Do girls...

[BenjaminGreen]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?

[allthewaysaid]

What makes you unapproachable?

[BenjaminGreen]

What makes you unapproachable?

I don't know its not the "asshole" or anything like that. I'm modest and not over confident in myself, but enough ya know?

[allthewaysaid]

I don't know its not the "asshole" or anything like that. I'm modest and not over confident in myself, but enough ya know?


No, I dont know haha But Yeah, I think it would feel nice for a girl to approach us instead of us having to make the first move

[BenjaminGreen]

No, I dont know haha But Yeah, I think it would feel nice for a girl to approach us instead of us having to make the first move

I agree I've never been the kind of guy to go up to a random girl, even if I could like heel her in I still wouldn't even attempt.

[allthewaysaid]

I agree I've never been the kind of guy to go up to a random girl, even if I could like heel her in I still wouldn't even attempt.

I usually dont think about it that much haha But I know where youre coming from.
Girls should pay for dinner TOO!!! haha

[<*)))><]

Was anyone else assuming this would be a thread asking do girls fart?

[BenjaminGreen]

Was anyone else assuming this would be a thread asking do girls fart?

I was thinking about it.. :-p

[<*)))><]

I was thinking about it.. :-p
I can read minds

[speakhandsforme]

If a girl approaches you, and you don't see yourself as the fucking shit, then she isn't a girl you want: she's a whore, either for cock or general male attention.

[Laural666]

If a girl approaches you, and you don't see yourself as the fucking shit, then she isn't a girl you want: she's a whore, either for cock or general male attention.

Isn't that what most guys want?

[tyramail]

has anyone ever given you a reason as to why you are unapproachable? because from your profile picture, you look like a nice guy.

[BornUnderPunches]

if thats really a pic of you, the first thing that came to my mind was alex gaskarth.

[ArtForLovers]

Maybe you just need to make yourself appear appraochable. Like send a girl a drink. Do something indirect to let a girl know you are interested.

[luvsickcatalyst]

I agree. Although I don't believe girls should pull all the moves because guys are afraid of rejection (something I can relate to but I still go after a girl if she seems nice and will be honest), I do think girls should be less shy to initiate anything. I remember asking my ex-girlfriend if she liked me or anything weeks before I asked her out and she gave a really vague, "I don't know, I guess we're friends, I dunno" and once I made the move, she admitted to liking me and not saying anything because I'm older than her. It did end up being a not-so-good relationship, but regardless, I would much prefer a girl to be kind of honest with me and try to initiate something if she really liked me. The vague answers and chase game do get really tiring after a while.

[songydarko]

Any attractive guy can be considered unapproachable just because they're intimidating. That's how I feel about it atleast.

[ArtForLovers]

Any attractive guy can be considered unapproachable just because they're intimidating. That's how I feel about it atleast.
this is true

[takemyhand]

I would neeeeever approach a guy. But I'm a severely awkward turtle :/

[muttley]

To hell with approaching people.

[phil19]

Any attractive guy can be considered unapproachable just because they're intimidating. That's how I feel about it atleast.

i would say the same about attractive girls

[Kassie09]

I just don't approach guys first because I feel like it is their job to approach me.

[drevans18]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?

i get the same thing some times. and the only plausible solution: the world gets a conference and tells ALL women that its a 2 way street, and that they can approach us too.

[BenjaminGreen]

Well the things I never had problems with girls, but the ones I want never seem to come my way, thats life I know.

[BenjaminGreen]

has anyone ever given you a reason as to why you are unapproachable? because from your profile picture, you look like a nice guy.

Why yes it is me, and thank you very much lady !

[speakhandsforme]

Isn't that what most guys want?

Not the guys who make dating-oriented threads on internet forums.

[BenjaminGreen]

i get the same thing some times. and the only plausible solution: the world gets a conference and tells ALL women that its a 2 way street, and that they can approach us too.

Your the man, haha!

[Scrandon]

i get the same thing some times. and the only plausible solution: the world gets a conference and tells ALL women that its a 2 way street, and that they can approach us too.

Needs to be done.

[muttley]

I just don't approach guys first because I feel like it is their job to approach me.

What if the dude is too nervous to approach you?

[Laural666]

Not the guys who make dating-oriented threads on internet forums.
Good point.

[Laural666]

I just don't approach guys first because I feel like it is their job to approach me.
This.

[about3fitty]

Maybe you just need to make yourself appear appraochable. Like send a girl a drink. Do something indirect to let a girl know you are interested.


dont ever buy a girl a drink

[tyramail]

Why yes it is me, and thank you very much lady !
you are welcome! well i wish you luck hahah

[ArtForLovers]

dont ever buy a girl a drink
well it wouldn't flatter me too much, but why not?

[Mike1021]

Girls like to be approached, they like the attention.

The only times I've been approached by a girl and "hit on" was by an over confident arrogant annoying girl (I'm thinking of someone in particular) and a few really drunk girls.

[whoaisame]

I hate approaching girls, especially cause I was in a relationship for the past 3 years and I have completely lost all the "game" I used to have. The next time I go out, I swear to God, I am going to look for the most beautiful girl in the whole room, walk right up to her and say "I normally don't do this, and I'm actually very shy, but you're the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. Thats all." Just to do it.

[KellyGleason]

dont ever buy a girl a drinkI would be happy if a guy bought me a drink!

I'll talk to anyone, so I'm not sure of an answer for your problem. Girls are probably more scared to talk to attractive guys in general.

[drevans18]

I just don't approach guys first because I feel like it is their job to approach me.

see call me a bitch, but i'm the girlfriend type. so it takes a lot for me to approach a girl, and there are plenty i'd love to. but i can't just turn and talk to every girl that i'd like to get with... so i'd appreciate it sometimes if a girl would approach me. only ONE girl has, and we dated for 14 months. so girls... approach me.

[songydarko]

i would say the same about attractive girls

See, it's solved.

[phil19]

See, it's solved.

what is?

[songydarko]

what is?

Why people are scared to approach others, because they think they're too attractive.

[etheritcher]

I think this is the problem in general with our generation. Girls don't really want to approach guys and guys want girls to approach them. Both ends end up frustrated. As a girl, it would take a whole hell of a lot to get me to approach a guy just because I think that should be a guy thing. Is that a rational thing to think. Probably not, but I know most of my friends feel the same way.

[phil19]

Why people are scared to approach others, because they think they're too attractive.

oh yes. well, in my case thats why. pretty much any girl im into i cant approach because of it. i think there's been only one girl i've ever gone up to and that ended woefully.

[Chancetobe]

If you feel like someone is better looking then you are then you'll be afraid to approach them. Period. I don't see how you couldn't have known that. It's like the first guy I've seen fishing for compliments in a while.

[HometownHero]

I'd love to do some girls

[about3fitty]

well it wouldn't flatter me too much, but why not?

I would be happy if a guy bought me a drink!

I'll talk to anyone, so I'm not sure of an answer for your problem. Girls are probably more scared to talk to attractive guys in general.

i just always think of that as a bad way to approach a girl. ive never done it because of how many girls just try to get drinks out of guys in exchange for giving them false hope for a few minutes. not all girls, obviously, but most.

what i do sometimes is when a girl is with her friends i just walk up and say hi and make the first few seconds as awkward as possible. if she thinks its funny, she is a keeper. if she looks at you like youre crazy, shes a bitch.

[chrislauren]

Girls are just as afraid of rejection as guys are. If you see a girl who you want to be approched by, don't just stand there looking at your shoes. Just make a little eye contact and smile. TRUST ME! If we don't think your into us, we won't waste our time. Shy guys are cute, just don't be a pussy. Cocky isn't good, but you need to have a little confidence. You wouldn't believe how far a little eye contact will get you! You're super cute, so just know that and be confident. It's key. Good luck

[tkamB]

Isn't that what most guys want?

Not for a girlfriend. For a hook up sure, but whores aren't girlfriend material.

[Reaver]

A little afraid of rejection..
wtf????
not just a little, dude. seriously, get your shit together and talk to the girl you chose. letting the girl chose has become a pretty bad habit in the last ~50 years.

[Deadbolt23]

Man have to make the move. It's just the way it is.

Just man up and go for it. What's the worst?

[Akissforher]

i just wish they would be straight up if they like me/interested in anyway, if theres one thing i hate is trying to figure it all out going by what they, how they say it etc.

or maybe ive been watching too much seinfeld and slowly become george..

[Jennurna Gray]

No, I dont know haha But Yeah, I think it would feel nice for a girl to approach us instead of us having to make the first move
But the problem with that is that the girls like to feel like 'the girl'. It's just how society works, the guy is the one to make the important moves.
I'm really outgoing, and I tend to just walk up to guys and introduce myself, and I don't really understand why people find it so hard.

[cristinaa]

i just always think of that as a bad way to approach a girl. ive never done it because of how many girls just try to get drinks out of guys in exchange for giving them false hope for a few minutes. not all girls, obviously, but most.

Yea, unless you already know the girl or are pretty sure she's interested you're probably just wasting your money buying her a drink. I definitely like it if a guy I like buys me a drink, but I've also accepted plenty of drinks from random guys I was completely uninterested in and just walked away a few minutes later.

I don't really ever approach guys, but not because I don't think I stand a chance. I just like to be approached, but I probably should approach more guys because then I can control what guys I talk to and not just take whatever ones come my way.

[ArtForLovers]

i just always think of that as a bad way to approach a girl. ive never done it because of how many girls just try to get drinks out of guys in exchange for giving them false hope for a few minutes. not all girls, obviously, but most.

what i do sometimes is when a girl is with her friends i just walk up and say hi and make the first few seconds as awkward as possible. if she thinks its funny, she is a keeper. if she looks at you like youre crazy, shes a bitch.
haha I do agree. And honestly, I always thought those few awkward moments would show real courage and confidence. Which would have always been attractive. So you have a good method going there.

[terror_91]

Man have to make the move. It's just the way it is.

Just man up and go for it. What's the worst?
Tazer.

I'm too beautiful to be approached which is why no girls approach me. I give off too much sex appeal, amirite?

[bladerdude360]

If a girl approaches you, and you don't see yourself as the fucking shit, then she isn't a girl you want: she's a whore, either for cock or general male attention.
http://ghostisland.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/lolwut.jpg

[warstory]

^ lol at that

anywho I always feels so pressured when someone good looking approaches me

I'd much rather approach someone I am attracted to. At least I can sort of control where the conversation goes.

[crimsonandclovr]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?

are you kidding? of course. you said you're afraid of rejection. well, so are girls. it's hard enough to let someone know that the interest is mutual. and it's even harder to initiate that attraction.

[saveferris]

Isn't that what most guys want?
You are sadly mistaken

[KellyGleason]

i just always think of that as a bad way to approach a girl. ive never done it because of how many girls just try to get drinks out of guys in exchange for giving them false hope for a few minutes. not all girls, obviously, but most.

what i do sometimes is when a girl is with her friends i just walk up and say hi and make the first few seconds as awkward as possible. if she thinks its funny, she is a keeper. if she looks at you like youre crazy, shes a bitch.If a guy sends me a drink, I'll approach him. But I'd rather him introduce himself, then ask me if I'd like a drink. Either way, a drink is a drink!

[allthewaysaid]

But the problem with that is that the girls like to feel like 'the girl'. It's just how society works, the guy is the one to make the important moves.
I'm really outgoing, and I tend to just walk up to guys and introduce myself, and I don't really understand why people find it so hard.

Maybe the reason they find hard is because youre attractive
Hahaha Sorry I make lame jokes haha
So wait, they dont like when you make the first move?

[Yellowcard2006]

Isn't that what most guys want?
No why? Has that been your attack strategy all this time?

lol jk

[rosielikesyou]

Girls tend to be more hesitant and afraid of rejection, I think - it doesn't necessarily mean you're an asshole, but if you're generally confident, the chicks around you feel either insecure in comparison/might think you'll be the one to make the move. It does suck a lot, and it can be kinda hard to read their signals. But hey, you're attractive - if you see a girl that interests you, man up and just go for it.

[frenchatticus]

Was anyone else assuming this would be a thread asking do girls fart?

I lolled.

[teaahnuh]

honestly, sometimes i never even consider talking to a guy because i think that he won't be interested in someone like me. an incredibly hot guy is completely unapproachable for me. i guess i always wait for someone to talk to me, which is really very stupid.

[eclypsion]

I think that girls should be able to approach guys without someone thinking they're an attention whore (someone mentioned that earlier). And I know personally though, I don't think this is a gender specific thing, that I would find it difficult to approach someone I'm attracted to (ie. go up and introduce myself) just because it's intimidating.

[Laural666]

No why? Has that been your attack strategy all this time?

lol jk

I've actually been with the same guy for over a year, I don't even
remember my "attack strategy" lol. But I'm pretty sure this wasn't it.

[jco3]

Any attractive guy can be considered unapproachable just because they're intimidating. That's how I feel about it atleast.

In that case, I'm very ... approachable.

[songydarko]

In that case, I'm very ... approachable.
hahaha aw.

[geebee889]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?


That's how I feel a lot of times because I'm really shy. I feel like they'll think I'm stupid or something of that nature if I say anything. Plus I just don't know what to talk about. :shrug:

[Richard Maxim]

I'm typically unapproachable cause of my huge cock but other than that, I'm a sweetie.

[terror_91]

In that case, I'm very ... approachable.

I'm typically unapproachable cause of my huge cock but other than that, I'm a sweetie.
Cute

[limepomegranate]

If a girl approaches you, and you don't see yourself as the fucking shit, then she isn't a girl you want: she's a whore, either for cock or general male attention.
That's bullshit. Complete and utter bullshit.

[Meeze]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?


dude, my friends who are girls tell me all the time that they see girls hitting on me. it is not that i am completely oblivious, it is just that i am terrified of rejection as well. totally understand.

[Richard Maxim]

Cute

I know. =-)

[KatastrophiE]

That's bullshit. Complete and utter bullshit.

Don't know about complete bullshit. I think what hes trying to say is that if you aren't comfortable with your own self image and personality, it is less likely that a person who is will take interest in you. Instead it's the ones with the deficiencies: the whores. Not to say that I don't love whores, they can be some of the most fun people in the world; just never take them seriously and always use a condom.

[lynnie]

Sometimes find guys to be unapproachable because the girls think they don't stand a chance? Because I've been told that I'm a little unapproachable but its funny because I would love for a girl to approach me because I can't do that. A little afraid of rejection..

Thoughts?


Yeah, I guess it is all to do with confidence. Even at my age, I don't think I have the confidence to approach a guy... I guess everyone is afraid of rejection...

[terror_91]

Yeah, I guess it is all to do with confidence. Even at my age, I don't think I have the confidence to approach a guy... I guess everyone is afraid of rejection...
I also live in Cheshire.
Discuss.

[lynnie]

I also live in Cheshire.
Discuss.

Gosh! Small word... am I not a little old for you? :-d

[terror_91]

Gosh! Small word... am I not a little old for you? :-d
My, my. What are you suggesting? I only wanted a friendly chat ;-)

[Charles777]

Swt brg

[bNz719]

What makes you unapproachable?

I don't know its not the "asshole"


:lol:

[tottivillarossi]

Gosh! Small word... am I not a little old for you? :-d
Just wait til you hit 40. You'll be on him like stink on cheese.

[lynnie]

Just wait til you hit 40. You'll be on him like stink on cheese.

Cheeky! :-p

[about3fitty]

Yea, unless you already know the girl or are pretty sure she's interested you're probably just wasting your money buying her a drink. I definitely like it if a guy I like buys me a drink, but I've also accepted plenty of drinks from random guys I was completely uninterested in and just walked away a few minutes later.


haha exactly. and i guess walking away a few minutes later is much better than standing there talking to the guy for a while, getting his hopes up and then being like yeah...you never had a chance cya

haha I do agree. And honestly, I always thought those few awkward moments would show real courage and confidence. Which would have always been attractive. So you have a good method going there.

now everyone is going to steal my move!

[Jennurna Gray]

Maybe the reason they find hard is because youre attractive
Hahaha Sorry I make lame jokes haha
So wait, they dont like when you make the first move?
No, lol. I'm outgoing and have no problem introducing myself to guys. I don't understand why people are afraid to do that.

[Kassie09]

What if the dude is too nervous to approach you?

Then we're not going to talk I guess! I wouldn't just come up to a guy i'd never met. Maybe if we had mutual friends and had been at parties together..but unless he waved at me or something..probably not. And Im not even shy, I just feel like it'd be weird haha.

[In2deep]

I can see where you're coming from... Even though I'm a girl. I'd rather have guys approach me. I absolutely hate it when guys automatically assume that you are "interested" in them when you strike up a conversation. Its like I'm bored and like to talk a lot. In other words I'm not interested. Do guys tend to think that way?

[In2deep]

No, lol. I'm outgoing and have no problem introducing myself to guys. I don't understand why people are afraid to do that.

Its been echoed many times. Some people are either extremely shy or lack confidence. Funny, I can talk to guys on a non- romantic level when it gets to the point where I actually like them, I'm tongue tied. And I'm out- going too...

[BenjaminGreen]

I'm glad this got a little good conversation started, its nice to know other peoples opinion. Because I'm not shy at all I'm very out going and talkative, its just I need to work on the approach thing. I mean I didn't come on here to get dating tips haha but ya know its good conversation.

[allthewaysaid]

No, lol. I'm outgoing and have no problem introducing myself to guys. I don't understand why people are afraid to do that.

Hey, I Just read what I said and it didnt come out like the way I wanted to haha
This is how it was supposed to be: Maybe the reason they find IT hard is because youre attractive

Oh ok! You mean people overall haha Alot of people are just shy and nervous about the fact that the might get shut down by a girl.

[muttley]

Then we're not going to talk I guess! I wouldn't just come up to a guy i'd never met. Maybe if we had mutual friends and had been at parties together..but unless he waved at me or something..probably not. And Im not even shy, I just feel like it'd be weird haha.

That's what sucks. It's a total catch-22. Although, I agree that it's weird all around if it's a complete stranger, even though there could be some potential love going on.

[Kassie09]

That's what sucks. It's a total catch-22. Although, I agree that it's weird all around if it's a complete stranger, even though there could be some potential love going on.

yeah its always weird when a random guy talks to you in the first place haha

[BenjaminGreen]

yeah its always weird when a random guy talks to you in the first place haha

The only way I would ever approach a girl is if they threw me some kinda signals. But I cannot stand the guys who will go up to a random girl cocky as can be and attempt to make conversation. I was never a fan of that and I kind of find it ignorant.

[nickstetina]

The only way I would ever approach a girl is if they threw me some kinda signals. But I cannot stand the guys who will go up to a random girl cocky as can be and attempt to make conversation. I was never a fan of that and I kind of find it ignorant.

This. I've basically agreed with everything you said so far, haha.

[spansen]

What makes you unapproachable?
he's too pretty

[Jennurna Gray]

Its been echoed many times. Some people are either extremely shy or lack confidence. Funny, I can talk to guys on a non- romantic level when it gets to the point where I actually like them, I'm tongue tied. And I'm out- going too...
If I like them, I'm still outgoing, I just talk about the wrong things. And tend to babble when things get too quiet.

[Jennurna Gray]

Oh, fuck. I absolutely LOVE when random guys come up and strike a conversation with me. I love meeting new people, and it makes me feel good when the other person makes an effort to talk to me, even though they don't know me.

[Jennurna Gray]

Hey, I Just read what I said and it didnt come out like the way I wanted to haha
This is how it was supposed to be: Maybe the reason they find IT hard is because youre attractive

Oh ok! You mean people overall haha Alot of people are just shy and nervous about the fact that the might get shut down by a girl.
Oh, makes more sense, but lol.
I guess rejection is a scary thing to deal with for some people. I'm confident enough in myself to know it wouldn't be the end of the world. If one guy doesn't like me, well shit, here comes the next bus. You know?

[cristinaa]

yeah its always weird when a random guy talks to you in the first place haha

I don't find it weird at all if a random guy tries to start a conversation with me, especially not if I'm interested in them. Even if I'm uninterested I don't mind talking for a little as long as it's not a case where the guy won't leave me alone. I do hate when a guy is too in my face.

[allthewaysaid]

Oh, makes more sense, but lol.
I guess rejection is a scary thing to deal with for some people. I'm confident enough in myself to know it wouldn't be the end of the world. If one guy doesn't like me, well shit, here comes the next bus. You know?


I like you.

[Jennurna Gray]

I like you.
Oh?
Well, you're not so bad yourself.
I'm Jenna, by the way.

[Forever.Zero]

I magnet the girls in with my ability to hand stand.
take notes fella's

[allthewaysaid]

Oh?
Well, you're not so bad yourself.
I'm Jenna, by the way.

Haha Nice to meet you, Im Adrian......(sigh) I hate my name haha Cant believe my parents named me that haha

[terror_91]

Haha Nice to meet you, Im Adrian......(sigh) I hate my name haha Cant believe my parents named me that haha
Is that because everyone calls you Aids?

[allthewaysaid]

Is that because everyone calls you Aids?
Hahaha Aids? Thats not even clever haha No because I always thought it was more like a girl's name

[terror_91]

Hahaha Aids? Thats not even clever haha No because I always thought it was more like a girl's name
But it so is :thumbup:

Maybe in the US. I don't know anyone called that who is a girl.

[allthewaysaid]

But it so is :thumbup:

Maybe in the US. I don't know anyone called that who is a girl.

Haha Yeah, youre right it is clever, I almost cried a little inside when you said that haha
Yeah, I think its a common girl's name in the US only haha Thanks

[In2deep]

If I like them, I'm still outgoing, I just talk about the wrong things. And tend to babble when things get too quiet.
Haha. I agree about the babbling part. I can't stand awkward moments. Though they are funny sometimes ( when you look back on it).

[Jennurna Gray]

Haha Nice to meet you, Im Adrian......(sigh) I hate my name haha Cant believe my parents named me that haha
What? I actually really like your name.
I met this kid once named Adrian, and I really wanted to be friends with him just so I could use his name in day-to-day conversation.

[Jennurna Gray]

Haha. I agree about the babbling part. I can't stand awkward moments. Though they are funny sometimes ( when you look back on it).
I agree, haha.

[allthewaysaid]

What? I actually really like your name.
I met this kid once named Adrian, and I really wanted to be friends with him just so I could use his name in day-to-day conversation.
Yeah, like im actually gonna believe that haha but thanks
Ok! I feel obligated to say something nice to you now haha Uhh.....If I ever have a daughter I MIGHT name it Jenna haha Its one of the top 5 names on my mind haha Ok actually thats not true but you get the point haha Im trying to be nice haha

[In2deep]

Yeah, like im actually gonna believe that haha but thanks
Ok! I feel obligated to say something nice to you now haha Uhh.....If I ever have a daughter I MIGHT name it Jenna haha Its one of the top 5 names on my mind haha Ok actually thats not true but you get the point haha Im trying to be nice haha

There's nothing wrong with your name. Haha. Its a nice name.

[In2deep]

I agree, haha.

I know I've asked this before, but don't you think its a little silly when guys think you're hitting on them when you decide to strike up a conversation with them? I barely even talk to guys for that reason. I don't want to lead them on. Haha.

[allthewaysaid]

There's nothing wrong with your name. Haha. Its a nice name.

Haha Thank YOU!

[holybatmon]

I fucking love it when girls approach guys. Especially at shows. Two girls at the UO show on Monday: Curse the early trains.

Anyway, maybe it's cos you seem self absorbed or angry or something. I know that on a daily basis I tend to look moody, which I guess is why I generally get approached more when I'm in a good mood (like at shows, when hammered etc).

Ask your mates!

[holybatmon]

I know I've asked this before, but don't you think its a little silly when guys think you're hitting on them when you decide to strike up a conversation with them? I barely even talk to guys for that reason. I don't want to lead them on. Haha.

I'll be honest-it's usually just an initial "Holy shit a girl I'm stoked" then followed by a surge of manliness to compensate for that fleeting moment of surprise. So you just have to be awesome enough to take it back to that first reaction...

[terror_91]

I fucking love it when girls approach guys. Especially at shows. Two girls at the UO show on Monday: Curse the early trains.

Anyway, maybe it's cos you seem self absorbed or angry or something. I know that on a daily basis I tend to look moody, which I guess is why I generally get approached more when I'm in a good mood (like at shows, when hammered etc).

Ask your mates!
Yes UO. You enjoy the show?

[MegSo]

Any attractive guy can be considered unapproachable just because they're intimidating. That's how I feel about it atleast.


This. Ever think that maybe girls don't approach you because they're afraid of rejection as well?

[Jennurna Gray]

Yeah, like im actually gonna believe that haha but thanks
Ok! I feel obligated to say something nice to you now haha Uhh.....If I ever have a daughter I MIGHT name it Jenna haha Its one of the top 5 names on my mind haha Ok actually thats not true but you get the point haha Im trying to be nice haha
Lol, thanks, I think?

[songydarko]

This. Ever think that maybe girls don't approach you because they're afraid of rejection as well?

Truth.

[tottivillarossi]

This. Ever think that maybe girls don't approach you because they're afraid of rejection as well?
Lol. Silly girl. Women don't have feelings. Duh, it's called science.

[terror_91]

Lol. Silly girl. Women don't have feelings. Duh, it's called science.
I found something smelly and disgusting in my wife's knickers this morning.

My wife.

[holybatmon]

Yes UO. You enjoy the show?

My neck still hearts. I only just got my voice back. Fuck yes I did! You? Kinda a shame the venue was only half full. Makes me sick that people would rather see ADTR

[reesa]

I can see where you're coming from... Even though I'm a girl. I'd rather have guys approach me. I absolutely hate it when guys automatically assume that you are "interested" in them when you strike up a conversation. Its like I'm bored and like to talk a lot. In other words I'm not interested. Do guys tend to think that way?

exactly! i get that too often and shits me because when i reject them they get all..."you screwed me over" and it's like, we had one conversation! get over it :P some guys are so girly these days.

[terror_91]

My neck still hearts. I only just got my voice back. Fuck yes I did! You? Kinda a shame the venue was only half full. Makes me sick that people would rather see ADTR
I went by myself but yeah. They are awesome live. I wish I had been with someone else so that I could have got a bit more involved.

[holybatmon]

I went by myself but yeah. They are awesome live. I wish I had been with someone else so that I could have got a bit more involved.

Same. I always go to shows alone. You always meet cool people though so it's all good!

[In2deep]

Haha Thank YOU!

No problem. Haha.

[In2deep]

I'll be honest-it's usually just an initial "Holy shit a girl I'm stoked" then followed by a surge of manliness to compensate for that fleeting moment of surprise. So you just have to be awesome enough to take it back to that first reaction...

Haha. Are you trying to say I'm not awesome enough? I'm giving you the benefit of doubt. Explain.

[In2deep]

exactly! i get that too often and shits me because when i reject them they get all..."you screwed me over" and it's like, we had one conversation! get over it :P some guys are so girly these days.

Very, very true. Glad to know I'm not the only one who thinks that. Haha. Couldn't agree more. Then they start acting all strange. All manly... I swear to God, I hate that.

[MegSo]

Lol. Silly girl. Women don't have feelings. Duh, it's called science.


Pfffft. We have too many.

[AndrewIcex]

Grow some balls, and go get what you want.

[terror_91]

Same. I always go to shows alone. You always meet cool people though so it's all good!
My first one. Next time I won't stand at the side with my hood up haha. Wasn't in a very talkative mood though.

[framebyframe]

Yes, of course. I am really shy around guys I don't know because of this reason.

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I don't consider being "rejected" right as I approach someone. Why would someone be a complete dick to someone they just met?

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