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Melissa Johnson
07/31/06, 03:05 PM
Olamide Adeyooye's killer has pleaded "guilty" (http://www.pantagraph.com/articles/2006/07/29/news/116834.txt) to all charges against him and was given a sentence of life in prison. Her boyfriend, Andy Wildrick of The Junior Varsity (http://www.myspace.com/thejuniorvarsity) has written a statement for the Associated (http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/local/illinois/chi-ap-il-missingstudent,1,1126126.story?ctra ck=1&cset=true) Press below on his reaction.
I have dwelled on this all day and haven't really known how I should
react to this unexpected event. It has taken some thinking.

I am glad that justice was fairly served and that this man will never
see the light of day as a free person again. The people of the
community should sleep better knowing that this man is now
incarcerated.

As far as me, this event marks the final closure for the hardest event
I will ever have to endure in my life. For the last 9 months I have
felt an open wound that could not close. The pain continued as i
heard stories of this mans eratic behavior in the courtroom and the
violence he has caused while behind bars.
There is now nothing left to wait for and that does bring a small
sense of relief.

When I spent my life with olamide, I was deeply affected by her. She
influenced me and was closer to me than any other human in my life.
She taught me how to love and cherish all the people around me. Her
love for me never wavered and I am grateful that I was able to feel
that...even temporarily. I suppose some people may never experience
that feeling. Everything I do for the rest of my days is in respect
to her memory. Every song I ever write will be for her. She affected
me greatly while alive and even moreso since she was stripped away
from her family, friends and myself. I feel blessed that I have a
connection that will stay with Olamide forever. I will always love
her with all my heart and nothing can possibly change that.

Wallace took her in life and now his is being taken away. Its the
only fair measure for what he has done. I can be content knowing this.
If I thought for a second that this man could be as free as olamide
once was then I would not feel like justice has been served.

The integrity of our justice system can remain fully intact only if
this man never has the slightest chance at having any sort of free
life again. My olamide will never experience life again and neither
should he, not even for a second. He must suffer in prison until he
dies for justice to be served. Rest assured, I hope the other inmates
will make this mans life a living hell. I have no regard for his
feelings and want him to feel pain, terror, and fear in the most
extreme ways for the rest of his natural life. I am relieved that he
pleaded guilty and ended this thing but that does not change my hatred
for him and everything he has done to the people that loved Olamide so
much. He is the only person that I will ever hate. He took the one
thing from me that could cause me to hate. It is truly unforgivable.

Sincerely,
Andy wildrick

Pat Marquez
07/31/06, 03:09 PM
Thank God justice has been served.

Scott Weber
07/31/06, 03:14 PM
Everyone should go listen to Mississippi Burning by Park now...that song makes me tear up every time I hear it.

Blake Solomon
07/31/06, 03:24 PM
Everyone should go listen to Mississippi Burning by Park now...that song makes me tear up every time I hear it.

That song is beautiful. Also, I am glad that this guy is behind bars. I still dont understand how people can end another strangers life for no reason. I am glad justice was served and hope Andy can move on with his life and I know his band deserves to be hugely succesful and I hope for the best for all of them.

Waltz Whitman
07/31/06, 03:31 PM
I'm glad the man is behind bars. He is a sick and twisted being (I refuse to call him human)

As for everyone else I hope they can move on peacefully.

Joe DeAndrea
07/31/06, 03:38 PM
I didn't know she was his boyfriend.

Jason Tate
07/31/06, 03:45 PM
I didn't know she was his boyfriend.
:huh:

Mountain_Range
07/31/06, 03:48 PM
"For the last 9 months I have felt an open wound that could not close."

Has it really been 9months since this happened?? The time has gone so quick. But good news he pleaded guilty. Let's hope his time goes as slow as hell.

Drew Beringer
07/31/06, 04:00 PM
Damn, that last paragraph was intense.

Freud
07/31/06, 04:02 PM
thank god for justice being served. prayers still go out to andy and everyone though for continuing to stay strong.

knux
07/31/06, 04:03 PM
I wish their was something more cruel than life in prison for taking someones life, they don't deserve to be put out of thier misery nor do they deserve to see another sunrise. Im glad there is finally closure.

Ruggiero2oo8
07/31/06, 04:17 PM
thank god for justice being served. prayers still go out to andy and everyone though for continuing to stay strong.



word.

failedXromance
07/31/06, 05:08 PM
does it make me a bad person to say that I have no fucking clue whats going on?

House Fire
07/31/06, 05:08 PM
Thank God. Andy is such a great guy, I'm glad he's gotten some closure.

Robb
07/31/06, 05:09 PM
Damn, that last paragraph was intense.

Definitely. And I completely agree with him in that paragraph. I couldn't imagine something like this happening to me; but if it did, I'm sure my feelings would be quite similar.

enj0i29
07/31/06, 05:15 PM
this just brings back that time she was up on mydeathspace. That shit was ridiculous. I'm glad justice was served though.

kitkatsuperstar
07/31/06, 05:19 PM
i was at ISU a few weeks before that all happened, visiting some close friends, and when i heard about that, all i could think about was "what if that was one of my friends?"

thank god some kind of closure is now here, at least.

Cocaine&Whiskey
07/31/06, 05:23 PM
So is that song by Park about her death, I didn't realize that. I am so happy that this i sall over with.

sweetforever
07/31/06, 05:34 PM
Everyone should go listen to Mississippi Burning by Park now...that song makes me tear up every time I hear it.

I get chills everytime I hear the girl's part. Such a beautiful song. And I agree with Drew, that last paragraph gave me chills.

*crying stars*
07/31/06, 05:58 PM
i'm glad that he's found some sort of closure for this.

does it make me a bad person to say that I have no fucking clue whats going on?

you can kind of figure it out by actually taking the time to read the post/link.

Burnout2888
07/31/06, 06:02 PM
does it make me a bad person to say that I have no fucking clue whats going on?
His girlfriend, Olamide, 9 months ago, was murdered by this man. He got life in prison.

failedXromance
07/31/06, 06:18 PM
i'm glad that he's found some sort of closure for this.



you can kind of figure it out by actually taking the time to read the post/link.

i did that

His girlfriend, Olamide, 9 months ago, was murdered by this man. He got life in prison.


and thats what i gained from it. what i ment was, I dont recall hearing about this before, although that doesnt mean much, i do a lot of drugs

ren
07/31/06, 06:29 PM
I feel defined... as if this was somehow personal, and yet I know that is seemingly blasphemous. How could I or anyone identify and empathize with anything so intensely specific and personal. My sypmathies, prayers and condolences, however inadequate, are readily offered.

MJS87
07/31/06, 07:17 PM
I don't think he needs to hope that guy's life is going to become a living hell in prison. That's almost a given.

Caleb Cattivera
07/31/06, 07:43 PM
justice is served. RIP olamide. we all love you.

TENCopeland
07/31/06, 08:25 PM
So is that song by Park about her death, I didn't realize that. I am so happy that this i sall over with.

ditto? i've been wondering the same thing.

TgE ARTdamage
07/31/06, 08:25 PM
thank god.

i wish andy all the best and i hope she can finally rest in peace.

JohnnyG
07/31/06, 09:15 PM
Thank God justice has been served.

Agreed

WSUskee
07/31/06, 10:29 PM
It just sucks that is all he gets. Yes he is going to spend his life in jail but his actions chose that destiny for him while she didnt get a choice. As for the guy who didnt know what this was about then you must not of been around when she went missing. That seemed to really bring out the good in this group and for once there was no bashing in the thread. Well that is it may she RIP.

Melissa Johnson
07/31/06, 11:08 PM
ditto? i've been wondering the same thing.
Yes it is about her. The girl singing in the song is an old friend of Andy's named Jo.

As to the boy asking what happened, google search if you're curious.

shesautomatic
08/01/06, 12:48 AM
damn

Mark Orr
08/01/06, 03:36 AM
My thoughts are with Andy and of course her family/friends.

N8IVIin0rity
08/01/06, 04:09 AM
that last paragraph gave me the chills. i could not imagine how he feels. but like the guy before me, "my sypmathies, prayers and condolences, however inadequate, are readily offered."

miltownrob
08/01/06, 06:52 AM
the whole timelime of this situation has been sad