Another thread on the same girl.

[abusedcat]

Yes.
Well, she broke up with me a few weeks ago, and, well, I haven't been taking it good. I have trouble eating, I'm now around 100 pounds, I haven't shaven in god knows how long, and, last night I tried to kill myself.
Last night I went to a show (Hopefield CD release w/ Self Against City) and, she was blatantly hooking up with this boy in front of me (and, it's my first time seeing here since we've broken up, but we talked on the phone). Granted, we're over, but it rubbed me the wrong way. So, I'm like "who's that guy she's hooking up with?" and my friend says "oh, *name taken out for privacy*" and litterally, I started shaking. Back when we were going out, I'd call her and she'd be "hanging" with this guy. I think she cheated on me. And, after she broke up with me, she kept saying that "she's sorry" and "it was so hard for me to do" and like that she cares about me and stuff. I was fed up, so I went home and swallowed a mouthful of pills. Didn't work.
Fuck.
I'm sorry I'm giving you my problems, but I need help.

[matt_rawlings]

Dude, get a hold of yourself.

You are 15, and you are saying you were trying to kill yourself over some little bitch? Jesus christ you need some serious help if you are going to make some shit faced skank make you feel like that, seriously.

And, dont do the whole suicide/self harm thing. trust me, if people really want to die, they jump off a very tall building or blow their brains out, they don't come on forums and tell millions of randoms.

[yourcodenameis:]

Everything is finite.

[parallelism]

Yeah, seriously.

You're just a kid, dude. It was bound to end sooner or later, it's ridiculous to take it that hard. I know you probably can't help it at this point, but seriously, the self-harm route is the worst way to go.

That girl was a bitch, you can take that however you want. But, you're better off without her so if anything, you should be happy that you guys are over.

Seriously though, if anything, just sit around and mope until you feel better. Trying to kill yourself is a waste and you'll regret it so badly later. You can end up with so many permanent health conditions just by trying to OD and then later on, you'll just be like, "Fuck, why the fuck did I do that?"

Stop that shit, seriously. I think you need a wakeup call. Life would still be worth living if you never met a girl again. Take a look around. There is plenty to live for.

[TheTrooth]

chill dude. seriously. no skank ass slut is worth hurting yourself. this may not sound like good advice but if you really think shes worth it, go beat the other dudes ass. just make sure shes there. i dont know, everyone says you should probably just let it go and get on with life but beating his ass might make you feel better. or get a new girl. make her jealous. turn the tables on her

[xStareAtThesunx]

I just went through a hard breakup myself and then had this guy (while I still wasn't completely over him) call me drunk telling me he was screwing around with some girl.

He also came in my line at work (I work at a supermarket) and got condoms IN MY LINE. He didn't get sex from me because I'm not ready at this point in my life so I guess he got fed up and broke up with me so he could screw around with his friend and get some from from her. When he did this I started shaking I was so mad and I just didn't know what I was going to do.

I've learned one thing, it took about a month but I clearly got over this kid. I didn't eat either. I cried all the time. But I've realized how disgusting he is and I've seen all the other opportunities I have out there.
I know the last thing you want to think about is being with someone else, but would you rather be stuck with that girl forever and be unhappy? There's someone else that will treat you better. You'll see the difference when you meet other people and you'll be happier then you ever were with her even though it seems impossible now. Just keep your chin up and realize that time will heal your situation. Don't do anything dumb over this girl who you'll laugh about later on because it's not worth it.

[thebestkylever]

keep your chin up buddy. it sucks that girls dont really understand how much control they have over dudes, and it sucks even more when they abuse that and tihnk nothing of it. but you are young my friend, and there are girls out there with hearts and brains and im sure you'll find one sooner or later. just try not to dwell on the past, and dont try to force anything new. it will happen when you least expect it. until then just try to get your mind of that whore of an ex of yours. i suggest frisbee, wiffleball, or playing fetch with your dog (if you have one). and dude, suicide is for pussies; and you were listening to against me, so i know you arent a pussy. cut that shit out.

[TheTrooth]

keep your chin up buddy. it sucks that girls dont really understand how much control they have over dudes, and it sucks even more when they abuse that and tihnk nothing of it. but you are young my friend, and there are girls out there with hearts and brains and im sure you'll find one sooner or later. just try not to dwell on the past, and dont try to force anything new. it will happen when you least expect it. until then just try to get your mind of that whore of an ex of yours. i suggest frisbee, wiffleball, or playing fetch with your dog (if you have one). and dude, suicide is for pussies; and you were listening to against me, so i know you arent a pussy. cut that shit out.


i agree...against me! = totally not for pussies. suicide = totally for pussies

[boysdontcry17]

Yes.
Well, she broke up with me a few weeks ago, and, well, I haven't been taking it good. I have trouble eating, I'm now around 100 pounds, I haven't shaven in god knows how long, and, last night I tried to kill myself.
Last night I went to a show (Hopefield CD release w/ Self Against City) and, she was blatantly hooking up with this boy in front of me (and, it's my first time seeing here since we've broken up, but we talked on the phone). Granted, we're over, but it rubbed me the wrong way. So, I'm like "who's that guy she's hooking up with?" and my friend says "oh, *name taken out for privacy*" and litterally, I started shaking. Back when we were going out, I'd call her and she'd be "hanging" with this guy. I think she cheated on me. And, after she broke up with me, she kept saying that "she's sorry" and "it was so hard for me to do" and like that she cares about me and stuff. I was fed up, so I went home and swallowed a mouthful of pills. Didn't work.
Fuck.
I'm sorry I'm giving you my problems, but I need help.

alright. listen to me. trust me. i went through the same thing. this girl totally played me and i ended up breakin up with her cause she didnt have the balls to do it (oh snap!)
i thought it was the end of the world, i often though of suicide because she meant so much. shit, look at my earlier journals, i felt like death. now im all better, hell right now im supposed to meet a lady ;).
the point is you'll move on, you'll forget her. just give it time and try to look at it in a rational manner.

[boysdontcry17]

i agree...against me! = totally not for pussies. suicide = totally for pussies

against me! is totally badass.

seriously dude. come on, you're better than that.

[xTJx]

Find another girl, and do her in the butt

[12:46AM]

Find another girl, and do her in the butthahahaha. excellent advice. listen to this man.

[absentmindedx]

Hey man, the first few weeks are tough. But hang in there. I would suggest spending time with your friends and family, they keep your mind off the bad stuff. You're still young, and there are a lot of girls out there.

[laryssa]

Yeah dude, and I know it sounds sleezy, but you're not going to be with the same girl your whole life. You're going to be with a ton probably before that ONE.

[xvszero]

^^^ Not necessarily a TON unless you specifically want to be slutty. Many guys I know only had sex with like 2 or 3 girls before getting married. Then again I hang out with the non-party people. But yeah, no one stays with the girl they were dating at 15. Ok maybe some people do but they usually are white trash and get married at 18 and already have 2 kids by then.

But you need help alright man. I mean seriously. You don't need advice from a web forum, you need a counselor ASAP and probably should be on medication.

And probably should hold off dating girls for awhile too. You're 15... you have plenty of time for girls. Get your life together first.

[boldt_action]

Go gay.


Problem solved.

[boysdontcry17]

someone asked me to go gay lol.

[Freud]

man up pussy. go eat some food dammit.

[xTJx]

Yeah dude, and I know it sounds sleezy, but you're not going to be with the same girl your whole life. You're going to be with a ton probably before that ONE.
So...you uh...wanna hook up?

[williek311]

just forget about the chick

[abusedcat]

thanks for the help guys.

[ForeverInADay]

So...you uh...wanna hook up?

ew

[Freud]

So...you uh...wanna hook up?
:gay:

[PunkGirl515]

look sweetie, their are so many other girls that will treat you better than your ex. She doesn't deserve you and you deserve a better girl. Or you can stay single for a while and just be friends with girls and get to know them better. You are still young and have so many years to date. No matter who piss you off don't hurt yourself, its not worth it.

[xTJx]

ew
Hahaha. I know the storyyy....

[eye<3n00dz]

me too man
i just tried to kill myself right now with bleach and pine tar
all it did was make my shit cleaner and stickier.

[mht]

dont stick it in her butt,
dont get a livejournal

she didnt fuck two guys in less than 24 hours, and one in a sink you didnt spend a year and a half on her and waste a whole year of college. thats what my ex did to me, i was whipped and pathetic, im still hurting too.

youll be alright brosef, you will meet girl(s) that will treat you right someday. keep on keepin on man, ill say a prayer for you.<3

[bigmike]

Dude, get a hold of yourself.

You are 15, and you are saying you were trying to kill yourself over some little bitch? Jesus christ you need some serious help if you are going to make some shit faced skank make you feel like that, seriously.

And, dont do the whole suicide/self harm thing. trust me, if people really want to die, they jump off a very tall building or blow their brains out, they don't come on forums and tell millions of randoms.
/thread.

[Kram41]

move on