Guys, Female Friends vs Girlfriends?

[yetconfused]

Have you ever had an issue where your female friends simply didn't like your girlfriend or vice versa?

[apsterling]

No, mostly cause I've been single my entire life. Though I've had times where I didn't like my female friends' boyfriends. That one sucks to be you in that situation though.

[Stavie Steelo]

No but my some of my guy friends didn't like my ex gf at all, but whatever.

[Alex DiVincenzo]

I had a female friend who was disappointed when I was getting back together with an ex because she knew that I had been hurt. She pretty much just told me that she doesn't think it's a good idea but that I should do what I want. She was right, haha.

[allthewaysaid]

No.

[2's&3's]

girls are generally more tactful in this situation. they will never say straight up that they hate your girlfriend, but they will hint at it. i think it depends on how long you have been dating. your boys on the other hand, usually they won't hold back.

[Broden Terry]

My female friends don't really like her, but her friends don't really like me. It's completely complicated.

[birtcho]

Yeah, it sucked. But, depending on how much I have/havent changed as a person in peoples eyes, I think it worked out for the better as I'm still with my girlfriend despite it happening 4-5 years ago

[phil19]

i really have never had that many female friends at all. the only one i ever had stopped being my friend when i got with my ex because i hung out with my new gf more than her. go figure. now i just make fun of her nipple ring.

[luckyforsome]

Not my boyfriend, but one of my friends always dates really random guys and me and my other friends disapprove 99% of the time

[anthonydarko]

Nah.

[S9Dallasoz]

I just always want excuses to use this, so...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v619/S9DallasOz/1242032359_haters-gonna-hate.gif

[tawtaw]

I just always want excuses to use this, so...
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v619/S9DallasOz/1242032359_haters-gonna-hate.gif

hahaha that's great

[Deadbolt23]

Not really. I don't have that many really close female friends though.

[zbrmike79]

my females friends hate on every single girl i meet or date. they're very over protect and scare %100 of them away if they can.

[rmmaxwell04]

Well, it depends.

My very best friend used to be a girl, and the only time she would ever not like my gf/crush would be when it was with good cause, like she didn't trust her or when she knew something about her that I should know. It can be very handy have a friend that's a girl to give you perspective on things when you may not understand why your girlfriend or whomever is behaving a certain way.

[thesollopsist]

Well, it depends.

My very best friend used to be a girl, and the only time she would ever not like my gf/crush would be when it was with good cause, like she didn't trust her or when she knew something about her that I should know. It can be very handy have a friend that's a girl to give you perspective on things when you may not understand why your girlfriend or whomever is behaving a certain way.
I like how you say 'used to be a girl' sex change much?

[mymusicismylife]

Everybody loved my ex. Except me. Go figure.

[Hagysaurus Rex]

My female friends are pretty overprotective, which is usually a good thing as it keeps me from long-term dating sketchy girls.

[Hagysaurus Rex]

Well, it depends.

My very best friend used to be a girl, and the only time she would ever not like my gf/crush would be when it was with good cause, like she didn't trust her or when she knew something about her that I should know. It can be very handy have a friend that's a girl to give you perspective on things when you may not understand why your girlfriend or whomever is behaving a certain way.

That sounds like a Zion the Lion story to me.

[Wake Up]

fuck buddies > girlfriends > female friends

[bladerdude360]

Never had this problem.

[HometownHero]

my females friends hate on every single girl i meet or date. they're very over protect and scare %100 of them away if they can.

This is my life in a nutshell

[a nocturnal day]

Occasionally, back in HS. They'd be like " You're going out with her?? She's such a sl**!" It'd make me mad.

[herestoyoufla]

Every girlfriend i have, my female friends automatically dislike.
It's annoying.

[zbrmike79]

This is my life in a nutshell

cool. lets start a club.

[HometownHero]

cool. lets start a club.

I'll make the facebook fanpage

[Clark]

back in HS
Yes, that was such a long time ago for you.

[a nocturnal day]

Yes, that was such a long time ago for you.
Seems like it. Jerk.

[Clark]

Seems like it. Jerk.
Just messing with you. It's only been three years for me and it feels like forever ago.

[deFobbed14yrs]

i'm very protective of my guy friends, and always have to find all the shit on the girl and then make my decision if i like her or not

[de1337ed]

yes, my best friends are all girls and on occasion they've shown their disapproval. they've never been bitchy about it or anything, just blunt. i've found it useful and wish in some situations i would've listened to them better. in my most recent relationship my girlfriend tried to make me pick her over one of my best friends (whom she was jealous of). i picked my best friend, of course.

[NEWFOUNDMATT]

i only smash and dash

[geebee889]

I had a female friend who was disappointed when I was getting back together with an ex because she knew that I had been hurt. She pretty much just told me that she doesn't think it's a good idea but that I should do what I want. She was right, haha.


I've had to tell this to multiple people, and I've been right most of the time. I think my friends need to listen to me next time, haha.

[de1337ed]

I've had to tell this to multiple people, and I've been right most of the time. I think my friends need to listen to me next time, haha.

My friends have warned me before, but I have never really listened. I listen, then go do my own thing and eventually find out that i should've taken their advice. I'm thinking I need to take their advice next time haha.

[geebee889]

My friends have warned me before, but I have never really listened. I listen, then go do my own thing and eventually find out that i should've taken their advice. I'm thinking I need to take their advice next time haha.


It would probably save you a whole lot of trouble, haha. I'm always the voice of reason among my friends.

[Kassie09]

my boyfriends friend that was a girl was a bitch and told him to dump me and stuff.

needless to say he does not talk to her anymore.

girls suck

[2's&3's]

my boyfriends friend that was a girl was a bitch and told him to dump me and stuff.

needless to say he does not talk to her anymore.

girls suck

she was probably right

[ReadyForAction]

My best friend had always tried to tell me that my ex was a trainwreck worth avoiding at all costs (and thats putting it nicely). Lord knows I should have heeded that warning. But she always has my best interest at heart when she tells me what she thinks of girls I'm interested in so I usually take her advice now.

[Pawan1993]

Well... Alot of the friends I have that are girls really don't like it how I like this girl who is also their best friend. But they say she's not worth it. I guess it is really sweet of them but I disagree.

[teaahnuh]

my females friends hate on every single girl i meet or date. they're very over protect and scare %100 of them away if they can.

ohh jeeez. i completely get what your saying. The last guy that i wanted to be with had an extremely overprotective best friend who hated me for the mere fact that i was about to take him away. She basically succeeded in keeping me away and ruining everything, and it makes me realize how much I hate girls like that. I get being overprotective, but a real friend wants you to be happy and accepts the situation. ugh.

[zbrmike79]

ohh jeeez. i completely get what your saying. The last guy that i wanted to be with had an extremely overprotective best friend who hated me for the mere fact that i was about to take him away. She basically succeeded in keeping me away and ruining everything, and it makes me realize how much I hate girls like that. I get being overprotective, but a real friend wants you to be happy and accepts the situation. ugh.


for the most part i make awful decisions about the girls i'm with. so it's not unjustified.

[Kassie09]

she was probably right


um no, clearly i'm wonderul.

[de1337ed]

um no, clearly i'm wonderul.

varies from situation to situation. if she was extremely demanding, then yeah. but when my girlfriend made me pick between her and my friend, i chose my friend hands down.

[Kassie09]

varies from situation to situation. if she was extremely demanding, then yeah. but when my girlfriend made me pick between her and my friend, i chose my friend hands down.

oh i guess it wasnt clear from my post.
he made the decision to stop talking to her since she was saying bad things about me/trying to get with him.I didnt demand they stop being friends. (although, i would have if he hadnt stopped their friendship)

[de1337ed]

oh i guess it wasnt clear from my post.
he made the decision to stop talking to her since she was saying bad things about me/trying to get with him.I didnt demand they stop being friends. (although, i would have if he hadnt stopped their friendship)

i assumed that was the case, and i would've made the same decision lol. the second one of my friends tries to make me choose them over another friend (girlfriend or not), we're done haha. in my situation, my girlfriend wanted me to stop being friends with one of my bestfriends since my gf wasn't comfortable with the level of our friendship. she eventually went to the ultimatum of me choosing between the two of them, so naturally i went with my best friend. my ex can rot in her jealousy for all i care, my bestie never deserved anything of the sort and hence why i made the decision i did.

[Kassie09]

i assumed that was the case, and i would've made the same decision lol. the second one of my friends tries to make me choose them over another friend (girlfriend or not), we're done haha. in my situation, my girlfriend wanted me to stop being friends with one of my bestfriends since my gf wasn't comfortable with the level of our friendship. she eventually went to the ultimatum of me choosing between the two of them, so naturally i went with my best friend. my ex can rot in her jealousy for all i care, my bestie never deserved anything of the sort and hence why i made the decision i did.
yeah if your best friend who is the girl is a nice girl and has no love interest in you, i see absolutely no issue, as long as your friend respected your girlfriends new position in your life

[rollerman4221]

go with who gives better head

[rmmaxwell04]

I like how you say 'used to be a girl' sex change much?

Hahaha, no, she's not my best friend anymore.

[Jennurna Gray]

Have you ever had an issue where your female friends simply didn't like your girlfriend or vice versa?
Depending on the trustworthy-ness of the female friend, guys, TRUST THEM!
My best guy friend excitedly told me that he was dating a girl that I was friends with, that I would love, and we could all hang out...etc.
I found out who it was and explained calmly to him that he shouldn't mess with her, and that she's a whore and liar. He didn't listen. Because he's my best friend, I became friends with her, even though I had reasons to hate her. First, she cheated on him with a few different guys, and told me, expecting me to not let him know. He made excuses for her, saying that it was an open relationship. Then she told everybody that he had a 3 inch dick and he was terrible at sex. I told him, and he was hurt, but still didn't really do anything. Then she cheated on him again, but this time, with his brother, who had no idea that they were dating. Now he finally broke up with her, but it wasn't anything big, since it never really was. And then, to put the icing on the damn cake, she tried to convince me that he raped her. He's 19, and she's 17, so it was kind of a big deal. He obviously didn't rape her. She then tried to warn me that he would then rape me, too. This was my best friend of five years, and he had lots of chances to 'rape' me, if he wanted to. If she had been just a little bit more of a bitch, she could have blew her rape whistle and he would have went to prison and been a registered sex offender. I bet he'll listen to me next time.

Edit: My apologies for the tl;dr. I didn't intend for it to be an essay.

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