A little advice?

[bobbo8]

Me and my ex broke up awhile back (around december). She broke up with me and ill be the first to admit i deserved it. I was an asshole to her. We tried to stay friends but that was really hard to do so we talked to each other on and off. Now lately we have been hanging out a lot and she calls me out of the blue sometimes for no reason. Theres been a few moments where she has had the oppertunities to go other places with other people but she chose to hang out with me and my friends which is something she never wanted to do. Im trying as hard as i can to not get my hopes up here but its pretty hard. Im just trying to take it slow and see what happens. Shes moving away to school in September but thats only like 45-60 minutes away and im not sure that she wants to start a relationship before she leaves. Im just really unsure how i should handle this situation. But i know for a fact anal is not going to work and i dont have or want a livejournal so shutup. Does anybody have any advice for me?

[dashboard1190]

i only skimmed what you said.

but staying friends rarely ever works.

[bobbo8]

I probably shouldve included that i really want to get back with her.

[buysoap]

.....But i know for a fact anal is going to work and i dont have or want a livejournal so shutup. Does anybody have any advice for me?

what do you mean "anal is going to work." do you mean anal is NOT going to work? because if you don't mean that, then i am utterly confused...

[williek311]

if u can handle the "long distance" relationship then go for it, but make sure she can handle it too. you dont want to be all commited and shit and then find out shes been bangin every dude on the block

[ForeverInADay]

anals not going to work?

I'm out of ideas...

[boysdontcry17]

what do you mean "anal is going to work." do you mean anal is NOT going to work? because if you don't mean that, then i am utterly confused...

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[ky19]

I don't really know what to tell you because I'm in a similar situation myself. But I do think you need to sit down and talk to this girl and see what the deal is with you two; if you guys want to get back together, just be friends, whatever. If it ends up being that you two don't want to get back together, then maybe you shouldn't hang out as much before she leaves because it'll only make things all the more difficult (at least it made it that way for me when the guy I liked left). Good luck dude.

[xvszero]

Why not... ask her out again?

[Moatilliatta085]

anals not going to work?

I'm out of ideas...


LOL.
Anyway, I don't think you should ask her right away if she still wants something, cuz she might no just because she's too proud or somehting like that...since you were the one who fucked up and all. I'm guessing if you're willing to sacrifce the time you have until she moves away to try and woo her, without making it obvious you want anything out of it, and wait until a few days before she leaves to tell her that you still want to get back. Regardless of what she says, you know that you tried your best and you liked her enough to wait.

[Kram41]

trust me...anal will work