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Tonight i am going on a date with my ex and today would've been our 2 yrs. I'd be lying if I said i wasn't nervous. Ill give you guys details of how i fucked it up later.
ForeverInADay
07/29/06, 03:28 PM
awk....ward.
how long ago did this end?
december maybe? its been awhile.
jusscali
07/29/06, 03:45 PM
holy shit man...
me and my ex...just had one of those long closure i miss you/ im sorry/ lets try to be friends type of talks two days ago. it had been since december as well, but alot of bad shit went down with alot of hurt feelings. needless to say my head is in the clouds again.
man, alot of people are gonna discourage you, but if its what you really want, than by all means good luck
im rooting for ya
jusscali
07/29/06, 03:45 PM
ohh, do do it ;)
sweet avatar:)
xvszero
07/29/06, 04:00 PM
You're just going to end up fucking, and then all kinds of dumb emotions you thought were gone will splash out with your semen.
jusscali
07/29/06, 04:02 PM
You're just going to end up fucking, and then all kinds of dumb emotions you thought were gone will splash out with your semen.
god i wish that would happen with me
xvszero
07/29/06, 04:04 PM
Nah because the ex is an ex for a reason, and getting all emotional over the ex makes life suck.
ForeverInADay
07/29/06, 04:34 PM
Don't do it!
yeah, it's just bad news dude.
The reason why you broke up in the first place is still going to bother that person who decided to end things.
From experience, bad news.
jusscali
07/29/06, 04:37 PM
Nah because the ex is an ex for a reason, and getting all emotional over the ex makes life suck.
no i completely understand why its bad, but sometimes ex's arent supposed to be ex's and people can work things out after some time off. i know its not the majority, but sometimes things are meant to go back to what they were. im hoping im in the select minority.
ilovebsb
07/29/06, 04:50 PM
yeah i had one of those in the begining of the summer with my ex. it was pretty sweet all the emotional crap was put aside and we just had fun as friends. we went to a party, got drunk and then ended the night with a bang :). it was a good time. The next day we realized things will never be the same but knowing that the 2 of us didnt hate each other was a sign of relief because we knew we'd be there for each other if were ever really needed something. it went back to us never talking to each other again and to be honest i dont care because if you've moved on and you do one of those it shouldnt have to be a bad time. its like when a band breaks up on shitty terms or nothing is said about the band and leave their fans wondering what the hell happened. then they realize the situtation and do that one final tour to end things on good terms with each other in the band.
boysdontcry17
07/29/06, 06:41 PM
dont do it. or do it and pretend its all well and fine then punch her in the falopian tube and run away
boysdontcry17
07/29/06, 06:44 PM
i leave the vecinity if my ex is nearby. i cant stand her.
whiteboypain
07/29/06, 08:20 PM
it sounds to me like .............dude , save yourself the trouble. don't do it...
It went very very good. I actually didnt fuck up (patting myself on the back). I might actually see her tomorrow again.
jusscali
07/29/06, 11:13 PM
It went very very good. I actually didnt fuck up (patting myself on the back). I might actually see her tomorrow again.
well im glad, i hope it works out man.
who ended the relationship...her or you?
ilovebsb
07/29/06, 11:17 PM
i'm bored and its like 2:30 in the morning so entertain me with details. oh yeah i'm glad shit went smooth tonight. right on bro !
jusscali
07/29/06, 11:20 PM
i'm bored and its like 2:30 in the morning so entertain me with details. oh yeah i'm glad shit went smooth tonight. right on bro !
yeah thats what im saying i want the details to know if im completely doomed, or if my past can be salvaged
Blake Solomon
07/29/06, 11:21 PM
It went very very good. I actually didnt fuck up (patting myself on the back). I might actually see her tomorrow again.
nice, ive been dodging this sort of "reunion" because i know it will go horribly.
jusscali
07/29/06, 11:25 PM
nice, ive been dodging this sort of "reunion" because i know it will go horribly.
well me and my ex starting talking the other day and shit...we gave each other hugs and shit and she said to make sure it wasnt the last time i talked to her....but then im trying not to think about the possibility again, and so i havent jumped on anything yet. i think im jsut not gonna talk to her again and see if she comes to me, im safe that way lol
ilovebsb
07/29/06, 11:34 PM
well me and my ex starting talking the other day and shit...we gave each other hugs and shit and she said to make sure it wasnt the last time i talked to her....but then im trying not to think about the possibility again, and so i havent jumped on anything yet. i think im jsut not gonna talk to her again and see if she comes to me, im safe that way lol
it all depends on who dumped who because if you broke up with her and wana get back with her then you're in the drivers seat to show her things will be amazing if you to got together again. but if she broke up with you.. well then thats a completely diffrent story. whatever you do... dont rush things and just let things happen
jusscali
07/29/06, 11:36 PM
it all depends on who dumped who because if you broke up with her and wana get back with her then you're in the drivers seat to show her things will be amazing if you to got together again. but if she broke up with you.. well then thats a completely diffrent story. whatever you do... dont rush things and just let things happen
right on. i know im deff no in the drivers seat, but i also know that she made the effort to apologize and get us talking again...so idk. i know that patience is something i need right now, but as i said, my heads been in the clouds wondering whats in her head. she told one of my close friends she went out with this kid during the year to get over but that it didnt work...now whether that means she still has feelings for me that she may want to pursue again, or that shes still trying to get over me, but just wanted to apologize for some bullshit to help her sleep better at night...idk.
ilovebsb
07/29/06, 11:56 PM
well if i were you i'd let things happen for now before you get ahead of yourself and get the wrong signals. i mean its only the first night you guys hung out.maybe she wants the security of you being there? Who knows
glad it went well. usually they dont.
jusscali
07/30/06, 12:16 AM
well if i were you i'd let things happen for now before you get ahead of yourself and get the wrong signals. i mean its only the first night you guys hung out.maybe she wants the security of you being there? Who knows
yeah..fuck a hoe lol im gonna wait it out, ive done it this much already
ilovebsb
07/30/06, 12:18 AM
yeah..fuck a hoe lol im gonna wait it out, ive done it this much already
haha hells yeah dude!
sweetforever
07/30/06, 08:55 PM
me and my ex arent on good terms right now. shes moved on to a guy im friends with from college and yet takes time out of her day to question me about me hooking up with some younger girl. she still believes i still care about her, and i guess, a lil bit. But I'd rather there be some type of closure or something. Like I dont even think we can be friends. I'm curious to see what happens when her new guy goes back to school and shes still here. Supposedly, he wants her to go to the same school as her, and I know for a fact, that thats not gonna happen. so i'm just gonna see how things play out
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