Will i know?

[I<3mxpx]

I dont know if its me or what? Within a couple years ive been pretty damn messed up in the head by girls. But i think it was for the best, i learned lessons and i now know how to treat things the way they should in order for things to work out. I feel that i dont get attatched that much to a girl anymore, i dont have that feeling right away. Im not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing or may not matter. Like now its real difficult for me to actually have real feelings for a girl. Im asking if and when i meet that girl will i know the different between my real feelings and not real feelings? if that makes any sense.

[DeathCabForCoon]

Hmmm, i'm not too sure what you mean but this may help. I've sort of been dating around lately and even though i'm "in love" with someone, another girl will come by that I'm attracted to and I make the decision to move on with this new girl. The reason I don't feel this unyeilding attachment to one person is because I know she isn't "The One." But I know that when I find her, no one else will matter, and I'll know that my feelings for her are real. Its sort of a matter of trusting your gut feelings.

[mogley]

you'll know

[ky19]

Once you meet the right person, and have a connection with them, you'll definitely know.

[Jason Tate]

You know.

[boysdontcry17]

im in the same position. im tryin to find the perfect girl. meanwhile i whore whenever possible.

[Jason Tate]

im in the same position. im tryin to find the perfect girl. meanwhile i whore whenever possible.
When you least expect it - she'll show up - and it will all click perfectly.

[DanEmo]

good luck with your issues man...
girls always mess with your head, not on purpose though..

i'm in a relationship for years now...but another girl i know found her way into my feelings and now i'm so confused...i guess i'm already falling in love with her...

[Troggy]

Just don't force it. You'll know.

[Heartcore]

honestly i'm pleasantly surprised with the positive comments in this thread (i totally agree). but, i was sure somebody would post something like "you're probably gay."

[Freud]

when it happens, youll know it. its a feeeeeeeeeeling.

[Ryan Imhof]

You will know... yeah, just don't force the feeling, everything should just sort of happen and fall into place.

[enj0i29]

I dont know if its me or what? Within a couple years ive been pretty damn messed up in the head by girls. But i think it was for the best, i learned lessons and i now know how to treat things the way they should in order for things to work out. I feel that i dont get attatched that much to a girl anymore, i dont have that feeling right away. Im not sure if its a good thing or a bad thing or may not matter. Like now its real difficult for me to actually have real feelings for a girl. Im asking if and when i meet that girl will i know the different between my real feelings and not real feelings? if that makes any sense.

I know exactly what you mean. Ever since my last breakup, I've been feeling the same thing. I guess I just can't force it like I have.

[AShannon04]

you'll know. I do :)