cant even see her. and we're supposed to goto the jacks mannequin conert this saturday which she bought tickets for me for my brithday and her parents wont let her go anymore. and we were going down to the ocean next week and now shes not allowed. and basically my life is at an all time low and i just needed to share i dont care if you reply to this or not. i just needed to vent.

[YellowNovember]

I know nothing I can type can really help at all but, it all gets better with time, sorry all that happened to you all at once.

[dashboard1190]

I hope everything gets better, that sucks.

My philosophy is that while one person is having the worst day in the world, someone else is having the best. So eventually, you'll have the best day.

Good luck with everything.

[Kodi_bnb]

I hope things get better since your in a sucky position.

[boysdontcry17]

try to escape conciousness by drinkin/drugs.
got me through a breakup

[anunsafebet]

i went thru a divorce a few years ago, and i also since then have learned one. alcohol and drugs do no damn good. and even though you may think soyour gf is the last person you need. you need your best friend if anybody and it'll pass. dont worry seriously take it day by day and it'll all smooth out.

[punklet2101]

ahh that sucks. i know how you feel. my dad left on my birthday
hang in there, be with your other friends, don't be alone <3

[Juliana101]

Holy shit, I hope your situation makes everybody else's on this board feel like their high school friends/girlfriends problems feel retarded.

As for your situation, play videogames and box.

[dashboard1190]

try to escape conciousness by drinkin/drugs.
got me through a breakup

I wouldn't listen to him.

Try to take your mind off of it somehow, pick up a hobby that isn't illegal or could get you addicted.

[hXc_pwnage]

Sometimes time is the best healer.

[mogley]

thanks everyone. yeah i do need to get out of the house, im going over my friends in a little bit i think. but just a little update on the situation:

i asked where her mom found the pictures thinking like myspace or webshots or facebook or something. and she was like well one of my moms patients at work works in like the cia or something of the sort and she used her to spy on my girlfriend and her sister. apparently my gf blocked her mom from like myspace and aim(which is odd that she has one anyways) and so her mom was suspiscous.

how fucked up is that?

oh and now my mom tells me shes gonna have to put my 2 dogs to sleep cause theyre getting too old and dont look healthy. i swear nothings going right

[Blake Solomon]

ive been grounded the whole summer because my parents were reading my emails. parents suck, and it sucks because, obviously, i cant do anything without them and they know that, so they can lord everything over me. I have decided the happiest day of my life will be when I can fuck up and have no one to apologize to but myself. I hope things get better for you, I really do, because I know what its like to be fucked over from a million positions.

And as I say that, I am being corralled into another fucking family counseling meeting with some psychiatrist, good luck dude.

[yourneck]

Music mends broken hearts?

But if it makes you feel any better, my mom is having a mental breakdown and is going to be in the hospital for a month.

[still]

ive been grounded the whole summer because my parents were reading my emails. parents suck, and it sucks because, obviously, i cant do anything without them and they know that, so they can lord everything over me. I have decided the happiest day of my life will be when I can fuck up and have no one to apologize to but myself. I hope things get better for you, I really do, because I know what its like to be fucked over from a million positions.

And as I say that, I am being corralled into another fucking family counseling meeting with some psychiatrist, good luck dude.

not to sound like a dick, but if you kept your emails clean, that wouldn't have happened. i always make sure my facebook/myspace/emails are clean. employers and parents are free to check them whenever they want. (well..not emails).

as for the thread starter, sorry dude. the best thing to do is just go out and do something, even if you don't want to. you'll feel better after a while and won't stay in and regret not going.

[Rock]

i can emphasize with you; my brother can even moreso. my parents are getting a dissolution, and my brother was forced? to break up with his girlfriend because her dad came home while he was over and she had her shirt off.

[Blake Solomon]

not to sound like a dick, but if you kept your emails clean, that wouldn't have happened. i always make sure my facebook/myspace/emails are clean. employers and parents are free to check them whenever they want. (well..not emails).

as for the thread starter, sorry dude. the best thing to do is just go out and do something, even if you don't want to. you'll feel better after a while and won't stay in and regret not going.


thats bullshit by my folks though, it was one email that mentiond i was "high" and they were reading them because they were looking for a "financial email" but instead read an email sent to a friend for no reason. I wasnt at fault in any way here, ive had 3 months to convince myself of that. I get what youre saying and had kept everything else clean, but I thought my emails were safe, oh well.

[still]

thats bullshit by my folks though, it was one email that mentiond i was "high" and they were reading them because they were looking for a "financial email" but instead read an email sent to a friend for no reason. I wasnt at fault in any way here, ive had 3 months to convince myself of that. I get what youre saying and had kept everything else clean, but I thought my emails were safe, oh well.

word. i totally agree that that is bullshit, but for the same reason i clear all my net history, make sure my facebook and myspace are clean, EVERYTHING. my parents have never used my computer, but i keep it clean just in case, for some odd reason they have to use it. i don't see why your parents would read through your emails if they were just looking for one though, that's pretty fucked up.

[irishpunk14]

my life fucking sucks so badly right now. the day after my birthday i walk downstairs and see my mom crying i ask whats wrong and she tells me that her and my dad are splitting up. i found out that he bought a house 30-40 minutes away and had already left that morning. so that sucked. my moms fucking depressed as shit/ is becoming an alcoholic. my sister cant stand my mom so shes mad at her because she wants to move in with my dad and they wont let her yet. my little brother is a mess. im a mess. and then i find out 30 mintues ago that my girlfriends parents found pictures of her and i drinking and playing beer pong at some party. so now im pretty sure they hate me. and shes grounded for a long ass time.shes the one person i need most right now and i cant even see her. and we're supposed to goto the jacks mannequin conert this saturday which she bought tickets for me for my brithday and her parents wont let her go anymore. and we were going down to the ocean next week and now shes not allowed. and basically my life is at an all time low and i just needed to share i dont care if you reply to this or not. i just needed to vent.Man,that's lame.I'l pray for you.

[Freud]

damn dude sorry to hear all that. mainly the first part. hope everything works out though :)

[Blake Solomon]

word. i totally agree that that is bullshit, but for the same reason i clear all my net history, make sure my facebook and myspace are clean, EVERYTHING. my parents have never used my computer, but i keep it clean just in case, for some odd reason they have to use it. i don't see why your parents would read through your emails if they were just looking for one though, that's pretty fucked up.


yeah, they are fucked up. I feel bad being so pissed at them, but they totally crossed a line and i cant say anything to defend myself. I know this is cliched, but its def. taught me how to be an actual "good" parent. They have never trusted me and were just waiting for the opp to bust me, im not going to treat my kids like im their own personal cop. im going to give them advice and let them know how i feel on things, but forcing them to believe certain things is just wrong.

[Juliana101]

ive been grounded the whole summer because my parents were reading my emails. parents suck, and it sucks because, obviously, i cant do anything without them and they know that, so they can lord everything over me. I have decided the happiest day of my life will be when I can fuck up and have no one to apologize to but myself. I hope things get better for you, I really do, because I know what its like to be fucked over from a million positions.

And as I say that, I am being corralled into another fucking family counseling meeting with some psychiatrist, good luck dude.

I'm pretty sure you're an adult and I'm pretty sure that since you're above the age of 18, technically they broke the law and invaded your personal privacy and violated one of your Ammendment rights.

[Blake Solomon]

I'm pretty sure you're an adult and I'm pretty sure that since you're above the age of 18, technically they broke the law and invaded your personal privacy and violated one of your Ammendment rights.


yeah, im 19 and ive heard that excuse from all of my friends and i thought about using it, but then they could just come back with "who pays for your computer, your college, your house? we have a right to look at your things if we paid for them." But then i can say, they gave me those things, so they became mine and did illegally search them. The thing that makes me so mad is that I never gave them a reason not to trust me, but just because they fucked up bad as kids they automatically find it impossible to trust their kids and became way to overprotective. Its stupid and not a way to treat those who you "love".

[Colin Farrell]

drugs and alcohol are NOT the way to go, they may seem at first like a quick fix but int he end they will fuck you up long terma nd will be depressed for a lot longer than you would otherwise. i dont know what to telly ou though man, that fucking sucks, I can't imagine how I'd feel if something like that happened to me. just try to stay active, go for a run or something, don't let your ship sink.

[mcm1610]

Divorce can be rough. I went through it when I was 10 with my parents, and you just have to get it through your head that's its better. If they lived together longer, it would be worse, trust me. My parents stuck around each other too long and it just exploded in a huge mess. It can be rough if you get stuck in the middle, so make sure you let each parent know they have to talk to each other, you will not be their go-between. With time, it'll be fine. It's shitty, but divorce is far too common now. I'm sure you have a few friends you can turn to becuase tons of families split up like this.

As for the gf thing... what does 1989 make you, 16 or 17? If her parents didn't assume she was around it, they're completely unprepared for her going to college in a year or two. It happens, the parents will get over it. As for your new relationship with the parents, if it were me, I'd be nervous as fuck, but I don't think I'd skirt around and try to avoid them. Just reestablish the relationship and if they confront you, be honest. Don't lie, becuase that comes off worse and they'll know. And once that confrontation comes, things will be much better.

However, if they're those super-controlling parents and they're going to try and forbid you see each other, that's shit. Honestly, just hang out with groups, like other people pick her up from her house and then they get you afterwards. It makes the relationship much stronger if it faces adversity like that, and you'll feel much more accomplished. I have a couple of lesbian friends, and the one was completely open about it, and the other was not becuase her parents are hardcore Catholic and despised gays. When the parents found out they were dating, they flipped and wouldn't "let" her be gay so she was forbidden from seeing the other girl. My group of friends all realized this was bullshit, and sometimes it was beyond annoying, but I don't know how many times I've picked her up just so they can hang out together. It can be rough, but you'll be happy.

My ramblings, from various experiences of my own. If you have any problems with the divorce or anything, you can PM me. I know it's rough.. it's been 10 years and my parents are still always at each other's throats.

[I am all talk]

Don't trip mogley, things could have been worse. Imagine if her parents found pictures of you two boning.