Wtf just happend here?

[TheFallOfDan]

I met a girl about a week ago, she told me she was fine to trying new relationships. We talked and talked for hours every day, seemingly to hit it off very well, we've had almost everything in common with each other and she's an awesome girl. She broke up with her boyfriend when he cheated on her a few months ago this summer altho i knew they weren't dating anymore i could still see she had feelings for him shown by the exchanged of I love you's to each other on myspace. But she still insists that she wants to start a new relationship with someone else. And I admit to saying the wrong thing once or twice, but out of the blue yesterday she told me that her ex-boyfriend wants her to stop talking to me and I havent heard from her ever since

With that said, I can tell her ex isnt to happy with me talking to her, I've messaged her 3 times in 2 days on myspace. If she said she wants to stop talking to me, then I wouldn't have as much of a problem as I do with it now. Im not going to give up, I just want to talk to her, but im not sure what the best possible way to do that is. Any help would be great.

Ironiclly the song Trophy Scars - Hey kiddo, uses the same name and has referances of what I've said to her. I had never heard the song until someone showed me it yesterday who found it ironic as well.

[Blake Solomon]

this sort of thing happened to me too. Things were going great, then all of a sudden, nothing. It sucks, but move on. There will be others.

[boysdontcry17]

fuck her
move on
she obviously stilll wants her ex
find someone else and stop trying to reach her

[ForeverInADay]

Fight the ex to the death.

[trustmeimokay]

These situations suck so hard.

[mrzippo3]

fuck it, she obviously still cares way too much for her ex, even if she did start a relationship with you she would still like her ex and probably fuck him behind your back

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Okay first she obviously is still into her ex. But if she said she was over it I would leave it alone and look to better things. You know???

[TheFallOfDan]

Okay first she obviously is still into her ex. But if she said she was over it I would leave it alone and look to better things. You know???

I know exactly what you mean, but we seem to hit off so well and so fast. But I just dont want to give up. At first she seemed so mature then cause someone tells her she does. I'll say hi to her or something when school starts...

[EmoPunkerGirl]

i am soo sorry. you should eother move on or you could just wait.
It's really up to you.
whatcha gonna do??
if you don't mind me asking.......

[TheFallOfDan]

Its my senior year in high school starting monday, I really wanna spend it with some one. And she's is the cutest damn thing i've ever seen, She said she loves my hair, and likes the way I dress. I think theres something more to this than meets the eye.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

dude, when girls play with your hair. that means they like you, that's what i do......
i mean when i'm single.

[TheFallOfDan]

She is single...she just has those feelings...im not gonna give up on the situation, i'll talk to her at school she cant ignore/block me in real life.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Okay that's a good idea. and good point. but does she want to ignore/block you??

[TheFallOfDan]

See if she said she didnt want to talk to me. I wouldnt be so angry / wanting to talk to her this much. but I remember her "He doesnt want me talking to you anymore" and we were talking about her exboyfriend at the time... so its only logical

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Wait so she does wanna talk to you? I am sorry. But what is logical. a I am not stupid i swear......

[TheFallOfDan]

maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, i wont find out until the minute she stops ignoreing/blocking me which is i hope before school starts, cause thats just gonna be a awkward situation when i talk to her...

[apoemtothedead]

That's not ironic, you moron.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Yeah your right. I think you'll just have to play it out. I hope it works out......

[xvszero]

She sounds flaky and retarded.

I can pretty much guarantee with 95% accuracy that if you did somehow get this girl she would cheat on you with her ex.

Move on, and be secure in the choice since you just dodged a bullet.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

She sounds flaky and retarded.

I can pretty much guarantee with 95% accuracy that if you did somehow get this girl she would cheat on you with her ex.

Move on, and be secure in the choice since you just dodged a bullet.


I think he's right you should move on......
life sucks sometimes and you have to move on.

[TheFallOfDan]

I wouldnt date her anytime soon if I did, I would watch her closely, just enough to know whats going.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

That makes sense. But you should still scope, For other potientiall girlfriends and maybe fid someone better who won't treat you like crap after getting bored.

[TheFallOfDan]

I'll do that, I want a woman whose mature, and runs her own life.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Alright!!! Go for it!!haha.

[TheFallOfDan]

So I think she unblocked me...I dunno if still unblocked because I wasn't awake when she wrote IM'd me

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Good for you!!

[Freud]

did she ever state once that she was interested in you or did you just assume?

[TheFallOfDan]

She "stated" she was interested. saying it verbally more than once.

[TheFallOfDan]

the "i love you's" were to her and her exboyfriend.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

the "i love you's" were to her and her exboyfriend.


Wait what??

[TheFallOfDan]

Sorry were between her and her ex.

[hXc_pwnage]

Give up.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

Oh okay......
So how's your scoping going??

[absentmindedx]

She seems like she is still into her ex. I guess the best thing to do is to move on.

[EmoPunkerGirl]

maybe, maybe not................

[xvszero]

Nah, no maybe about it.

Definately move on.

[JezisHChrist]

Dude it's obvious she doesn't want you. Did you read over what you said? Jesus Christ are you fucking retarded?

Guys like you are the reason girls turn lesbian and/or commit suicide. Thanks for fucking us over.