weird female situation

[buysoap]

ok, so i have a friend who has a weird female situation, hence the title. and i was wondering what advice i could get because i don't know what to say.

my friend got dumped by this girl he was absolutely in love with. more than anything in the world, he loved her. he loved her more than his friends, so we have all been kind of in the background for a while, but i mean... i get where he's coming from, so we don't yell at him about it or anything. so he goes with her to college, and while there, she breaks up with him. but it's one of those... break things. its supposed to be temporary while she gets her shit together because apparently she has some major problems. he suspects she cheated on him or something like that, or has been cheating on him, so my friend is absolutely devastated over this and starts to get really fucked up. but eventually, he gets back into the routine friend business and has a sort of normal life. so while on the break, he meets up with this other girl, and i guess the two hit it off. i don't know if anything happened between them, as far as i know they were just friends, but i guess right as he was becoming close with her, his "ex" was getting ready to take him back. but with this other girl, it just fucks everything up even more so. so, for her, he says goodbye to this other girl, and does whatever he can to prove he loves her. however, now she's convinced he doesn't love her anymore and doesn't want to be with him until she says she can believe it. so she proposed this idea that, when college starts, they should just avoid and not speak to each other for like... two months, or something like that. the idea is that when they get back together after that, it'll be fresh and new, just like when they started dating in high school.

now, i dont know if the girl cheated on him, and i don't know if he did anything with that other girl, but that's pretty fucked up. i mean... i wanna say they both love each other... i know he does, he's fucking crazy for her... but lately, he's so depressed 24/7 that he sits at home and doesn't come out anymore. they haven't even started the "no talking thing" but he's just so not motivated to do anything because he knows it's coming and he's freaked out of his mind about it. so what can i say to him? does anyone have any suggestions?

[xvszero]

Pretty much 99% of the time when a couple "goes on a break" its because things are over... and they just don't want to admit it to themselves.

Or because they want to fuck other people. But then, when you're fucking other people things are definately over anyway.

[xTJx]

Nice banner in your sig...

[Juliana101]

Nice banner in your sig...

It would be hard to vote for whose was better.

[boysdontcry17]

pretty sure a break is a nice way of saying "i dont want you anymore"

[Freud]

yeah if theres reason for a break then theres obviously something wrong. and a reason not to get back together.

[xTJx]

It would be hard to vote for whose was better.
Copiers these days..

[xowearmeout]

Nice banner in your sig...

>:(

[xowearmeout]

ok, so i have a friend who has a weird female situation, hence the title. and i was wondering what advice i could get because i don't know what to say.

my friend got dumped by this girl he was absolutely in love with. more than anything in the world, he loved her. he loved her more than his friends, so we have all been kind of in the background for a while, but i mean... i get where he's coming from, so we don't yell at him about it or anything. so he goes with her to college, and while there, she breaks up with him. but it's one of those... break things. its supposed to be temporary while she gets her shit together because apparently she has some major problems. he suspects she cheated on him or something like that, or has been cheating on him, so my friend is absolutely devastated over this and starts to get really fucked up. but eventually, he gets back into the routine friend business and has a sort of normal life. so while on the break, he meets up with this other girl, and i guess the two hit it off. i don't know if anything happened between them, as far as i know they were just friends, but i guess right as he was becoming close with her, his "ex" was getting ready to take him back. but with this other girl, it just fucks everything up even more so. so, for her, he says goodbye to this other girl, and does whatever he can to prove he loves her. however, now she's convinced he doesn't love her anymore and doesn't want to be with him until she says she can believe it. so she proposed this idea that, when college starts, they should just avoid and not speak to each other for like... two months, or something like that. the idea is that when they get back together after that, it'll be fresh and new, just like when they started dating in high school.

now, i dont know if the girl cheated on him, and i don't know if he did anything with that other girl, but that's pretty fucked up. i mean... i wanna say they both love each other... i know he does, he's fucking crazy for her... but lately, he's so depressed 24/7 that he sits at home and doesn't come out anymore. they haven't even started the "no talking thing" but he's just so not motivated to do anything because he knows it's coming and he's freaked out of his mind about it. so what can i say to him? does anyone have any suggestions?

i don't think the "not talking" is a good idea. that's a lot of time without eachother, and i'm pretty sure the only thoughts on their minds will be about who the other has hooked up with and what not. i think you should tell your friend that he should just tell the girl that he loves her and that the ball is in her court.

ps, those are my boobs in your sig.. :dry:

[buysoap]

1. she knows he loves her and she knows the ball is in her court. she said she loves him too but shes too afraid to be with him because shes now convinced he was with the other girl, hence he doesnt love her. thats why she said there should be a 2 month complete seperation between the two. then when they see each other again it'll be fresh and new and she'll supposedly really see if he cares.

2. i can take them out if you want.

[xowearmeout]

1. she knows he loves her and she knows the ball is in her court. she said she loves him too but shes too afraid to be with him because shes now convinced he was with the other girl, hence he doesnt love her. thats why she said there should be a 2 month complete seperation between the two. then when they see each other again it'll be fresh and new and she'll supposedly really see if he cares.

2. i can take them out if you want.


1. she's stupid.

2. if you don't mind..

[solongsincerity]

dude its over.. you need to get him to move on

[sayyes]

she sounds selfish, he should quit talking to her for good

[ForeverInADay]

He should do her in the bum to profess his love to her.

But in all seriousness, things are pretty much over if she wants to take a 'hiatus' from things and not speak wtih him for two months. I'm guessing that she finds something wrong with him, and shes hoping that by the time the 2 months is up, the problem will have solved itself and things will get back to how they used to be when they first started dating. Truth is, things will never get back to how they used to be because something will be hovering over both of their heads and it'll lead to trust issues.

[Bean]

did you try....in the butt?

[buysoap]

you know, as funny as the anal thing is, it really doesn't help... i was kinda hoping for real advice.

[ForeverInADay]

you know, as funny as the anal thing is, it really doesn't help... i was kinda hoping for real advice.
I gave you both.

Bonus points for me.

[Bean]

you know, as funny as the anal thing is, it really doesn't help... i was kinda hoping for real advice.
what about the vagina?

[xvszero]

The mouth is another place.

Just in case he is running out of holes.

[DeadCityScars]

The mouth is another place.

Just in case he is running out of holes.

Does the ear count? i've heard of some wild stuff