Girl Advice...

[Viscera Eyes]

Alright...

I've been good friends with this girl for quite some time (I was always very attracted to her, but never brought it up) and just recently she told my best friend, who is also a friend of her's, that she is complete in love with me.

It put me in a strange situation. I'm only 15 years old, and she was the first girl I was ever attracted to in a physical manner. I never put too much mental power into immagining a relationship, because it seemed so unlikely, but this came at me out of nowhere.

It's really strange, because she's had a number of boyfriends and alot of short-lasting relationships which is typical, at my school at least. I, on the other hand, have never got involved with a girl, because, if asked, my mind would always go back to her.

Maybe I just like her so much that I don't want to risk losing the friendship, but I really don't know. Just today she asked me to go with her and a couple friends to the mall to listen to music and stuff, and sent me alot of signals that she wanted to get closer. Bye the end of the day, I was doing the same.

In all honesty I would like nothing more than to be with her, I just can't help but wonder if all her past relationships began like this. She's recently become pretty religious; she got baptised about a month ago and is now doing lots of charity work for her church, so she shares the same ideals that I have about no sex before marriage and such. Hey, I'm not very religious at all, but I do try to enforce a number of morals on myself.

It's a risk I feel reluctant to take... I know that there's pretty much nothing that can be said or done, I just felt a great need to share it.

[boysdontcry17]

wow, what the shit are you waiting for? if she wants you and you've known her for a such long time then odds are you know each other very well and will be able to make the relationship work. go for it dude and keep us posted on the developments

[ky19]

This is what you wanted, dude. I say go for it because if you don't, you're just going to regret it.

[FondestMemory]

i still don't understand what makes sex before marriage so immoral.

[falloutdrea19]

if youre only 15, why does your user info say that youre 21?

[ForeverInADay]

if youre only 15, why does your user info say that youre 21?
Yeah. I'd seriously like to know when people began lying on the internet.....

[aolsux]

i still don't understand what makes sex before marriage so immoral.
same, gotta test out the car before buying, oh and once you do it, then you'll never think it's immoral again

[Freud]

anal

[Mr_V1tr1oL]

if youre only 15, why does your user info say that youre 21?

good job!

[Juliana101]

i still don't understand what makes sex before marriage so immoral.

He's absolutely right, especially when the people telling us that it's so immoral are touching boys...

[justinevans]

go with it, if you're as good friends as you say you are....if things aren't working out the other way you can still be friends...

friendships only end when someone cheats on the other person or does something extremely bad to hurt them.

If she is willing to do that to her friend, let alone her bf, she doesn't need to be in your life anyway...and you the same for hers.

[KB3RG]

go with it, if you're as good friends as you say you are....if things aren't working out the other way you can still be friends...

friendships only end when someone cheats on the other person or does something extremely bad to hurt them.

If she is willing to do that to her friend, let alone her bf, she doesn't need to be in your life anyway...and you the same for hers.

Exactly, well said. As long as you do not do anything to slightly upset her or vice versa. you guys are fine. The absolute worst case is just being friends. I am happy for you man. As for me, the girl that I had always liked like that always kept me as just the friend. Go for it and just be yourself, if it is meant to be it will work

[jusscali]

this is seriously the same story as my first love. we were the best of friends for probably a year and it was amazing. I started to secretly fall for her, but i guess unbeknowest to me she was always into me. We were both falling but remaining as friends. Once we started to get more intimate i was reluctant to jump into a relationship because i knew that even if it was great, after a couple of years or so we would run into problems and id end up fucking everything up and losing the friendship. Needless to say i was quite right, and its been a year since that all ended. Im still in love with her, i miss her to death, but we dont speak as a result of the fall out.

Its really up to you. you have to do what you want, if it feels right you owe it to each other to go for it. many people dont even experience love with another person, so you might as well go for it.

[mrzippo3]

make her suck your tiny little wang

[abusedcat]

this is seriously the same story as my first love. we were the best of friends for probably a year and it was amazing. I started to secretly fall for her, but i guess unbeknowest to me she was always into me. We were both falling but remaining as friends. Once we started to get more intimate i was reluctant to jump into a relationship because i knew that even if it was great, after a couple of years or so we would run into problems and id end up fucking everything up and losing the friendship. Needless to say i was quite right, and its been a year since that all ended. Im still in love with her, i miss her to death, but we dont speak as a result of the fall out.

Its really up to you. you have to do what you want, if it feels right you owe it to each other to go for it. many people dont even experience love with another person, so you might as well go for it.dude, that sucks. i have a fiasco on my hands like that right now, and i hope we stay friends. but, she's kinda shy/avoiding around me. and like, i should be, cause she's the one who broke up with me! hahaha

[ForeverInADay]

He's absolutely right, especially when the people telling us that it's so immoral are touching boys...
hahaha seriously.

I told my 12th grade religion teacher that, and well....let's just say he wasn't too pleased.

[abusedcat]

hahaha seriously.

I told my 12th grade religion teacher that, and well....let's just say he wasn't too pleased.i got kicked out of religion because i was supposedly "filled with too much sin". like, hahahahaha.

[headclub]

i got kicked out of religion because i was supposedly "filled with too much sin". like, hahahahaha.

hahahahah.

[headclub]

i got kicked out of religion because i was supposedly "filled with too much sin". like, hahahahaha.

the priest was like "fuck, brians coming. damn sinner"

**if your name happens to be brian, then i am not a stalker**

[abusedcat]

i was just like really opposed towards the hate towards homosexuals and i stood up against it. and also asked them for legitimate proof that god exists.

[Kram41]

i love people who register here just to post in the personal life forum.