View Full Version : I'm really into this girl (yes, it's another sappy teenage love story)
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 12:25 PM
Here's another mushy teenage love story *claps*. So there's this girl at my school I might possibly be in love with. I can't really say "like" - she's too perfect for that. Only problem is, I've never talked to her in my entire life. I've seen her around in school, but she isn't in any of my classes. She's one of my friends on Facebook too. She probably doesn't even know I exist. To be honest, she's absolutely beautiful. Long brown hair, pale blue eyes, prettiest smile I've ever seen. She apparently has a great personality too - sociable and cheerful from what I've seen. Everything I want in a girl. But the ultimate question is - how do I talk to her? I can't go up to her and say "Hey, I think you're really beautiful and I want you to be mine forever." That'd be beyond retarded, and she'd probably think I'm some strange loser. One of the members in my band is close friends with her, but I can't go and be like "Dude, just to tell you, I'm incredibly in love with one of your friends." Again, beyond retarded. I'm a pretty decent guy, very nice to girls, and I'd literally do anything for her. Anything. And I realize I'm only in high school, and possibly too young to figure love out, but I feel like it doesn't matter how old you are. You can find true love at any age. So how do I get the balls to talk to her? Part of me wants to just introduce myself and be a friend to her and let it build up from there, but another part of me wants to just tell her how I feel. Any ideas, suggestions, or other bullshit you want to give me?
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 12:28 PM
I'm gonna save a few people some time: no anal.
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 12:31 PM
I'm gonna save a few people some time: no anal.
Good advice man.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 12:32 PM
You're 15, and claim to love someone you've never even spoken to. What happens if you get to know her and she's a superficial, man-eating whore?
Start liking her Facebook status' or something, maybe even a "lol" every now and then.
cristinaa
02/27/10, 12:34 PM
You should definitely get your friend to introduce you to her, then she'll at least know who you are and you can talk to her without it being weird because you wont be a random stranger anymore. I also definitely don't think you should tell her how you feel right away, get to actually know her first.
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 12:34 PM
You're 15, and claim to love someone you've never even spoken to. What happens if you get to know her and she's a superficial, man-eating whore?
Start liking her Facebook status' or something, maybe even a "lol" every now and then.
If she's a superficial man eating whore, then I'll pray she likes me the best.
cristinaa
02/27/10, 12:36 PM
You're 15, and claim to love someone you've never even spoken to. What happens if you get to know her and she's a superficial, man-eating whore?
Start liking her Facebook status' or something, maybe even a "lol" every now and then.
Yea, you definitely need to actually know her, you might find out that you don't even really like her. Also the Facebook thing is also a good idea once you get introduced. It'll give her the idea that you might be into her without being too direct. Eventually after you get to know her, you can be straightforward about it and just tel her that you like her.
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 12:37 PM
You should definitely get your friend to introduce you to her, then she'll at least know who you are and you can talk to her without it being weird because you wont be a random stranger anymore. I also definitely don't think you should tell her how you feel right away, get to actually know her first.
There's an idea.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 12:40 PM
There's an idea.
Mine was better.
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 12:46 PM
Mine was better.
Ok, the Facebook offer was alright too.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 12:50 PM
Ok, the Facebook offer was alright too.
You're gonna die alone.
lauren1234
02/27/10, 12:52 PM
Yea, you definitely need to actually know her, you might find out that you don't even really like her. Also the Facebook thing is also a good idea once you get introduced. It'll give her the idea that you might be into her without being too direct. Eventually after you get to know her, you can be straightforward about it and just tel her that you like her.
Liking someones status or commenting on it is a sign someone may be in to you? I'm not trying to sound rude or anything. I am curious because someone I like always comments or likes my statuses.
cristinaa
02/27/10, 12:59 PM
Liking someones status or commenting on it is a sign someone may be in to you? I'm not trying to sound rude or anything. I am curious because someone I like always comments or likes my statuses.
Not necessarily, but I'd say that if someone is frequently writing on your wall or commenting on your statuses it's a possibility. I was suggesting it more as an icebreaker more than anything. If you just met someone and you're writing on their wall and commenting on their statuses it kind of implies that you enjoyed meeting them and that you're interested in talking to them more.
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:00 PM
You're gonna die alone.
Hahahah
To the OP: You don't know what love is please pipe down. You just really like this girl. How do you go about getting to know this girl? Ask her out. Just go up to her and ask her out. If she is as nice as you say she is, she will probably say yes. Get your friend to put in a good word about you. It's not weird to ask her out; it fucking creepy "liking" her statuses and shit.
HometownHero
02/27/10, 01:00 PM
Something similar happened to me kinda. Love at first sight type deal. Didn't know her. Found out she was best friends with the girlfriend I just started dating. But the girls best friend was beyond perfect. The way I went about it was just hung out with them a lot. Got the girls number. We texted as friends for a long time. I confessed my love to her. We still talk to this day. I still love her till this day. So I say it exists. Just man up and talk to her. Even wrote a song about her and named it after her (Tori Sprawls) Sproul is her last name. Sure pissed my girlfriend the fuck off haha
HometownHero
02/27/10, 01:01 PM
Liking someones status or commenting on it is a sign someone may be in to you? I'm not trying to sound rude or anything. I am curious because someone I like always comments or likes my statuses.
If they do it a lot I would say yes. And if its always flirty comments
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:02 PM
Liking someones status or commenting on it is a sign someone may be in to you? I'm not trying to sound rude or anything. I am curious because someone I like always comments or likes my statuses.
May is the key word here. I like a lot of my guy friends statuses, does that mean I'm into them? No, it means I like their status. Don't read too much into it, read more into other stuff like smiles and shit.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 01:03 PM
Hahahah
To the OP: You don't know what love is please pipe down. You just really like this girl. How do you go about getting to know this girl? Ask her out. Just go up to her and ask her out. If she is as nice as you say she is, she will probably say yes. Get your friend to put in a good word about you. It's not weird to ask her out; it fucking creepy "liking" her statuses and shit.
Errr, no it isn't. I always like hot girls status', and they haven't said a anything to me about it yet.
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:05 PM
Errr, no it isn't. I always like hot girls status', and they haven't said a anything to me about it yet.
Exactly.
cristinaa
02/27/10, 01:05 PM
May is the key word here. I like a lot of my guy friends statuses, does that mean I'm into them? No, it means I like their status. Don't read too much into it, read more into other stuff like smiles and shit.
Yea, definitely don't read too into it.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 01:08 PM
Exactly.
Twas a joke.
If the OP starts liking a status of his loveinterest every now and then, she'll end up knowing his name, which is a start.
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:10 PM
Twas a joke.
If the OP starts liking a status of his loveinterest every now and then, she'll end up knowing his name, which is a start.
Yeah, I see that point but at the same time it's just a bit weird. I don't like the idea of a complete stranger (which the OP basically is) liking my statuses. I guess it's just my opinion that I think it's creepy?
cristinaa
02/27/10, 01:12 PM
Yeah, I see that point but at the same time it's just a bit weird. I don't like the idea of a complete stranger (which the OP basically is) liking my statuses. I guess it's just my opinion that I think it's creepy?
Yea, if I have no idea who the person is I definitely find it a little creepy. Definitely need an intro first.
TotalCollapse
02/27/10, 01:19 PM
As other people said, you're 15 and you don't even know this girl. You don't love her. You're attracted to her, but there's a lot more to love than just being physically attracted to the person. You should try and get to know her and see if you actually like her personality, then consider asking her out, but don't just ask her out because you think she's cute.
spansen
02/27/10, 01:19 PM
You're 15, and claim to love someone you've never even spoken to. What happens if you get to know her and she's a superficial, man-eating whore?
Start liking her Facebook status' or something, maybe even a "lol" every now and then.
this.
oh, and, at the very least she knows who you are.. you said you're facebook friends.
but, all of this makes you sound really really creepy.. quit being such a creep and make it personal.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 01:21 PM
Yeah, I see that point but at the same time it's just a bit weird. I don't like the idea of a complete stranger (which the OP basically is) liking my statuses. I guess it's just my opinion that I think it's creepy?
Well maybe this loveinterest isn't as judgemental as you?
(Didn't mean for that to sound like I was biting your head off btw)
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:23 PM
Well maybe this loveinterest isn't as judgemental as you?
(Didn't mean for that to sound like I was biting your head off btw)
tis chilled.
Possibly but at the same time, if she is, then the OP becomes the creepy guy from facebook and then he has the problem of finding some roofies and how to slip it into her drink etc etc.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 01:25 PM
tis chilled.
Possibly but at the same time, if she is, then the OP becomes the creepy guy from facebook and then he has the problem of finding some roofies and how to slip it into her drink etc etc.
It's not really rape if she doesn't remember.
terror_91
02/27/10, 01:26 PM
It's not really rape if she doesn't remember.
She can't say no if she isn't conscious.
lauren1234
02/27/10, 01:29 PM
I have no clue how to quote more than one person at a time but thanks to all that answered my question!
As for the OP, I would say tell your friend that you are kind of interested in the girl and have him introduce you. Take it from there.
llwilliamsll
02/27/10, 01:33 PM
Tell your band mate that you are interested in the girl, ask him to invite her over for band practice, then you introduce yourself. Make conversation. Tell her that you hope to see her around school sometime. Etc.
more heart
02/27/10, 01:38 PM
I stopped reading when you said, " I might possibly be in love with. I can't really say "like" - she's too perfect for that. Only problem is, I've never talked to her in my entire life." There's no way you're in love with this girl.
tottivillarossi
02/27/10, 02:05 PM
I stopped reading when you said, " I might possibly be in love with. I can't really say "like" - she's too perfect for that. Only problem is, I've never talked to her in my entire life." There's no way you're in love with this girl.
You stopped reading when you saw my post and realised there was no anal...
greenteaallday
02/27/10, 02:06 PM
Love a girl without knowing her whatsoever..nice
more heart
02/27/10, 02:09 PM
You stopped reading when you saw my post and realised there was no anal...
No?
barkingincision
02/27/10, 02:11 PM
fuck the fb status shit
who does that?
get her to come out to a show, just be like 'hey i heard your friends w/so and so in my band' and tell her to come see you play. you can meet her at the show and yr good. thats all it takes.
robotscantlove
02/27/10, 02:24 PM
That's just stupid to say you're in love with her when you've never talked to her.
Looks aren't everything, they're not even most of things.
Just go talk to her.
Deadbolt23
02/27/10, 02:28 PM
Here's another mushy teenage love story *claps*. So there's this girl at my school I might possibly be in love with. I can't really say "like" - she's too perfect for that. Only problem is, I've never talked to her in my entire life. I've seen her around in school, but she isn't in any of my classes. She's one of my friends on Facebook too. She probably doesn't even know I exist. To be honest, she's absolutely beautiful. Long brown hair, pale blue eyes, prettiest smile I've ever seen. She apparently has a great personality too - sociable and cheerful from what I've seen. Everything I want in a girl. But the ultimate question is - how do I talk to her? I can't go up to her and say "Hey, I think you're really beautiful and I want you to be mine forever." That'd be beyond retarded, and she'd probably think I'm some strange loser. One of the members in my band is close friends with her, but I can't go and be like "Dude, just to tell you, I'm incredibly in love with one of your friends." Again, beyond retarded. I'm a pretty decent guy, very nice to girls, and I'd literally do anything for her. Anything. And I realize I'm only in high school, and possibly too young to figure love out, but I feel like it doesn't matter how old you are. You can find true love at any age. So how do I get the balls to talk to her? Part of me wants to just introduce myself and be a friend to her and let it build up from there, but another part of me wants to just tell her how I feel. Any ideas, suggestions, or other bullshit you want to give me?
There are so many things wrong with you.
OP, you should look up these three words: 'love', 'infatuation', and 'irrational'.
You aren't in love, you are irrationally infatuated with her. With that being said though, if you sack the fuck up and go up and talk to her, you might be able to get to know her a little bit.
Seriously, what is it with these threads? I've never talked to her before and I totally like several qualities about her. What should I do?
I don't know. Perhaps, and this is just me going out on a limb here, you should gather up some testicular fortitude and go talk to her one day. What is the worst that can happen? You get your feelings hurt? Good. It will teach you to stop pretending to fall in love with girls you've never talked to before.
Only good can come of this, my friend.
rosielikesyou
02/27/10, 03:10 PM
OP, you should look up these three words: 'love', 'infatuation', and 'irrational'.
You aren't in love, you are irrationally infatuated with her. With that being said though, if you sack the fuck up and go up and talk to her, you might be able to get to know her a little bit.
Seriously, what is it with these threads? I've never talked to her before and I totally like several qualities about her. What should I do?
I don't know. Perhaps, and this is just me going out on a limb here, you should gather up some testicular fortitude and go talk to her one day. What is the worst that can happen? You get your feelings hurt? Good. It will teach you to stop pretending to fall in love with girls you've never talked to before.
Only good can come of this, my friend.
This.
dgf1811
02/27/10, 03:45 PM
i'm kinda feeling really similarly about a girl atm, but i'm 23 lol. i've talked to the girl before but at the time barely knew her and i had a gf. now she only stays here in the summers and i've pretty much fallen for her. it's completely pathetic. optimistic for the summer though....lol
Yellowcard2006
02/27/10, 03:58 PM
Draw a picture of her.
Numero10
02/27/10, 03:59 PM
I love how 17 and 18 year olds say shit like "You're 15, you don't know what love is cos in my 2/3 extra years I have found out exactly what love is"... But you should probably know her before saying you love her...
P.S. What are her tits like?
l_strange
02/27/10, 04:31 PM
you could just try hanging with this friend of yours that knows her like have a group of you hang out a bit and get to know her like that maybe ?? just an idea
davehennessy
02/27/10, 04:43 PM
So there's this girl at my school I might possibly be in love with. I can't really say "like" - she's too perfect for that. Only problem is, I've never talked to her in my entire life.
You're "in love" with a girl you've never talked to? ...You may need to get a hold of yourself
TheSnoo
02/27/10, 04:59 PM
You're "in love" with a girl you've never talked to? ...You may need to get a hold of yourself
Yeah, I admit I might be overthinking this... but still.
decel241
02/27/10, 05:28 PM
I stopped reading after you said you've never spoken to her. Don't be dumb. Try to find some common friends or something, try to be at a party at the same time and try to talk to her. Get to know her before you decide she's perfect and you're in love with her.
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
iarelevy
02/27/10, 06:50 PM
Don't put the pussy on a pedestal.
haha that's what i came to say - if you've already put her on a pedestal, you've already lost. no one is worth being put up on one. she's just human, like the rest of us.
yayitsjoe
02/27/10, 08:39 PM
assuming her friend is in your band, she must have somewhat decent taste in music.
talk to her about music.
yayitsjoe
02/27/10, 08:40 PM
p.s. dude. she might be perfect in your eyes. but her shit stinks just like yours. calm down.
So you're friends with her on Facebook but you don't know each other? Mhm.
So you're friends with her on Facebook but you don't know each other? Mhm.
i made this mistake in high school. only it was myspace. and i never got with her.
frenchatticus
02/27/10, 11:15 PM
Dude you better not go to Lake Brantley cause this is my exact story. Except I know it's not love yet.
showmethefever
02/27/10, 11:17 PM
I've got similar issues.
S9Dallasoz
02/28/10, 01:17 AM
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brntsnfan
02/28/10, 02:26 AM
If you tell her how you feel she's just going to think you are f-ing crazy... start talking to her and let it build from there... and you cannot be in love with her, you don't even know her... she could be some crazy ass chick... it's always best to feel people out and find out what they are like
KatastrophiE
02/28/10, 04:24 AM
Best advice i can give someone is stop loving, stop liking. find something completely different then her if you feel like she could be the one. find your peace with life before your find the love in her. if its true, shell be there.
Deadbolt23
02/28/10, 08:51 AM
I love how 17 and 18 year olds say shit like "You're 15, you don't know what love is cos in my 2/3 extra years I have found out exactly what love is"... But you should probably know her before saying you love her...
P.S. What are her tits like?
You say that as if it's impossible to find out what love is in 2/3 years,
3wotkris
02/28/10, 09:12 AM
i used to be in a similar situation at 15
then i went to a party that she was at, got myself some liquid confidence and sparked up some conversation.
a week later i was dating her
Moral of the story? DRINK ALCOHOL EVERY DAY
Numero10
02/28/10, 09:23 AM
You say that as if it's impossible to find out what love is in 2/3 years,
What I'm saying is that I hate how 17 or 18 year olds think they're so much more mature than 15 year olds, I'm 15 and I know 19 year olds I'm more mature than.. And I'm not even that mature or anything
swallowURpride
02/28/10, 09:26 AM
you may not be in love, but i can see where you're coming from. you're in love with who you think she is, right?
all i can say is ask your band friend to introduce you two and get to know her before she's gone and you're filled with regrets. also, don't be too upset if she's not anything like what you expected, like you said you don't know her. and deff don't tell her how you feel until you're good friends, because that will creep her out. the best of luck to ya.
Deadbolt23
02/28/10, 09:45 AM
What I'm saying is that I hate how 17 or 18 year olds think they're so much more mature than 15 year olds, I'm 15 and I know 19 year olds I'm more mature than.. And I'm not even that mature or anything
In that case, I agree with you.
Big_Guy
02/28/10, 09:53 AM
you can't really "love" someone you have never said a word to.
Big_Guy
02/28/10, 09:57 AM
Moral of the story? DRINK ALCOHOL EVERY DAY
haha
crayZbuzzard
02/28/10, 10:11 AM
My advice is never to speak to this girl...because you are just going to fuck it up. You need to stop being so desperate because girls are gonna smell that shit on you. And once that happens, it's a wrap. You need to just be yourself, mature a little bit, and the right girl will come along who you can honestly say you love and who will love you back.
But as far as this girl is concerned...you've already lost.
bigblue2015
02/28/10, 10:13 AM
OP, when I was 15 I was the unprecedented king of having crushes on girls I never talked to. And while it's easy to assume that what you're feeling is love, it's most likely not. You'll realize this the first time you really fall in love with a girl you know. So either go and ask her out and get to know her, or just chalk it up to a harmless high school infatuation.
honestIpod
02/28/10, 10:32 AM
Have your friend introduce you then leave some facebook messages. Just keep in mind that this probably won't end well because
1) your 15
2) you already idealized her and there's no where to go but down
3) you have not yet discovered that most girls are indeed evil(specifically the "perfect" ones)
3wotkris
02/28/10, 10:50 AM
3) you have not yet discovered that most girls are indeed evil(specifically the "perfect" ones)
this.
3) you have not yet discovered that most girls are indeed evil(specifically the "perfect" ones)
This.
Metal Now
02/28/10, 02:16 PM
Hate to reiterate the point but you really can't be in love with someone you've never spoken too... Often a good personality is the only good reason TO fall in love.
MyNameIsRoss
02/28/10, 02:27 PM
pretty much everything has already been said, you sound like a big time creeper, you aren't in love, grow a dick and just talk to her etc. etc.
To sum it up.
You're NOT in love.
You'll be over this in 6 months, tops. (Unless you see someone else, and then continue on an endless cycle of "crushes" and convincing yourself you're "meant to be")
Love at first sight does not exist. Not when you're 15, not ever. That's called lust. Get to know the person, then you'll find true love. Hell, it's very unlikely you'll even like the girl once you get to know her, which is why you're wasting a lot of time here. But I guess everyone's gotta go through this.
Sorry to be harsh, but this is reality.
ReignofFiction
02/28/10, 05:15 PM
You should definitely get your friend to introduce you to her, then she'll at least know who you are and you can talk to her without it being weird because you wont be a random stranger anymore. I also definitely don't think you should tell her how you feel right away, get to actually know her first.
This.
Tim Lincecum
02/28/10, 06:00 PM
you dont even know her you cant be in love with her, that is "beyond retarded"
Ripmedj
02/28/10, 07:00 PM
just do something about it dude, take a chance, its not like your ruining a friendship and its not like it would be awkward if you get turned down cuz shes not in any of your classes. go up to her, get to know her, let a couple weeks pass, maybe ask her to chill some time and work from there.
i agree with you, you can love someone at any age, but i also believe you can love someone just as much as someone else so if it doesnt work out, find someone else.
hobointhenite
02/28/10, 07:33 PM
You're gonna die alone.
HAHAHAHA
on a more serious note, at the end you wrote part of you wants to tell her how you feel. don't do that. find someway to get her to know who you are but without making yourself look like an idiot. don't show up to school naked.
TheNotoriousIAN
03/08/10, 11:13 PM
This sounds alot more like an infatuation than love, you haven't even ever talked to her.
This sounds alot more like an infatuation than love, you haven't even ever talked to her.
agreed. thats exactly what i was thinking.
You're 15, it's not the end of the world if you don't get this girl. just try to be friends with her and maybe something might happen
TheSkyline
03/10/10, 10:38 AM
You can't love someone you've never talked to. Sorry.
PaperLantern
03/10/10, 11:04 AM
You can't love someone you've never talked to. Sorry.
Yeah, lol. This.
Most beautiful girls in high school end up turning out chunky and ugly a few years further down the line...trust me! Plus, nobody has a good personality in high school...your either cool or uncool...personalities don't exist quite yet!
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